No need to be an alpha or beta. I have a fleshlight 

On 7/29/2025 at 5:33 PM, Lacessit said:

some of my best sex has been with a 60 yo. Horny as an owl with two peckers.

Good on you - that is quite a feat!! 

 

How do you accomplish that? Two ladyboys at once? That must be expensive for you - 

 

tie that kangaroo down and the platypus duck too... 

On 7/29/2025 at 3:22 PM, save the frogs said:

Money is not sufficient to keep a relationship going. 

But it probably helps - eh? 

On 7/29/2025 at 6:10 AM, EVENKEEL said:

I'm not knocking Gov hospitals, yeah I am kind of. People camping out under stair wells, in hallways is not my thing. I'm soo glad I have excellent health Ins. 

I know a guy who died in a public hospital, large communal room, no a/c - not a nice way to depart... though he died from incurable cancer - not the fault of the hospital... 

On 7/28/2025 at 5:55 AM, Lacessit said:

I have a woman who slept on the floor of a hospital next to my bed, to take care of me.

 

She has never once in 15 years refused to have sex with me. Back in the day, she frequently initiated it.

 

She prepares my food, does my laundry, washes the dishes, and cuts my toenails. Does a massage when I am tired. She is 23 years younger than me, great body.

 

She prays to Buddha every night for a long life for me.

 

Beta - guilty as charged. ATM -guilty as charged. I view the relationship as a screaming bargain.

 

IMO the OP is as shallow as a mud puddle.

 

Does she has sister?  Asking for a friend.

1 hour ago, Zakhar said:

Does she has sister?  Asking for a friend.

Two. Older, not as beautiful.

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

Two. Older, not as beautiful.

Thanks.  I will tell my friend:):)

It is statistically proven that 90% of all wannabe Alpha men have their own wishful thinking from Beta to Z males

On 7/28/2025 at 7:33 PM, Celsius said:

This is the unvarnished "reality" of how women engage with men for sex, categorized into two utterly distinct, and rather depressing, tiers.

The Alpha: The Chosen One

Behold, the Alpha: genetically

blessed, effortlessly charismatic, and utterly devoid of the need to try. He gets sex because he exists. Women, in this charming fairy tale, simply want him for him, no strings attached, no effort required. He's the guy who farts and still gets a date; you, meanwhile, meticulously plan a romantic gesture and get left on read.

 

The Beta: The Disposable Utility

Then there's the Beta: kind, supportive, and utterly devoid of that elusive "it" factor. He gets sex only after proving his worth, laying out his resume of stability and emotional availability. Women want him for what he can provide, not who he is. He's the human ATM, the emotional support animal, the guy who fixes things – anything but the object of raw desire.

The Inevitable Disparity: Why You're Losing

Here's the kicker: Alphas get the red-carpet treatment, demanded nothing in return for sexual favors. Betas get the interrogation room, forced to jump through endless hoops before even a pity glance. Alpha sex is a passionate, immediate explosion; Beta sex is a reluctant chore, delayed and devoid of enthusiasm.

 

The "Temporal Cuckoldry": Your Grim Fate

So, if you're not an Alpha, you're living in "temporal cuckoldry." You're getting the absolute bottom-of-the-barrel sex despite pouring your soul (and probably your wallet) into the relationship. It's paying for a five-star meal and getting a stale cracker. Because, clearly, the ease and quality of your sexual conquests are the only metrics of a man's worth.
Feeling more enlightened or just ready to embrace nihilism?

Guys, I'm a woman and believe me, this is NOT how it works.

Historically, despite more males than females being born,  there were more adult women than men in every generation, due to wars and the inherent weakness of males who were more likely to die in infancy.  So women had to make themselves attractive in order to get a mate. 

 

But the invention of the incubator combined with the switch from waging war with soldiers to waging war on civilians changed that imbalance around. So for the last 60 years or so, there have been more men than women;  and women, for a change, get to pick and choose while men have to smarten up and make themselves attractive - or move to Thailand. 

https://open.substack.com/pub/iandunt/p/how-to-be-a-man-4ae?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=78g6l

 

PS Ian Dunt absolutely nails it. A long read but seriously, do yourself a favour and read it. 

On 7/28/2025 at 7:33 PM, Celsius said:

This is the unvarnished "reality" of how women engage with men for sex, categorized into two utterly distinct, and rather depressing, tiers.

The Alpha: The Chosen One

Behold, the Alpha: genetically

blessed, effortlessly charismatic, and utterly devoid of the need to try. He gets sex because he exists. Women, in this charming fairy tale, simply want him for him, no strings attached, no effort required. He's the guy who farts and still gets a date; you, meanwhile, meticulously plan a romantic gesture and get left on read.

 

The Beta: The Disposable Utility

Then there's the Beta: kind, supportive, and utterly devoid of that elusive "it" factor. He gets sex only after proving his worth, laying out his resume of stability and emotional availability. Women want him for what he can provide, not who he is. He's the human ATM, the emotional support animal, the guy who fixes things – anything but the object of raw desire.

The Inevitable Disparity: Why You're Losing

Here's the kicker: Alphas get the red-carpet treatment, demanded nothing in return for sexual favors. Betas get the interrogation room, forced to jump through endless hoops before even a pity glance. Alpha sex is a passionate, immediate explosion; Beta sex is a reluctant chore, delayed and devoid of enthusiasm.

 

The "Temporal Cuckoldry": Your Grim Fate

So, if you're not an Alpha, you're living in "temporal cuckoldry." You're getting the absolute bottom-of-the-barrel sex despite pouring your soul (and probably your wallet) into the relationship. It's paying for a five-star meal and getting a stale cracker. Because, clearly, the ease and quality of your sexual conquests are the only metrics of a man's worth.
Feeling more enlightened or just ready to embrace nihilism?

So many men on this site, like Celsius, seem to be what I call LOGs - Lonely Old Guys. And they are not only lonely, they are also so unhappy that the only way they can justify being here is to criticize all others - including the country hosting them and its people.

5 hours ago, Drumbuie said:

Guys, I'm a woman and believe me, this is NOT how it works.

Historically, despite more males than females being born,  there were more adult women than men in every generation, due to wars and the inherent weakness of males who were more likely to die in infancy.  So women had to make themselves attractive in order to get a mate. 

 

But the invention of the incubator combined with the switch from waging war with soldiers to waging war on civilians changed that imbalance around. So for the last 60 years or so, there have been more men than women;  and women, for a change, get to pick and choose while men have to smarten up and make themselves attractive - or move to Thailand. 

 

Well said and observed

 

and in Thailand there is more women than men, as well many men can not even provide for themselves, and needs help from their mom, while women often are more reliable to take care of their parents. 

I don't give a fig, I didn't come to live here, 17 years now, to fit into anything.

 

I came to retire with my wife, her 2 children and enjoy myself.

 

I am free to do as I please and answer to no one.

 

I support my family and contribute to the village community as I want.

 

Life is good.

 

Fitting in is for those that feel the need to fit in, whatever that is...

3 hours ago, Andycoops said:

 

I am free to do as I please and answer to no one.

 

 

You just did ..

10 hours ago, Drumbuie said:

Guys, I'm a woman and believe me, this is NOT how it works.

Historically, despite more males than females being born,  there were more adult women than men in every generation, due to wars and the inherent weakness of males who were more likely to die in infancy.  So women had to make themselves attractive in order to get a mate. 

 

But the invention of the incubator combined with the switch from waging war with soldiers to waging war on civilians changed that imbalance around. So for the last 60 years or so, there have been more men than women;  and women, for a change, get to pick and choose while men have to smarten up and make themselves attractive - or move to Thailand. 

 

You must also believe her....

 

 

On 7/28/2025 at 1:33 PM, Celsius said:

This is the unvarnished "reality" of how women engage with men for sex, categorized into two utterly distinct, and rather depressing, tiers.

The Alpha: The Chosen One

Behold, the Alpha: genetically

blessed, effortlessly charismatic, and utterly devoid of the need to try. He gets sex because he exists. Women, in this charming fairy tale, simply want him for him, no strings attached, no effort required. He's the guy who farts and still gets a date; you, meanwhile, meticulously plan a romantic gesture and get left on read.

 

The Beta: The Disposable Utility

Then there's the Beta: kind, supportive, and utterly devoid of that elusive "it" factor. He gets sex only after proving his worth, laying out his resume of stability and emotional availability. Women want him for what he can provide, not who he is. He's the human ATM, the emotional support animal, the guy who fixes things – anything but the object of raw desire.

The Inevitable Disparity: Why You're Losing

Here's the kicker: Alphas get the red-carpet treatment, demanded nothing in return for sexual favors. Betas get the interrogation room, forced to jump through endless hoops before even a pity glance. Alpha sex is a passionate, immediate explosion; Beta sex is a reluctant chore, delayed and devoid of enthusiasm.

 

The "Temporal Cuckoldry": Your Grim Fate

So, if you're not an Alpha, you're living in "temporal cuckoldry." You're getting the absolute bottom-of-the-barrel sex despite pouring your soul (and probably your wallet) into the relationship. It's paying for a five-star meal and getting a stale cracker. Because, clearly, the ease and quality of your sexual conquests are the only metrics of a man's worth.
Feeling more enlightened or just ready to embrace nihilism?

 

I fit into neither of those two generalised categories, I am probably in one of the other dozens of sub-categories which exist.

 

People are not just black or white. 

 

 

 

 

On 7/28/2025 at 1:33 PM, Celsius said:

This is the unvarnished "reality" of how women engage with men for sex, categorized into two utterly distinct, and rather depressing, tiers.

The Alpha: The Chosen One

Behold, the Alpha: genetically

blessed, effortlessly charismatic, and utterly devoid of the need to try. He gets sex because he exists. Women, in this charming fairy tale, simply want him for him, no strings attached, no effort required. He's the guy who farts and still gets a date; you, meanwhile, meticulously plan a romantic gesture and get left on read.

 

The Beta: The Disposable Utility

Then there's the Beta: kind, supportive, and utterly devoid of that elusive "it" factor. He gets sex only after proving his worth, laying out his resume of stability and emotional availability. Women want him for what he can provide, not who he is. He's the human ATM, the emotional support animal, the guy who fixes things – anything but the object of raw desire.

The Inevitable Disparity: Why You're Losing

Here's the kicker: Alphas get the red-carpet treatment, demanded nothing in return for sexual favors. Betas get the interrogation room, forced to jump through endless hoops before even a pity glance. Alpha sex is a passionate, immediate explosion; Beta sex is a reluctant chore, delayed and devoid of enthusiasm.

 

The "Temporal Cuckoldry": Your Grim Fate

So, if you're not an Alpha, you're living in "temporal cuckoldry." You're getting the absolute bottom-of-the-barrel sex despite pouring your soul (and probably your wallet) into the relationship. It's paying for a five-star meal and getting a stale cracker. Because, clearly, the ease and quality of your sexual conquests are the only metrics of a man's worth.
Feeling more enlightened or just ready to embrace nihilism?

 

Well there are a lot of tiers in relationships not just two.

 

But as far as I have seen most of the guys I have come across who are married to a Thai are partly in the second category in that their wives are with them as the wife does not work and the farang husband pays for all of her expenses and in many cases they think it is normal to support the wife'e family as well, they make me laugh.

 

So I am in a probably in a mutually beneficial category I suppose, in that my Thai partner of 20 years owns eight houses which she rents out, she bought them though her travel tour business in Phuket,  four of the rental houses are in Phuket, hence she has her own income, I have my own income and so no money changes hands, we get on really well and have a good laugh together and so it is fun and mutual happiness for both of us to live together.

 

There must be a lot more other type of relationships where the man is the boss, the woman is the boss, loveless categories, in it for the money category, the list goes on. 

24 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

Well there are a lot of tiers in relationships not just two.

 

But as far as I have seen most of the guys I have come across who are married to a Thai are partly in the second category in that their wives are with them as the wife does not work and the farang husband pays for all of her expenses and in many cases they think it is normal to support the wife'e family as well, they make me laugh.

 

So I am in a probably in a mutually beneficial category I suppose, in that my Thai partner of 20 years owns eight houses which she rents out, she bought them though her travel tour business in Phuket,  four of the rental houses are in Phuket, hence she has her own income, I have my own income and so no money changes hands, we get on really well and have a good laugh together and so it is fun and mutual happiness for both of us to live together.

 

There must be a lot more other type of relationships where the man is the boss, the woman is the boss, loveless categories, in it for the money category, the list goes on. 

 

Well said, James..... well said 

35 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

Well there are a lot of tiers in relationships not just two.

 

But as far as I have seen most of the guys I have come across who are married to a Thai are partly in the second category in that their wives are with them as the wife does not work and the farang husband pays for all of her expenses and in many cases they think it is normal to support the wife'e family as well, they make me laugh.

 

So I am in a probably in a mutually beneficial category I suppose, in that my Thai partner of 20 years owns eight houses which she rents out, she bought them though her travel tour business in Phuket,  four of the rental houses are in Phuket, hence she has her own income, I have my own income and so no money changes hands, we get on really well and have a good laugh together and so it is fun and mutual happiness for both of us to live together.

 

There must be a lot more other type of relationships where the man is the boss, the woman is the boss, loveless categories, in it for the money category, the list goes on. 

 

 

Don't augh at other people's 'normal'.

 

 

One day people will laugh at you.............................if they haven't already.

20 hours ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

I fit into neither of those two generalised categories, I am probably in one of the other dozens of sub-categories which exist.

 

People are not just black or white. 

 

 

 

 

I don't want to be in any ones made up category because I am unique, like everyone else on the planet.