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No male Thai friends after years of living here? Help for the lonely farangs left out.

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6 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I thought you claimed you were friends with a famous Thai musician?

 

Knowing people is not quite the same as friend, he came to our house warming and we went on a trip with him but he's more the mrs friend than mine

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Just now, proton said:

but he's more the mrs friend than mine

Be careful mate.

Those famous musicians know how to pull the women and women will do anything to sleep with them married or not. 

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Be careful mate.

Those famous musicians know how to pull the women and women will do anything to sleep with them married or not. 

 

Well he is a muslim 😝

I`m always wary of Thai strangers being friendly....it usually means they want something from you , otherwise , why would they bother ?

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2 minutes ago, proton said:

 

Well he is a muslim 😝

You always come across on this forum as very, very anti Muslim. 
 

I think I know why now. 
The missus “friend”.

 

Got it.

2 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

Nice positive vibes

I know I should not ask this question of you but I think I will try it!

What does  your post "Nice positive vibes" refer to and mean?

 

PS; is it just yet another post count post?

Just now, MalcolmB said:

You always come across on this forum as very, very anti Muslim. 
 

I think I know why now. 
The missus “friend”.

 

Got it.

 

Anti Islam, not anti muslim, he only converted to marry a Swede.

2 minutes ago, DezLez said:

I know I should not ask this question of you but I think I will try it!

What does  your post "Nice positive vibes" refer to and mean?

 

PS; is it just yet another post count post?

Sarcasm, google it

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Sarcasm, google it

I know what sarcasm means, but what does your post mean wrt to the topic?

One of the first things I learned here is that Thai property is THEIR property. Farang property is COMMUNITY property.  Having male Thai friends is impossible. The female friends are toxic enough.

The world's toughest marriage visa requirements are a pretty clear indication of why Thai men don't consider farang friends.
To make you understand this more clearly they will likely introduce 800k in the bank requirement, insurance requirement, show 100k in cash on the border requirement, medical certificate requirement etc

language is a real thing.  like super important.  but that's the minimum.  then learn sports teams, music, cultural stuff, and then do hobbies where you interact with people.

 

knowing English doesn't make you America, sorry.  Then, like Thailand, it depends what part of America you want to fit it.  All pretty different.  They don't change for you, you change for them.  

6 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Well not only the fluency in English but the fact that they're highly educated means that they're likely more open-minded and the exposure to higher education has encouraged them to be more curious about people and about the world. 

 

Absolutely...  that's precisely how I see it too.

 

It's the same story everywhere: educated individuals tend to be more open-minded and attuned to what's happening around them and in the wider world.

 

 

 

 

 

 

4 hours ago, zmisha said:

The world's toughest marriage visa requirements are a pretty clear indication of why Thai men don't consider farang friends.
To make you understand this more clearly they will likely introduce 800k in the bank requirement, insurance requirement, show 100k in cash on the border requirement, medical certificate requirement etc

UK is tougher. 400k in bank versus 4 million in the bank. Or, 65k a month versus 100k a month income.

10 hours ago, blaze master said:

Make the effort and deeper connections will happen

No thank you, no need to, if you got on better with foreigners you wouldn't need to also

20 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

No thank you, no need to, if you got on better with foreigners you wouldn't need to also

 

20 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

No thank you, no need to, if you got on better with foreigners you wouldn't need to also

 

Who says I dont ? Quite the wild assumption you've made.

On 7/3/2025 at 2:29 AM, MalcolmB said:

A common theme on this forum is farangs who can’t make any male Thai friends. 

 

Have you made any friends on AN?

Should we start a separate thread about the inability of farangs to make friends on a farang forum? 

 

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

Have you made any friends on AN?

Should we start a separate thread about the inability of farangs to make friends on a farang forum? 

I've made several pals on AN, mostly dead now.

Bit tired of my pals dying on me.

15 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

4 posts from yo so far.

The baiting threads reel you everytime.

 

Sorry to bring up another topic that is an obvious trigger for you.

I think they are fun, because you usually walk away sulking.......😁

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4 minutes ago, transam said:

I think they are fun, because you usually walk away sulking.......😁

Must be male menopause, almost non existent testosterone levels, male pattern baldness and onset of Alzheimer’s that gets to me.

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3 hours ago, save the frogs said:

 

Have you made any friends on AN?

Should we start a separate thread about the inability of farangs to make friends on a farang forum? 

 

Yes, big xmas party this year.

I hope you and the missus can make it.

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6 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

No thank you, no need to, if you got on better with foreigners you wouldn't need to also

 

It's not about need at all. No one needs to become friends with anyone - most of us are perfectly capable of living solitary lives in relative comfort.

 

But having trusted friends to socialise and connect with is one of life’s pleasures for many.

 

From my perspective, there’s no reason why that circle of friendship shouldn’t include a Thai, or indeed any foreign male, if there’s genuine common ground.

 

So when someone deliberately avoids such interactions and states they would only befriend fellow foreigners, it suggests a certain negative attitude - a kind of quiet prejudice towards the local population.

 

 

 

 

49 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Must be male menopause, almost non existent testosterone levels, male pattern baldness and onset of Alzheimer’s that gets to me.

 

It certainly explains a lot about you...   :whistling:

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13 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

It certainly explains a lot about you...   :whistling:

The way you squeal and carry on I suspect you of having high estrogen levels.

And I am not the only one.

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Must be male menopause, almost non existent testosterone levels, male pattern baldness and onset of Alzheimer’s that gets to me.

Why do you think that, as I am not the one sitting here trying to think of more baiting threads, am I.........:whistling:.............😁

19 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

It certainly explains a lot about you...   :whistling:

Well spotted, chap.................:clap2:

5 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

The way you squeal and carry on I suspect you of having high estrogen levels.

And I am not the only one.

Guessing again, with illusionary 'knowing' everyone here.............😂

23 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

The way you squeal and carry on I suspect you of having high estrogen levels.

And I am not the only one.

 

You are not the only one who has high estrogen levels...    Makes sense again... 

 

Male menopause, non-existent testosterone levels, baldness, onset of Alzheimers and high estrogen... your openness to identify your issues is a huge step in your journey towards self improvement.... 

 

Your emotional development is impressive Malcy......   well done... :clap2:

 

 

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