Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand?

[Ben Zioner]

The one thing I am absolutely sure of is that if I didn't have a family I wouldn't have stayed more than 6 months.

[bignok]

21 minutes ago, RanongCat said:

I have been told he  won a POTY award a long time back. I think it was based on  number of posts rather than content merit. Perhaps in an evolving state of dementia  he fancies a renewed state of recognition ?

Like winning lotto? Oh wait no money.

[scubascuba3]

9 hours ago, bignok said:

Not my cup of tea. Guys on here admit to using bargirls. Why pretend otherwise? Of course it exists. Or we can just pretend otherwise if it makes you feel better. If you are sensitive about it sorry about that. 

You usually pretend you don't use sex workers, just be honest about it

[scubascuba3]

9 hours ago, bignok said:

Westerners play the inheritance game including men, women and kids. If someone is married for 20 years they should get something.

so playing the long game, i know a thai lady who married a falang 40 years older, he died a while back now has 250m baht to play with

[bignok]

4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

You usually pretend you don't use sex workers, just be honest about it

So you are a sex worker. Hire yourself out to Bob.

[bignok]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

so playing the long game, i know a thai lady who married a falang 40 years older, he died a while back now has 250m baht to play with

Then good for her. 

[bbbbooboo]

13 hours ago, connda said:

Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand?

As a wise man once said to me, "It depends.........."

Exacery

[scubascuba3]

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

So you are a sex worker. Hire yourself out to Bob.

are you manic the last couple days, thousands of posts

[rwill]

What's right for one person is not necessarily right for another.

[arick]

A closed relationship on their part and opened on your side 

[2baht]

14 hours ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

Sadly im married to a vegan girl from perth....  ????

Tash Peterson??? ????

[2baht]

11 hours ago, transam said:

but I find it strange that you look at things calculated by tins of beer, is that normal, an Aussie thing..?

No, we count in kangaroos! ????

[1FinickyOne]

16 hours ago, bignok said:

Time is the price. 

Yes, I had a massage yesterday and asked how much - the lady said midnight and I told her that was a bit pricey so she compromised to ten o'clock... seee doom

[1FinickyOne]

16 hours ago, 2baht said:

Relish your teenage years, bigbird,

Why do you call The Big Heavy a bird?

[2baht]

Just now, 1FinickyOne said:

Why do you call The Big Heavy a bird?

Nok is a bird! Heavy is nak! Brush up on your language skills! ????

[1FinickyOne]

1 minute ago, 2baht said:

Nok is a bird! Heavy is nak! Brush up on your language skills! ????

Transliterations are a cloudy afternoon, scattered showers... you should know that... 

 

I thought some of you guys call ladies "Bird" - - I think The Big Heavy is a guy... I don't get gender confusion from his posts... 

 

Knick knack paddywack

[Olmate]

15 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Transliterations are a cloudy afternoon, scattered showers... you should know that... 

 

I thought some of you guys call ladies "Bird" - - I think The Big Heavy is a guy... I don't get gender confusion from his posts... 

 

Knick knack paddywack

'Give the dog a bone'! 

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[1FinickyOne]

48 minutes ago, Olmate said:

'Give the dog a bone'! 

This old man is...    ________  [fill in your own blank]

[Srikcir]

16 hours ago, connda said:

Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand?

As a wise man once said to me, "It depends.........."

He was probably referring to the diaper.

[transam]

13 hours ago, RanongCat said:

I have noticed you mention it at times you might consider an advantage to status of opine or something. That and some other irrelevant historical periods of blue collar occupation. It is not that I ponder, just note.

I do however ponder a little over the condescending iteration of Chap, Stand  down etc in some presumption of superior class.

I am generally in good cheer thanks anyway and  not in need of assistance . Pip pip and all that Mr Mannering.

 

It's Mainwaring...............????...But never mind...

 

I never mention POTY unless it is brought up by others, you for instance..????

 

Never been a blue collar anything.....????

 

Chap, English, means, fellow, man or boy..........????

 

Stand down, means, relax after being alert or ready........????

 

It seems to me you want to hand out cr@p but are upset by really nothing in return, your problem is, you are not good enough to go down the route you have taken...   ????

[RanongCat]

58 minutes ago, transam said:

It's Mainwaring...............????...But never mind...

 

I never mention POTY unless it is brought up by others, you for instance..????

 

Never been a blue collar anything.....????

 

Chap, English, means, fellow, man or boy..........????

 

Stand down, means, relax after being alert or ready........????

 

It seems to me you want to hand out cr@p but are upset by really nothing in return, your problem is, you are not good enough to go down the route you have taken...   ????

Nice you recognized the reference regardless of spelling..

But sad that you deny volunteering your faded POTY status on at least two occasions I have read.

Have I taken a route?

Responding to snide and caustic comment with little to zero relevance to topic on numerous occasions is not what I would consider a route. Simply a counter of equivalence.

 

 

[transam]

3 minutes ago, RanongCat said:

Nice you recognized the reference regardless of spelling..

But sad that you deny volunteering your faded POTY status on at least two occasions I have read.

Have I taken a route?

Responding to snide and caustic comment with little to zero relevance to topic on numerous occasions is not what I would consider a route. Simply a counter of equivalence.

 

 

But pussy Cat, it was you that started the digs at me, it hasn't worked, has it, chap.

Now stand down, as you are digging a very deep hole.

 

Crack on..............

[Hummin]

20 hours ago, bignok said:

What are the pros and cons of both? Does location make a big difference? Is being single on Samui way better than Chiang Mai or Nakhon Nowwhere? Could you shag your way across small cities without using bargirls?

Single in Chiang Mai and Samui, you will run out of options who do not know you, or who know someone who know you out of those who will mingle among western foreigners. 

 

Even Hua Hin the word of you travel faster and longer before you find a new one ????

 

Single would be best in BKK if Asian women is the only target.

 

In my younger days, had more luck in places like Ao Nang, Koh Tao, Samui, when it came to Western women. 

[RanongCat]

21 minutes ago, transam said:

But pussy Cat, it was you that started the digs at me, it hasn't worked, has it, chap.

Now stand down, as you are digging a very deep hole.

 

Crack on..............

 

 

[freeworld]

21 hours ago, bignok said:

What are the pros and cons of both? Does location make a big difference? Is being single on Samui way better than Chiang Mai or Nakhon Nowwhere? Could you shag your way across small cities without using bargirls?

Does one not feel shame or embarrassment posting something like this.

[transam]

6 minutes ago, freeworld said:

Does one not feel shame or embarrassment posting something like this.

He's 15, I think I was like that at 15 too.......................????

[Tropposurfer]

Up to you

[Seeall]

21 hours ago, FolkGuitar said:

If you've found the right partner, it's better to be attached anywhere!

many think they found the right partner just to waist their lives making compromises, thats fine if shakira spends on me but she wont return my calls....  

[Hummin]

33 minutes ago, Seeall said:

many think they found the right partner just to waist their lives making compromises, thats fine if shakira spends on me but she wont return my calls....  

C-mon, if you having your best time in life at the moment, and later you brake up, you still had your best time in life up to that moment? 

 

What happens after is then, and you getting new chances to fix what was the real problem leading to disaster. 

 

Up and go and try again. 

 

Living alone is not an option, not living in  bad relationships either, but I will never give up. Men live more healthy and longer with a good partner! Pure statistics 

 

 

[Middle Aged Grouch]

In Thailand never buy...always rent.

 

Mainly with real estate or ladies.

 

Or else at one's own risk to learn the hard way, once it's too late.