Thai dating apps just escorts?

[DonniePeverley]

I've browsed a few Thai dating apps this past week. Most seem like they are full of prostitutes, ladyboys, those seeking to scam money, and what not. Not legit women looking for love. 

 

Anyone here gone down the dating route using these apps that were not prostitutes and you had some success?

[Harrisfan]

Not used them

[Autocan]

27 minutes ago, DonniePeverley said:

Not legit women looking for love. 

There's a blurry line here. Well-off/hi-so/well-educated Thai women are not on dating apps, they operate in their own Thai social circles and are 99% not interested in farangs.

 

Middle/lower income Thai women with a job might be open to a long-term relationship with a farang - "the legit woman looking for love" deal. But at the same time many will be amenable to a "date" with a guy which has no long-term prospects but ends with her receiving a "token of appreciation". She will not consider this prostitution but that she is being rewarded for her desirability. 

 

Think of it what you will but we are, thank the Lord, not in a puritanical (hypocritical) culture. Personally, I find this refreshing and liberating. A guy doesn't have to lie through his teeth and a gal doesn't have to pretend she's what she's not when they both want the same physical intimacy without commitment.

 

Bottom line if I may answer your question: Are dating apps full of prostitutes or legit woman looking for love? Both and the same gals/lbs both categories.

[Cameroni]

Yes plenty of success. There's about 40% sex workers on TF but it's not the same on all apps. 

 

The ladyboy scourge is a real problem though, as they fraudulently label themselves as women and edit the photos. 

[ThreeCardMonte]

58 minutes ago, DonniePeverley said:

I've browsed a few Thai dating apps this past week. Most seem like they are full of prostitutes, ladyboys, those seeking to scam money, and what not. Not legit women looking for love. 

 

Anyone here gone down the dating route using these apps that were not prostitutes and you had some success?

You looking for love, get a 🐕 dog

[VillageIdiot]

"Lookin' for love in all the wrong places."

That line from the old song sums it up.

[Oliver Holzerfilled]

1 hour ago, DonniePeverley said:

I've browsed a few Thai dating apps this past week. Most seem like they are full of...ladyboys,...Not legit women looking for love. 

 

Interesting.  

[Lorry]

1 hour ago, Autocan said:

"the legit woman looking for love" deal. But at the same time many will be amenable to a "date" with a guy which has no long-term prospects but ends with her receiving a "token of appreciation". She will not consider this prostitution but that she is being rewarded for her desirability. 

Very wrong.

Farang like to think it is this way.

A "legit woman" does not accept money,  they are very clear about it and they draw a very clear line between themselves and those women that accept money for sęx.

And yes, these women can be found in dating apps. But not in Pattaya/Phuket/Samui and not if you are 40 years older than her and 3 times her weight.

[EVENKEEL]

1 hour ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

You looking for love, get a 🐕 dog

Too much work. Maybe a goldfish.

[proton]

Just now, EVENKEEL said:

Too much work. Maybe a goldfish.

 

Parrot, the one next door makes more sense than it's owner

[ThreeCardMonte]

13 minutes ago, Lorry said:

Very wrong.

Farang like to think it is this way.

A "legit woman" does not accept money,  they are very clear about it and they draw a very clear line between themselves and those women that accept money for sęx.

And yes, these women can be found in dating apps. But not in Pattaya/Phuket/Samui and not if you are 40 years older than her and 3 times her weight.

“legit woman" does not accept money”

 

Who are you trying to fool.

 

They ALL accept money.

 

Hookers:  Up front.  You know exactly what the conditions are.

 

Legit women:  Marriage.  The Long Con.

 

They all accept money