Best Way To Maintain A Healthy Sex Life As You Age?

[RSD1]

4 hours ago, Hummin said:

Penis ring is weird now

Post a link to the one that you use so that we can understand how and why. 

[JimTripper]

You're balls are always bouncing, to the left & to the right, always bouncing & dragging behind you on the street at night. Your balls keep bouncing all over my face, but it's those family jewels that I like best.

Edited September 5 by JimTripper

[georgegeorgia]

5 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

You're balls are always bouncing, to the left & to the right, always bouncing & dragging behind you on the street at night. Your balls keep bouncing all over my face, but it's those family jewels that I like best.

Oh absolutely disgusting 

[fredwiggy]

2 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

Sounds a bit sexist 

I don't believe in treating" women well "

,I'm sorry but we can't single out one Gender .

 

Not treating women well will come back to haunt you eventually, or you'll have to resort to paying for sex forever.

[RSD1]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

you'll have to resort to paying for sex forever.

Please explain better about how that works. 

[JimTripper]

48 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

Please explain better about how that works. 

Ever hear of the tf dating app? 🤣

Edited September 5 by JimTripper

[xeniv23]

23 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

In Thailand, there are many options to maintain a good sex life as you get older. When we were young it was a lot simpler. It didn’t take much thought or planning and it seemed like pleasure was to be had easily, but it becomes more complex as you age. Some will say having a loving and caring wife is now the best way. Others will say that’s not the case. Some people will say it’s best to stay single, date a lot, and play the field. Many think the best way is to just P4P and/or go short time when you want it and to avoid any emotional involvement or commitments. Some simply don’t want to look after someone else and choose some sort of freestyle option. And some might think having some sort of young mistress, where you pay all of her expenses, in exchange for some sex whenever you need it, is the best. Personally I prefer no commitments and to stay free and go with the flow. It seems to suit my solitary lifestyle the best, but I still say to each his own.

 

NOTE: If you are one of those men who feels sex is overrated, don’t need it anymore, never enjoyed it, your equipment doesn’t function, don’t care, etc, then please kindly spare us all your off-topic comments as this topic is purely about maintaining a healthy sex life rather than about abstaining. 

Picasso said it best "The best aphrodisiac is a new woman."  If you know, you know.  

[Hummin]

2 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Post a link to the one that you use so that we can understand how and why. 

Simular to this one, and a few other silikon rings

 

Purpose and function 

https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-a-cock-ring-used-for

 

https://www.amazon.com/GOESKBA-Silicone-Sports-Penis-Penile/dp/B0CJ8MZY1N

[Celsius]

3 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Post actual photos. This drawing doesn't show you as the bedroom bully that you are claiming to be. 
 

 

Post the actual photos? Yeah, just for you weirdo.

[Nick Carter icp]

4 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

Very lucky that wifey also likes to be slapped around, so that helps too.

 

   Do you enjoy slapping her around ?

[RSD1]

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Simular to this one, and a few other silikon rings

 

Purpose and function 

https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-a-cock-ring-used-for

 

https://www.amazon.com/GOESKBA-Silicone-Sports-Penis-Penile/dp/B0CJ8MZY1N

susanlea sent me this link via PM. says they work better and that they are even bob smith tested on soi 6/1 and approved . 

 

https://www.lazada.co.th/products/4cm2-30-fashion-hair-accessories-i1659138153-s10802457995.html 

[RSD1]

39 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Post the actual photos? Yeah, just for you weirdo.

Never mind, she sent them to me earlier. Your little nugget is so small and underwhelming that no surprise you feel so frustrated in the bedroom. 

[StreetCowboy]

Best way to maintain a healthy sex life as you age?
Accept that, when viewed from the right, you'll look like Popeye.

 

Should I have posted that on the DIY forum?

[SoCal1990]

On 9/5/2024 at 12:59 AM, soi3eddie said:

She is sexy AF and the feeling of closeness and togetherness is great. 2 or 3 times a week is perfectly enjoyable and enough for both of us.

Very nice. Good for you. Seems you've discovered something that works good. How long have you two been married now?

[SoCal1990]

23 hours ago, Hummin said:

Cialis or viagra

 

This is how to maintain and  keep your sex life alive

You talk about eating healthy, to exercise your brain and muscles, so it sounds like you're advocating a healthy lifestyle and then you suggest using drugs that could be potentially dangerous. It doesn't match up. 

 

In addition, why do you assume that everybody needs those drugs in order to maintain and keep their sex life alive? Certainly there are many men who also don't need those drugs as they age.
 

Also, not everyone needs hormone replacement either. A friend of mine (who is nearly 60 years old) still has natural testosterone levels that are above 1000. 
 

Edited September 5 by SoCal1990

[Enoon]

On 9/4/2024 at 3:37 PM, SoCal1990 said:

In Thailand, there are many options to maintain a good sex life as you get older. When we were young it was a lot simpler. It didn’t take much thought or planning and it seemed like pleasure was to be had easily, but it becomes more complex as you age. Some will say having a loving and caring wife is now the best way. Others will say that’s not the case. Some people will say it’s best to stay single, date a lot, and play the field. Many think the best way is to just P4P and/or go short time when you want it and to avoid any emotional involvement or commitments. Some simply don’t want to look after someone else and choose some sort of freestyle option. And some might think having some sort of young mistress, where you pay all of her expenses, in exchange for some sex whenever you need it, is the best. Personally I prefer no commitments and to stay free and go with the flow. It seems to suit my solitary lifestyle the best, but I still say to each his own.

 

NOTE: If you are one of those men who feels sex is overrated, don’t need it anymore, never enjoyed it, your equipment doesn’t function, don’t care, etc, then please kindly spare us all your off-topic comments as this topic is purely about maintaining a healthy sex life rather than about abstaining. 

 

Unposted

 

 

Edited September 5 by Enoon

[fredwiggy]

14 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

This is very easy. Just have sex often! Like 1-2 times a day. That´ll take care of the release and exercise so not get stiff in more than one place when get older.

That could get very expensive for you

[Gottfrid]

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That could get very expensive for you

Why? My wife and I have a very active sex life. After 12 years together we still find new ways and new places.

[Prubangboy]

I really wish hookers could get me hard. My ultimate conclusion is that if I want to have sex with someone who's super-not into me, I have 2 ex-wives to dial up.

 

I envy the powerful suspension of disbelief I read about here. A 5 who's into me trumps a 9 who just wants a nice handbag. Posters like RDS and Yagoda are my idols.

 

In the meantime, I'm waxing it twice a day until I eventually fall into some kind of situation ship. I have the prostate of an 18 year old boy. Thank god he doesn't want it back.

 

I'm going to an Internations Org. meet up tonight to try my luck. I hear that where the white women over 40 in Bangkok congregate like impalas around a watering hole.

 

Am I risking physical injury by informing retard-fist fight threatening Susan as to my whereabouts? If it comes down to it, I'll just say I'm not me. 

 

And then whisper "40 baht gym" to him just as the elevator doors close.

[Prubangboy]

34 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

After 12 years together we still find new ways and new places.

If you have somehow discovered a new orifice, please claim your Noble Prize.

 

Ear's don't count, you can barely get in.

[Gottfrid]

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

If you have somehow discovered a new orifice, please claim your Noble Prize.

 

Ear's don't count, you can barely get in.

That has nothing to do with what I posted. The only thing you managed, was to ridicule yourself and showing off poor knowledge about the subject.

[Prubangboy]

Time to wish you well with your wife and avoid your humorless self forever?

 

Please be less English. It's killing you.

[Celsius]

8 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Never mind, she sent them to me earlier. Your little nugget is so small and underwhelming that no surprise you feel so frustrated in the bedroom. 

 

You were checking me out?

 

Wow

[john donson]

On 9/4/2024 at 9:57 PM, maesariang said:

34yo and on pills

 

my ex claims she had 25 year olds on viagra... maybe it was her, that they needed the help......loooooooool

[simon43]

Best thing I ever did was to buy a Chinese sex doll...

[Grumpy one]

On 9/4/2024 at 9:51 PM, Nick Carter icp said:

Get yourself a dog 

Get a grip on yourself

 

[Hummin]

8 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

You talk about eating healthy, to exercise your brain and muscles, so it sounds like you're advocating a healthy lifestyle and then you suggest using drugs that could be potentially dangerous. It doesn't match up. 

 

In addition, why do you assume that everybody needs those drugs in order to maintain and keep their sex life alive? Certainly there are many men who also don't need those drugs as they age.
 

Also, not everyone needs hormone replacement either. A friend of mine (who is nearly 60 years old) still has natural testosterone levels that are above 1000. 
 

TRT is required hopefully via an specialist since it is a medicine for those with low T.

 

If your sex life declines, it is normal to check your hormones, same for women, just to rule out or find it necessary. 

 

Hormone replacement will be more and more used in the future for better health

[4MyEgo]

On 9/5/2024 at 12:37 AM, SoCal1990 said:

but it becomes more complex as you age.

 

Not for me, I am in my mid 60's and sex is like eating for me, wife of 2 decades still going strong, say twice a week, yes we have slowed down, kids and all, but when I need to eat something sweet, I will go and find it.

 

I don't take any kind of Kamagra, Viagra or Cialis, not good for the heart I hear and while I still rise to the occasion, no need.

 

My way in maintaining a great sex life and a good boner is to eat healthy, exercise regularly to get the blood flowing, don't smoke or drink a lot, take some supplements, like Zink etc, and don't stress or worry whether you will rise to the occasion or not.

 

It also helps to take a young filly on the side every now and again to boost your ego, funny that....LOL, but seriously, it helps to get to know the filly a little before rushing her back to your room for a potential let down, I have been known to take 2 visits before taking one back to my room.

 

When the day comes that I cannot rise to the occasion, that is going to be a real downer for me, so to speak 🙂

 

[soi3eddie]

12 hours ago, SoCal1990 said:

Very nice. Good for you. Seems you've discovered something that works good. How long have you two been married now?

 

Not married (and will not) - maybe that's why all is good. Together 4 years.

 

[RSD1]

7 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

Posters like RDS and Yagoda are my idols.

TBH, girls on the game aren't always a perfect solution either. There are obvious downsides, many in fact, but nothing is perfect in this world and there are a lot of benefits if your need is mainly physical and you don't want any further involvement or hassles. 
 

With P4P it does mainly have the downside of being both (often) very mechanical and routine. Especially if you are going short time with about 1 hour on the clock. I'm also usually quite high when I do it. That helps a lot to relax me more and increase the level of fantasy when it's time to get going. Otherwise, it often feels too stark and sterile if I'm not high and I might overthink the routine aspect of it if I were straight. I did it straight for decades, but now I can't imagine being straight for it anymore. It would seem a bit too mundane. 
 

The short time aspect also adds a bit of pressure. Meaning you've got 1 hour to deliver or time is up. You could spend more time with them, but I really rather not. So I accept the time limit and don't always deliver a payload in time, but that's fine for me too. Sometimes the thrill of a new encounter, a sexy body, and the human touch is more than good enough. I count my blessings. Many men don't even have an option like that available. And something you can't get out of a computer screen and a bottle of slippery goo.

 

 

Edited September 6 by RSD1