You can take the girl out of the bar, but can you take the bar out of the girl?

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Can they be rehabilitated back into normal society?

 

Who? The punters?

 

Probably not.

 

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Or do they carry the scars with them for life?

Who? The punters?

 

Probably.

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, proton said:

You can take the sex tourist out of the bar but not the bar out of the sex tourist. Known a few who got married and still could not leave the bars and tarts alone, worse than ex bar girls they married. All divorced.

I know a few I know managed to live a decent normal life after working bars for quite awhile. Some is damaged before they started, some get damaged working in bars, others is just like a rebel party story many of us experience and done that.

 

The same goes for sex tourists.

 

Yes some girls leave the bar for good, and never look back. 

 

[bkk6060]

I know several the issue lies in where you live.  If you take them from a Pattaya bar and after, live in Pattaya I believe it is doomed.  They have too many contacts male and female.  Their friends beg them to go out and party.  Once that starts, tough to recover.

If you can live in a nuetral place possibly even away from her family, I think there is a chance.

But most want to be near family so that creates a whole different dynamic.

 

The attention, drinking/partying with friends, lots of sex and making great money are difficult to get away from.

Very very risky for marriage.

 

[Goat]

51 minutes ago, proton said:

So you won't say how old you were when consorting with an under aged schoolgirl, fair enough

Considering most 16 year old Thais look about 12, that is a worry, especially in a hooker bar.

Maybe if he was 20 it would be sort of ok but not any older.

Jail bait.

[Goat]

55 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Which part do you don't understand?

obviously not a 16 year old

[Goat]

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Christ was not involved. I was a little older than her but still young and handsome. And there was and is no money involved apart from expenses for life. 

If you were young and handsome and farang in Thailand why were you looking for love in beer bars?

Doesnt make sense.

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

 

 

Just look what James Bond got stuck with ............

I guess thats the problem, people look at the figure, and decides thats not a good person to grow old with. 

 

There is alot of good sex in a larger woman, its all in your brain

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, Goat said:

If you were young and handsome and farang in Thailand why were you looking for love in beer bars?

Doesnt make sense.

When you want a 5 star chef, do you call a carpenter? 

[markclover]

I don't really understand the ''failure'' or ''success''.  Their job is clean the house and have reproduce.  Your job is work.  It doesn't matter where the woman comes from.

[NanLaew]

2 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

16 - but at that time she told me she is 18.

 

And just in case the usual suspect will follow up with the usual comments:

This was a long time ago when 16 year old girls were not unusual in the bars.

And if I would have decided that no, I don't do that. Would her life have been better if she would have continued to work in the bar?

Don't sweat it. I had a 16 year old here who's mum told me she was 18. This was way back when I was in my twenties and it wasn't unusual but was STILL illegal. The only difference from nowadays is it didn't get the holier-than-thou brigade all riled up.

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, proton said:

So you won't say how old you were when consorting with an under aged schoolgirl, fair enough

She worked in a bar and she was not in school.

And then she didn't work in the bar anymore and lived together with me.

And just in case you don't know: It's legal in Thailand to have a 16 yo girlfriend.

And no, I don't plan to give you all my personal details. 

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, proton said:

Looks. nice probably the brain of a goldfish with nothing in common with her customers, and has probably had hundreds through her, not a prospect for a successful marriage.

You make a lot of assumptions.

What would you think if someone looks at a picture of you and he pretends to know how smart you are and how much sex you had in your life.

I guess: not that smart and not too much sex - but that's just my guess. ???? 

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, Jack1988 said:

Honestly, this is not my favourite type of thai girl. Too skinny, I prefer with more meat

Don't worry, she will survive with all the other guys who like to see her. 

[transam]

2 hours ago, proton said:

Looks. nice probably the brain of a goldfish with nothing in common with her customers, and has probably had hundreds through her, not a prospect for a successful marriage.

I think you are overstepping your mark, and you are obviously envious...????

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

obviously not a 16 year old

I won't post any pictures of under 18 girls here or anywhere else. I think that is illegal. And of course, I respect their privacy.

But if you really want to see those pictures, I am sure you can find many of them on tiktok and other social media - posted by the girls themselves. 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

If you were young and handsome and farang in Thailand why were you looking for love in beer bars?

Doesnt make sense.

Obviously I was not looking in beer bar, I only looked in the best gogo bars. ????

And one of us must be blind, because I see enough young farangs in the bars in Thailand. 

And the fact that you don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't make sense. 

[Walker88]

2 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Which part do you don't understand?

Anybody on here a Justice of the Peace?

 

Asking for a friend. He's willing to live in the bar, thus obviating the OP's question.

 

Personally, I'm not so shallow that I would be attracted by a pretty face, bright smile, and legs that run all the way to Buriram.

[stoner]

2 hours ago, proton said:

Looks. nice probably the brain of a goldfish with nothing in common with her customers, and has probably had hundreds through her, not a prospect for a successful marriage.

you're a mine is different guy eh. 

[OneMoreFarang]

3 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

Personally, I'm not so shallow that I would be attracted by a pretty face, bright smile, and legs that run all the way to Buriram.

It depends on what you expect.

If I would look for someone to administer a database or manage a company then the legs and smile are not enough.

If I look for a pretty girl who smiles at me when I come back from work, then she looks about right. Let's concentrate on the important things in life. 

[proton]

14 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

You make a lot of assumptions.

What would you think if someone looks at a picture of you and he pretends to know how smart you are and how much sex you had in your life.

I guess: not that smart and not too much sex - but that's just my guess. ???? 

I can at least assume she is not the 16 year old school girl, too old and rough ????

[OneMoreFarang]

2 minutes ago, proton said:

I can at least assume she is not the 16 year old school girl, too old and rough ????

So now you think you are suddenly an expert about 16 year old school girls. Interesting. 

[transam]

1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said:

So now you think you are suddenly an expert about 16 year old school girls. Interesting. 

Yeah, very suspicious...............

[Goat]

7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

So now you think you are suddenly an expert about 16 year old school girls. Interesting. 

well I am an expert on 16 year old school girls.

I have had quite a few. 

 

When i was a 16 year old school boy. Spent Monday to Friday every week with them. And socially on weekends etc.

 

One thing i have noted over the years is that it seems a higher percentage of males who went to all boy schools end up marrying hookers.

 

I think the years i spent with the slutty cheating 16 year olds at my school toughened me up mentally with women. Wheras the all boys school boys ended up a bit naive and desperate.

[Goat]

34 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And just in case you don't know: It's legal in Thailand to have a 16 yo girlfriend.

And no, I don't plan to give you all my personal details. 

Well you gave us her age when you met. No harm in telling us your age. He wasnt asking for your ID card and passport.

[Goat]

28 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I am sure you can find many of them on tiktok

Tiktok? You play Tiktok?

isnt that for teenagers?

[NextG]

3 minutes ago, Goat said:

Well you gave us her age when you met. No harm in telling us your age. He wasnt asking for your ID card and passport.

Has someone bitten you here? Why the oh so obvious baiting?

[transam]

1 minute ago, Goat said:

well I am an expert on 16 year old school girls.

I have had quite a few. 

 

When i was a 16 year old school boy. Spent Monday to Friday every week with them. And socially on weekends etc.

 

One thing i have noted over the years is that it seems a higher percentage of males who went to all boy schools end up marrying hookers.

 

I think the years i spent with the slutty cheating 16 year olds at my school toughened me up mentally with women. Wheras the all boys school boys ended up a bit naive and desperate.

" One thing I have noted over the years is that it seems a higher percentage of males who went to all boy schools end up marrying hookers"...

What a load of tosh...I think you are in dreamland in your own bubble...

You have noted..................????

I reckon this is a baiting thread, Rob..

[transam]

Just now, NextG said:

Has someone bitten you here? Why the oh so obvious baiting?

Well spotted.....

[proton]

20 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

So now you think you are suddenly an expert about 16 year old school girls. Interesting. 

You don't have to be an expert to know the difference between right and wrong and what a child is. Trying to smear others to deflect from your own conduct does not work.

thaiguider.com:

it is generally considered that any person who is over the age of 15 (but not yet reached the age of 18) is referred to as a minor in Thailand (3). For the legal definition of a ‘child’ in Thailand, according to Child Protection Act 2003, Section 4, ‘child’ refers to a person who is below the age of 18 years old.

[soi3eddie]

3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And he still goes regularly to the bars to have fun. Until now it works, and it seems his wife decided it's better not to ask too many questions. 

Many Thai (and other SE Asian) ladies accept this as part of being married. Same whether they have local or farang partners. So long as it's not seen then they, generally, won't bother the husband.