Simple question.

Why have none of these stunners committed to you.

In twenty years you will be mid seventies. They will still be hot in their mid forties. Doubt their future includes baby sitting an old guy.

I guess they are looking to the future much more than you think.

Just now, emptypockets said:

Simple question.

Why have none of these stunners committed to you.

In twenty years you will be mid seventies. They will still be hot in their mid forties. Doubt their future includes baby sitting an old guy.

I guess they are looking to the future much more than you think.

 

They aren't interested in anything but finding an employer that gives them money for doing as little as possible.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

Simple question.

Why have none of these stunners committed to you.

In twenty years you will be mid seventies. They will still be hot in their mid forties. Doubt their future includes baby sitting an old guy.

I guess they are looking to the future much more than you think.

 

Well it's not so easy, just because they want to commit, doesn't mean I want to commit.

 

For instance, the Filipina virgin was driving hard to the hoop, but even though she was a virgin I was not convinced she really was the best choice for me.

 

BKK girl I had doubts about from the very beginning, which are even documented on Asean, and they proved to be right. She may be working to overcome these now, but we are both still unsure about the other.

 

CM I just met, so early days.

 

Filipina 2 wants me to bring her here, it's really a financial issue, not to mention I think I have better options than her.

 

And Virgin in NP, well she has a sick grandmother there and is stil studying. But we'lll see, she's just a reserve anyway.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, there is some truth to that.

 

But still, you are turned on by promiscuous women, are you?

I must admit I am. Also turned on by non promiscuous women. 

It really depends on their personality, not always their looks.

Don't tell my wife that!

2 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

I must admit I am. Also turned on by non promiscuous women. 

It really depends on their personality, not always their looks.

 

No, no, no I meant when they tell you they want to be promiscuous with OTHER men...!

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, it's honesty, but so what? She's still a wanton bounder who wants to bed as many men as possible. That rather trumps the honesty virtue glitz, don't you think?

 

Or are you attracted to a woman that tells you, yes, she'll go see you but you know, I do want my freedom to sleep with other men too....This is not an instant turn-off for you?

It keeps one more sane when you recognize the users as fast as possible and erase them from your life. You only have to ask yourself what you're really looking for in a partner. They'll all give you sex if you treat them right and learn to listen.

 

Some will be overly greedy and they're best left alone. Some lie, and honesty is the most important thing, so a liar needs to disappear. Some are abusive and that will only continue.

 

If they want to talk with other men, that means you can do the same, at least until you look at each other as partners and not a part time fling. Then it needs to stop, as it's not good to look to another for comfort or advice.

 

Most men know the red flags but are blind because they look so good. There are many good women out there, and if that's what you want, you concentrate on that, because if you're seeing too many at one time, you won't see the right one for what she really is, and only look for faults if she does something minor all women do, and then look to the others instead of seeing the women as something not perfect. One too many girlfriends won't let you concentrate on the good things one has. You might want a piece from each one, but that's only good if you want to play the field. Again, you have to ask yourself what you really want. One good one or a variety to play with, which will cost you a lot more in the end, and if the good one sees you playing games, you might lose the best thing you ever had.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

If they want to talk with other men, that means you can do the same, at least until you look at each other as partners and not a part time fling. Then it needs to stop, as it's not good to look to another for comfort or advice.

 

I think if they want to talk to other men that's an instant disqualification. 

 

If she talks to these other men in her Insta, she's basically putting herself in a position where she'll be hit on by tons of guys. So as soon as you have an argument, or some other isuse arises, she may talk to these other guys who sweet talk her, offer her a holiday in a 5 star resort and bam! that's another member in her box. 

 

That's not for me. I really don't want to deal with any girl that is openly promiscuous. If talking to other men is more important to her than comitting fully to me, that's just an instant disqualification. It would never work.

 

Bear in mind, you'd still be expected to pay all her bills, dental, buy her presents, pay her food etc. It's not equitable.

 

 

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, no, no I meant when they tell you they want to be promiscuous with OTHER men...!

If I'm paying for it I really don't care.

Unlikely I'll see them again.

17 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Sorry, I think you are confused. I already have someone who wants to stay together forever. That I don't have to pay to maintain such a relationship is proof positive that you don't have to pay a salary to a woman to get her to stay.

Are you just making things up to make yourself feel better about your own situation?

14 to 15 years old. Scottish girl bought me a bass guitar. Ibanez copy. 

Sixteen years old. Jewish girl bought me a car to learn to drive.

Seventeen years old. Same girl decked out my new apartment.

I could go on.

 

Like I told Cameroni, it doesn't bother me if you don't believe me, as it doesn't change the reality of it.

You all made your beds and you need to lay in them. That's the way it goes.

Another assumption. If you have someone that wants to stay forever, why are you here acting like you can get any women you want and not pay? No one here knows you at all, and you could be lying about everything. You clearly assume many things, so that shows your thinking needs clarifying.

 

If you had all these girls, why didn't you stay with them? I know why I didn't, because future plans didn't coincide. Girlfriends at 15-17 usually go their own way. How old are you now? What happened since age 17? I've known many men who are users to the end, where women gave them their all only to be dropped. That's a narcissist, who forever uses everyone in their path. If you have a good woman, you will have to pay to maintain it. it's called providing. Something every husband, like myself, does. I don't need to say anything to make myself feel better. i treat women very well, and my girlfriend now knows this and tells others. The only thing wrong with my situation is still living here, at least for now.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I think if they want to talk to other men that's an instant disqualification. 

 

If she talks to these other men in her Insta, she's basically putting herself in a position where she'll be hit on by tons of guys. So as soon as you have an argument, or some other isuse arises, she may talk to these other guys who sweet talk her, offer her a holiday in a 5 star resort and bam! that's another member in her box. 

 

That's not for me. I really don't want to deal with any girl that is openly promiscuous. If talking to other men is more important to her than comitting fully to me, that's just an instant disqualification. It would never work.

 

Bear in mind, you'd still be expected to pay all her bills, dental, buy her presents, pay her food etc. It's not equitable.

 

 

Yes, there shouldn't be talking to the opposite sex if you're in a committed relationship. so that's why you have to ask yourself what you want. If they know you're dating others, they'll want the same thing. If they want your money, they need to be exclusive. 

It means you're basically sleeping with many other guys. Hopefully there are no diseases involved. Condoms don't protect the entire area or even the upper shaft.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Yes, there shouldn't be talking to the opposite sex if you're in a committed relationship. so that's why you have to ask yourself what you want. If they know you're dating others, they'll want the same thing. If they want your money, they need to be exclusive. 

 

Yes, she wants my money. She just upped the price to 28000. 20000 cash and 8000 in shopping for presents.

Just now, Mark1969 said:

It means you're basically sleeping with many other guys. Hopefully there are no diseases involved. Condoms don't protect the entire area or even the upper shaft.

 

She would definitely need to be checked. Red flags all over this lass...

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, she wants my money. She just upped the price to 28000. 20000 cash and 8000 in shopping for presents.

You've had your answers all along. 

7 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

If I'm paying for it I really don't care.

Unlikely I'll see them again.

 

I didn't mean a prostitute, I thought I made that clear?

Just now, fredwiggy said:

You've had your answers all along. 

 

It's just heart breaking. This girl is really not bad looking. Sense of humour too.

 

 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

I didn't mean a prostitute, I thought I made that clear?

That's irrelevant.

You pay for play any way you look at it.

 

Your alleged virgins won't hang around. After they have been with you they will wonder what it will be like with a young man closer to their age and culture. 

Stop dreaming.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's just heart breaking. This girl is really not bad looking. Sense of humour too.

 

 

So pay the money and enjoy.

She might be the one.

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Another assumption. If you have someone that wants to stay forever, why are you here acting like you can get any women you want and not pay? No one here knows you at all, and you could be lying about everything. You clearly assume many things, so that shows your thinking needs clarifying.

 

If you had all these girls, why didn't you stay with them? I know why I didn't, because future plans didn't coincide. Girlfriends at 15-17 usually go their own way. How old are you now? What happened since age 17? I've known many men who are users to the end, where women gave them their all only to be dropped. That's a narcissist, who forever uses everyone in their path. If you have a good woman, you will have to pay to maintain it. it's called providing. Something every husband, like myself, does. 

 

Excuse me? Where have I "acted like I can get any woman I want and not pay"? That's just you projecting your own thoughts, rather than what I have actually written.

I write of my own experiences. I still meet girls all the time, but I have boundaries and choose to not take it further.

You write of assumptions but fail to see that you do that more than almost anyone else here. You really need to stop and take a look in the mirror. But likely you are already doing so and admiring your reflection.

 

At no time did I state that my girlfriends were 15-17, so who is making assumptions? You are such a ridiculous person but it's only yourself that fails to see that.

 

Why not just ask the age of the girls involved and I'll tell you if I remember. Accusing me of lying? I don't like that, but hey, it's an anonymous forum.

 

You have to pay to maintain it. Speak for yourself.

 

 

 

 

 

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

That's irrelevant.

You pay for play any way you look at it.

 

Well, we pay either way in the end, you're not wrong.

 

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

Your alleged virgins won't hang around. After they have been with you they will wonder what it will be like with a young man closer to their age and culture. 

Stop dreaming.

 

No women wait forever, timing is everything, that's why it's so important to have 5 or 6 in the stable.

 

 

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's just heart breaking. This girl is really not bad looking. Sense of humour too.

 

 

Ask yourself what you need, and then find that. There are millions of good looking women here. That most are greedy is a given, so how much do you want to spend to keep a girlfriend, who might turn into a possible marriage? You'll only find out how she is in every situation over time. that was my mistake coming here. They can hide what they really are very well, especially if you're not around them all the time. That's where trust is necessary. Without trust you have nothing but sex with a body that will likely be sharing it with others. They should speak English well, or you'll never relate. having one too young will have the same thing happen. 2 decades younger and they're in another place altogether in their thinking, so if you want a real partner, you'll want to communicate.

2 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

So pay the money and enjoy.

 

The problem is if I bring Phuket girl here, then I have to pretend for 2 weeks or 2 months, depending on how long we can stand each other, to CM girl and BKK girl that I'm living alone. There's a serious risk they will cotton on and I lose two, potentially better, girls because of Phuket girl. Who has already indicated she doesn't want to be tied down and intends to ride the carousel. So any pleasure with her would be short lived anyway.

 

Is she really worth it? I suspect not. Not to mention her exorbitant financial demands.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Ask yourself what you need, and then find that. There are millions of good looking women here. That most are greedy is a given, so how much do you want to spend to keep a girlfriend, who might turn into a possible marriage? You'll only find out how she is in every situation over time. that was my mistake coming here. They can hide what they really are very well, especially if you're not around them all the time. That's where trust is necessary. Without trust you have nothing but sex with a body that will likely be sharing it with others. They should speak English well, or you'll never relate. having one too young will have the same thing happen. 2 decades younger and they're in another place altogether in their thinking, so if you want a real partner, you'll want to communicate.

 

Yes the lack of English with Phuket is a real problem as well.

 

 

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Ask yourself what you need, and then find that. There are millions of good looking women here. That most are greedy is a given, so how much do you want to spend to keep a girlfriend, who might turn into a possible marriage? You'll only find out how she is in every situation over time. that was my mistake coming here. They can hide what they really are very well, especially if you're not around them all the time. That's where trust is necessary. Without trust you have nothing but sex with a body that will likely be sharing it with others. They should speak English well, or you'll never relate. having one too young will have the same thing happen. 2 decades younger and they're in another place altogether in their thinking, so if you want a real partner, you'll want to communicate.

 

If they speak English very well and they haven't had much of a formal education...

 

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, we pay either way in the end, you're not wrong.

 

 

No women wait forever, timing is everything, that's why it's so important to have 5 or 6 in the stable.

 

 

It would seem your timing isn't going well. None of your stable have committed, but all take your money.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

The problem is if I bring Phuket girl here, then I have to pretend for 2 weeks or 2 months, depending on how long we can stand each other, to CM girl and BKK girl that I'm living alone. There's a serious risk they will cotton on and I lose two, potentially better, girls because of Phuket girl. Who has already indicated she doesn't want to be tied down and intends to ride the carousel. So any pleasure with her would be short lived anyway.

 

Is she really worth it? I suspect not. Not to mention her exorbitant financial demands.

So why stuff around?

Pick one and go for it.

How long do you need to wait?

Unless, of course, they are all playing you.

2 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Excuse me? Where have I "acted like I can get any woman I want and not pay"? That's just you projecting your own thoughts, rather than what I have actually written.

I write of my own experiences. I still meet girls all the time, but I have boundaries and choose to not take it further.

You write of assumptions but fail to see that you do that more than almost anyone else here. You really need to stop and take a look in the mirror. But likely you are already doing so and admiring your reflection.

 

At no time did I state that my girlfriends were 15-17, so who is making assumptions? You are such a ridiculous person but it's only yourself that fails to see that.

 

Why not just ask the age of the girls involved and I'll tell you if I remember. Accusing me of lying? I don't like that, but hey, it's an anonymous forum.

 

You have to pay to maintain it. Speak for yourself.

 

 

 

 

 

I do not assume, so learn different. We've all seen what you've written, both in this username and others. Stop saying lies about me. Because I point out that you and a few others assume how I live my life, doesn't mean I'm making assumptions. it does mean you and those few are. So how old were you when those girlfriends bought you things? If you're 15-17 I would think they were close to your age, or were they in their mid 20's or older, which would be pretty strange. Were they younger than 15? if so, how did they buy you guitars and a car? I've heard BS all my life, so it doesn't work.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

It would seem your timing isn't going well. None of your stable have committed, but all take your money.

 

Well, BKK girl says she will commit and is expected to come down in a few days.

 

CM girl just came for the first date, so early days.

 

Filipina 1 wanted to commit, but there are issues

 

Filipina 2 still wants to commit, but needs to be brought here, a major issue

 

Virgin in Nakhon Phanom calls me darling, but she's very tied to her environment at the moment.

 

 

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Ask yourself what you need, and then find that. There are millions of good looking women here. That most are greedy is a given, so how much do you want to spend to keep a girlfriend, who might turn into a possible marriage? You'll only find out how she is in every situation over time. that was my mistake coming here. They can hide what they really are very well, especially if you're not around them all the time. That's where trust is necessary. Without trust you have nothing but sex with a body that will likely be sharing it with others. They should speak English well, or you'll never relate. having one too young will have the same thing happen. 2 decades younger and they're in another place altogether in their thinking, so if you want a real partner, you'll want to communicate.

If you want perfect English, go to England. Or learn basic Thai out of respect.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, BKK girl says she will commit and is expected to come down in a few days.

 

CM girl just came for the first date, so early days.

 

Filipina 1 wanted to commit, but there are issues

 

Filipina 2 still wants to commit, but needs to be brought here, a major issue

 

Virgin in Nakhon Phanom calls me darling, but she's very tied to her environment at the moment.

 

 

Never heard of a virgin calling anyone darling. That hardened whore talk.