You met a Thai lady on one of the popular dating sites, now what...

[chickenslegs]

8 minutes ago, worgeordie said:

Been with my wife for 32 Years now , married 6 months ago , my advice

take it slow in the relationship until you are absolutely sure ....

 

regards Worgeordie

Not a "shotgun wedding" then.

[NativeBob]

Jokes aside, but I met a dude at his middle 20s, he met his very pretty GF online, flew to BKK and they are living happy for 3-4 years (my guess). Nice bloke, unfortunately he dropped everything in AU and works as teecha Jay, but yes. Magic is happening sometimes.

[Trippy]

10 minutes ago, camper star said:

Am I too old fashion in being a man of virtue?

I don't know, you do you. I just can't imagine buying the cow, without tasting the milk.

[steven100]

lock all your money and valuables in a safe.    run .. forest ... run  !!

[steven100]

23 minutes ago, worgeordie said:

Been with my wife for 32 Years now , married 6 months ago , my advice

take it slow in the relationship until you are absolutely sure ....

 

regards Worgeordie

thai's always scheme long term plans ... normally takes 33 years 

[Rhys]

Go with short time talent... cheaper in the long run.

[blaze master]

48 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

Got it........married after three days together........been married for 19 years this November......no effort required, it just happened.....

 

What's your ages if you don't mind answering

[KhunLA]

56 minutes ago, camper star said:

I like the breezyness of your life style and it seems that you have found the joy in your life and most importantly to share it with the one you sleep with.

I'm kind of surprise, and thought I was destined to be single, which would have been fine also.  Though not sure about at my age now, as anyone my age, isn't as easy on the eyes, as the 20+ yr younger wife.

 

19+ yrs together ... shocking everyone that knows me, as I went through women fast, in between relationships.  My brother use to razz me, when I showed up with a different face.  He'd look past me and say ... "hey, is that different car" ... not letting the gal know, she probably won't be around next month 

[Harrisfan]

3 minutes ago, blaze master said:

 

What's your ages if you don't mind answering

96 and 56

[KhunLA]

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

6th time lucky. That is a new one.

Patience grasshopper, it may happen to you.   And when you least expect and not even looking 

[norsurin]

Take a lady for short time.Pay as u go.Dont give ur details.

[bkk6060]

I know  guy from the U..S. he did the online dating and meet a hottie.  They talked everyday for a couple months before he came to Thailand to meet her.  Prior however, he sent her 4 million baht so she could buy a condo in Pattaya so they would have a place to live when he arrived.  After being together for 6 months, she told him to leave and now has a new young guy living in her condo.

 

[KhunLA]

1 hour ago, Will B Good said:

 

Got it........married after three days together........been married for 19 years this November......no effort required, it just happened.....

Damn, got me beat.  Knew wife #3 for 11 weeks before getting married.  Realized in about 6 months, oops, so got divorced, even stayed together for maybe another 6 ish months.

 

#1 & #2 were 2 years each.  #1 lasted 2+ yrs, #2 only lasted 1 year.

 

 #4 was 8 yrs living together before married, and still together, for 19+ total.

 

2 live ins, moved in within a couple months of dating, then couple years together, before getting the boot.

 

Nobody I know, knew, ever asked me for relationship advice.  Go figure 🙄

 

Getting them was easy, keeping them, not so easy  

 

Strangely, all were mutual, no surprise endings, so a good thing.  No real dramas.  Lucky hearing some of the stories here.  No kids or real assets to divide, so nothing really to fight over.

 

Only one here, TH, was a bit of push & shove out the door.  Not that she wanted to stay, she wanted to take sh!t with her.

[Sir Dude]

Silly thread.

[Dan747]

39 minutes ago, steven100 said:

lock all your money and valuables in a safe.    run .. forest ... run  !!

 

[DaRoadrunner]

43 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Damn, got me beat.  Knew wife #3 for 11 weeks before getting married.  Realized in about 6 months, oops, so got divorced, even stayed together for maybe another 6 ish months.

 

#1 & #2 were 2 years each.  #1 lasted 2+ yrs, #2 only lasted 1 year.

 

 #4 was 8 yrs living together before married, and still together, for 19+ total.

 

2 live ins, moved in within a couple months of dating, then couple years together, before getting the boot.

 

Nobody I know, knew, ever asked me for relationship advice.  Go figure 🙄

 

Getting them was easy, keeping them, not so easy  

 

Strangely, all were mutual, no surprise endings, so a good thing.  No real dramas.  Lucky hearing some of the stories here.  No kids or real assets to divide, so nothing really to fight over.

 

Only one here, TH, was a bit of push & shove out the door.  Not that she wanted to stay, she wanted to take sh!t with her.

I think the original post would have been better if it read..... "Tell Us How You Met Your Wife." ....... No doubt some of the answers would be hilarious.

[BangkokReady]

2 hours ago, camper star said:

I  kept the title short. Here it is... You met her on the dating sites like Thai Friendly. Things worked out. So you fly to Thailand and there she is greeting you a genuine warm smile at the airport in Bangkok.  You then realize that after a few visits back to Bangkok to be  WITH her,  there sparks the new energy of... OK guys open up and tell if you will in your life with a Thai lady that took  place.

 

Translation:

 

"You met a girl on a dating site, like Thai Friendly.  Things went well chatting online, so you flew out to Thailand to meet her.  She Greeted you at the airport in Bangkok with a warm and genuine smile.  You realised after a few visits to see her in Bangkok, that there were sparks of new energy of... something.

 

OK guys, open up and tell me if this ever took place in your life with a Thai lady!"

[Rob Browder]

2 hours ago, KhunLA said:

Although I find it strange adults need dating advice.  They're the opposite (or same) sex, and not much different here than the rest of the world.

They are different, and folks do need advice on how things work differently in Thailand.  But, it hard to get through to most - have to learn the hard way.  "She's like no woman I ever knew" - you got THAT right.

 

I say that as married to a Thai for over a decade.  I don't regret it at all - but, a LOT of learning how the dynamic is different here was involved.  There are areas you need to not budge an inch, and others where you must be very flexible, to make it work.

 

Edit: (But, no, I did not meet her on a "dating site" - She was working a regular job.  My advice - find one of those AFTER you get here, and get aquanted with Thailand, generally.)

[Ralf001]

3 hours ago, camper star said:

I  kept the title short. Here it is... You met her on the dating sites like Thai Friendly. Things worked out. So you fly to Thailand and there she is greeting you a genuine warm smile at the airport in Bangkok.  You then realize that after a few visits back to Bangkok to be  WITH her,  there sparks the new energy of... OK guys open up and tell if you will in your life with a Thai lady that took  place.

 

What ?