Why do so many Thai prostitutes marry their customers?

[transam]

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

most bars I have been, they hardly went with any customers, so depending on where you are. Even the Hotel manager had more bf than the girls in the bars 🙂

I think MalB goes for the 3 a day ladies, has to queue, but suits his pocket......

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, Fortunateson said:

I am thankful that I do not have enough experience in the whore world. You however, wear it as a mark of pride.  Reality - Having an intimate knowledge of nana plaza and its environs us a bizarre thing to take pride in. 

 

Then why do you pretend to have experience as seen in your previous post?

 

3 hours ago, Fortunateson said:

Nonsense.  You are trying to create this picture of Thai prostitutes being different, perpetuating your past remarks about them having a kind of “innocence”.  Reality is that they are prostitutes, having sex for money - nothing more, nothing less.  Do you really think that only having sex with one man a night makes them less of a prostitute?  Further, they are close to the lowest social class in an undeveloped country and would not be touched by the average Thai man, only by peasants, construction workers, etc. Uncultured, uneducated and lacking any social skills - probably only learned to eat with utensils after they came to Bangkok. 

 

Maybe stick to topics where you actually have some knowledge.

 

And in case you missed it, lots of people in Thailand enjoy the company of Thai girls. It's fun. If you don't want that, or you only care about the so-called good girls, that is fine. The rest of us enjoyed the good and the bad girls. 😉 

[Hummin]

24 minutes ago, transam said:

I think MalB goes for the 3 a day ladies, has to queue, but suits his pocket......

3 min include shower 300,- baht? 

[NightSky]

The op makes many assumptions and is showing naivety. Too many to mention here, only time and experience can help. 

[Hummin]

19 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

Then why do you pretend to have experience as seen in your previous post?

 

Maybe stick to topics where you actually have some knowledge.

 

And in case you missed it, lots of people in Thailand enjoy the company of Thai girls. It's fun. If you don't want that, or you only care about the so-called good girls, that is fine. The rest of us enjoyed the good and the bad girls. 😉 

When you want a plumber, do you call an electrician? 

[NanLaew]

2 hours ago, Fortunateson said:

I am thankful that I do not have enough experience in the whore world. You however, wear it as a mark of pride.  Reality - Having an intimate knowledge of nana plaza and its environs us a bizarre thing to take pride in. 

 

having intimate knowledge of nana plaza and its invirons has saved me a fortune

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Most girls in Kinaree also aimed for at least three per day. 

 

And the ones that didn't wear panties fared a lot better.

 

...or so I've been told.

[NanLaew]

42 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

Then why do you pretend to have experience as seen in your previous post?

 

 

Maybe stick to topics where you actually have some knowledge.

 

And in case you missed it, lots of people in Thailand enjoy the company of Thai girls. It's fun. If you don't want that, or you only care about the so-called good girls, that is fine. The rest of us enjoyed the good and the bad girls. 😉 

 

More recently, farang lonelyhearts have been charmed by the more respectable, early middle-aged and well kept Thai spinsters with a good government job and a guaranteed pension.

 

Then they find the car she drives him around in and the house they share is hocked to the eyeballs and she's only got 10 more years of her paltry government stipend with no hope of keeping car and house long enough to reach pension age.

[BE88]

1 hour ago, transam said:

Nice to read something from probably your own experience........

 

Sorry to disappoint you but you certainly with this answer

[baansgr]

4 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

You accept the fact you are a loser.

What's yours.. a beautician or a politician...? If course she's not a prosi

[baansgr]

32 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

 

More recently, farang lonelyhearts have been charmed by the more respectable, early middle-aged and well kept Thai spinsters with a good government job and a guaranteed pension.

 

Then they find the car she drives him around in and the house they share is hocked to the eyeballs and she's only got 10 more years of her paltry government stipend with no hope of keeping car and house long enough to reach pension age.

Exactly, a mate said his Mrs has a car and thought he hit the bullseye. Thai friendly is 100% hookers..all of them

[baansgr]

4 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Aqua Deymie it was!!!

One customer threw a whole lot of ten baht coins in the pool. The average looking four all stripped off and jumped in to retrieve them. They were not really good swimmers though, it took them a fair bit of effort.
 

The cum drenched stunner refrained though, I don’t think she wanted to redo her makeup.

And black pearl and white Oyster befor that

[Hummin]

Do anyof you guys who make all this hooker threads, and experts who answer the treads, ever bin in a relationship? 

[rckmc]

On 11/17/2024 at 2:45 PM, SAFETY FIRST said:

They're desperate. 

 

Most of these Thai women that are working in the sex industry marry these guys because they have no choice.

 

Living in the village, these girls have a baby, the child's loser father has abandoned her, she doesn't receive welfare payments or social security from the government, nor does the Thai government garnish the fathers wages. 

 

It's practical, it's food on the table and makes sense for her to marry a foreigner. 

 

I notice a lot of Thai women are dating Russian men. One playing the short game and the other playing the long game. Not a good match up.

[MalcolmB]

2 hours ago, transam said:

And MalcolmB really is the voice of experience..........

Some of us don’t sit at home all day looking out fake French doors listening to a grandfather clock ticking the countdown of the final months of a miserable life and uneventful life.

[MalcolmB]

26 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Do anyof you guys who make all this hooker threads, and experts who answer the treads, ever bin in a relationship? 

Nah, but I am hoping to meet someone soon.

[MalcolmB]

2 hours ago, transam said:

I think MalB goes for the 3 a day ladies, has to queue, but suits his pocket......

I have found if I go third it reduces the amount of I have to spend on the foreplay.

I can usually bring them to an orgasm within ten minutes.

 

 

[john donson]

 

[Celsius]

2 hours ago, baansgr said:

What's yours.. a beautician or a politician...? If course she's not a prosi

 

No, she is Chinese with MBA and a great job 🥰

 

Go ahead with the Batman slap meme which will make you really intelligent among your barstool crew, handing out wisdom like it's free puss

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[CallumWK]

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I have found if I go third it reduces the amount of I have to spend on the foreplay.

I can usually bring them to an orgasm within ten minutes.

 

 

 

If only you knew the difference between a real and fake orgasm.

From your response it is obvious you don't, most likely because you never experienced a real female orgasm

[freedomnow]

= because they really know how to SHAG.

[Patong2021]

Another tale about the lower socio economic demographic.  The men's profile is one of limited education, minimal to modest financial status  at best and rooted in the social class that has no power, nor influence, and usually they have a history of failed social relationships, typically  estranged from family and having  few if any close reliable friends. This makes them more likely to accept a prostitute as a spouse.   Some of the men may be nice people, even hospitable and kind sometimes, but usually the men and their ladies share an exclusion from society and gravitate to each other for survival.

 

It makes for nice entertainment, but the reality is that they are social pariahs and must remain in their "untouchable" social circle, forever forbidden from entering broader society. Thailand has social levels and one only gains social advancement through wealth and position over generations. Marrying a prostitute or a fat middle aged (or older) low status farang forever locks such people in the lower strata. Their children start at a crippling disadvantage.  Usually, they are unaware of this, but it doesn't really matter because they are happy for however long the relationship lasts, which usually is until the Thai spouse finds a way to siphon the  wealth from the farang. 

 

[Qld4000]

On 11/17/2024 at 5:15 PM, novacova said:

Maybe because it’s easier for them to have just one customer.

The question should be, why do so many customers marry a low hanging catch of a prostitute when there are so many good well educated hard working women woman here. Personally I just don’t get it, though I suppose some guys are too lazy and are not up to the task of it.

Well, because the desperate & dateless old bottom feeders wouldn’t be on the radar of decent, well presented educated women anywhere.    So, they come to classless dumps like Pattaya & trawl for street whores.    Beggars can’t be choosers.    

[scubascuba3]

8 hours ago, Hummin said:

Do anyof you guys who make all this hooker threads, and experts who answer the treads, ever bin in a relationship? 

Yeah but it's over rated, some guys need to drag girls around, needy

[thaibeachlovers]

On 11/17/2024 at 7:46 PM, MalcolmB said:

I went to a friend of a friend’s wedding on Friday night in Pattaya. 
 

Nearly everyone attending was a farang with a thai wife or girlfriend. A few kids.

 

Everyone was reasonably well behaved until the booze started flowing when things started getting messy and the women’s true colors started showing up. 
 

It was fairly obvious that nearly every one of them was a former bar girl, most were tattooed, they got sleazier and louder as the night wore on both verbally and physically.

 

It was a fun night. 
 

I was thinking about half of them were not showing much or any respect to their husbands. It appeared the more drunk some of them got the less they liked their husbands and were not even pretending to like them.
Almost like they were trying to start trouble with their husbands/boyfriends which put me on edge a bit. Very touchy feely.
 

They seem to have chosen a life where they have to spend most of their time with men they don’t really like. An underlying tension that comes out when they are drunk?

 

Why is it that so many prostitutes in Thailand marry their customers? There are prostitutes in probably every country in the world, but I have never seen this before, it seems a uniquely Thai phenomenon. There must be thousands of them. 
 

Why is it so different in Thailand?

 

ps. The dowry was 200,000 and some gold. The wife was a stunner. An oldie, but a goodie. Nice big set of bolt-ons.
 

 

 

 

Your overweaning sense of superiority is showing.

 

I suspect that any large grouping of couples anywhere in the world will have a similar number of couples that can't stand each other , but are staying together for various reasons. Alcohol has the effect of allowing true feelings to emerge.

 

You don't seem to have much knowledge of prostitution around the world. No penalty for not doing so, but it leads one to erroneous conclusions.

It's no mystery to most why Thai prostitutes so often marry customers.

 

You don't mention if the sin sod got returned, and it likely was. It's mostly for show these days.

[thaibeachlovers]

58 minutes ago, Qld4000 said:

Well, because the desperate & dateless old bottom feeders wouldn’t be on the radar of decent, well presented educated women anywhere.    So, they come to classless dumps like Pattaya & trawl for street whores.    Beggars can’t be choosers.    

How is the air up there in your ivory tower?

 

Another one that probably never even played connect 4 with a BG pontificates on a subject he knows zero about.

[baansgr]

8 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

No, she is Chinese with MBA and a great job 🥰

 

Go ahead with the Batman slap meme which will make you really intelligent among your barstool crew, handing out wisdom like it's free puss

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So a more expensive prostitute....well done

[Walker88]

I come to threads like this for the oozing and unctuous sanctimony. Luscious! I'm late to the game here, but what the heck....I'll post.

 

I'm going to guess that the "bargirls" who marry foreigners do so for the exact same reasons any Thai woman marries a foreigner....some combination of money, security, familiarity and affection. Zero difference between so-called "good girls" and bargirls, despite the table pounding to the contrary.

 

Unless one is a celebrity or centi-millionaire, few if any top tier, creme de la creme, hi-so Thai women with a good education are going to pair up with a foreigner. What's left in the marriage pool for foreigners---from what I read here and know from chatting with expats in Thailand, the foreigners here come from failed 'back home' marriages---are women who absolutely were in the trade, probably were in the trade, might have been in the trade, or those who dallied out of horny-ness. The self-claimed morally superior foreigners make some distinction between women who had sex for money and women who had sex because they were horny. The difference escapes me.

 

I'm sure some will claim they married a Thai virgin. Good luck to you, is what I say, as my times with virgins were back in my own teens, and I do not remember those trysts as being noteworthy. The last thing I would seek in a spouse or partner is virginity, something wildly overrated and best left to religious fantasies about deities. I am not a virgin, so I would never be so hypocritical as to demand virginity in a spouse. I'm also confident enough in my own masculinity that I think I can provide what she needs between the sheets.

 

I smile when I read about "uneducated", when referring to bargirls. Is the Thai education system so powerful that one can spot the difference between a woman who completed 8 years of school and one who completed even a Thai university degree program? I haven't seen that. A few years ago I read an article that the top Thai university was rated the #418 university....in ASIA. That leads me to conclude, perhaps in error, that few outsiders could tell the difference in education between any bargirl and a local uni grad. The Thai women educated in a foreign country might have better chops, but they likely also come from hi-so families, and thus tend to marry other hi-so, well-educated Thai men.

 

As a bit of an aside, I employ in my business many Thai women with university degrees. They have told me that among their friends---the attractive ones in particular---most all did 'sideline' work while in university, generally with a Thai businessman or politician. Some did it for money, some for the excitement, some just to get a little extra cash to buy something Mom and Dad would not buy for them. Not all attractive Thai women dallied, of course, but a surprising number have. I know "yours" never did, so don't think I'm implying otherwise.

 

Before anyone asks, no, I do not have a bargirl spouse or girlfriend. Admittedly I have entered agogos from time to time and have met and spoken with women in those establishments (some of whom are paying for university with their earnings, by the way). One thing I have concluded is that they seem to have better social skills than women who never entered the trade. These women have had to develop ways to appeal to a wide range of men from a wide range of cultures. The women have 'people skills'. Also, a bargirl is as likely to have an above average IQ (brains are the sexiest part of a woman) as a "normy". I have met women in bars who are absolute kicks in terms of personality, so fun to be around they have become friends without benefits. Since I never walked in the bargirl's flip flops, I cannot make a value judgement on what path she decided to take to earn a living. There but for the grace of Zeus.......

 

Marriages fail all the time. As I noted above, the average expat in Thailand came from a failed marriage or two back home, and let's be honest...it wasn't always the woman's fault. He is just as likely to fail again, whether he ties up with a bargirl or "normy".

 

All that matters is what both parties do when they agree to be together. What they did yesterday, no matter how many sex partners they had for whatever reason, is irrelevant. Only what both do from today matters. I really doubt the bargirl is more likely to cheat than the normy, nor more likely to cheat than her foreigner hubby. Others will disagree.

 

Unless a man is a total failure back home, it's still likely he is in a much better financial position than any Thai woman with whom he develops a relationship, so whether bargirl or normy, money and financial security is one of the incentives for the woman. Also, sometimes people just hit it off; they get along enough to have a desire to try to make something more permanent.

 

Now the OP did not ask this, but I will answer: Would I ever consider marrying a bargirl? Yes, if I fell in love and believed she loved me in return....kind of like any relationship anywhere. Imagine that! Would that make me a lo-so? As Oscar Wilde once said, "People may boo me, but when I go home and think of my money, I applaud myself." If someone judges the woman I love because of her past, then I do not want to associate with that 'morally superior' person. If I'm happy, then eff those who look down on me and my chosen partner. I'm not into 'face'; I live my life for my own enjoyment, not the approval of others.

 

For those who insist on wearing their moral superiority on their sleeve, collect your bonus points and try to cash them in when you're on your death bed. Both you and I will just be wormfood, whether you've followed some fake and sanctimonious moral code or just loved whom you loved.

 

 

[Celsius]

2 hours ago, baansgr said:

So a more expensive prostitute....well done

 

Oops...triggered 

 

Keep paying the salary

 

it really gets boring with you disease spreading sexpats.

[transam]

12 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Some of us don’t sit at home all day looking out fake French doors listening to a grandfather clock ticking the countdown of the final months of a miserable life and uneventful life.

Nor do I, and I don't sit here making up baiting threads then go sit with the girlies on a bar stool...🤭