4 minutes ago, Goat said:

If you cant figure out for yourself that relying on paid prostitutes for your sexlife is sad in a country with so many attractive single women then I dont think he will be able to help you understand.

He said that it was sad due to wearing a condom, so I asked if normal couples are sad if they wear condoms.  It's fairly obvious that this one question highlights how stupid it is to try to suggest that someone is sad for sleeping with bargirls because they have to wear a condom.

 

4 minutes ago, Goat said:

Ok, you use the word "normal" to describe relationships that are not sad paid for with prostitutes which indicates you know the difference and are just trying to argue.

I am simply challenging what he said as it is fairly ridiculous to suggest that someone is sad for having sex with a bargirl because they have to wear a condom.  The fact that he won't answer the question, suggest he realises how illogical what he said is, but doens't want to admit it.

43 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

men can very quickly and easily find a woman to have sex with for a relatively small amount of money.

Mate, you keep paying for substandard and I will keep playing free for high standard.

Works for me.

31 minutes ago, bignok said:

 

 

If you want real sex get a gf. If you want real beer buy a real beer.

 

 

Why does one need a GF to have real sex ?

 

Fairly certain the sex I have with ladies that are not my GF is real.

2 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

He said that it was sad due to wearing a condom, so I asked if normal couples are sad if they wear condoms.  It's fairly obvious that this one question highlights how stupid it is to try to suggest that someone is sad for sleeping with bargirls because they have to wear a condom.

 

I am simply challenging what he said as it is fairly ridiculous to suggest that someone is sad for having sex with a bargirl because they have to wear a condom.  The fact that he won't answer the question, suggest he realises how illogical what he said is, but doens't want to admit it.

Your ignorance is on show big time. Most couples ditch condoms fairly quickly plus oral sex safer.

 

Maybe learn something about the real world.

3 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

The fact that he won't answer the question, suggest he realises how illogical what he said is, but doens't want to admit it.

No i understood it clearly with the clever analogy he used.

Sex with condoms is like drinking light beer. It just isnt anything like the real thing.

You should try it some time. You are gonna love it.

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

So if I said using condoms and bargirls was good you would be happy?

Haha.  Clearly not.

 

I'm asking you if you think that someone who uses a condom in a normal relationship is sad also.  (Since you said that the reason you think someone who has sex with bargirls is sad is the fact that they have to wear a condom.)

2 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Why does one need a GF to have real sex ?

 

Fairly certain the sex I have with ladies that are not my GF is real.

Up to you. I don't care. 

Just now, BangkokReady said:

Haha.  Clearly not.

 

I'm asking you if you think that someone who uses a condom in a normal relationship is sad also.  (Since you said that the reason you think someone who has sex with bargirls is sad is the fact that they have to wear a condom.)

Your naive question is open ended. For how long?

1 minute ago, Goat said:

the clever analogy he used

Jesus Christ... ????

 

1 minute ago, Goat said:

Sex with condoms is like drinking light beer. It just anything like the real thing.

So you think someone that uses condoms in a normal relationship is sad also?

2 minutes ago, Goat said:

No i understood it clearly with the clever analogy he used.

Sex with condoms is like drinking light beer. It just anything like the real thing.

You should try it some time. You are gonna love it.

Mate he's a virgin by the sounds of it.

Just now, BangkokReady said:

Jesus Christ... ????

 

So you think someone that uses condoms in a normal relationship is sad also?

He thinks you are. 

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

In my opinion, up to 150 men (beginner), no big deal.

150-500 men (BAB - been around the block), she is experienced, but will likely be fine, if she has a good heart, and a strong mind.
500-1000 men (AVEG - a very experienced gal) is approaching the point where there very well might be some long term psychological damage.
1000-2000 men (ASP - a serious pro), and there is likely to be long term bitterness towards men.

2000 men (ATW - around the world) a

Wow, thanks Mike for that very detailed answer.

So back to the OP. Should all these groups get paid the same? 

Or should ATW get more or less than AVEG and BABs?

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Your naive question is open ended. For how long?

Naïve?  I'm simply asking you to explain something you claimed.

 

As their normal method of contraception.

5 minutes ago, Goat said:

Mate, you keep paying for substandard and I will keep playing free for high standard.

Works for me.

I very much doubt that you're getting high standard for free. Real high class women wouldn't look twice at you, let alone get suckered into driving lessons so you can sleaze on to them.

1 minute ago, BangkokReady said:

Naïve?  I'm simply asking you to explain something you claimed.

 

As their normal method of contraception.

For how long?

 

 

Just now, bignok said:

He thinks you are. 

Haha.  he also said that you made a clever analogy.  it's fairly clear how well his judgement can be trusted.

Just now, Lemsta69 said:

I very much doubt that you're getting high standard for free. Real high class women wouldn't look twice at you, let alone get suckered into driving lessons so you can sleaze on to them.

I doubt them high class ones are any better on the work bench than a 800b rental.

1 hour ago, BangkokReady said:

Why is it sad?  If he can't get the same without paying and he has the money?  Why not pay for a live-in nurse/maid/sex-provider if he can afford it and a woman wants to take on the role?

 

So many people here seem to have the attitude of: "The man is happy, the woman is happy, but I don't like it/I'm an unhappy person, so I'm going to make disparaging remarks about it".  That's the sad thing, IMO.

It's sad that those guys think the lady likes them when it's mainly about money, now if you don't care about that, no problem

1 minute ago, BangkokReady said:

Haha.  he also said that you made a clever analogy.  it's fairly clear how well his judgement can be trusted.

He's an adult who's had girlfriends.

 

How old are you?

1 minute ago, bignok said:

For how long?

Why would there need to be a time limit?  Simply as their regular method of contraception.

Just now, BangkokReady said:

Why would there need to be a time limit?  Simply as their regular method of contraception.

For how long?

 

3rd time asking

Just now, bignok said:

He's an adult who's had girlfriends.

Therefore he knows a good analogy when he sees one???  Seriously???

 

(N.b. you didn't even make an analogy. ????)

Just now, BangkokReady said:

Therefore he knows a good analogy when he sees one???  Seriously???

 

(N.b. you didn't even make an analogy. ????)

How old are you?

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

I doubt them high class ones are any better on the work bench than a 800b rental.

They're probably starfish but little Goaty will never find out because he's invisible to them.

1 minute ago, bignok said:

For how long?

 

3rd time asking

No time period.  Simply the standard method of contraception in the relationship.

 

I'm not sure how much clearer I can write this... ????

1. Go and sew your oats with as many nice young bar girls as you feel the need to.

2. Find a girl that is not a bar girl, and marry her.

 

I put it around for many years like many of you, enjoyed every minute of it, then married a divorced teacher.

 

Amazes me why people see bar girls as anything else than just an experience !

 

I do not pay my wife a salary, I give her 40k a month to cover all the bills, food, rent etc, and the rest she can do with as she pleases. Its about a woman's relationship with money more than anything else

Just now, bignok said:

How old are you?

Try engaging with what I'm saying, instead of trying to look for ways to make ad-homs.  If you cannot, you can simply say that you messed up and said something illogical that you didn't mean.  Then perhaps we can move on.

i was at Big Dog at the entrance to Nana Plaza last night.  a few of us got to talking about this subject of the monthly salary.  i was shocked to hear it but a couple guys said 200,000thb.  and their source was girls they know.  in one case, a girl turned down that amount (offered by a japanese gentleman) as she said she earns more than that every month.  we backed into that number using 6 days a week work, two short times per night, 4,000 per short time.  and the funny part was one of the girls a guy knew went to Nana hotel with a customer and returned while we were still there (easy to see this stuff sitting at big dog by the entrance to nana).  this guy then left.  but before i left the same girl was on her way to Nana Hotel again.  i was there from 7:30 to 9:30 so she'd have two sessions before 10pm.

 

so this 25,000 or 30,000 figure, which was what i recall from years past, seems to be way low for certain ladies. 

1 hour ago, RAZZELL said:

If you go "off" the bargirl scene...even "normal" girls want some sort of "pocket money" from their boyfriends. (Thai/Thai relationships)

 

It's just the way it is here.

 

RAZZ

Thai girls do try that one to get more money

1 hour ago, Ralf001 said:

Finally a post of yours I agree with.

Much better to rent em for an hour or two here and there.

Sling them an extra 100 if you want your clothes washed and ironed.

Ah yes, when you'd get them back to your place and you'd sit them down and say there was a special thing you wanted her to do for you which other men probably didn't ask for.

 

What is it? she'd ask, and you would ask if she could sew some buttons back on your shirts (and they did).