How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)

[Mark Nothing]

Likely this jezebel has the two children from two different fathers.  If she ruined the prior two relationships what makes you think she won't do it to you too?

 

The divorce stats are interesting.  With each additional marriage the divorce rate gets higher and higher.  Almost like they are intentionally luring the next victim into the predator's lair.

 

My recommendation would be to extract yourself from this nightmare scenario before she ruins your life.

[hotandsticky]

3 minutes ago, Mark Nothing said:

Likely this jezebel has the two children from two different fathers.  If she ruined the prior two relationships what makes you think she won't do it to you too?

 

The divorce stats are interesting.  With each additional marriage the divorce rate gets higher and higher.  Almost like they are intentionally luring the next victim into the predator's lair.

 

My recommendation would be to extract yourself from this nightmare scenario before she ruins your life.

 

 

Not judgemental at all then?

 

Understand that many couples, especially in rural areas, are not legally married.

 

 

What does a 'village wedding' do to your stats?

[atpeace]

46 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Try the approach we used, we agreed to pay a 400,000 baht dowry, but the agreement was that we would give it to the parents the day before and we would get it back the day after, so it was strictly a face-saving measure for the family and it worked out fine. 

That is what I did when recently marrying a woman that has lived in big cities for almost 35 years before we moved back to a small city on the Mekhong river where her Mom lived.  Her Mom doesn't need the money and Sinsod is part of the culture.  Well worth my mild discomfort with the sinsod tradition if it made the day a nicer experience.

 

As for the OP, it's only 100k.  Her reasons could be legit for asking for it.  If you trust her do it and move on.  People telling you that she has kids, is old, not pretty and therefore doesn't deserve, in there estimation, what a younger woman with no kids should receive might be right but I would go with my gut feeling over their opinions.  You did ask for their opinions  though 🙂  BTW, I've witnessed many women with kids here in Thailand receiving sinsod. 

[mrbojangles]

Zilch. Nada. Nothing.

 

She should be paying you.

[Hakuna Matata]

Well, it depends.

 

If she worked in a Pattaya bar, Sin Sod may be very high.

[Hakuna Matata]

1 minute ago, mrbojangles said:

Zilch. Nada. Nothing.

 

She should be paying you.

 

Oh, what a BS!

[atpeace]

16 minutes ago, NoDisplayName said:

 

You should demand at least a half million baht.

Her offer of 100k and an underage daughter is insufficient.

 

C'mon, man!

Don't sell yourself short.

You're worth more than that.

That was funny! It's hard for me imagine getting deep into  relationship with a woman with kids but there was this one woman 5 years ago that had kids that was incredibly beautiful and so I guess I somewhat get his predicament.   I still feel blessed that that relationship ended in tears.

[Yagoda]

Last week her sin sod was $20 and I said no. When did you start dating her?

[TheFishman1]

Run Forrest run TIT

[newbee2022]

Second hand? Two kids?

ZERO!!!!!

[shackleton]

This has to be a wind-up story

 

Or as Donald Trump would say False news 😱

[Freddy42OZ]

9 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)?

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid. She is requesting 100k baht.  

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university.

Is she going to let you choose which kid you take? 

If you're only 22 and 'from a top Western University' why are you even considering marrying a single mother with 2 kids? 

Don't pay any sin sod.

[OneMoreFarang]

9 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

28 yo single mom [...]

She has 2 daughters [...]

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university

 

 

Did you get a place in that top western university because of some DEI "qualifications"?

It seems you are not the smartest cookie in the jar.

Why would you want an old woman with kids? You should be able to find some nice 20 year old hottie.

 

 

 

Edited 2 hours ago by OneMoreFarang

[Airalee]

9 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university

was “learn how to move to Thailand and marry a 28 year old single mom” part of this “top western university’s” marketing campaign?

[transam]

5 hours ago, Albo said:

Just a windup from bored, farang noob English teacher already bored with his job. Best focus on the students, they never do.

How do you know he is English, new bloke, the trolls that turn up here are usually Australian, are you Australian....?  

[FritsSikkink]

10 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid.

I would get a job first.

[ChrisKC]

NONE!

[Celsius]

The neighbourhood definitely matters and since you mentioned rangsit, women from that area are ugly, so I think 100k is adequate 

[richard_smith237]

[kingstonkid]

8 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

I understand divorcees usually don't get anything. but she'll let me live in her home so I dont need to buy a condo or pay for a hotel in Thailand. also she hasn't asked me to pay for her kids but only pay for my kid

Also doesn't expect any gold

 Hi I have lilved in Rangsit for  15 years.  GF and I bought a house her money her mortgage I covered the legal expenses.

 

I pay the mortgage every month the same as i would pay rent if I lived somehere else.  She covers all the other bills.

 

As to 100K donation i HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS

 

How old are her kids and what happenedd to their father.

 

You say that you want a child and that is cool but if the father of the other 2 kids got up and walked away she is thinking that you might do the same thing.  There is nothing she can do to stop you and there is nothing you can say that will convince her.  There is nothing stopping you from simly waking up taking a suitcase and leaving Thaialnd in a year or 2.

 

The 100K is not Sin Sod.  It is her guarantee that you are not going to knock her up then find some other cuties more your age or younger and leave her high and dry.

 

Schooling in Rangsit isnot cheap for the good schools and that is also a factor she has to look at.  If she has a child for you she is going to get big and fat and ugly and that may make you cheat or leave her.

 

If you are living there for free ( no rent no paying bills then you have proven her point)

[kingstonkid]

28 minutes ago, Celsius said:

The neighbourhood definitely matters and since you mentioned rangsit, women from that area are ugly, so I think 100k is adequate 

Celsius  When and where doyou go I have lived her for 15 years and can tell you that there are many beautiful ladies of all ages.  

 

[Celsius]

1 minute ago, kingstonkid said:

Celsius  When and where doyou go I have lived her for 15 years and can tell you that there are many beautiful ladies of all ages.  

 

 

I apologize if you thought my post was serious.

[novacova]

11 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)?

She has 2 daughters

Zero.

11 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university

She should be the one giving you sinsod.

[thaibeachlovers]

11 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)?

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid. She is requesting 100k baht.  

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university.

Is this for real?

 

In the unlikely event it is, sin sod is only for virgins. The fact that stupid farangs have been giving them sin sod for non virgins for many years has only meant that they think all farangs will hand over loadsacash for a second hand bride.

 

If the OP tells her he will give nothing, and she dumps him it was only about the money anyway.

[thaibeachlovers]

2 hours ago, atpeace said:

Her Mom doesn't need the money and Sinsod is part of the culture.

Paying sinsod for a non virgin is not part of the culture. It was in compensation for the parents losing a caretaker, as girls were ( ?are ) expected to look after their parents. If sinsod was required, it was for the first time she got married.

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Try the approach we used, we agreed to pay a 400,000 baht dowry, but the agreement was that we would give it to the parents the day before and we would get it back the day after, so it was strictly a face-saving measure for the family and it worked out fine. 

You got done! I only handed over 50,000 for mine ( which I got back ).

[Theforgotten1]

Don’t marry, when you marry they change