Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

[Harrisfan]

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

That is indeed not normal. The average number of lifetime sexual partners for women in Thailand ranges from 2.3 to 7. Studies indicate that the average is around 2.6, with slight variations by age and location. For example, a study in rural Thailand found that the mean number of lifetime sexual partners was 2.3, while a study of Gen Y in urban areas found an average of five. 

 

One source from Psychology Today suggests that between 4-10 partners is a general average for adult men and women. 

 

Superdrug Online Doctor reported that female respondents averaged seven sexual partners during their lifetimes, while men averaged 6.4. 

 

A more recent study found that people in Thailand are the most promiscuous in Asia with an average of 10.6 sexual partners, the highest in Asia.

 

https://thethaiger.com/news/national/boom-boom-thai-people-ranked-no-1-in-asias-list-of-top-shaggers

 

Needless to say, I am somewhat above those numbers.

Two types of people

1 to 20

100 to 2000

 

 

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

Two types of people

1 to 20

100 to 2000

 

 

And Thai Bargirls 2,000-50,000

 

[lamyai3]

22 hours ago, quake said:

Some people are just easily triggered on this type of thread. 

 

 

Even Trigger admitted that during his 20 year relationship with his broom there'd been 17 new heads and 14 new handles... 

[KhunLA]

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

Two types of people

1 to 20

100 to 2000

That depends on definition of partner.   

Live with, 24/7, then only 6.  

Live with, split week, for a few months, add a couple more.

Life long friend with bennies, in between relationships, 2

One night stands, 100+, but <200 (?), thanks to friends w/bennies.

One (2 or 3) night  stands aren't partners.  Can't even remember their names, some the next day 

 

P4P doesn't count, that's simply paying for service.

[newbee2022]

23 hours ago, save the frogs said:

They are not the same as normal women at all. 

Typical prejudice by White Old Men 👎

[Taboo2]

555555555555555555555555555555555555555

 

Sure, if you want heartache and pain, try it.

 

Most likely, as soon as she goes back to Village, her 4 boyfriends are running a train.

 

Then, when you go home to visit Mom or Dad or family, she is banging away with her old customers who are much better in bed than you.

 

100% FACTS!

[newbee2022]

The more comments I read here the more BS is coming.

Disgusting

Enough for today

[NanLaew]

2 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

The more comments I read here the more BS is coming.

Disgusting

Enough for today

 

Yeah, go take a shower.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

Typical prejudice by White Old Men 👎

 

I don't think I am prejudiced.

This kind of lifestyle lends itself to the woman becoming somewhat "dysfunctional in relationships".

It doesnt mean it can't work. 

 

 

[captain_shane]

12 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

This profile got 800 matches in 48 hours, post Covid, despite the warning in the profile that he has a criminal record for roughing up his ex girlfriend.

that part got him more matches

[transam]

16 hours ago, save the frogs said:

By the way, your username doesn't imply you are a "trans", right? 

 

Right, I owned a Pontiac Trans Am for 23 years in England...........😉

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, transam said:

Right, I owned a Pontiac Trans Am for 23 years in England...........😉

 

why don't you put the picture of your Trans Am in the avatar then, silly person?

 

that's one of the coolest chick magnets ever. 

never seen one in thailand. 

 

[save the frogs]

On 6/11/2025 at 7:04 AM, Cameroni said:

 

What do you think would happen if you sign up on Thaifriendly? How many messages would you get in a day? 

 

 

came across a very funny profile on Thai Friendly.

woman writes: If you think I love your money more than you, please don't contact me. 

reverse psychology? 

ha ha

[transam]

12 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

What would that be?

Aaaah, you being nosey, stick to your sordid girlie stuff............🤔

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

why don't you put the picture of your Trans Am in the avatar then, silly person?

 

that's one of the coolest chick magnets ever. 

never seen one in thailand. 

 

Much better with a serial killer Pic, don't you think so?

 

Be careful out saving those frogs 😁

[newbee2022]

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

I don't think I am prejudiced.

This kind of lifestyle lends itself to the woman becoming somewhat "dysfunctional in relationships".

It doesnt mean it can't work. 

 

 

Well, watch it from the other side:

What will it take to change a dirty, filthy, obese, bald, old, wrinkled, short, stinking, drinking, hooking farang into a presentable, goodlooking Western Man?

 

What I'm trying to say is this:

If these bar girls would have been giving a chance for a good education and a proper job....they wouldn't do the bar job. Many come from rural areas leaving family and children behind to earn money.

And then? What do they meet? I described it above.

Most are longing for a family life in peace with means to live a decent life not to serve those farangs in any way 

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Hummin said:

Much better with a serial killer Pic, don't you think so?

 

Be careful out saving those frogs 😁

 

Does look like a serial killer.

Do you think it's really him? Like spidermike? 

Would you ever post your photo for all the psychos on AN to see? 

 

[transam]

9 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

why don't you put the picture of your Trans Am in the avatar then, silly person?

 

that's one of the coolest chick magnets ever. 

never seen one in Thailand. 

 

I did for many years, but as I have been here a very long time, a change is a bit of fresh air.

My current one is James in a 454 '55 Chevy duelling with a 455 Pontiac GTO, plus I like the photo, reminds me of me a looong time ago......😉

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

If these bar girls would have been giving a chance for a good education and a proper job....they wouldn't do the bar job.

 

Germany and Amsterdam have a lot of hookers.

It's a lifestyle choice for some, even with other job options available. 

 

Yeah, not a lot of high paying jobs for women. If they at least choose a decent husband to help pay the bills .... but it seems like a lot of men are not reliable husbands or I don't know why there are so many women in the bar trade. 

 

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

 

Germany and Amsterdam have a lot of hookers.

It's a lifestyle choice for some, even with other job options available. 

 

Yeah, not a lot of high paying jobs for women. If they at least choose a decent husband to help pay the bills .... but it seems like a lot of men are not reliable husbands or I don't know why there are so many women in the bar trade. 

 

For one with little or no experience, you still know alot. 

[StandardIssue]

None of the above, it really depends on the girl. It's possible for some, especially early in their career.

But not for others. This is very subjective and too many variables enter into the question.

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Hummin said:

For one with little or no experience, you still know alot. 

you decided to crawl up my butt today, hummin?

what did you have for breakfast? 

 

[newbee2022]

2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Germany and Amsterdam have a lot of hookers.

It's a lifestyle choice for some, even with other job options available. 

 

Yeah, not a lot of high paying jobs for women. If they at least choose a decent husband to help pay the bills .... but it seems like a lot of men are not reliable husbands or I don't know why there are so many women in the bar trade. 

 

Well, I gave you the explaination already:

No education.

Or have you met a Doctor serving men in a bar recently (in Amsterdam ?)

[Hummin]

Just now, save the frogs said:

you decided to crawl up my butt today, hummin?

what did you have for breakfast? 

 

You are one of the top poster in the thread. So what have you learned so far? 

 

Are there good girls to be found in the bar scene? 

 

 

[save the frogs]

10 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

No education.

 

No education in some cases is due to lack of funds.

In some cases, due to lack of interest or motivation. It's a choice. 

 

[newbee2022]

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

 

No education in some cases is due to lack of funds.

In some cases, due to lack of interest or motivation. It's a choice. 

 

Sorry, that's BS.

And you know it.

Good bye

[Cameroni]

54 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

came across a very funny profile on Thai Friendly.

woman writes: If you think I love your money more than you, please don't contact me. 

reverse psychology? 

ha ha

 

Women in Thailand have a lot of pride. So some don't like it even when you give them money, at least for show. Actually deep down many don't like taking money from a man, not just because of pride, but due to the fact that they know this is not a safe source of income, meaning that if they displease the man the man can easily withdraw his money.

 

But in this case the girl was merely virtue signalling that she's not a gold digger. It may be true or it may be for show, but it's probably a good sign, at least she's sensitive to it.

 

49 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

If these bar girls would have been giving a chance for a good education and a proper job....they wouldn't do the bar job

 

Many Thai girls do not have a great education and do not have a proper job but would never do sex work. They always have a choice.

 

 

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Many Thai girls do not have a great education and do not have a proper job but would never do sex work. They always have a choice.

 

Met a girl recently who works at 7-11. From an uneducated not well-off family. 

And she's not that young.

But she refuses to work in the bar scene.

Gotta respect girls like that, actually. Not taking the easy way out. 

[ChaiyaTH]

Possible if you are not old yourself.

[Cameroni]

17 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Met a girl recently who works at 7-11. From an uneducated not well-off family. 

And she's not that young.

But she refuses to work in the bar scene.

Gotta respect girls like that, actually. Not taking the easy way out. 

 

I met a girl who had a really hard life, I mean she was collecting bottles on the street to help her family at a young age. Had to work in a factory, back breaking labour standing all day for 12 hours, getting up at 4.30 am. And she is a solid 10, hot as hell. But she would never do sex work. Because she had an uncle who instilled some moral values in her. 

 

You have to respect that because they know they could make easy and quick money selling their body but they refuse to do that.  She'd rather work long hours at a hard job.