Where Does It End? First She Wants Breast Implants, Now a Brazilian Butt Lift!

[hankypankee]

About a week ago, I posted about my Thai girlfriend wanting breast implants. I wasn’t thrilled about the idea at first, but after all the responses I got on my post and some discussion with her (including her reassuring me she’d go for a modest size), I reluctantly agreed. I wanted to support her confidence, and I figured it would be a one-and-done situation.

 

Well, I was wrong. Now, she’s suddenly intent on getting a Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) all done at the same time. She says it’ll balance her new proportions and make her feel more confident. But honestly, this whole situation is starting to heavily stress me out. I’m beginning to feel overwhelmed trying to understand her brazen desire for these risky procedures without considering the dangers, and I’m worried about where this might all lead.

 

The BBL isn’t a small thing. It’s invasive, carries significant risks, and comes with a tough recovery process. I’ve seen enough reports about complications—even with experienced surgeons—which makes me even more uneasy. I find myself lying awake at times wondering: What if something goes seriously wrong? And what if this newly formed obsession with modifying her body never stops? I’m not even sure this is really about her happiness anymore. Is she chasing some impossible ideal she saw on social media, or is there something deeper going on that no amount of surgery can fix?

 

And then there’s the issue of where to get this done. Thailand is well-known for cosmetic surgery, but BBLs aren’t nearly as common here compared to breast implants or other procedures. That makes me even more nervous. Do we risk going to a less experienced surgeon in Thailand, or do we consider the added expense, travel, and stress of getting it done abroad? And even then, what if the results aren’t what she expects, or worse—what if there are long-term complications?

 

On top of all that, her enthusiasm is wearing me down. She spends hours glued to her phone, scrolling through Instagram or watching influencers talk about their “BBL journeys.” She’s researched Bangkok clinics nonstop and talks about this procedure like it’s already decided. It feels like she’s rushing headfirst into something dangerous, and I’m the only one wanting to tap the brakes.

 

I’m also starting to feel like this could change our relationship in ways I don’t fully understand. This isn’t just about money for me—though the costs are significant—it’s about what all of this means for us as a couple. These enhancement desires are coming so quickly, and I’m scared that no matter how much she modifies herself, it won’t be enough for her. And what happens to us as a couple if this new obsession spirals out of control?

 

I want to support her, but I can’t shake this growing anxiety. Am I wrong, though? Should I just let her do what she feels will make her happy? Or should I draw a hard line and say, “Enough is enough”?

[BarBoy]

It ends when the money in your wallet ends...

 

stop being a mug, man up and to tell her to pay for them herself! 

[FriscoKid]

3 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

It ends when the money in your wallet ends...

 

stop being a mug, man up and to tell her to pay for them herself! 

bob smith, forever the geezer of infinite wisdom. aren't we so blessed to have him back from the dungeons of ill repute???

[BarBoy]

1 minute ago, FriscoKid said:

bob smith, forever the geezer of infinite wisdom. aren't we so blessed to have him back from the dungeons of ill repute???

...are you a mug as well?

[G_Money]

Nothing like “living the dream “ in Thailand.

[FriscoKid]

5 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

...are you a mug as well?

So easily offended bob? Sorry. But you should be working on your Hemingway novel about Thailand already before you end up falling off the wagon again and going on another ladyboy sausage bender that lasts months again. 

[impulse]

If you're happy with her the way she is, she must be trying to please someone else.

 

Next, it'll be those balloon lips that all the influencers are showing off.  I hate those, and the big butt look.  Not too keen on boobs that fail the pencil test, especially on purpose...

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

17 minutes ago, hankypankee said:

Where Does It End? First She Wants Breast Implants, Now a Brazilian Butt Lift! 

It doesn't end. 

 

These women destroy themselves with all their fake crap. 

 

I'm lucky my gf doesn't have tattoos, fake nails, silicone implants, nothing.

 

She's all natural and only wears a little bit of makeup. 

 

 

[spidermike007]

There comes a time and a place where a man has to make a stand and just say NO! This is not happening, if you want it bad enough that door over there has many functions, one of them is to pack your bags and walk out through it. No skin off my back, you're getting a little bit out of control, perhaps it's time for us to move on. Have you ever even heard of a concept called contentment? Have you ever heard of a concept called high self esteem?

 

See you. Get as many operations as you, but get them on your dime, after we say our goodbyes. 

[BarBoy]

5 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

So easily offended bob?

Me?

 

Not one bit.

 

can't say the same for some other AN members though. Talk about thin skinned!

[BarBoy]

Just now, spidermike007 said:

There comes a time and a place where a man has to make a stand and just say NO!

I do it all the time.

 

That is why I'm a millionaire. 

[FriscoKid]

2 minutes ago, BarBoy said:

That is why I'm a millionaire. 

are you still keeping it all in USD cash in your safe?

[Negita43]

21 minutes ago, hankypankee said:

She says it’ll balance her new proportions and make her feel more confident.

Could be you are financing her exit from the relationship (if it can be called that)

[BarBoy]

13 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

are you still keeping it all in USD cash in your safe?

I keep it in various offshore accounts, some in my bedroom, some in crypto and some stashed away in a secret location.

[mokwit]

"if she can dream it, you can buy it'

 

BBL looks terrible IMO, Give me a Thai woman's pert derriere any day.

[Celsius]

Right now I'm thinking Gino wife from 90 day fiance 

[BarBoy]

9 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Right now I'm thinking Gino wife from 90 day fiance 

she's right up my street her.

 

pure filth and nutty as a fruitcake! 

[The Cyclist]

Quote

Where Does It End? 

 

 

When you show her the door

 

Or if it is her pad, you rev up and disappear over the horizon.

[RichardColeman]

48 minutes ago, hankypankee said:

About a week ago, I posted about my Thai girlfriend wanting breast implants.

 

48 minutes ago, hankypankee said:

Now, she’s suddenly intent on getting a Brazilian Butt Lift

 

Sounds like it could be penis removal next

[Kinnock]

Just find a new girl with bigger boobs and a shapely but.

 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, hankypankee said:

The BBL isn’t a small thing. It’s invasive, carries significant risks, and comes with a tough recovery process.

 

And, more important, who wants a Thai girl with a big ass? 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, hankypankee said:

She spends hours glued to her phone, scrolling through Instagram or watching influencers talk about their “BBL journeys.”

 

Maybe you should spend some time on your phone on Tinder or something similar looking for natural beauties without operations. Then go out for two or three hours and return your Tinder adventure.

It's a win/win situation - for you. Option 1, she will get the drift and stop with this nonsense. Option 2, let her go and you are on the way to find a natural beauty. 

[scottiejohn]

1 hour ago, FriscoKid said:

bob smith, forever the geezer of infinite wisdom. aren't we so blessed to have him back from the dungeons of ill repute???

 NO!

[scottiejohn]

1 hour ago, FriscoKid said:

aren't we so blessed to have him back from the dungeons of ill repute???

That is probably because even the dungeons of ill repute did not want him!

[rattlesnake]

Sounds like a fake story to generate posts.

[scottiejohn]

1 hour ago, RichardColeman said:

 

 

Sounds like it could be penis removal next

Whose, the Farang or the Thai?

[mokwit]

25 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

Sounds like a fake story to generate posts.

At least it was written by a human.