October 12, 2025Oct 12 Popular Post I have had sex with some women in Thailand and the more women I meet the more I think they view sex as just a bodily function and not "special". With most of them it feels like it's completely divorced from romantic love, feelings, etc. One can get that all over but it seems so common here. I have also had relationships where intimate feelings developed later on, but even in those cases it still seemed like sex was fun but not really "special". It still felt like they thought it was just something people do and the initimate feelings were not really attached to the sex act.
October 12, 2025Oct 12 1 hour ago, Mark1969 said: I have had sex with some women in Thailand and the more women I meet the more I think they view sex as just a bodily function and not "special". With most of them it feels like it's completely divorced from romantic love, feelings, etc. One can get that all over but it seems so common here. I have also had relationships where intimate feelings developed later on, but even in those cases it still seemed like sex was fun but not really "special". It still felt like they thought it was just something people do and the initimate feelings were not really attached to the sex act. I'm in the they don't think it's special camp. Normal bodily function. Especially working girls. Of course there can be intimacy and with the right lady it can be special. I think this is because they haven't been brainwashed in the Judeo-Christian beliefs from an early age.
October 12, 2025Oct 12 You might want to actually try a girl who’s not on the game. There you might find their approach to sex and feeling close is slightly different. Just don’t bother asking Malcolm to introduce you to any interesting women, because he only knows the type you keep not having a satisfying experience with.
October 12, 2025Oct 12 50 minutes ago, Oliver Holzerfilled said: They're just not that into you. Bingo!
October 12, 2025Oct 12 Author 3 hours ago, emptypockets said: I'm in the they don't think it's special camp. I think this is because they haven't been brainwashed in the Judeo-Christian beliefs from an early age. It may also have something to do with the high infidelity rates. The connection is not perceived as special or sacred so the monogomy is not valued. It ends up being a quantity over quality situation where they are sleeping around rather then being connected to one special person.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 43 minutes ago, Mark1969 said: It may also have something to do with the high infidelity rates. The connection is not perceived as special or sacred so the monogomy is not valued. It ends up being a quantity over quality situation where they are sleeping around rather then being connected to one special person. You say that Iike it's a bad thing.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 Author 5 minutes ago, emptypockets said: You say that Iike it's a bad thing. Did I? It's not good or bad, it's whether it works for the person involved.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 Just now, Mark1969 said: it's whether it works for the person involved. Sleeping with hookers, which is all you talk about in this thread, seem to work for you so why worry?
October 13, 2025Oct 13 Take a good look in the mirror when naked. Do you really think a girl 20-40 years younger than you finds you attractive? It's just a bodily function for men too. Sex & Love are two completely different things.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 Author 5 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: Take a good look in the mirror when naked. Do you really think a girl 20-40 years younger than you finds you attractive? It's just a bodily function for men too. Sex & Love are two completely different things. I have a pretty flabby chest, even when working out regularly. My body went downhill a bit in my mid 50's.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 3 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: Take a good look in the mirror when naked. Do you really think a girl 20-40 years younger than you finds you attractive? It's just a bodily function for men too. Sex & Love are two completely different things. But they go together, as in making love and not just doing it like dogs then leaving. Thais are no different than any other women, outside the bargirl scene. They all want the same things, but in a poor country, are more likely to look at men as money. They still want romance, love, care, kindness, and to be provided for. Many women look at older men as more mature, better lovers, providers and past the point of looking elsewhere for their own needs. Age means something, but a lot of women want to find a man like dad, especially if their dad treated them well and loved them, and again, that can come easier in an older man. More so when they have been with younger boys who only want sex and are gone soon afterwards. This is especially more prevalent in a country like Thailand, where the boys are not held accountable when a child is born. Some never learn but many do.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 Sex to many of them is about as special as scratching an itch. In Peru it seems even less special than that.
October 13, 2025Oct 13 For many it's a social courtesy/thank you/expected behaviour.... No special romantic connotations beyond pleasure seeking or the offering of sexual gratification..... The western concept of romance attached to intimacy is misguided here.....
October 13, 2025Oct 13 The original post raises an unusual observation that seems misguided if it focuses solely on experiences with sex workers. Sex workers are professionals performing a job, often driven by a desperate need for financial compensation rather than a desire for sex or intimacy. If anything, it would seem the OP is very disillusioned about what prostitution is designed to provide.
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