56 minutes ago, rickudon said:

Tattoos and wear sun glasses when it isn't sunny. would make me wonder.

I worked my way through the first dozen friends i have in Udon, and none of them have partners with Bar girl traits as mentioned in this thread. All bar one have been with our partners for over 10 years (some more than 20). Typical age gap about 20 years. I think most found their partners online, back in the days when dating sites were not overrun by pay for play girls, all the girls were 30 plus I think when they met. Mine was at a restaurant next to a pond i was fishing, her late 30's.

 

Obviously support was the number one criteria - both ways.

If she is good at pool. Or even knows the rules. Dead giveaway.

If you pay your woman, it doesn't matter if she worked it the bar or not, she's a prostitute. I know a woman who's never worked in a bar but is essentially a long-term relationship prostitute where she doesn't work and the guy gives her 10k per month and pays for all her food and expenses. I imagine there are a ton of women like that here. Prostitutes in all but name.

On 8/29/2025 at 5:26 PM, MalcolmB said:

When you first meet a Farang man with a Thai girlfriend or wife do you automatically think/assume they probably met in the “nightlife industry?”

 

I do until proven otherwise. 
 

It is probably wrong in some way but I would be lying if I said I didn’t.

 

Other red flags are a big age gap, big attractiveness gap, if the male is fat and bald, if she has tattoos, if she is from Issan, if she drinks alcohol, if she makes sexual type jokes, if she doesn’t have a job.

 

 

Your post says more about you than Thai women. Who do you think you are?

Are you the Farang v Thai woman relationships police?

What business is it of yours?

Cretin! Nothing better to Do?

Stick your face back in your beer - think of some other nonsensical and inane subject to drivel on about!

13 minutes ago, captain_shane said:

If you pay your woman, it doesn't matter if she worked it the bar or not, she's a prostitute. I know a woman who's never worked in a bar but is essentially a long-term relationship prostitute where she doesn't work and the guy gives her 10k per month and pays for all her food and expenses. I imagine there are a ton of women like that here. Prostitutes in all but name.

 

 

WOW! I didn't realise that my first (UK) wife was a whore.

 

Must have been because I gave her a monthly allowance.

20 minutes ago, captain_shane said:

a long-term relationship prostitute where she doesn't work and the guy gives her 10k per month

That ant a bad deal

2,500 for a whole week.

Short times in Phuket can be more than that.

About 350 per day.

12 baht per hour.

 

I want one.

9 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

WOW! I didn't realise that my first (UK) wife was a whore.

 

Must have been because I gave her a monthly allowance.

It is good to know now though. 

2 hours ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

WOW! I didn't realise that my first (UK) wife was a whore.

 

Must have been because I gave her a monthly allowance.

Well, now you know.

11 hours ago, KannikaP said:

Thank goodness my Mrs's tattoos are the religious ones on her back

 

I always thought they were actually a QR code

On 8/29/2025 at 11:51 PM, still kicking said:

50-plus years age difference

 

Definitely a money hooker.

https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/pictures/al-pacino-and-noor-alfallahs-relationship-timeline/

 

Alfallah, for her part, has been linked to Mick Jagger — who is 51 years her senior — as well as billionaire Nicolas Berggruen and Clint Eastwood, though she denied ever dating the Escape From Alcatraz star.

September 2023

 

Alfallah filed a request for sole physical custody of Roman with “reasonable visitation” for Pacino, per legal documents obtained by The Blast.

October 2023

 

Pacino and Alfallah settled their custody arrangement regarding son Roman, according to documents obtained by Us. Details of the arrangement were not disclosed at the time.

 

 

October 2024

 

Pacino’s rep clarified to People the actor and Alfallah’s relationship status noting that the twosome are “very good friends” and “coparents.” 

5 hours ago, captain_shane said:

If you pay your woman, it doesn't matter if she worked it the bar or not, she's a prostitute. I know a woman who's never worked in a bar but is essentially a long-term relationship prostitute where she doesn't work and the guy gives her 10k per month and pays for all her food and expenses. I imagine there are a ton of women like that here. Prostitutes in all but name.

Rather wide generalization there.

 

Both my wives worked, and both still do actually.

 

But both of them took time off when the kids were little, back to work when they went school.

 

So I was the sole income at the time, so in your theory I was paying them!

 

Prostitutes?

9 hours ago, captain_shane said:

Well, now you know.

 

 

It was a shock.....I suppose that the second wife must have been as well...

On 8/29/2025 at 5:26 PM, MalcolmB said:

When you first meet a Farang man with a Thai girlfriend or wife do you automatically think/assume they probably met in the “nightlife industry?”

 

I do until proven otherwise. 
 

It is probably wrong in some way but I would be lying if I said I didn’t.

 

Other red flags are a big age gap, big attractiveness gap, if the male is fat and bald, if she has tattoos, if she is from Issan, if she drinks alcohol, if she makes sexual type jokes, if she doesn’t have a job.

 

 

nOPE, i DO NOT AGREE TO AUTOMATICALLY THINK THAT. My spouse came from ISSAN, Sis Sak Ket! Farm girl. Educated in University of Bangkok. Raised under strict family rules. Was not allowed to marry anyone unless Family approved.  Paid a High Sin Sod for being a virgin. (She Had to be Examined). You can ID bar girls and you can ID country girls. 

Came across this

 

....they both love soup!