We all have one body. I have one body. My GF has one body. If you mean by "Body count" how many f#cks you have had then that is a different question.  My answer is one body & over a 1000 f#@cks but I spent several years specialising in f#cking . It was my hobby. Maybe 5000 in my life here in Thailand. 

12 in one day at one time; with the help of specialist mistress and Cialis.

The rest of the week was pretty busy too.

The specialist houses are great fun

Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count?

 

 

In the answers you missed ----  No & I don't F***ing Care     ........ 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's true of course. We are all closely related to the Bonobos, the most promiscuous of apes, and promiscuity is our state of default.

 

However, as human beings, we have developed certain codes of behaviour which help us to achieve higher goals, and loyalty is one of the original, primary codes of conduct we require for this purpose.

 

Some adhere to it, others do not. Some know what is wrong and don't do it, others know it and do it anyway. It's a matter of character and integrity.

 

However, a woman can be exceptionally faithful to a man, and not even have eyes for other men....if she's convinced the man she has is the best option she could ever have. In the age of social media, that is increasingly unlikely of course.

I disagree,,,,women and loyalty has to do with security for the offspring and food.  Nothing about love.  If you cannot get that food or protect her from that hungry and horny tribe, let's see how loyal she will be to you.

32 minutes ago, Magictoad said:

We all have one body. I have one body. My GF has one body. If you mean by "Body count" how many f#cks you have had then that is a different question.  My answer is one body & over a 1000 f#@cks but I spent several years specialising in f#cking . It was my hobby. Maybe 5000 in my life here in Thailand. 

12 in one day at one time; with the help of specialist mistress and Cialis.

The rest of the week was pretty busy too.

The specialist houses are great fun

Quality over Quantity...always, unless you are a sex addict.  Eventually sex addicts figure out they wasted lot of money and energy.....once they have been cured...55555.  Could have a better dopamine high investing in Apple 20 years ago.

 

4 minutes ago, Taboo2 said:

I disagree,,,,women and loyalty has to do with security for the offspring and food.  Nothing about love.  If you cannot get that food or protect her from that hungry and horny tribe, let's see how loyal she will be to you.

 

You're not disagreeing, you're agreeing, as I said, if the woman considers the man the best option she can get,  which obviously  would include considerations on provision of resources.

I know her weight, height, BMI, blood pressure, blood sugar, when next period is, what turns her on, or off, but as for Body Count, I never heard the phrase, unless you are referring to the number of sexual partners you have had between you. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

you are wrong. Already in the bible,  in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus states, "No one can serve two masters". The concept of loyalty long predates European knights.  

You're reading the newly feminised version of the bible.

It used to be "No man can serve two masters"

 

As for the Samurai ........ All men.

 

 

1 hour ago, Taboo2 said:

Why worry about Divorce?  Men, stop getting married and guess what, you will have a lot more of your money as you get older.  If you are marrying for sex...forget it, after 2 years, sex goes away.  If you are marrying for companionship and devotion...get a Dog and have lady friends or short term girlfriends.  Marriage is a scam, the best scam on the planet that was invented to steal resources.  If marriage is soooooooooooooo good, why is the divorce rate so high everywhere?  Why is your wife looking at every other stud when she goes on vacation with her sisters? Why is your wife sleeping or sucking the personal trainer or her 'side job"?  

 

 

Sex goes away in marriages because the man usually stops the romance he did when he was courting his wife. If you ask most any woman, or their counselors, or read their books, the main complaints women have about their man is he doesn't listen to me.

 

He never takes me on dates anymore.

 

He's more interested in watching sports on TV.

 

He goes out with his friends drinking but never takes me along.

 

He leaves his clothes all over the floor. He never helps around the house.

 

He doesn't spend enough time with the kids.

 

The main one is not listening, because if he did, he would hear all the rest. This is why she gets played by players. What does a player do to get laid? He listens."Oh, I'm sorry your husband never takes you out anymore, I wouldn't do that" "Oh, you're so romantic, I wish my husband was like you". Bingo! If she cheats, it's still on her but it's too late.

 

Some are pigs and never satisfied no matter what you do. Damaged by her dad and men before you, a complete waste of your time. Most aren't being listened to.

 

Divorce happens because people pick the wrong partners, they are abusive, drink too much, cheat, lie, neglect or leave emotionally. Some stay because of fear of the dark unknown, finances or kids.

This is a non issue if you are not bedding down with a rescue case from the local beer bar. Some of us are smart enough to look for GF's in other ways. 7-11 girls are my favorite.

 

For those of you who have "taken the girl out of the bar" I'll tell you this.

 

I had a regular "buddy" who was not a girl friend but just a low mileage younger gal who I really got on with, had fun with and I really enjoyed. We were friends with benefits etc and I took care of her and she took care of me, about twice or three times a month. 

 

She found herself an American guy who fell head over heels for her. She told me on one of our  dates it'd probably be the last time we'd see each other because he proposed marriage and paid out a big dowry along with a condo in Pattaya. Last time? No, it wasn't.

 

Even while she was married, she would sneak out and have fun with me. It eventually ended a couple months after the marriage because she was a pretty good soul and started feeling guilty about it, (as well as afraid of getting caught and losing the big pay day) but the point is she didn't immediately stop, even after being recently married.

 

This is not an isolated incident. I had another "buddy" who was being heavily sponsored by a Swedish guy. We saw each other, sometimes when he was in town, and quite a few times when he was away. She would take his calls while we were hanging out in bed together.. 

 

Take it for what it's worth.

 

My conculsion - Most Pattaya bar girls are opportunists. They have someone on the side just in case. 

In fact if any of you really knows Thai culture, this is built into it. The concept of keeping lots of friends  just in case one might need a favor etc. I think they rarely burn bridges, especially with well to do people.

 

If you are geting down with Pattaya bar girls or freelancers than they are gonna be high mileage no matter what and will more than likely NOT be faithful. Buyer beware, get yourself checked for STD's regularly, perhaps get into taking HIV Prep

2 minutes ago, StandardIssue said:

Most Pattaya bar girls are opportunists

And I was thinking it was true love.

1 hour ago, Magictoad said:

12 in one day at one time;

Legend

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

He listens."Oh, I'm sorry your husband never takes you out anymore, I wouldn't do that"

Your last wife was playing up on her marriage week wasnt she?

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

And I was thinking it was true love.

 

Thinking what was true love? 

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I think it's irrelevant to our life together.

Generally it's INCELs that fantasize about virgins.

I had some when I was younger, nothing memorable about any of them.

 

Not even the mess, and the noise?

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Your last wife was playing up on her marriage week wasnt she?

Is this where you eventually got to the baiting bit............

1 hour ago, oxo1947 said:

Do you know your wife/girlfriends body count?

 

 

In the answers you missed ----  No & I don't F***ing Care     ........ 

well currently the poll indicates 70% of us do.

23 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

You're reading the newly feminised version of the bible.

It used to be "No man can serve two masters"

 

As for the Samurai ........ All men.

 

 

55555555555555555555...Feminized version of the Bible......so true.....that fairy tale book has caused a lot of men serious coin in divorce court.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Your last wife was playing up on her marriage week wasnt she?

She is very damaged goods that will never be satisfied. That came from a mother who had 11 children and didn't really know how to love any of them, yet favored one son's son, who lived with her from age 2, is hooked on drugs, never worked, poisons animals, and wasn't put into school for any period and can't write Thai. She wanted to be back with me right up till she married. Was kissing on me in front of our daughter the day before she married him. Now he's in another country and sends her money, so she's happy, at least for now.

1 minute ago, transam said:

Is this where you eventually got to the baiting bit............

No I seem to recall that Fred previously said his ex wife, the mother of his child,  was playing up on the day or the week of her marriage. 

Just now, MalcolmB said:

well currently the poll indicates 70% of us do.

 

Best to be prepared for a rude awakening at some point then. Loyalty in marriage, especially for the types of gals that most expats wind up with is a rare IMHO.

1 minute ago, Taboo2 said:

55555555555555555555...Feminized version of the Bible......so true.....that fairy tale book has caused a lot of men serious coin in divorce court.

As did cheating, neglect and abuse. Can't blame a book for one's actions.

14 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Sex goes away in marriages because the man usually stops the romance he did when he was courting his wife. If you ask most any woman, or their counselors, or read their books, the main complaints women have about their man is he doesn't listen to me.

 

He never takes me on dates anymore.

 

He's more interested in watching sports on TV.

 

He goes out with his friends drinking but never takes me along.

 

He leaves his clothes all over the floor. He never helps around the house.

 

He doesn't spend enough time with the kids.

 

The main one is not listening, because if he did, he would hear all the rest. This is why she gets played by players. What does a player do to get laid? He listens."Oh, I'm sorry your husband never takes you out anymore, I wouldn't do that" "Oh, you're so romantic, I wish my husband was like you". Bingo! If she cheats, it's still on her but it's too late.

 

Some are pigs and never satisfied no matter what you do. Damaged by her dad and men before you, a complete waste of your time. Most aren't being listened to.

 

Divorce happens because people pick the wrong partners, they are abusive, drink too much, cheat, lie, neglect or leave emotionally. Some stay because of fear of the dark unknown, finances or kids.

Let's just say that the women who cheat the most are those in relationships or married.  I am old enough to know that the game of marriage is a losers game.  So many wives continue to want to f**k me in the West and East and South and North.  Not sure why, since Marriage is supposed to be based on Devotion and Love....5555.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

As did cheating, neglect and abuse. Can't blame a book for one's actions.

Yes, the wives cheat and are emotionally abusive.  There are both sides to the coin....just ask the devoted fathers who cannot see their kids, lost half their pensions, house and tool kit to the young stud who was pumping her while he was working overtime to keep her happy.

4 minutes ago, StandardIssue said:

 

Best to be prepared for a rude awakening at some point then. Loyalty in marriage, especially for the types of gals that most expats wind up with is a rare IMHO.

I dare any men who are married to send their wives away for a 3 day weekend to Vegas, or a 7-day Cruise or a 4 day vacation to Turkey, Italy, Spain, etc.  Then tell me if she looks you in the eye when she comes back...without some hint of guilt.

3 minutes ago, Taboo2 said:

Let's just say that the women who cheat the most are those in relationships or married.  I am old enough to know that the game of marriage is a losers game.  So many wives continue to want to f**k me in the West and East and South and North.  Not sure why, since Marriage is supposed to be based on Devotion and Love....5555.

Targeting married women isn't a man's thing. They're easy prey, especially if they're not happy. Better to leave them alone to figure out their marriage and find single women. The only one who wins those situations is a player, and they end up all alone someday.

2 minutes ago, Taboo2 said:

I dare any men who are married to send their wives away for a 3 day weekend to Vegas, or a 7-day Cruise or a 4 day vacation to Turkey, Italy, Spain, etc.  Then tell me if she looks you in the eye when she comes back...without some hint of guilt.

You pick the right partner, and treat her right, she won't go further than looks at other men. Most women aren't cheaters. Those that are are damaged or hellbent on revenge.

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Was kissing on me in front of our daughter the day before she married him.

God.

That is not setting a good example.

5 minutes ago, Taboo2 said:

Yes, the wives cheat and are emotionally abusive.  There are both sides to the coin....just ask the devoted fathers who cannot see their kids, lost half their pensions, house and tool kit to the young stud who was pumping her while he was working overtime to keep her happy.

You can always see your kids unless you've done them wrong. Even if they've been brainwashed by a vengeance seeking ex, you can always show them there was another side, especially if you spent time with them when they were young. Most of the time, you'll get 50% in a divorce, especially if you can prove you paid for it. Some just give up and walk away. 

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

God.

That is not setting a good example.

Which is one reason I will be raising her on my own back home. Past history is a good indicator of future behavior. You give away 2 daughters to someone else, you show your true colors. 

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Which is one reason I will be raising her on my own back home. Past history is a good indicator of future behavior. You give away 2 daughters to someone else, you show your true colors. 

With all the reading and self help books you have read I am surprised you fell for this woman?