I am a bit confused with a situation.

I played golf yesterday , I don’t usually play much but got talked into it a the local pub.

I claimed a win after scoring the highest score out of everyone by about 25 strokes. 

My caddy was like a little Jack Russell the way she could find my balls in the rough.
 

She was a decent looker and I promised I would get her next time I played and we ended up with each other LINEs

Now she is sending messages and wants to meet up off the golf course.

 

I am not sure if she is a prostitute or not? Living here makes you suspicious of women.

If I do meet her and it leads to sex am I supposed to pay her? Will she be offended if I pay her?

is she a gold digger?

or just desperate?

 

If she is free I will happily do her but if I have to pay I would prefer to invest in something a lot younger and hotter.

 

Who are these caddies? What is their angle? It is not clear to me.

 

 

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

the way she could find my balls in the rough.

Marriage material!

You're thinking of playing the 19th hole?

I don't think golf is ever free.

6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I am a bit confused with a situation.

I played golf yesterday , I don’t usually play much but got talked into it a the local pub.

I claimed a win after scoring the highest score out of everyone by about 25 strokes. 

My caddy was like a little Jack Russell the way she could find my balls in the rough.
 

She was a decent looker and I promised I would get her next time I played and we ended up with each other LINEs

Now she is sending messages and wants to meet up off the golf course.

 

I am not sure if she is a prostitute or not? Living here makes you suspicious of women.

If I do meet her and it leads to sex am I supposed to pay her? Will she be offended if I pay her?

is she a gold digger?

or just desperate?

 

If she is free I will happily do her but if I have to pay I would prefer to invest in something a lot younger and hotter.

 

Who are these caddies? What is their angle? It is not clear to me.

 

 

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2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

You're thinking of playing the 19th hole?

I don't think golf is ever free.

I am thinking 19th, 20th definitely and with a bit of alcohol and lube maybe even the 21st.

 

I was sweating like the pig that I am from about the 3rd hole in. Which is another reason I am suspicious of her sincerity. 
Those little white scented frozen towels are good.

9 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I am not sure if she is a prostitute or not?

 

If she's interested in you...odds are high that yes she is.

Just keep in mind 95% of the time it's either a front end deal or a back end deal, so either she's hoping for compensation up front, or she's hoping for something long-term with financial security down the road. It is likely the latter, but you could just play and see what happens. 

11 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

she could find my balls in the rough.

Well done.

Book her in again😁

2 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Well done.

Book her in again😁

I don’t know if I will play again in Thailand. It is too hot to enjoy.

Today I am feeling sunburned, hungover and heat stroked. 

Break your back hauling clubs around for small tips for ten hours a day in the blazing hot sun or search for sweaty balls in the rough for fifteen minutes once a week while some old geezer pays all your bills and your family’s eating steak. Difficult decision. Do the math, bro.

Look in the mirror, are you the type of guy women do for free? 

 

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

I don’t know if I will play again in Thailand. It is too hot to enjoy.

Today I am feeling sunburned, hungover and heat stroked. 

I tried it several times in Chiang Mai. Need 30 min drive to the hills.

Started at 7am. But it was already too late.Next I was there at 6, not alone actually. Many mates. But after 2 hours it was getting HOT. I left at 8. For me it's no fun at all. Even Tennis is a nightmare unless you would be ready to play in night times.

So at present I go only swimming.

I thought you were already alluding to her being up for it when  you said she was good at finding your balls in the rough. 😀

Ask yourself a few helpful questions with hopefully self-intuitive answers.

 

1. Why are they all female cadies and shagable?

2. Why are they in a job that requires them to work outside in the hot sun, when Thai women hate to be in the sun?

3. Why would she want your LINE ID/number? (never share that)

4. She works every day for some different guy as his caddie, do you think maybe she goes through the same routine at the end of each round?

5. Were there short-time rooms available at the golf course? Check next time.

6. Does she want short time or something longer? (She'll probably take what ever comes along, but now that she has your LINE...) 

 

Nothing is free as all well know. There's always an angle here.

 

One of the main advantages of golf in Thailand is that the caddies are usually quite hot, as compared to the Scottish terriers in a flat hat making sarcastic comments about your drive that are common in the UK.

 

They are chosen for their looks, not their golfing knowledge, as Thai golfers expect pleasant scenery on the course.  They are not prostitutes!  But most are either looking for a rich husband, a good tip or a night of all expenses entertainment and gifts in return for some fun in the sack.

 

The line between professional prostitutes and enthusiastic amateurs is very grey in Thailand as you know ..... so just play for fun and you may get a hole in one.

29 minutes ago, FriscoKid said:

Break your back hauling clubs around for small tips for ten hours a day in the blazing hot sun or search for sweaty balls in the rough for fifteen minutes once a week while some old geezer pays all your bills and your family’s eating steak. Difficult decision. Do the math, bro.

So it sounds like you would prefer to service men.

i think I would choose to be a caddy myself.

12 minutes ago, ronnie50 said:

Ask yourself a few helpful questions with hopefully self-intuitive answers.

 

1. Why are they all female cadies and shagable?

2. Why are they in a job that requires them to work outside in the hot sun, when Thai women hate to be in the sun?

3. Why would she want your LINE ID/number? (never share that)

4. She works every day for some different guy as his caddie, do you think maybe she goes through the same routine at the end of each round?

5. Were there short-time rooms available at the golf course? Check next time.

6. Does she want short time or something longer? (She'll probably take what ever comes along, but now that she has your LINE...) 

 

Nothing is free as all well know. There's always an angle here.

 

So what is the going rate?

32 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

Look in the mirror, are you the type of guy women do for free? 

 

I have been quite successful in the past.

But most of them were drunk and or drugged.

I really need to take up golfing.

Whg over analyse it, just go with the flow, you"'ll know soon enough.

 

Enjoy it for what it is, don't overthink it.

I have met them outside the golf course.  Of course they want money.  

The good looking ones might have several sponsors playing the nice girl caddie routine.  Korean and Japanese men are the top prize for these girls.

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So what is the going rate?

Dunno. Don't golf 🙃

12 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

Whg over analyse it, just go with the flow, you"'ll know soon enough.

 

Enjoy it for what it is, don't overthink it.

I agree but it would be handy to know before hand.

I make love differently with free girls than with ones that I am paying.

1 minute ago, bkk6060 said:

I have met them outside the golf course.  Of course they want money.  

The good looking ones might have several sponsors playing the nice girl caddie routine.  Korean and Japanese men are the top prize for these girls.

Thanks for the definitive answer. 
I thought it was too good to be true. Heat stroke got me.

6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I have been quite successful in the past.

But most of them were drunk and or drugged.

 

Are you friends with cardi b ?

To play along with the nice caddie girl routine, if it were me, and so it didn't appear too transactional, I'd first meet her for a few drinks near a short-time hotel, then suggest she join you there. At the end you give her a 'tip' and thank her for being a good caddie. Probably 1,500 - 2,000 but I don't really know - like I said I don't golf 😉

Under the blazing Thai sun, Mark, a golf-loving tourist from Manchester, was halfway through his round at a lush Chiang Mai course when his caddie, a cheerful and petite figure named Noi, offered advice with uncanny precision and an infectious laugh. They joked, drank coconut water, and shared stories between swings. As they walked up the 18th fairway, Mark complimented Noi’s strength for lugging his clubs all day. With a grin, Noi casually replied, “Not bad for a ladyboy, right?” Mark froze mid-stride, mouth agape—not out of offense, but pure surprise. After a stunned moment, he burst into laughter, then shook her hand with newfound admiration, muttering, “Well, you’ve got a better swing than I do, and probably more charm.”

Can be a distraction. From a round in Pattaya. 

3 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

Can be a distraction. From a round in Pattaya. 

I am truly curious. Do the golf courses have short-time rooms (typically)?

6 minutes ago, ronnie50 said:

I am truly curious. Do the golf courses have short-time rooms (typically)?

Only for a hole in one celebration!