Tropposurfer Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 Up to you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seeall Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 21 hours ago, FolkGuitar said: If you've found the right partner, it's better to be attached anywhere! many think they found the right partner just to waist their lives making compromises, thats fine if shakira spends on me but she wont return my calls.... 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 33 minutes ago, Seeall said: many think they found the right partner just to waist their lives making compromises, thats fine if shakira spends on me but she wont return my calls.... C-mon, if you having your best time in life at the moment, and later you brake up, you still had your best time in life up to that moment? What happens after is then, and you getting new chances to fix what was the real problem leading to disaster. Up and go and try again. Living alone is not an option, not living in bad relationships either, but I will never give up. Men live more healthy and longer with a good partner! Pure statistics Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Middle Aged Grouch Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 In Thailand never buy...always rent. Mainly with real estate or ladies. Or else at one's own risk to learn the hard way, once it's too late. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 19 minutes ago, Hummin said: C-mon, if you having your best time in life at the moment, and later you brake up, you still had your best time in life up to that moment? What happens after is then, and you getting new chances to fix what was the real problem leading to disaster. Up and go and try again. Living alone is not an option, not living in bad relationships either, but I will never give up. Men live more healthy and longer with a good partner! Pure statistics If your marriage ends after 15 years, could be 14 unhappy years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xylophone Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 19 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said: If you want to be a in a relationship with someone , then be in a relationship with someone . If you want to be single, then be single . Just do what you want to do and don't be concerned about anyone else Wonderful response ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 12 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said: If your marriage ends after 15 years, could be 14 unhappy years I think for me wonderful 14 years, one miserable, followed by another 14 wonderful years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 Just now, Hummin said: I think for me wonderful 14 years, one miserable, followed by another 14 wonderful years Who stays in a miserable marriage for 14 years? Not good for anyone, not even for the kids if they where the reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adumbration Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 22 hours ago, VocalNeal said: I can understand why the OP is alone. Spouting all this constant dribble.???? That is all that is left on this forum. Nonsense and piffle posted by fake accounts. It is so very depressing and such an insult to the intelligence of the few remain real members who actually live here in Thailand. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xylophone Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 43 minutes ago, Hummin said: Living alone is not an option, not living in bad relationships either, but I will never give up. Men live more healthy and longer with a good partner! Pure statistics I believe that living alone is an option, just the same as living with a partner is; whatever suits. I do know of guys who stay in toxic relationships, because they know nothing else, or even how to fend for themselves, so living alone is not what they want, and I also know of guys here who are very "needy" and have to have a partner, because without them they are lost. Different strokes for different folks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 2 minutes ago, Adumbration said: That is all that is left on this forum. Nonsense and piffle posted by fake accounts. It is so very depressing and such an insult to the intelligence of the few remain real members who actually live here in Thailand. Do not worry, I think most of us understand your intellectual capacity and capabilities. At least you recognize click baits. All of them, so we don't have to. Thank you for your contribution 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 (edited) 9 minutes ago, xylophone said: I believe that living alone is an option, just the same as living with a partner is; whatever suits. I do know of guys who stay in toxic relationships, because they know nothing else, or even how to fend for themselves, so living alone is not what they want, and I also know of guys here who are very "needy" and have to have a partner, because without them they are lost. Different strokes for different folks. Most of the time I speak about my experiences and my needs as well expectations, and my ideas, unless there is historical and scientific proofs to lean on. I know for most being in a healthy relationship is better both for physical and mental health. As you say, it is not for everyone out of many reasons, and for some complex reasons. Some is just better of single for their own sake and others Edited September 22, 2023 by Hummin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 26 minutes ago, Hummin said: Who stays in a miserable marriage for 14 years? Not good for anyone, not even for the kids if they where the reason Can take years to break up, those divorced will probably vouch for that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolf81 Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 (edited) Got a relationship with my GF for 7 years now. But at time she can be a pain in the backside, especially regarding financial matters. I think woman in general can never really be happy. My GF got a good life (50.000 THB a month to spend on mostly herself and our daughter, 2 houses including one with a swimming pool, her own 3 rai farm, a car, no loans). I also got a condo recently which will be inherited by our daughter if would be gone in the future. But still only 40 years old, so hopefully that is far away ... We do have a daughter together, so for the sake of our daughter it's better to stay together. But I wouldn't marry her (would have considered if she was as gentle as when we met, but people change). Since a person is responsible for his/her own happiness and woman can never truly be happy while men certainly can (just enjoying working ,hobbies, friends), it can be better to stay single. You can have the upsides of dealing with woman without much of the downsides. In a relationship this can be harder to separate. Edited September 22, 2023 by wolf81 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 15 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said: Can take years to break up, those divorced will probably vouch for that For some it take years to brake up, and who to blaim? The relationship itself as an institution? Or the one who accept to stay in an unhappy unhealthy relationship? Some can't just save themselves, and need coaching, unfortunate to many grasp bad coaches, and therefore the popularity of toxic characters like Tate gain popularity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 22 hours ago, scubascuba3 said: Women are generally looking for an ATM and yes they prefer some ATMs over others, but why be one? so stay single and see different women as required With that view of women, yes, do them all a favor.... our thoughts create our destiny... you would enter any relationship with shallow worries about your little bag of coins... "As required?" You say. Do you never find joy in female companionship? There are rewards to knowing someone a long time and sharing family and life events... and by 'long time' I don't mean overnight... you can drown in shallow waters. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunPer Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 On 9/21/2023 at 9:06 AM, bignok said: What are the pros and cons of both? Does location make a big difference? Is being single on Samui way better than Chiang Mai or Nakhon Nowwhere? Could you shag your way across small cities without using bargirls? Cons being single in Thailand is the gap between your home country's culture and the Thai culture, including understanding of "the Thai way of thinking" and the need of a translator. It might also include the need for someone to care about your health and take care of you when needed. However, where I live – it's Samui, which you also asks about – there are numerous singles and foreign couples. You can of course manage well without a Thai partner when using paid services like a law firm for many purposes – the law firm's front office can help with a lot, as my Thai lawyer said, when someone's toilet cannot flush it becomesmy problem to solve – or having a house keeper or domestic help some days of the week, who also can arrange with numerous kinds of external service, including shopping, finding handyman for small repairs, having sewers and tanks drained etc. Pros being single is that you can live your life almost exactly as you wish – and use external help, as mentioned above – and if or when you wish a partner for some period, it's easy find – i.e., buy an often excellent service – at many places. So, the difference between Samui or Chiang Mai and Nakhon Nowhere to my experience is – and I did consider if I could settle somewhere pretty close to Nakhon Nowhere, which I could, if I changed in the life-style I originally wished to live in Thailand – that in Chiang Mai and on Samui, you will easier find people that speaks farang-language; easier to find foreigner-service minded business like law firm and domestic help; and easier to find sociable gathering, if and when needed, with a wider group to choose from...???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SingAPorn Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 (edited) Never get involved in any relationship with a local lady that has legal strings. Date, enjoy, have fun, play (and pay of course) all around. But make it so that you can just walk out on the next morning after a wild night of bunga-bunga. Unless of course you wish to pay weekly to maintain either the jobless brother, the parents, the cousin, the farm, the car that suddenly broke down..... Not to forget the risk of contracting some strange STD that elementary protection does not keep you safe... Edited September 22, 2023 by SingAPorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 23 hours ago, Dmaxdan said: The weak minded need to stay single. Dont hate the player...hate the game ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 1 hour ago, 1FinickyOne said: With that view of women, yes, do them all a favor.... our thoughts create our destiny... you would enter any relationship with shallow worries about your little bag of coins... "As required?" You say. Do you never find joy in female companionship? There are rewards to knowing someone a long time and sharing family and life events... and by 'long time' I don't mean overnight... you can drown in shallow waters. If you don't understand the ATM analogy then you're a fool. As for me of course i have women friends, good ones too, I'm just happy being single. You could be one of those with a fake wife\girlfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 9 hours ago, 2baht said: Tash Peterson??? ???? ask "still kicking" as he was posting from under his bed the other day about her..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 37 minutes ago, SingAPorn said: play (and pay of course) money buys goods and services.....not love....even if she tells you she lubs you too mutt dah ling hard pass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 23 hours ago, scubascuba3 said: listen to rubbish jokes and be a rentafriend my goldfish is looking for a way out of the bowl as hes growing tired of my one liners.... ???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerrymahoney Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 (edited) Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand? It depends on how nice her t*ts are. Edited September 22, 2023 by jerrymahoney Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said: If you don't understand the ATM analogy then you're a fool. As for me of course i have women friends, good ones too, I'm just happy being single. You could be one of those with a fake wife\girlfriend? not sure where your little bigoted mind gets this stuff - - of course I understand the ATM analogy... yeah, sorry, wrong again, my wife is very real... and how did it go with your offer to spy on a lady on Thai Friendly? You would do that? Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bignok Posted September 22, 2023 Author Share Posted September 22, 2023 1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said: If you don't understand the ATM analogy then you're a fool. As for me of course i have women friends, good ones too, I'm just happy being single. You could be one of those with a fake wife\girlfriend? Usually guys with lady friends are gay. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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bignok Posted September 22, 2023 Author Share Posted September 22, 2023 4 hours ago, Adumbration said: That is all that is left on this forum. Nonsense and piffle posted by fake accounts. It is so very depressing and such an insult to the intelligence of the few remain real members who actually live here in Thailand. What is a fake account? Id say there's a lot of cowards on here though. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 32 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: not sure where your little bigoted mind gets this stuff - - of course I understand the ATM analogy... yeah, sorry, wrong again, my wife is very real... and how did it go with your offer to spy on a lady on Thai Friendly? You would do that? Really? Thaifriendly? you're losing it, your imagination, quote the post so I know what you're on about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted September 22, 2023 Share Posted September 22, 2023 32 minutes ago, bignok said: Usually guys with lady friends are gay. in your experience maybe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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