On 5/15/2024 at 7:12 PM, simon43 said:

I remember having to climb onto the roof of my ex's Isaan house in order to get a mobile phone signal to check my email....

 

Next time I brought emergency rations in the boot of my car because her mom used to feed me fish heads for lunch (she did actually like me!).

My experience was too many intestines in Isan dishes and too many whisky drinking socializing.  Some wonderful people and nature...but not my cup of cha.

I find it sadly amusing to read the drama style poor me justifications/excuses for those that have found cause to reject rural existence based on experiences that used to be true to various degrees 15 years ago.

At least in 2024 the claim that isolation from renditions  of civilization such as the ubiquitous 7/11 probably is only true  in the remote extreme  northern regions given the expansion of the PTT Fuel stops.

When I first started to live in my wife's small village house it was only  5 years after household water was made available and village streets were starting to be capped with concrete.

The majority of people were pedestrian or .rode bicycles while the  next slightly wealthier had a motorcycle on strict monthly credit plans while  motorcars of any description were ether also on lifetime credit plan or a perk of an elite Government title.

The nearest  highway was relatively  quiet in  daytime and almost  vacant  at night.

Children played in the streets in the evenings and weekends.

As a foreigner I was both a fascination and a threat due to natural ignorance and suspicion of cultural difference.

With a little persistence in maintaining a neutral attitude and physically pitching in to some community projects it was not difficult to avoid any  hope I might be an easy tap  for cash, including those who would become extended family .

Twenty plus years on I am content to say that I am generally considered just another community member who is  foreign and referred to or addressed as is any other person known  to the community.

Over the years I have witnessed the problems of other farang who have come and gone or if have stayed has become reclusive and bitter and mutually reviled.

I  can understand those who have come and gone while expressing an inability to cope with the Thai rural  life

but I have no liking for those that try to claim their own failure is due to  inferior Thai culture.

But I have to  acknowledge the  fact that Thai original culture via the internet has been  destroyed the rural young generation no less than the urban.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The channel is 200% about making money. It's beyond ego-driven. It lacks warmth in all forms and factors. Pretty sad actually. The clickbait titles are pathetic.

 

Really, we have no idea how this fellow really lives. It's all a facade.

I've no need to wonder as I have been in rural Thailand for 15 years.

 

The bamboo man is less than 1 per cent of farang life in rural Thailand and is therefore not representative, certainly regarding my associates, who live in normal housing with maybe a dog thrown in.

 

We've come here to retire not work farms, shops etc that's for the Thai members of the family.

 

On 6/5/2024 at 11:27 AM, BusNo8 said:

Hat's off to both of them - and they are true content creators not just walking about with a camera on a stick in a panic over some minor drama.

My 2 long-term Thai girlfriends both grew up on rural farms. The only time they wanted to see a chicken again is after it's been Kentucky-fried.

On 5/31/2024 at 2:08 AM, surreybloke said:

Rural life can be so much fun, but your life is never your own.      Trust me   village gossip  is real.    You can almost be the only falang.         

 

Any comments.    

Oh how right you are. Nearest big town to me is Nong Bua Lamphu (35km) then there’s Udon Thani (90km) and Khon Kaen (104 km). I am the only Farang in the village. Everyone knows me and I confess to not knowing many of them. I walk around the village ( exercise) and they all stop to chat (I speak Thai) (which is nice but adds an extra hour to my walk). They love to gossip I go for coffee every day, coffee shop is about 5km away someone from the village sees me and “reports back” to the missis who might I add is at work. They have actually called her to tell her where I am. The village jungle drums are constantly at work. One of the elder monks at the temple (300m from my home) took sick, was constipated, in pain and struggling to go “Poo Poo”. I have a great remedy for this problem “Psyllium husk” so I gave him 6 capsules to help free his bowels and stomach. Not long after the world fell out of his ass now the whole village knows I helped the monk and have commented on how the Farang is “jai dee” and I will definately be up for re-incarnation when my time comes. I just hope I have done enough not to come back as a buffalo.

1 hour ago, Utalk2mutt said:

Oh how right you are. Nearest big town to me is Nong Bua Lamphu (35km) then there’s Udon Thani (90km) and Khon Kaen (104 km). I am the only Farang in the village. Everyone knows me and I confess to not knowing many of them. I walk around the village ( exercise) and they all stop to chat (I speak Thai) (which is nice but adds an extra hour to my walk). They love to gossip I go for coffee every day, coffee shop is about 5km away someone from the village sees me and “reports back” to the missis who might I add is at work. They have actually called her to tell her where I am. The village jungle drums are constantly at work. One of the elder monks at the temple (300m from my home) took sick, was constipated, in pain and struggling to go “Poo Poo”. I have a great remedy for this problem “Psyllium husk” so I gave him 6 capsules to help free his bowels and stomach. Not long after the world fell out of his ass now the whole village knows I helped the monk and have commented on how the Farang is “jai dee” and I will definately be up for re-incarnation when my time comes. I just hope I have done enough not to come back as a buffalo.

 

 

Walking the earth, having adventures and healing peoples suffering with the power of dietary fiber.

 

1 hour ago, fondue zoo said:

 

 

Walking the earth, having adventures and healing peoples suffering with the power of dietary fiber.

 

It’s the life of a buffalo for me right😀

4 years il never get back from that <deleted>ehole Isaan 

1 hour ago, Utalk2mutt said:

It’s the life of a buffalo for me right😀

 

It will be okay, she will be your owner.

 

Burglary

 

Dogs

 

Noise

 

Distance to ..

 

Land disputes

 

Tedious immigration

 

Nosiness not friendliness

 

Air pollution

 

Hotter than Hades with few places respite

 

Need to build not rent, land is worthless (imo)

 

Cannot own land

 

Company ownership tedious and expensive

 

Noise

 

Burglary

 

Air pollution

 

*Doubly especially no to being near relatives

The rural bit never grabbed me but 5 years or so in a mid size town with a  population of approx 80,000 was fine.

Plenty shops, hospitals, markets, farang drinking company a few times a week and good travel connections to Bangkok, resorts and islands helped as well.

Certainly not for everybody but it was OK for me.

 

do the owners know their video is used?

I suspect I have already commented sometime ago, but just in case

 

 

....it is e.ffing awful

On 5/15/2024 at 2:38 PM, Hummin said:

Not so much for those who live in Isaan.

 

My experience expats invest far more in the families than they are asked to do. Personally I feel I get more back than I give. 

 

Still, there is many who do not know better, and fall in love with the wrong woman, with problem families. Thats the main mistake.

 

 

Re the your last sentence that can happen in any country or with any woman and of course we all change over time “ familiarity breeds contempt”

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

It certainly looks good

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

1. **Lifestyle and Environment**: Life in rural Thailand is depicted as peaceful and fulfilling. Ryan and Damo emphasize the freedom, health benefits, and connection to nature they experience living in a remote part of Buriram province. They engage in farming, raising animals, and growing their own food, which includes rice, vegetables, and eggs from various poultry.

 

Let's not forget burning lots of plastic in your garden, despite there being a garbage collection service for 10 baht a month, or just littering everywhere. 

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

2. **Community and Social Life**: The local community is described as hard-working and close-knit where people enjoy a slower pace of life, frequently engaging in social and cultural activities such as festivals and temple visits. The community is also very supportive, helping each other with construction projects and sharing a strong bond over common activities. Ryan, being one of the few foreigners in the village, notes the welcoming and friendly nature of the villagers.

 

Ah, yes.

 

Sitting around drinking Lao Kao and gambling while waiting for the rainy season to plant rice while your daughter is selling herself in Pattaya.

 

And of course, the grandkids are totally neglected and abused. Surprise surprise.

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

3. **Economic and Building Projects**: The couple has been economically adaptive; they have ventured into different businesses from English schools to a jazz lounge before settling in rural Thailand. They mention constructing bamboo huts, an outdoor kitchen, and a cottage on their land, emphasizing a self-sufficient and eco-friendly lifestyle.

 

There's plenty of building in rural Thailand. I'll give them that.

 

Not much maintanence though.

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

4. **Cultural Integration**: Ryan and Damo's story also touches on cultural integration, where they describe their adjustment to the local lifestyle and how they contribute and fit into the community. Their experiences reflect a deeper appreciation and respect for the local culture and practices.

 

Your neighbors will call you farang even though they know your name, lol, but I don't think telling it like it is would be good for a YouTube channel 

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

5. **Personal History and Online Presence**: The couple met online when Ryan was teaching in Kanchanaburi and Damo was working in banking in Bangkok. They now run a YouTube channel "Life in Bamboo," where they share their rural lifestyle, intending to provide insights to others who might be interested in a similar lifestyle switch.

 

Yeah, the kids are glued to their phones in the villages too.....

 

....when they aren't playing around on motorbikes, of course 

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

6. **Future Outlook and Philosophy**: They focus on living in the present and enjoying their simple, peaceful life without the desire for extensive future planning or expansion. They express a philosophical approach to life that values simplicity, mindfulness, and community connections over materialistic goals. Overall, the interview provides a personal look into the fulfilling yet challenging life of a couple living in rural Thailand, integrating into a different culture, and finding contentment in a lifestyle aligned with nature and community.

 

Virtually everyone aged 18-60 leaves rural Thailand. 

 

There's a reason for that.

 

On 5/15/2024 at 12:15 PM, CharlieH said:

 

 

At least you can buy booze anytime in rural areas from little shops like these.

 

 

Brought the wife to USA.  Just seems like a better life here.   4 seasons, cleaner air, water from tap is all I've lived on my entire life.  Safe, everything close by great view of mountains.  No loud music, no roosters or dogs or monks making noise. 

But I do wonder if we were to move to Thailand where we would be happy.   Wife and I like gardening.   I see some farang show nice estates with a pool, beautiful yard and flowers and garden.  They have gardener, maid for cleaning and such.  Nice shop to make and fix stuff.  I could do that I think.   

Did spend 21 days in wife's village.  I survived.  Lots of relaxing and no one makes you feel guilty for not doing much all day.   Didn't appreciate the local drunks who could be passed out by 10 am.  And the bettle chewing old gals.   Some of the  kids have fancy electric scooters.  Burning trash is true and just trash dumped everywhere in Thailand.  Not a fan of soi dogs.  

On 7/27/2024 at 12:20 AM, Will B Good said:

I suspect I have already commented sometime ago, but just in case

 

 

....it is e.ffing awful

Does the wife know this?  Is she willing to move for you?     Did your contributions to your living together allow her to save the money so she was able to afford to buy her dream land and home?

My wife's home is also a 35 Mk inutes drive to the next " town". There is, except from farming not much to do. There's two mon'n Pop shops and a big temple. That' s it. A river and a lake for fishing( what I don't do). Love the people there, many are family. But except during holidays, nobody is there, except old people and kids.

On 9/6/2024 at 2:44 AM, MikeRay said:

My wife's home is also a 35 Mk inutes drive to the next " town". There is, except from farming not much to do. There's two mon'n Pop shops and a big temple. That' s it. A river and a lake for fishing( what I don't do). Love the people there, many are family. But except during holidays, nobody is there, except old people and kids.

 

Yes that is a problem in a lot of villages. You will see lots of old people, children, and often a few bums who sit around drinking lao kaow all day. Some places the manners leave a lot to be desired (lip smacking while eating, shouting from a distance rather than approaching someone to have a conversation). If you get into a productive village where there is a lot of activity and the people have good manners and are friendly, then it could be good. 

This being an old thread I must have responded at some point….but just in case….

 

IT IS F*****G AWFUL

14 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

This being an old thread I must have responded at some point….but just in case….

 

IT IS F*****G AWFUL

And yet you keep coming back. If it is so bad, why keep coming back to this thread, unless you are still stuck in the boonies and wish to share your misery. 

20 minutes ago, kevozman1 said:

 

Yes that is a problem in a lot of villages. You will see lots of old people, children, and often a few bums who sit around drinking lao kaow all day. Some places the manners leave a lot to be desired (lip smacking while eating, shouting from a distance rather than approaching someone to have a conversation). If you get into a productive village where there is a lot of activity and the people have good manners and are friendly, then it could be good. 

I hate the open mouth chewing and lip smacking too, but I've learned to live with it. I just wondered, if that is the way they were taught and it is an expression of appreciation of the food, maybe they look at me and think, "Why isn't he making any noise? Isn't he enjoying the food?" Similar to the way the Chinese and Japanese slurp their noodles as an indication of appreciation to the cook.

On 5/15/2024 at 1:18 PM, PJ71 said:

This looks like a biased view to me.

 

I live in rural thailand and also prefer it to the hustle and bustle but the negatives i have are:

 

- power cuts almost as soon as it rains

- lack of western foods ( this does not concern me much )

- no agents for visa issues

- trips to bangkok when needed can be a trek

- lack of local airport

- lack of socializing with other expats ( this does not concern me but may some )

- limited options for house furniture

- poor quality of workmanship of trades ( could be said for all Thailand )

- dangerous farm vehicles on the roads

You missed out issues of relatives if you are in a village where nearly half are relatives.  All the lakorn drama stuff.

On 9/11/2024 at 11:37 AM, GarryP said:

I hate the open mouth chewing and lip smacking too, but I've learned to live with it. I just wondered, if that is the way they were taught and it is an expression of appreciation of the food, maybe they look at me and think, "Why isn't he making any noise? Isn't he enjoying the food?" Similar to the way the Chinese and Japanese slurp their noodles as an indication of appreciation to the cook.

 

i like my girlfriends slurping noises .........😝

On 5/17/2024 at 12:17 PM, EVENKEEL said:

My point being the foreigners living in rural Isaan picked that location because their lady is from that village in rural Isaan. Been there, done that. I packed up the truck and moved 700+km away 7 yrs ago. Started over in a place of my choosing.

For me it was my choice during covid to escape "Prison" in Hua Hin, so we packed up and left for her hometown and her land. 

On 7/13/2024 at 8:10 AM, Max_Headroom said:

Doubly especially no to being near relatives

 

And it ain't always even the relatives that are a problem. It's the everyone else too and even just the place itself. 

 

It does something strange to a woman, going back there. 

 

They change. They go feral. They start gambling, money lending,  or they end up in debt and borrowing from the loan sharks. Eventually losing assets

 

Or they start drinking, they stop taking care of themselves and their homes and turn into a degenerate.

 

The village has them.

 

There are bad influences everywhere and they still have the wiring in their brain of a village person, even though they had themselves together living in Bangkok, it is so easy to revert back.

 

Then, in some cases "the brother" shows up.

 

I have seen this many times. Taking her back to Hobbit Land is never a good idea. It's like a vortex. 

 

 

Very boring if you were townee before