My Thai Girlfriend Wants Breast Implants. Should I Approve?

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, hankypankee said:

She says that it’s only for her, and that it's her body, not for me or anyone else

It seems many women like to compare themself to other women. And often enough they compare themselves to the unreal online presentations of other women like Instagram ,etc.

And it seems a lot of women make the fatal mistake that if they have a friend with big breast, and that friend has lots of admirers, then they conclude: It must be the big breast of her. But maybe the other woman just smiles more, or she has a nice body and great hair or whatever. But all that is not noticed, it must be the big breasts...

And then, when she gets herself big breasts, and the other one still gets more attention, what then?

[jaideedave]

1 hour ago, jvs said:

When it is done right and not oversize they will feel just fine!

When they are really small there is nothing to feel at all!

 

One of my ex lady friends got it done. She found a good Dr and I must say they were perfect. The felt natural and the right size. Bonus for me was her asking me to massage them for a few weeks after the surgery.

A duty I was more than willing to fulfill and always ended in other activities...

 

[Nick Carter icp]

Just now, jaideedave said:

One of my ex lady friends got it done. She found a good Dr and I must say they were perfect. The felt natural and the right size. Bonus for me was her asking me to massage them for a few weeks after the surgery.

A duty I was more than willing to fulfill and always ended in other activities...

 

 

  Is she currently single ?

[Ludzilla]

more self confidence means more male attention

[jaideedave]

1 minute ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  Is she currently single ?

It was 10 years ago and she was in the game. We lost contact

[Airalee]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Tell her you selected a girlfriend with the tit size you like.

And if she changes them, you'll change girlfriends.

Wouldn’t be surprised if she’s got the 7 year itch and she’s just prepping herself for changing boyfriends.

[SAFETY FIRST]

2 hours ago, hankypankee said:

my Thai girlfriend of 7 years suddenly decided she wants to get a boob job

Horrible things, silicone tits. 

 

Thai females breast are the most beautiful in the world, perfect. 

 

I'd like to post a photo of my beautiful girlfriends breasts but I think it's against AN forum rules.

 

Amazing little things they are, I'm constantly sucking on them. 

 

Edited 15 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[KannikaP]

Why not start a Poll here, with a photo, so we can all vote yes or no to the enhancement. 555

[quake]

8 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

Why not start a Poll here, with a photo, so we can all vote yes or no to the enhancement. 555

 

Maybe Asean Now, should start an adult section.

It may save them in the long game. 

Special log in and all that.

Win, Win for them I think.

May be they should grab the bull by the balls.

 

 

 

 

 

Edited 14 hours ago by quake

[BritManToo]

16 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I'd like to post a photo of my beautiful girlfriends breasts but I think it's against AN forum rules.

PM it to me, no need to break any rules!

[BigStar]

No, for reasons already given here. Be sure to nix any hope for a NOSE JOB as well. In general, best not to indulge foolish vanity. She wants to look better and gain self-confidence, first get her a few lessons w/ a trainer at the gym and then start a regular fitness program.

 

That said, an expensive boob job of the right proportions done by the best at, say, Yanhee Hsp, can look pretty damn good. If you stay naked most of the time like me & the gf, then you got continual attractive visuals.

Edited 14 hours ago by BigStar

[Hummin]

2 hours ago, hankypankee said:

So, my Thai girlfriend of 7 years suddenly decided she wants to get a boob job. Not sure what triggered it, but now she’s asking for my approval. Here’s the thing: I think she doesn't need it. She is beautiful as is, just the way she was made, and I’ve expressed that clearly to her. But she insists it’s not for the reasons I might think, she says it’s about how it will make her feel inside. According to her, it’s not about making them very big or being flashy. She wants something that is still very natural-looking, but to help make clothes hang better and to boost her confidence.

 

On the one hand, we all have insecurities. So if this will make her feel better about herself, should I be the one to stand in the way? It’s not an issue of cost, but I do wonder about how the change in appearance might affect her socially. Let’s be honest, people can become judgmental in Thailand, especially since she has a foreign boyfriend. So I'm concerned others could make negative assumptions about her. Will it change the way she’s treated in Thai circles and for the worse?

 

There’s also a potential relationship aspect. She says that it’s only for her, and that it's her body, not for me or anyone else, and I guess I can accept that. But at the same time, I still feel a bit confused. Part of me wonders if her wanting my approval is because she’s hoping that this won’t change how I feel about her. 

 

Also there is the question of whether this will really give her the confidence she’s looking for. Not sure if surgery will make her feel more comfortable in her own skin, or if it is a case of wanting to chase perfection that might lead to further dissatisfaction down the road. 

 

Well, should I support her decision wholeheartedly and let her do whatever makes her happy? Or should I continue expressing my reservations? Have any of you been in a similar situation with your partner? Did the surgery actually deliver the confidence boost that was expected?

 

Get the gummy bear or saline ones. Can't go cheap on the clinic. 

 

I told my wife I will divorce her if she even think about it, 

 

Completely waste of money, if they have normal breasts whatever that is, and you are happy.

Edited 14 hours ago by Hummin

[Nick Carter icp]

47 minutes ago, jaideedave said:

It was 10 years ago and she was in the game. We lost contact

 

   How much would she now charge just to have a look and feel of her breasts ?

[SAFETY FIRST]

15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

PM it to me, no need to break any rules!

Done 👍

[BritManToo]

12 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Done 👍

My opinion ........... perfection!

[Nick Carter icp]

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My opinion ........... perfection!

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[BritManToo]

12 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

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More like ...........

 

[JTXR]

If it were me:  

"Do what you want darling to make yourself feel good.  I think you look perfect now and I think I won't like the implants, I really like a woman with natural breasts, but if you really want them and can pay for them, I won't stop you."

[sungod]

Just a causal observation, all these 'new users' who write these type of posts all in the same AI style seemed to have joined at various points in June.......

[AlexRRR]

Having had a Thai gf with implants prior to us getting involved with each other, I have never liked the idea, but I seen how it improved a female friends self esteem years ago, I would suggest its her body, she's not concerned so you shouldn't be either, but id tag a long and make sure and put my two cents in that what ever size she is upgrading to that it looks as natural as can be when naked, my ex was a very slim tall girl who's implants did not look anything like natural.

[Celsius]

1 minute ago, AlexRRR said:

my ex was a very slim tall girl who's implants did not look anything like natural.

 

Lb

[AlexRRR]

4 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Lb

Why do you think we are all deviant go with hookers, take meth and drink till sunrise?

 

No buddy female 100%, educated, great job, could have been a model with that figure minus the over sized implants..

[nauseus]

4 hours ago, RSD1 said:

 

If her ears are anything to go by this one should probably stop right there.

[nauseus]

1 hour ago, sungod said:

Just a causal observation, all these 'new users' who write these type of posts all in the same AI style seemed to have joined at various points in June.......

 

Some kind of solstice ritual.

[Grumpy one]

Let her have the implants, her next b f will find them fun to play with

[bkk6060]

She wasnt to attract other men so do it.

[Ben Zioner]

8 hours ago, hankypankee said:

She wants something that is still very natural-looking, but to help make clothes hang better and to boost her confidence.

Yet another twist to the "well hung" thing.

[Liverpool Lou]

8 hours ago, hankypankee said:

Will it change the way she’s treated in Thai circles and for the worse?

Only if she gets her new tits out for them.

[Liverpool Lou]

8 hours ago, hankypankee said:

Have any of you been in a similar situation with your partner? Did the surgery actually deliver the confidence boost that was expected?

Yes, my ex started showing them off to everyone with her new-found confidence and many took advantage of them.

[Liverpool Lou]

8 hours ago, jvs said:

We did pay a little extra to get it done by the head surgeon over there and the result is really nice.

"...done by the head surgeon..."

I made sure that the breast surgeon did my ex's.