Short Time: Dream or Dilemma?

[RSD1]

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Anyway, the real reason most choose ST only, is most likely because of the money they think they have to spend to keep the relationship going in an healthy way. 

For many the money isn't the real consideration. It's the variety, freedom, and no grief aspects mentioned in the OP that draws many into that ST lifestyle exclusively. Also, there will be times a GF may not be in the mood, or the painters might be in town, all potential cockblock events. But with ST that's never a problem. 

[Celsius]

5 hours ago, JK-Trilly said:

But then again, with a girlfriend comes the flip side: the costs

 

Only if you are stupid.

 

 

[Yagoda]

Im almost 70. I could have my pick of thousands and thousands of 40 year old woman as a "girlfriend" in less than 5 minutes.

 

Then I would have some wrinkled old hag in my bed every night, I would have to feed her and buy stuff for her, she will b*tch at me for smoking weed, I will have to bathe every day, I wouldnt be able to fart in bed, my sex life would just go nowhere when I just have to look at some  crone, Leonard DiCaprio is right.

 

Far better for me to give a 20 year old 2500 while ushering her to the door. Then grab a ham sandwich, smoke a doobie and fart.

[RSD1]

8 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Then grab a ham sandwich, smoke a doobie and fart.

I'm confused, I thought the tart was the ham sandwich and that her smoking your doobie is normally a standard part of the service? Farting is also useful to get them to leave. 

[Hummin]

19 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

For many the money isn't the real consideration. It's the variety, freedom, and no grief aspects mentioned in the OP that draws many into that ST lifestyle exclusively. Also, there will be times a GF may not be in the mood, or the painters might be in town, all potential cockblock events. But with ST that's never a problem. 

 

Being in an relationship doesn't need to be all negative, and most relationships I have been in, I have only good memories, except one miserable one, which I managed to put behind me. 

 

Anyway it takes two to tango, so better leaving it there. 

 

We do not have the same backgrounds, values, or desires. I thrive in relationships being two, so that's me after being traveling for work and sports, I enjoy being two, and solve everyday  small mysterious be it pleasure or challenges.

 

One night stands have never applied to me really, even I had enough where ever I went for work or sports. One night stands, not hookers.

[NanLaew]

5 hours ago, JoseThailand said:

Generations of farangs have been pondering on this dilemma

 

And then AI came along and pondered it more.

[Hummin]

16 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Im almost 70. I could have my pick of thousands and thousands of 40 year old woman as a "girlfriend" in less than 5 minutes.

 

Then I would have some wrinkled old hag in my bed every night, I would have to feed her and buy stuff for her, she will b*tch at me for smoking weed, I will have to bathe every day, I wouldnt be able to fart in bed, my sex life would just go nowhere when I just have to look at some  crone, Leonard DiCaprio is right.

 

Far better for me to give a 20 year old 2500 while ushering her to the door. Then grab a ham sandwich, smoke a doobie and fart.

Why can not fart in the bed? Even Queen of England did fart in the bed, 

 

Growing old together is art, beautiful art, and can with my hand on my hearth, say I love my wife more today, soon 10 years older than I met her. 

 

But if that's your mindset, I understand that's impossible for you to do

[NanLaew]

4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

Really?

For many it seems to be a mix of new girls, and if one of them is especially existing, then more of the same for a couple of times, and then a mix again.

 

Advice posted many years ago on the pattaya addicts forum suggested that real mongers never go back for seconds.

[ModdaPunk]

6 hours ago, JK-Trilly said:

For those of you who’ve experienced trying both sides, what do you think?

 

I've tried both sides.

Staying away from women altogether is your best bet.

J3rk off and retain your peace and money.

 

Edited 6 hours ago by ModdaPunk

[NanLaew]

29 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Im almost 70. I could have my pick of thousands and thousands of 40 year old woman as a "girlfriend" in less than 5 minutes.

 

Then I would have some wrinkled old hag in my bed every night, I would have to feed her and buy stuff for her, she will b*tch at me for smoking weed, I will have to bathe every day, I wouldnt be able to fart in bed, my sex life would just go nowhere when I just have to look at some  crone, Leonard DiCaprio is right.

 

Far better for me to give a 20 year old 2500 while ushering her to the door. Then grab a ham sandwich, smoke a doobie and fart.

 

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, alien365 said:

The problem with short time is knowing how many men they've been with, maybe even within the same day. I'm really not comfortable with going down on a woman like that and a condom is a must.

 

Why would you want to go down on someone you are paying to please you?

[Yagoda]

31 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Why can not fart in the bed? Even Queen of England did fart in the bed, 

 

Growing old together is art, beautiful art, and can with my hand on my hearth, say I love my wife more today, soon 10 years older than I met her. 

 

But if that's your mindset, I understand that's impossible for you to do

Growing old alone is bad enough, all I need to make it worse is some shrieking hag I have been watching morph into a shapeless lump to share my adventure..

[Yagoda]

42 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

I'm confused, I thought the tart was the ham sandwich and that her smoking your doobie is normally a standard part of the service? Farting is also useful to get them to leave. 

If I fart its 50/50 Ill be in the shower promptly, thereafter.I may be repulsive but I have a modicum of decency. Fart alone I say

[Yagoda]

18 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

 

Why would you want to go down on someone you are paying to please you?

Ladyboy lovers.

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Growing old alone is bad enough, all I need to make it worse is some shrieking hag I have been watching morph into a shapeless lump to share my adventure..

I do not see myself alone when getting older, and I'm still "young", her getting older, I really do not mind at all, as long she is a wife that works with me, and makes the best out of it, so we both can be good to each other. That's what matters, caring for each other, and trying our best. Can't ask for more

[scubascuba3]

I prefer short time, one day maybe I'll switch to a girlfriend but now no need, certainly I don't want to be dragging one round 24/7.

 

As long as you are busy enough, have friends, social interaction there's no need for a girlfriend, certainly not a wife

[Hummin]

Another thing, most people I connect with, are in relationships, lives decent lives, either working or have hobbies. A few run hotel and restaurants, and as far I know, non of them frequently visit beer bars, but I do not know, or how could I know.

 

And they have healthy opinions on women in general, and doesn't seems to be corrupted or poisoned by earlier experiences. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Hummin

[OneMoreFarang]

39 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

 

Advice posted many years ago on the pattaya addicts forum suggested that real mongers never go back for seconds.

But what is she is great?

[BritManToo]

49 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

Advice posted many years ago on the pattaya addicts forum suggested that real mongers never go back for seconds.

I've always done that too ...........

If it was memorable, best to not pollute that memory with less memorable encounters.

[Gottfrid]

4 hours ago, JoseThailand said:

 

Another google translator

No, it´s stands in the article connected to that image. Has been in the news a lot.

[Utalk2mutt]

7 hours ago, NickyLouie said:

 

I seriously doubt that’s likely to impress any Thai female. They don’t really appreciate the use of the last word there. There are words you could use which are at least a little more polite. Use of that pronoun when referring to yourself  isn’t overly clever either.

[2long]

1 hour ago, Yagoda said:

Im almost 70. I could have my pick of thousands and thousands of 40 year old woman as a "girlfriend" in less than 5 minutes.

 

Then I would have some wrinkled old hag in my bed every night, I would have to feed her and buy stuff for her, she will b*tch at me for smoking weed, I will have to bathe every day, I wouldnt be able to fart in bed, my sex life would just go nowhere when I just have to look at some  crone, Leonard DiCaprio is right.

 

Far better for me to give a 20 year old 2500 while ushering her to the door. Then grab a ham sandwich, smoke a doobie and fart.

You should be showering twice a day regardless of who you're living, sleeping with, or not.

[scubascuba3]

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

 

Advice posted many years ago on the pattaya addicts forum suggested that real mongers never go back for seconds.

I did that for a while after experiencing follow up encounters just never as good, but more recently I've had better follow ups, but generally the excitement first time is the best

[Hummin]

Is it the same going back to the same restaurants, or finding new places all the time? Or bars for that sake? We or some of us tend to make a structure in life where we create patterns, and are kind of predictable. 

 

By using the same services we also create a base of friends, or acquaintances who or we benefit from, no matter if we have anything in common or not. Being friends with hotel managers and restaurants, means you pay for friendships, but you might be lucky and get some benefits too, a bottle of good wine once and awhile, company and also cheaper stay at hotels, especially during low season. 

 

Relationships are give and take, and also making compromises where you do things you really didn't want to or needed for your own sake, but your friends enjoy it, or your woman does, as much she has to follow me everywhere I go, because I like to do. 

 

It used to be my way or the highway, because everything was about me, my work, my sports, and my interests, but that was not especially satisfying in the long run, and I came to the point where I had to learn to do things differently to make my life more interesting without being egoistic in everything I did in my life. Takes a life crises to realise, at least for me

[georgegeorgia]

3 hours ago, Yagoda said:

Im almost 70. I could have my pick of thousands and thousands of 40 year old woman as a "girlfriend" in less than 5 minutes.

 

Then I would have some wrinkled old hag in my bed every night, I would have to feed her and buy stuff for her, she will b*tch at me for smoking weed, I will have to bathe every day, I wouldnt be able to fart in bed, my sex life would just go nowhere when I just have to look at some  crone, Leonard DiCaprio is right.

 

Far better for me to give a 20 year old 2500 while ushering her to the door. Then grab a ham sandwich, smoke a doobie and fart.

Absolutely beautiful!

Lol ,love it 

May I screenshot this and keep this everytime I get lonely read it 

Thankyou my friend I love you 

[georgegeorgia]

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

I did that for a while after experiencing follow up encounters just never as good, but more recently I've had better follow ups, but generally the excitement first time is the best

What "words" do you have to describe it ,any new ones? 

[timendres]

4 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Going down is relatively low risk. Many men are also now on PrEP, which prevents HIV transmission. Much less risk now without condom. 

 

An associate once said, "I wouldn't touch one unless I was wearing a wetsuit".

[NickyLouie]

3 hours ago, Utalk2mutt said:

I seriously doubt that’s likely to impress any Thai female. They don’t really appreciate the use of the last word there. There are words you could use which are at least a little more polite. Use of that pronoun when referring to yourself  isn’t overly clever either.

 

Is this your tattoo ?

[Utalk2mutt]

1 minute ago, NickyLouie said:

 

Is this your tattoo ?

No I’m an adult not a child.

[spidermike007]

Short time is one of the greatest ideas in the history of mankind and works on so many levels, for so many men. Granted, if you do want that emotional connection then a relationship is probably the answer. It also has to do with your financial status, I think it's safe to say that any relationship here in Thailand is going to cost upwards of $1,000 a month, if you take into account all the expenses associated with having a woman, taking care of that woman, health, cosmetics, food, clothes, travel, etc. etc. So, only guys with extra pocket change can even consider it.

 

I know a lot of guys who have limited budgets and they find that short time works really well for them, even though they do hunger for some kind of connection from time to time. 

 

I also know guys who have very fulfilling relationships but they've been with the same woman for a long time, and at a certain point in time the sex gets pretty dull, so they still engage in very discreet short time, and it seems to be a pretty ideal formula for the right guy. It doesn't work for guys that are hampered by unnecessary emotions like guilt.