How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)

[kingstonkid]

8 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

What a joke.

She should be paying you.

 

Hell even bar girls want more money than that.  and that does not include getting them knocked up

[kingstonkid]

24 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Haven't they all sworn not to have sex for the next four years?

only the ugly ones that want to be trans or LGTBQ+ 

 

Most of them don't want to be dependent on a man for satisfaction so turn to each other or BOB

[kingstonkid]

22 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

 

Did you get a place in that top western university because of some DEI "qualifications"?

It seems you are not the smartest cookie in the jar.

Why would you want an old woman with kids? You should be able to find some nice 20 year old hottie.

 

 

 

20 year old hotties would be too smart for him.  They would want him to pay for accommodations and having a kid would be out of the question without marriage visa LOL

They all want rich Farang not some young kid that just finished university like them and has no money.

[Brick Top]

I think its no were near enough,  i would ask for a lot more than 100,000 if i were you .

Think about it , your a young 22 year old stud and she an older lady with 2 kids , you should ask her for at least 300,000

[KhunLA]

When someone tells you ... 'it's THEIR culture'  ... rest assured, chances are they are going to benefit from that culture, and it's going to cost you money.

 

Curious, what's the Thai culture, when a Thai male marries a non Thai female ... sin sot ???

    

Edited 22 hours ago by KhunLA

[OneMoreFarang]

2 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

20 year old hotties would be too smart for him.  They would want him to pay for accommodations and having a kid would be out of the question without marriage visa LOL

They all want rich Farang not some young kid that just finished university like them and has no money.

I was told some of them want a handsome young man. 

[RichardColeman]

On 11/27/2024 at 3:51 AM, thainomad3 said:

How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)?

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid. She is requesting 100k baht.  

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university.

What seems missing from this post is what is she doing to support herself , as Thai men (if two different fathers) will be unlikely to pay enough child support for her not to work and child benefit here seems very little. Who takes care of the kids if she is working, what does she work at ? 

 

You should NOT be paying anything in sinsod, she is too used for this money. I paid zero, she had 2 good kids and good family but far too old and used - don;t like saying that but its true

 

If you feel the need to give her FAMILY some monetary help then that is OK, but spread it out over time in the form of support and not a lump sum.

 

I also fail to see from your post how you would live with her, you do not appear to have a job to work here and can't stay here without work.

 

 

[JamesPhuket10]

On 11/27/2024 at 1:21 PM, transam said:

You've just arrived then.........🤗

 

I can tell you sin-sod is alive and well, I am talking Thai marry Thai.

I have been to many sin-sod 'parties', some with a huge amounts of money involved, even our lad had to cough up, no, not me..........😊

 

Yes, I have just arrived, I arrived in 1987 when I got married to a Thai woman in the Dusit Thani Hotel in Bangkok. 😃

 

A wealthy family, sin-sod was never mentioned but I did pay for the wedding which had three hundred guests and a private hall including food etc.  I think it cost around £1200 at the time, which was nothing.

 

If I had been asked to pay sin-sod then I would have told them to sod off as I am not a silly sod. 😃

 

I do not know what goes on with Thai on Thai marriages though.

 

Maybe it is just a village thing where things tend to be a bit backward, I say that as some people here have mentioned 100,000 baht as a sin-sod payment, which might seem a lot and impress poorer folk from up-country (as the Thais say) but it is an insignificant amount to many Thais. 

 

Edited 5 hours ago by JamesPhuket10
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[kingstonkid]

17 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I was told some of them want a handsome young man. 

Yeah but with money or good prospects.  Most want us old guys so they can get our money we kick the bucket and in early 30 they can look for another

[kingstonkid]

17 hours ago, RichardColeman said:

What seems missing from this post is what is she doing to support herself , as Thai men (if two different fathers) will be unlikely to pay enough child support for her not to work and child benefit here seems very little. Who takes care of the kids if she is working, what does she work at ? 

 

You should NOT be paying anything in sinsod, she is too used for this money. I paid zero, she had 2 good kids and good family but far too old and used - don;t like saying that but its true

 

If you feel the need to give her FAMILY some monetary help then that is OK, but spread it out over time in the form of support and not a lump sum.

 

I also fail to see from your post how you would live with her, you do not appear to have a job to work here and can't stay here without work.

 

 

He isn't planning to live here only on 90 day then going back to U.S.

 

He thinks knocking her up and giving a promise is all that matters 

[OneMoreFarang]

20 minutes ago, kingstonkid said:

Yeah but with money or good prospects.  Most want us old guys so they can get our money we kick the bucket and in early 30 they can look for another

If he is in a top university, then that should meet the good prospects criteria. 

[transam]

3 hours ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

Yes, I have just arrived, I arrived in 1987 when I got married to a Thai woman in the Dusit Thani Hotel in Bangkok. 😃

 

A wealthy family, sin-sod was never mentioned but I did pay for the wedding which had three hundred guests and a private hall including food etc.  I think it cost around £1200 at the time, which was nothing.

 

If I had been asked to pay sin-sod then I would have told them to sod off as I am not a silly sod. 😃

 

I do not know what goes on with Thai on Thai marriages though.

 

Maybe it is just a village thing where things tend to be a bit backward, I say that as some people here have mentioned 100,000 baht as a sin-sod payment, which might seem a lot and impress poorer folk from up-country (as the Thais say) but it is an insignificant amount to many Thais. 

 

So indirectly you did pay sin-sod, and/or the parents felt sorry for you.........😋

 

I am afraid you do not understand Thai customs, you don't understand about Thai money either.

I think I must assume you think you are some sort of farangy hi-so, going by your lack of Thai knowledge...🥴