When Men become Women, and Women become Men...What's the Point of Dating, ... Anyway?

[GammaGlobulin]

OK, My Friends,

 

Let us do our best to steer back to the original topic as originally posted above.

 

Would you, or would anyone, in their right mind, date a TINDER girl over the age of 80?

 

 

Or, for that matter, what about some old guy of the same age?

 

Would it be possible for any Pattaya nymph to enjoy dating old men who visit their bar? 

 

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In my opinion, due to changing hormones, which is a fact of life for both men and women over the age of 50, men become more female, and women become more male.  Am I wrong in this thinking?

 

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And so, I leave it to you.

 

Would you prefer to date the above-mentioned Tinder woman, over 80. or would you prefer to date an Asian Tinder girl who wears glasses, one who might possess far less wisdom?

 

 

 

Neither option, obviously, will provide you with happiness/contentment.

 

What you need is to forget dating, and remember reading....

 

Only through your return to reading books, and through study, shall you regain some semblance of your former happiness, the pleasure of being lonely, just as you experienced it before coming to Thailand.

 

When you go to the bars, or when you go to the beaches, take along a few good books.

 

You will not be bored.

 

 

Edited May 25, 2022 by GammaGlobulin

[sipi]

I was walking downtown when I saw a familiar face, except old and wrinkly.

I said to her "Hi. I think I used to date your daughter"

She replied "That was me".

[GammaGlobulin]

 

[GammaGlobulin]

Here is a very nice tune which goes out to all the old men who are waiting, IN VAIN, for True Love, in Thailand....

 

 

(Beautiful song:  One of Marley's best, maybe)

Edited May 25, 2022 by GammaGlobulin

[GammaGlobulin]

And, after Bob Marley's tune, Waiting in Vain, then we immediately think of one more moving melody:

 

 

 

Say what you will, but Bill Withers is a true talent who never received the recognition he deserved.  Sorry, Bill.

Edited May 25, 2022 by GammaGlobulin

[Excel]

6 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

herefore, now, as I age, the women I meet, the women my age, and the women who have seemingly, through natural processes, become men, due to age, are no longer appetizing to me

Its not new or due to you ageing, just simply nature. The basic human instinct is survival and to enable that sexual reproduction is paramount. As women get older they age and become less attractive to the male hence it is natures way of telling the sperm donor, the male, that you must choose a better specimen for the continuance of life.  As evolution has developed and human emotions have been brought into play such feeling as love, devotion, responsibility etc it is hard for some to understand that below all those feelings that the basic human instinct of sexual reproduction is paramount.

[GammaGlobulin]

So many sad stories have I read concerning old men who have been used, and totally used up.

 

We are all familiar with these stories.

 

In fact:  These old stories have become a complete cliché, correct?

 

I have never been used.

 

Keep your wits about you.

 

And, listen to another great tune from Withers....

 

 

 

Bill Withers is a very Kool Cat.

His drummer is Super Cool.

 

Soooo Cooool.

[Iamfalang]

4 hours ago, dia1 said:

humor, intelligence, good conversationalist, and someone who is caring and will be able to share the journey of aging

What?!!!     Let me check.   Am I in Thailand?    Yes.   Okay!  Back to laughing 

 

impossible to find here.  Impossible 

[GammaGlobulin]

11 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

So many sad stories have I read concerning old men who have been used, and totally used up.

 

We are all familiar with these stories.

 

In fact:  These old stories have become a complete cliché, correct?

 

I have never been used.

 

Keep your wits about you.

 

And, listen to another great tune from Withers....

 

 

 

Bill Withers is a very Kool Cat.

His drummer is Super Cool.

 

Soooo Cooool.

Lyrics to Bill's tune:

 

My friends
Feel it's their appointed duty
They keep tryin' to tell me
All you want to do is use me
Ah-huh, but my answer (Ah-huh)
Yeah to all that use me stuff

I, I, I, I
Yes, I wanna spread the news
That if it feels this good gettin' used
Oh, you just keep on usin' me
Until you use me up
Until you use me up

My brother
Sit me right down and he talked to me
He told me
That I ought not to let you just walk on me
And I'm sure he meant well
Yeah, but when our talk was through

I, I, I said brother if you only knew
You'd wish that you were in my shoes
You just keep on usin' me
Until you use me up
Until you use me up

Ah-huh, sometimes
It's true you really do abuse me
Ah, you get me crowd of high class people
And then you act real rude to me
Ah-huh, but oh, baby, baby, baby, baby
When you love me I can't get enough

Ah-huh and I wanna spread the news
That it feels this good gettin' used
Oh, you just keep on usin' me
Until you use me up
Ah, until you use me up

Talkin' 'bout you usin' people
It all depends on what you do
It ain't too bad the way you're usin' me
'Cause I sure am usin' you to do the things that you do
Ah-huh, to do the things that you do

[1FinickyOne]

mostly, the point of dating is companionship

[rwill]

My wife is 71.  She is still very much a female.  

[GammaGlobulin]

13 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

mostly, the point of dating is companionship

I once lived on the east coast of Taiwan, for many years, in a remote village, with only a dog as my sole companion. 

 

Yet, I can assure you that I never dated my dog. 

Edited May 26, 2022 by GammaGlobulin

[patongphil]

30 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

I once lived on the east coast of Taiwan, for many years, in a remote village, with only a dog as my sole companion. 

 

Yet, I can assure you that I never dated my dog. 

No wonder you have gone loopy ????

[BritManToo]

42 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

mostly, the point of dating is companionship

I always 'dated' for the sex.

My rabbits provide any companionship I feel the need for.

[GammaGlobulin]

8 minutes ago, patongphil said:

No wonder you have gone loopy ????

Defoe has always been one of my favorite authors. 

 

Whom amongst us has not occasionally wondered whether or not they might go completely mad on a desert island? 

 

Now you know. 

[1FinickyOne]

47 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

I once lived on the east coast of Taiwan, for many years, in a remote village, with only a dog as my sole companion. 

 

Yet, I can assure you that I never dated my dog. 

Not sure why you think I was implying you date an animal.. but during that time, would it have not been better if you had a lovely Taiwanese lady to share it with..

 

Of course you can have some meditative alone time in the Taroko Gorge and play chess with the Swiss [priest was he] guy who ran the hostel.. 

[1FinickyOne]

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I always 'dated' for the sex.

My rabbits provide any companionship I feel the need for.

Yo Lenny, I know there are inherent conflicts in human interactions and female/male have their differences... but love/companionship can go beyond sex... 

[BritManToo]

10 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Yo Lenny, I know there are inherent conflicts in human interactions and female/male have their differences... but love/companionship can go beyond sex... 

Rabbits are cheaper to keep than a woman.

They also don't nag or shout.

[Excel]

Just now, BritManToo said:

Rabbits are cheaper to keep than a woman.

They also don't nag or shout.

And they make nice gloves

[GammaGlobulin]

11 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Not sure why you think I was implying you date an animal.. but during that time, would it have not been better if you had a lovely Taiwanese lady to share it with..

 

Of course you can have some meditative alone time in the Taroko Gorge and play chess with the Swiss [priest was he] guy who ran the hostel.. 

Yes. 

 

It is always better to have a woman by your side, compared to a Man Friday. 

 

But then, you must consider the costs, as well. 

 

If you were to inadvertently fall in love with a woman, on the Isle of Formosa, then your life might be redirected on paths which you might find objectionable. 

 

This happened to me, several times, I embarrassingly admit. 

 

I have had 36 women on the island of Taiwan. 

 

If I had had 35, instead of 36, then I would not be posting comments here, today. 

 

Each of these 36 shaped my life, indubitably. 

 

Shortly before leaving Taiwan for Thailand, I vowed to be celibate. 

 

I stopped consorting with women. 

 

Also, dogs. 

 

These days, I remain alone, and loving it. 

 

The only intelligent creatures I interact with, these days, are Thai Myna birds, plus the beautiful cat we had here, before it died last year. 

 

Still, life is good. 

[1FinickyOne]

5 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

These days, I remain alone, and loving it. 

 

The only intelligent creatures I interact with, these days, are Thai Myna birds, plus the beautiful cat we had here, before it died last year. 

With all of these long posts to which you post long answers before anyone else can post - it smacks of terrible loneliness... 

 

And yet, you reference WE - 

[1FinickyOne]

30 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Rabbits are cheaper to keep than a woman.

They also don't nag or shout.

And keeping a phone book is even cheaper... and you don't have to feed it and clean up its poop.. 

[sipi]

I had a friend with five dicks.

His underpants fitted him like a glove.

[jvs]

When i was in my twenties i really like women in their thirties,now i am well over sixty

but i still like women in their thirties.

You need a women like in this song.

 

[Excel]

10 minutes ago, jvs said:

but i still like women in their thirties

Exactly, 36 DD was and still is my favourite  

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Rabbits are cheaper to keep than a woman.

They also don't nag or shout.

They need to be hung for 2-3 days, otherwise the meat is too tough.

During the Great Depression in Australia, many rural families became fat deficient when their only source of protein was rabbit meat.

Back on topic, as I get older, I need sex less often. So does my GF, in her fifties. OTOH, cuddling stark naked is always a pleasure.

As for having a woman my age in my bed - where's my bucket?

 

[Lacessit]

8 minutes ago, Excel said:

Exactly, 36 DD was and still is my favourite  

I've always said any more than a mouthful is wasted.

American, yes?

Edited May 26, 2022 by Lacessit

[Excel]

Always heard it as "any more than a handful is a waste". I do have big hands ????

[GammaGlobulin]

3 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

With all of these long posts to which you post long answers before anyone else can post - it smacks of terrible loneliness... 

 

And yet, you reference WE - 

Please feel free to post as many comments as you wish, as long as we keep them civil. 

 

I have no doubt that TV has plenty of space in the cloud, enough to accommodate trillions and trillions of our comments here. 

 

As for me, I would willingly post fewer comments, if only I were incentivised to do so. 

 

 

[Farmerslife]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I always 'dated' for the sex.

My rabbits provide any companionship I feel the need for.

I'm very relieved to hear it is that way round.