Why do Thai women actually love foreign men?

[Alpha84]

I hear many different narratives from people as to why many Thai women desire to marry foreign men. The most common one I hear about is for purposes financial security. Others will say it is because Thai men treat them so poorly. I realize there are also millions of Thai women who aren't interested in foreign men. But it seems millions are and is there a chance they are simply attracted to something opposite to what they are familiar with? Is it perhaps they find foreign men attractive? Is it sexually driven in any way? Is it because they want to give birth to mixed race children? Or is it all of the above? In your opinion, what is the main attraction for Thai women to foreign men?

[petermik]

I cannot speak for all Thai ladies obviously but mine thinks I,m the most hansum man she has ever seen.....

[JeffersLos]

12 minutes ago, petermik said:

I cannot speak for all Thai ladies

 

Don't worry, a few old Western men will be along to do exactly that right now. 

[Lacessit]

Women are attracted by power, looks, intelligence and money.

 

A Thai woman in a rural village would struggle to earn more than 4000 baht/month. IIRC a 7/11 worker earns about 9000 baht/month.

 

Most Western pensioners get 50,000 to 60,000 baht/month, without including any saved capital.

 

Draw your own conclusions.

 

 

[SoCal1990]

5 minutes ago, JeffersLos said:

 

Don't worry, a few old Western men will be along to do exactly that right now. 

And then you will get around 100 angry and frustrated posts from susanlea targeted purely at Western men as she crazily attempts to divert the topic away from the OP and into a tasteless pissing match. 

[Hummin]

«Necessity is the mother of invention» 

 

Women is not that smart obviously

 

[KannikaP]

3 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

And then you will get around 100 angry and frustrated posts from susanlea targeted purely at Western men as she crazily attempts to divert the topic away from the OP and into a tasteless pissing match. 

She?

[SoCal1990]

5 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

She?

Yes, mainly she attacks the Western men on the site for their lifestyles in Thailand. Rare to find another man that would do that so crazily and relentlessly, over 100 times per day. She was probably badly abused by her father as a child who was perhaps also an angry alcoholic. 

[MalcolmB]

It is our money and because we go down on them.

Thai males won’t lick because Buddhism teaches them that the head is sacred and should not be lowered to a dirty …..

 

Many women can not orgasm with penetrative sex alone.

 

 

[retarius]

Reading AN, I had the impression that no farang in Thailand (excepting me) was loved by his partner. I think the reason she loves me is a) because we didn't meet in Thailand b) because she had travelled and lived abroad and c) I am not an a$$h*le, although this has no independent back up. 

[retarius]

14 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

She?

Oh interesting, I had thought from her comments and her name she was a highly intelligent and not a feminazi woman. I have had fantasies about her. 

[Gottfrid]

[Gecko123]

Why many Thai women desire to marry foreign men?

 

The most common one I hear about is for purposes financial security.

Largely true. Travel opportunities, interest in living abroad as well.

 

Others will say it is because Thai men treat them so poorly.

One sided myth promulgated by bar girls to tug at 'white-knight' heart strings of gullible marks. Level of marital contentment in Thailand is likely higher than in many Western countries.

 

I realize there are also millions of Thai women who aren't interested in foreign men. True for the vast vast majority of Thai women.

 

Is there a chance they are simply attracted to something opposite to what they are familiar with?

Sure. Opposites attract. There is also a perception that foreign men are over-eager sexually and easily exploited financially which tilts the risk-reward equation in favor of being receptive to any overtures they might receive.

 

Is it perhaps they find foreign men attractive? Pop idols, movie stars, celebrities, athletes, sure. But this does not apply to vast majority of middle-aged sex-tourists/expats.

 

Is it sexually driven in any way? Let me put it this way: I don't think Thai women are as focused on male penis size as some posters on this forum seem to believe they are. You  read on this forum from time to time that Thai men suffer from penis envy over foreign men and that once a Thai woman has experienced  sex with a foreign man there is no going back to Thai men. As near as I can tell this is little more than on-line braggadocios self-flattery with little basis in truth.

 

Is it because they want to give birth to mixed race children? Towards the goal of giving birth to the next Miss Thailand? Rarely is this the case. The urge to have children with a foreign man is more often driven by the believe that bearing a child for the husband is a wifely duty,  the hope that this will make the man more committed to the relationship, or an awareness that offspring can sometimes qualify for generous welfare stipends from overseas in the event of the death of the foreign spouse. The idea that foreigners are seen as genetic winning lottery tickets is delusional. And the proof is in the fact that if this were the case, Thai men would be eagerly pursuing foreign women which is not the case.

 

What is the main attraction for Thai women to foreign men?

From my observation the qualities that Thai women most value in foreign men are a generous nature (and I don't mean that facetiously), being easy going and accommodating, a good sense of humor and sunny disposition. It is also my observation that Thai women do not like foreign men who are overly dependent on her for companionship or as a conversation partner, overly analytical, overly talkative, overly opinionated or overly controlling. And, no, I am not talking from personal experience, but rather from observation of dozens and dozens of Thai-Thai couples and Thai-foreign couples I have observed over the years in my village/town.

Edited July 23 by Gecko123

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

Yes, mainly she attacks the Western men on the site for their lifestyles in Thailand. Rare to find another man that would do that so crazily and relentlessly, over 100 times per day. She was probably badly abused by her father as a child who was perhaps also an angry alcoholic. 

He/She havent given any details about who he/she/ is, so why you speculate about the upbringing in such violent abusing way. Fiction at its best. 

 

You hate women? 

 

Better question why so many thai women find a western man who hate women, who is abusing,  drinking, swearing, smelling cheap poor and have absolutely no manners at all. 

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, retarius said:

Reading AN, I had the impression that no farang in Thailand (excepting me) was loved by his partner. I think the reason she loves me is a) because we didn't meet in Thailand b) because she had travelled and lived abroad and c) I am not an a$$h*le, although this has no independent back up. 

Kindness and future predictablity goes a long way to win a womans hearth in Thailand, the same the other way pluss 40 years younger, daily bj, less than 50kg and new in town is often enough to win a mans hearth

[FriscoKid]

10 minutes ago, Gecko123 said:

I don't think Thai women are as focused on male penis size

Totally agree. Unless a man has a micro penis, penis size is usually the least important aspect about sex for women. They are far more focused on whether the man provides them pleasure, doesn't hurt them (with a large penis), has good technique, is responsive to their sexual needs, is willing to explore their sexuality, is not selfish in bed, attempts to please them, etc. 

[FriscoKid]

39 minutes ago, SoCal1990 said:

And then you will get around 100 angry and frustrated posts from susanlea targeted purely at Western men as she crazily attempts to divert the topic away from the OP and into a tasteless pissing match. 

First post from her will likely be a 1-2 sentence entry to get the ball rolling which will be focused on how Thai women actually really hate foreign men. And then it will spiral from there. 

[Hummin]

5 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

Totally agree. Unless a man has a micro penis, penis size is usually the least important aspect about sex for women. They are far more focused on whether the man provides them pleasure, doesn't hurt them (with a large penis), has good technique, is responsive to their sexual needs, is willing to explore their sexuality, is not selfish in bed, attempts to please them, etc. 

Penis size is not the reason why western women marry either, but might be a reason for frustration later on 😉

[FriscoKid]

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Penis size is not the reason why western women marry either, but might be a reason for frustration later on 😉

Well, if you want to talk about underwhelming underachievers in this department in Thailand then best not overlook @bob smith

[FriscoKid]

28 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

That can't be @bob smith safe. His is much smaller and has endless free space. 

[a3tsw]

22 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Kindness and future predictablity goes a long way to win a womans hearth in Thailand, the same the other way pluss 40 years younger, daily bj, less than 50kg and new in town is often enough to win a mans hearth

A woman may win my hearth , but my mantelpiece will always be out of bounds ...🤣

[Mavideol]

they don't love foreign man, they love the piece of plastic with a brown stripe that foreign man carry  555

[Celsius]

53 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Women are attracted by power, looks, intelligence and money.

 

A Thai woman in a rural village would struggle to earn more than 4000 baht/month. IIRC a 7/11 worker earns about 9000 baht/month.

 

Most Western pensioners get 50,000 to 60,000 baht/month, without including any saved capital.

 

Draw your own conclusions.

 

 

 

I shall.

 

They are definitely attracted to real men and power. This is why they have several Thai brothers on backup to deal with the weak western foreign beta cuck who thinks he is all that just because he had a pension.

[FriscoKid]

Just now, Mavideol said:

they don't love foreign man, they love the piece of plastic with a brown stripe that foreign man carry  555

You mean condom wrappers?

[GammaGlobulin]

The answer is the same as for the question:

 

Why are white women so attracted to African Americans in the USA.

 

This question has not yet been satisfactorily answered.

 

But I would say, it's sort of an act of rebellion.

Also, women, when looking for a mate, definitely do engage in risk taking.

Must be a genetically-determined predisposition, is my guess.

 

 

[bob smith]

34 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

That can't be @bob smith safe. His is much smaller and has endless free space. 

another Chihuahua gnawing at the ankles of a Rottweiler...
 

ten a peny here.

 

bob. 

Edited July 23 by bob smith

[Terrance8812]

19 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Why are white women so attracted to African Americans in the USA.

Sounds like you are speaking from personal experience. Please give our regards to your African American male lover. 
 

 

Edited July 23 by Terrance8812

[connda]

I figured that question came from a sub-100 post AN user.  Yep. 

[GinBoy2]

Setting aside, the dirt poor woman young enough to be his daughter/granddaughter thing, I think we've done that scenario to death, there is a certain attraction of opposites.

 

I always look at San Francisco where I used to live. Walk down the street and probably 50% of the couples you see will be white male with some version of asian female.

 

Now obviously thats not a financial thing for most of them, but just some weird attraction thing. Same thing why are so many white women attracted to black guys?

 

So if you set aside the money, young woman old guy thing, and Yes, there are some of us married to Thai women our own age, I think it is just some evolutionary trick nature plays on us

[BigStar]

2 hours ago, Alpha84 said:

In your opinion, what is the main attraction for Thai women to foreign men?

 

Oh, same attraction as women have for men in your home country. Each woman has her own reasons for being attracted to a particular guy. "Millions" aren't attracted to foreign men in general. To Tom Cruise, yes. Fat-bellied, beer-swilling old expat mongers, no. Yawn.

Edited July 23 by BigStar