Mavideol Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 (edited) and u come to Asian Now for advice/advise..... u really must be desperate man 555 I do nothing and by doing nothing I already do something, I do nothing Edited July 26, 2023 by Mavideol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 2 hours ago, bignok said: Got 1 You need 2. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bignok Posted July 26, 2023 Author Share Posted July 26, 2023 11 minutes ago, Mavideol said: and u come to Asian Now for advice/advise..... u really must be desperate man 555 I do nothing and by doing nothing I already do something, I do nothing You think everyone here is a terrible person? That's a bit harsh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 I eventually got bored with traveling - - what I did know is that things change... people are fascinating to me, but many get boring... if you have dreams and follow them, if you have intellect, it is easy to get bored... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bignok Posted July 26, 2023 Author Share Posted July 26, 2023 2 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: I eventually got bored with traveling - - what I did know is that things change... people are fascinating to me, but many get boring... if you have dreams and follow them, if you have intellect, it is easy to get bored... So what then? Just accept that life is boring 555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 1 hour ago, bignok said: I need meaning. when I lived in NYC my best friend was a very bright lady and we would talk about finding/having meaning and purpose in life... one of her lady friends who used to discuss the same issues w/her told her that when you have children, you don't ask those questions anymore... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 1 minute ago, bignok said: So what then? Just accept that life is boring 555 surely, parts/times of life get boring - - I don't necessarily accept it, but I have had this issue since I was 7 years old.. Vini Vidi Vici - then what's next? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 1FinickyOne Posted July 26, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2023 1 hour ago, ozimoron said: Or just watch crap movies like these other morons? have you tried good movies? Ones that are intelligently written and make you think? Or just action movies? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 2 hours ago, Fat is a type of crazy said: I would replace coffee with chocolate You could do both... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted July 26, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2023 Let's hope he's not got a balcony, eh...........???? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamb00ler Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 1 hour ago, bignok said: Dont drink much. Sports for a month? Why? endorphin highs are cheap and healthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Liverpool Lou Posted July 26, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2023 2 hours ago, bignok said: 2 hours ago, BenStark said: What happened to the imaginary girlfriend where you work every day on her fathers farm? Dont troll Don't troll. 1 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post scottiejohn Posted July 26, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2023 14 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said: Don't troll. The whole OP is a troll! 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RanongCat Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 2 hours ago, bignok said: Carrey still playing role ! Is ok he can rise over sad start but so too easy make like some apology for success. He has his things but needs sympathy for his need for things of success. What happen to other who want need same but never get? Look for answer some place like here? Balcony jumpers get a moment of notice. Think on it ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted July 26, 2023 Share Posted July 26, 2023 1 hour ago, bignok said: So what then? Just accept that life is boring 555 It's not that it is boring, but if you indulge yourself, there can be boring moments when you are not sure what to do next... which sounds like what you are going through now... I back packed for a year around the world when I was 24 - - did it on the cheap and one of the things I learned was that if/when I do this at an older age, I will want to have a lot more money to do it in style and not have to scrimp... so, one of the things I did was have my own business and invest well... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sipi Posted July 26, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2023 Yesterday I climbed Mt Kilimanjaro, then went on a train ride through Sudan, then I explored some Vietnamese markets. Then I turned YouTube off and had a coffee. 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan O Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 13 hours ago, Cake Monster said: OP Life is just not a continual Holiday filled with Parties and pretty Girls Most of the time it is mundane and yes, maybe boring You just have to accept that and lead as full a life as possible It is if Bob's in the bar, err I mean house Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JimTripper Posted July 27, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted July 27, 2023 Keep traveling ????????♂️. When money runs short or old age gets closer you settle down out of necessity and talk about the old days. That’s how things work here. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 9:27 AM, bignok said: I'm extremely bored with life when not travelling. I have things to do but don't enjoy it. I see people do less than me but seem happy doing next to nothing. They just watch crappy movies and the like. I can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut. I can hang out and talk shares with another but that bores me. Another friend lives far. Others I know are busy. Their lives look boring to me but they seem happy but you never know. A mate told me he's been depressed for 15 years and I couldnt tell. So what the hell should i do? Be a full time nomad? I cant see how that works. Or just watch crap movies like these other morons? I don't know. Sounds like "life hates me and I hate life". Consider this: Before you were born you were dead for billions and billions of years. After you die, you will again be dead for billions and billions of years. You are only alive for a depressingly short time. There is nothing more boring than being dead. If nothing else: Sit under a fuzzy tree with a can of beer in your left hand an Delete vigoruosly with your right hand while singing "I did it my way". Once dead, you can't do any of those things anymore. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 6:59 PM, bignok said: So what then? Just accept that life is boring 555 Run amok. I am sure that it will end out dreadfully, although maybe not for us, if you post on here afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bignok Posted July 27, 2023 Author Share Posted July 27, 2023 27 minutes ago, swissie said: Sounds like "life hates me and I hate life". Consider this: Before you were born you were dead for billions and billions of years. After you die, you will again be dead for billions and billions of years. You are only alive for a depressingly short time. There is nothing more boring than being dead. If nothing else: Sit under a fuzzy tree with a can of beer in your left hand an Delete vigoruosly with your right hand while singing "I did it my way". Once dead, you can't do any of those things anymore. I believe in reincarnation. Beer and a Delete 55 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiochaser Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 3:53 PM, Celsius said: Wrong place to ask as most people on this forum are bored and depressed. You think someone with 20,000 post has a fulfilling life? Then there are those with more than 100,000 posts after only a couple of years (or is it 3 or 4 years). A higher average number of posts in a week than I have in a year. They aren't bored. They are too busy trying to control the threads they post in! ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoDisplayName Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 Buy your wife some land up in the hills. Build a replica of Neuschwanstein. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoDisplayName Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 But if travel is your thing, build a replica and tour the country. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liddelljohn Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 8:27 AM, bignok said: I'm extremely bored with life when not travelling. I have things to do but don't enjoy it. I see people do less than me but seem happy doing next to nothing. They just watch crappy movies and the like. I can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut. I can hang out and talk shares with another but that bores me. Another friend lives far. Others I know are busy. Their lives look boring to me but they seem happy but you never know. A mate told me he's been depressed for 15 years and I couldnt tell. So what the hell should i do? Be a full time nomad? I cant see how that works. Or just watch crap movies like these other morons? I don't know. Big Nok Im like you easily bored cant stand living a vanilla life ,,always looking for new adventure , all my homes are just places i store stuff , more interested in the journey than the destination , hate being trapped ,,sometime i stay and chill , read, look tv and movies , socialize and party but when my demon calls I am off again 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gandtee Posted July 27, 2023 Share Posted July 27, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 2:27 PM, bignok said: I'm extremely bored with life when not travelling. I have things to do but don't enjoy it. I see people do less than me but seem happy doing next to nothing. They just watch crappy movies and the like. I can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut. I can hang out and talk shares with another but that bores me. Another friend lives far. Others I know are busy. Their lives look boring to me but they seem happy but you never know. A mate told me he's been depressed for 15 years and I couldnt tell. So what the hell should i do? Be a full time nomad? I cant see how that works. Or just watch crap movies like these other morons? I don't know. Now now, mother. Settle down. Did you get out of the wrong side of the bed this morning? Life is not that bad. Have a cup of tea and relax.???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stix40 Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 Zzzzzzzzz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mansell Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 It sounds like it’s time for introspection in your life. I’ve found meditation works for me and has done for the last fifty years. Start off slow, like ten minutes and build up to where you can do an hour or more. Once you get into a groove with meditation the rest will seem like what it is….just distractions. Now if you blow this off, then there is your boredom right there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bradiston Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 3:38 PM, Jacques Clouseau said: I feel you. I've been like you all my life. I took the nomad path. I know it's a form of escapism but I don't care. For a year now I've been traveling all over SE Asia, I went to different parts of Thailand, Malaysia and Laos - most of the time hiking in nature. I travel on the cheap and make the money I need online. It's not gonna lead me anywhere but that's ok. Society bores me to death and I know I'm not alone in this. The meaning crisis in the West has just begun imo. Soon we'll be legions. Legions of neo dharma bums :)) That wasn't you in my front garden the other day was it? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisKC Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 On 7/26/2023 at 3:18 PM, bignok said: Things i like Lanna food Lao Beer Travel Photography Exploring new roads Coffee Walking up hills for view My gf Things i dont like Everything else So, to cut a long story short, you are not interested in anything new, you are even bored with the things you like, including your girlfriend. (have you told her that?). Looks like you and Bob Smith should get along fine with your mutual boredom. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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