My Dear Friends,

 

Or, might I say, my "older" friends:

 

One thing you must have noticed, as you age, is the fact that, as we age, due to hormonal changes, women become men, and men become women.

 

As for me, I have always loved dating women, and have never dated men.

 

Therefore, now, as I age, the women I meet, the women my age, and the women who have seemingly, through natural processes, become men, due to age, are no longer appetizing to me.

 

You could not pay me enough to date them...No Way!

 

And, likewise, there are very few women, of my age, who would be paid for dating men, in Pattaya, although, maybe, there must be a few, since the law of probability states that nothing ever has a zero chance of happening.

 

Anyway, I am just wondering about how you see it.

 

How are you able to date women your own age, after you reach my age.

 

Is this not just something so repugnant to you that you would never, ever, attempt it?

I find dating women my own age as something like climbing Mt. Everest...just something that I would never wish to do, and never would attempt.

 

Therefore, as you can plainly see, I prefer to be celibate, rather than to fool around with young women, and rather than to force myself to have older women, because....

 

Having an older woman of my age makes me think of being forced to eat shredded wheat cereal, in the mornings, when I was young... Sure, it might be good for you.  But, eating shredded wheat cereal in the mornings, when one is young, is just something that no one would chose to do.  So very unappetizing.

 

I have no doubt that many of you, if you are my age, or if you will soon be my age, must or will feel exactly the same as I.

 

Not even one of us, as is my guess, would gladly date a very old dried up prune, and a masculine prune, at that, when one would prefer some younger woman full of life and juices.

 

Therefore, I guess, my sex life is now over.

 

I would not foist myself upon younger women, even for money.

 

And this, my friends, is why I choose to remain celibate, and alone, though not lonely, indeed.

 

Best regards,

Globby

 

 

Note:  I know you know that I am not wrong

56 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

celibate, and alone

Sounds great! 

6 minutes ago, JeffersLos said:

Sounds great! 

you can save loadsamoney ????

Never dated a women my age.  Always 5-10-15-20+ years younger.  I can't imagine dating someone my age (67) or 60, or even in their 50s.

 

Obviously the 20+ is in Thailand, since I'm older.  Widest gap in USA was 19 yrs (19/38)

 

As far as the thread title, no, not seeing that, men- women-men ????

How old are you?

Fine...

 

Here is what I am talking about, my friends:

 

Feminine

 

 

Very masculine

 

 

Not the same, my friends.

 

See what I mean?

 

And, as you know, when Slick was younger, before she went on stage, she once stated that she would need some good old in and out, just to reach an emotional state which would allow her to perform, on stage, so amazingly.

 

These days, things are not the same, baby.

8 minutes ago, dj230 said:

How old are you?

How old is who?

 

You mean....me?

 

I have already mentioned my age, several times.

 

I will not repeat it.

All sounds very shallow. There is abundantly more to a relationship and companionship than sex !

 

There is an intamacy than doesnt involve sex.

 

As you age you appreciate and want more than sex it becomes alot less important.

As we age, most men (Like 99% of men) begin to look past sex and sexual attraction and see other redeeming factors in a suitable partner-- humor, intelligence, good conversationalist, and someone who is caring and will be able to share the journey of aging. This realization happens a lot faster when a man find a great partner and simply can't let them go because of how great the relationship is. Eventually, constant exposure to the same person totally reduces and often negates the desire always have sex with them (no matter how attractive). When the man realizes that -even though they aren't that interested in sex with their partner anymore- they still love them and can't let them go, they sort of 'grow up' and realize they'll trade the joys of being single to hold on to that one person, no matter how old and ugly they become. After all, the man is only getting old and ugly himself.

 

There is the 1%, however, who perhaps have have never found that one relationship that transforms them. Maybe they loved and forgotten, or been let down too many times. Or perhaps having abnormally easy access to sex via prostitution, wealth, or whatever means feeds the dopamine addiction (much like a drug), and relationships with women always boil down to fulfilling their sexual desires. They completely look past the fact that a relationship is also a friendship, with, hopefully, someone who develops into your best friend as well.

 

Whatever the case is, no matter how old you are, I'm confident that all men reach the same conclusion at some point in the lives. We all reach a day where our d--k stops working. And we all reach an age where we are sick and end up hospitalized or unable to care for ourselves on our own. Sex and sexual attraction are meaningless to us at the point, and wanting someone to just spend the day with, talk to, watch a movie with, and have someone care for us without feeling like a burden are so much more. Some of the more compassionate men who decline huge age difference relationships might even consider the horrors of leaving a 26 year old wife as you lay on your deathbed and how her future might unfold when you pass.

 

 

I'm guessing you have, for whatever reason, gotten stuck in the 1% at a seemingly old age-- something that seems a little more common here in Thailand than most places. And it's also unusual as you prefer to stay celibate than have a relationship with a woman your age, when you could just as well have a loving relationship with a woman and be celibate at any age. And if you are celibate, why does she have to look a certain way?

 

Everyone is different, so I can't tell you what to do, but just remember that everyone becomes old, ugly, and sick... and when you reach that age, the last thing you want adding onto the pain is loneliness. Hell, if you're not lonely, being old, ugly, and sick might not even be half bad. If I were you, I'd consider evaluating your 'dating' criteria and make sure it lines up with your life goals. If you want nothing but to 'date' women who are 'appetizing' and when you reach a certain threshold just try to figure out what to do when the time comes, I think you've charted the right course. But if you have a goal of having a partner in anyone you date, you might want to try to find beauty in other ways and be forgiving about physical attributes you might not be fond of. Most of us aren't perfect, and we become less perfect as we age.

 

2 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

All sounds very shallow. There is abundantly more to a relationship and companionship than sex !

 

There is an intamacy than doesnt involve sex.

 

As you age you appreciate and want more than sex it becomes alot less important.

Yes, Charlie, I TOTALLY agree with you....

 

However, on the other hand, in order to fall in love, then there must be some sort of physical attraction. Would you not agree?

 

And, for an old guy to fall in love, then there must be some chemistry.

 

====

 

Again, Charlie, as you say...when a couple grows old together, then shared memories, and shared trials and tribulations make up for any sort of lack of physical attraction.

 

And, in this case, this a different sort of love.

 

I am sure you know what I mean.

Maybe so.

Maybe I find my possible choices of GFs less exciting.

 

Once you have seen the likes of Janis, on stage, then does your GF measure up?

 

Does your GF jump up and down on your bed, like Janis, and sing like this?

 

No girls sing like this.

 

After you have had the best, then, anything less is just not worth having.

 

 

 

Just now, GammaGlobulin said:

And this, my friends, is why I choose to remain celibate, and alone, though not lonely,

keep on wa*king.

Sinead O'Connor really did it for me 30 years ago.

These days, umm, I'd rather kiss a bucket of horse poo.

Nothing better than the smell of a woman...

 

 

 

And, Janis was a REAL woman, for sure.

 

Amazing female.

 

So Sorry I cannot find one like her, ever again.

 

You know I once had a one-night stand with her...right?

 

After that, all other women lost their luster, for me.

 

After being with her for just two hours, I was left a shell of a man for the rest of my life.

10 minutes ago, sipi said:

Sinead O'Connor really did it for me 30 years ago.

These days, umm, I'd rather kiss a bucket of horse poo.

Agree!!!!

 

She is so beautiful...

 

Too beautiful.

 

Nothing compares to her.

 

 

4 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

She is so beautiful...

 

Too beautiful.

 

Nothing compares to her.

 

 

UNFORTUNATELY...

 

There is just NO WAY this upstart can compare to Janis Joplin.

 

Janis will live forever.

 

On the other hand, O'Connor has already outlived her usefulness.

 

O'Connor reminds me of the stereotypical alien, for example.

 

 

 

 

See what I mean?

 

Love Janis.

 

Always will.

15 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

She is so beautiful...

 

Too beautiful.

 

Nothing compares to her.

 

 

 

Years ago, I often thought that the woman sleeping next to me was an alien, after a week or so.

 

If I might have found a woman more like me, then things might have worked out better.

 

It is fairly rare, these days, when two people stick together.

 

Why?  Because, there are no longer many social strictures against separation.

 

Far better to just hook up, for a time, and then part as friends.

 

Do not get married, my friends...not unless... you are willing to pay the price.

 

 

 

 

4 minutes ago, sipi said:

 

SssssssSPOOKY.

 

Very spooky.

Quote: "I would not foist myself upon younger women, even for money."

 

Good! We need more men like you. There's too much competition for young women IMO, pisses me off no end.

 

 

Invent a vaccine.

 

Find a cure.

 

Build up our immune systems.

 

Get a little exercise.....

 

And you never have to be afflicted with women, ever again!

 

 

 

 

What do we want?

 

A little trust.

 

A little affection.

OK, my friends...

 

Let us get real.

 

The very last thing I would wish to do is to hook up with some old bag, with all her baggage, someone my age.

Never will happen!

 

The women my age turn me off, Big Time.

 

Doing this would provide me with sad times, and two sad sacks.

 

This will never happen, baby.

On the other hand....

 

Hooking up with a much younger woman is also NOT OK.

 

Why?

 

She might be more lively than I, and she, most likely, will not know much about the world.

 

She may lack wisdom, for example.

 

Establishing a relationship with a younger woman would be foolhardy.

 

Young women, from my experience, are, in most cases, basically idiotic.

 

I would never wish to hook up with a younger woman.

You can teach them, as a teacher.

However, falling in love with one's student is doomed from the beginning.

 

Young women look good, on the outside,

But, such a relationship would not be satisfying, and might be annoying, as well.

2 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

On the other hand....

 

Hooking up with a much younger woman is also NOT OK.

 

Why?

 

She might be more lively than I, and she, most likely, will not know much about the world.

 

She may lack wisdom, for example.

 

Establishing a relationship with a younger woman would be foolhardy.

 

Young women, from my experience, are, in most cases, basically idiotic.

 

I would never wish to hook up with a younger woman.

You can teach them, as a teacher.

However, falling in love with one's student is doomed from the beginning.

 

Young women look good, on the outside,

But, such a relationship would not be satisfying, and might be annoying, as well.

Did you manage to find a woman with lesser wisdom that you ?

No tomatoes?

 

 

 

 

You had no feeling?

 

Answer:  NONE