GammaGlobulin Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 To My Fellows who have been, similarly, victimless…. I pose the question, which is this: How many of you have been steered wrongly due to your being sidetracked from your important life goals, solely as a result of falling in love with too many improper strangers? You know, we always say to ourselves that, if only we had met the right woman, then we could achieve our true potential, given their support. And yet, in my opinion, the fundamental reason I never achieved my true potential is mostly not due to my becoming a “victim” of too many women I loved. Here we are in Thailand, for example, and I have never met a woman who did not provide me with the impetus and encouragement to become even more than I had hoped I would be. Yet, I was never satisfied with this. In spite of the help of various women, I flubbed it. I have met very many wonderful women here. And, not even one of the women I have met here is not twice as good as me. In this, I have been blessed by meeting fine women, like fine wine. Yet, I have frittered away my opportunities, simply by searching for the next better woman, and, thusly, I have now arrived in my present position in which I have nothing. This is why I wish to caution you. Do not love too much. Do not do what I have done. 2 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bluespunk Posted September 2, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 2, 2021 “Are you a Victim of Loving…Too Much?” No. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristianBlessing Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 "Victimless"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted September 2, 2021 Author Share Posted September 2, 2021 3 minutes ago, ChristianBlessing said: "Victimless"? Meaning no injured party, least of all me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted September 2, 2021 Author Share Posted September 2, 2021 9 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said: Meaning no injured party, least of all me. In a love relationship, there is often no intentionally injured party, unless it might be that the love relationship has harmed one party, irreparably, due to naivete, or due to other reasons beyond control of the injured party. Best advice to women who meet people from foreign lands..... Be circumspect...and...don't get in too deep. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ChristianBlessing Posted September 2, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 2, 2021 In fairness, it appears that you are, irrespective of the many woman and other "improper strangers" very much a victim of, well, you. 9 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichardColeman Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 Loving too much ? - no, Forgiving too much ? 100% and that probably applies to a lot of us. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted September 2, 2021 Author Share Posted September 2, 2021 1 hour ago, ChristianBlessing said: In fairness, it appears that you are, irrespective of the many woman and other "improper strangers" very much a victim of, well, you. Is this not always the case? And, this is just the thing that I am cautioning against. Wine, women, song, gambling, and greed. We become victims of ourselves. And, then, all too unreasonably, we blame women. You are correct. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post pookondee Posted September 2, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 2, 2021 Like watching a train wreck, these guys bringing their western expectations of "love" to Thailand. Funny thing, usually its those same guys who do all their thinking with the little head. Next they be on here bragging about " MY house/land/property..." Like Lambs to the slaughter, really. They just never learn. ???????? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted September 3, 2021 Share Posted September 3, 2021 18, Exams passed, focus on joining the armed forces. Time to go sign on the dotted line, pretty female disuaded me from leaving, stupidly I let her. Missed my spot, broke up with her few months later.Never did resume that path and was then tempted in another direction. Fate, not meant to be, who knows but felt a victim for sure and always wondered how different things might have been had she not stopped me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robblok Posted September 3, 2021 Share Posted September 3, 2021 Yes I been loved too much gf is hugging too much ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
captnhoy Posted September 3, 2021 Share Posted September 3, 2021 I know all about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodysfriend Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 Define ' Love ' please ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post brianthainess Posted September 4, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 4, 2021 On 9/3/2021 at 1:19 AM, GammaGlobulin said: Here we are in Thailand, for example, and I have never met a woman who did not provide me with the impetus and encouragement to become even more than I had hoped I would be Shame it didn't work. your stupid posts are becoming rather annoying. 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunjeff Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 On 9/3/2021 at 1:51 AM, ChristianBlessing said: In fairness, it appears that you are, irrespective of the many woman and other "improper strangers" very much a victim of, well, you. " Wherever you go, there you are" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Headgame Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 Love is for teenagers. All these dudes hung up on love, finding love, loving love, etc. forget the most important aspect of a relationship - shared interests. Do I love my lady? I’d say yes although if it ended today I’d move on. The great thing about TH is if you’re patient you will eventually find a partner that makes your life enriched, rewarding and satisfied. Stop being kind of pathetic. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellohello123 Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 I have and still to this day continue to make dumb decisions when involving women (regardless of race) Thankfully my losses have been fairly minor I am getting better but I thought I would have learnt my less by my early 20s Hopefully i will learn one day, 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thingamabob Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 On 9/3/2021 at 3:13 AM, GammaGlobulin said: Is this not always the case? And, this is just the thing that I am cautioning against. Wine, women, song, gambling, and greed. We become victims of ourselves. And, then, all too unreasonably, we blame women. You are correct. Lighten up. You are taking things far too seriously. Doesn't work in Thailand, if that's where you are. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 Victim of Love? Sadly yes...was my left hand...now favoring the right during these tough times! ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n00dle Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 1 hour ago, brianthainess said: Shame it didn't work. your stupid posts are becoming rather annoying. What would you prefer, Brian? That the op discuss only their retirement visa or the virus, like every other poster here? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 2 hours ago, nobodysfriend said: Define ' Love ' please ... THIS!!! A question lately I have been posing to the thai ladies lining up on websites...still waiting for the answer I know I will never get, beside "take care".... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 Just now, n00dle said: What would you prefer, Brian? That the op discuss only their retirement visa or the virus, like every other poster here? Best Burger thread! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 On 9/2/2021 at 11:05 PM, robblok said: Yes I been loved too much gf is hugging too much ???? I can confirm..not easy being Hansum 2 Mutt! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bermondburi Posted September 4, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 4, 2021 Jeez. What a load of rubbish. Another reminder of why this forum is dead. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolf81 Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 (edited) Quote You know, we always say to ourselves that, if only we had met the right woman, then we could achieve our true potential, given their support. I don't agree. Actually women distract men from reaching their full potential. Which is why some very highly successful men can't keep a solid relationship going. Because great men want to achieve great things and to achieve great you are ideally singularly focused and dedicated towards your goal. I have been in a relationship and have a daughter, but I also have some goals and the relationship makes it harder to achieve my goals. I want to become self sufficient from my work, being able to stop working for clients. And to achieve these goals, I need to work hard, save a lot of money. If I didn't have a relationship I would have already achieved these goals by now. But having a relationship makes it harder, since woman are not careful with money, since children cost a lot of money and a relationship requires time that I can't use to better my skills and abilities. Also, for the sake of our daughter I am "kind of" stuck in Thailand, whereas I might have made more money if I moved to a different high-income country just to work there a couple of years and be done with it. I think if you look in history you will find many men that achieved great (or sometimes terrible in case of Hitler, Stalin) things, were not reliant on woman to achieve their goals. Some examples: Elon Musk, Newton, Blaise Pascal, Marcus Aurelius, Nicola Tesla, founding fathers of the US, Einstein, etc... To be honest if our relationship would be over in the future (which I feel might happen at some point due to different views and ways of handling life situations), I would not have another long-term relationship with a woman. Instead I'd life alone, sometimes hire a girl for some fun, but otherwise just focus on my work, my hobbies & my daughter. Edited September 4, 2021 by wolf81 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilly07 Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 Pedantic I know but there are too many double negatives in this post for me to understand exactly what it's about! Or is it a test for unaware readers?1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farmerslife Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 Who is this Miss Too Much you refer to? It is possible I fell in love with her. ???? I can't remember a lady called Too Much but the memory gets fogged by beer sometimes. ???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KannikaP Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 (edited) 4 hours ago, brianthainess said: Shame it didn't work. your stupid posts are becoming rather annoying. But still get quite a few replies, a lot from GG himself though. PS. I got suspended for using the word stupid! But I guess it is the posts you are calling stupid and not GG himself. Edited September 4, 2021 by KannikaP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisKC Posted September 4, 2021 Share Posted September 4, 2021 The word "Love" is hopelessly overstated and exaggerated and difficult to quantify in any reliable measure. So often used insincerely. Generalizations with a hint of truth: For the man: "Pussy makes the heart grow fonder". For the woman: "Economic improvement makes the heart grow fonder" The woman fakes the orgasm, the man fakes the relationship. And what really matters about how that word "LOVE" is used, depends on who is doing the loving - to whom or to what! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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