Visa For Children

[acacia]

hi everyone i need help i have a daugther with my ex he's british but we broke up after i told him i was pregnant but i kept the baby.when the baby was born i put other guy name on her birth certificate(british).and now i am married to an english husband in the UK.

i wasnt married with my Ex.and do i have to contact the guy who has the

name on my daugthers birth certificate which i dont wanna do cuz he's

not the father of my child, he was my friend at the time and he told me

to put his name on the birth certificate just be'cuz he didnt want me

to feel embarassed about being pregnant with no father, we are not

friends anymore.now the problem is me and my husband want her to be

here in the uk with us and have the education over here. i am confused

where to start. 1 her father nowhere to be found. 2 the name in the

birth certificate isnt her father..so i am compeletly lost.

[spacefruit]

hi everyone i need help i have a daugther with my ex he's british but we broke up after i told him i was pregnant but i kept the baby.when the baby was born i put other guy name on her birth certificate(british).and now i am married to an english husband in the UK.

i wasnt married with my Ex.and do i have to contact the guy who has the

name on my daugthers birth certificate which i dont wanna do cuz he's

not the father of my child, he was my friend at the time and he told me

to put his name on the birth certificate just be'cuz he didnt want me

to feel embarassed about being pregnant with no father, we are not

friends anymore.now the problem is me and my husband want her to be

here in the uk with us and have the education over here. i am confused

where to start. 1 her father nowhere to be found. 2 the name in the

birth certificate isnt her father..so i am compeletly lost.

First of all relax. This should be an easily solvable situation. First don't lie anymore. I know it seems like the right thing to do at the time, but look at the mess you are in now. Dont do it again. Authorities might forgive it once (sometimes) but rarely twice.

Second, your current husband should officially adopt your daughter - I assume she is not too old.

Thats the simple version.

Was your daughter's birth was registered at the British Embassy, with a British birth certificate?

What a nationality does she currently hold?

Others may have a better solution. I look forward to reading them.

I hope it works out for you.

[acacia]

hi everyone i need help i have a daugther with my ex he's british but we broke up after i told him i was pregnant but i kept the baby.when the baby was born i put other guy name on her birth certificate(british).and now i am married to an english husband in the UK.

i wasnt married with my Ex.and do i have to contact the guy who has the

name on my daugthers birth certificate which i dont wanna do cuz he's

not the father of my child, he was my friend at the time and he told me

to put his name on the birth certificate just be'cuz he didnt want me

to feel embarassed about being pregnant with no father, we are not

friends anymore.now the problem is me and my husband want her to be

here in the uk with us and have the education over here. i am confused

where to start. 1 her father nowhere to be found. 2 the name in the

birth certificate isnt her father..so i am compeletly lost.

First of all relax. This should be an easily solvable situation. First don't lie anymore. I know it seems like the right thing to do at the time, but look at the mess you are in now. Dont do it again. Authorities might forgive it once (sometimes) but rarely twice.

Second, your current husband should officially adopt your daughter - I assume she is not too old.

Thats the simple version.

Was your daughter's birth was registered at the British Embassy, with a British birth certificate?

What a nationality does she currently hold?

Others may have a better solution. I look forward to reading them.

I hope it works out for you.

Hi..thank you for the advice..she's now only 3yrs old..and i havent register her at the british embassy or anything i only at the hospital when she first was born and have thai birth certificate, thai citizen..the thing is if my husband have to adopt her do we need to contact the man on the birth certificate cuz god knows where he is now..i know i made the mess with wot i've done im trying to make it right for my daugther now.thats why im in a deep headach..confuse,anyway..hope u or anybody who's know about the law better than me could help me out with this situation..lots of thx..

[Chang_paarp]

Pretty simple if you know where to find the person who's name is on the certificate.

1)Get that person to deny paternity with a DNA test to show he is not the father. Declare father unknown. Then get the husband to adopt.

or

2) Get the person on the certificate to agree to the relocation and adoption. If he disagrees mention the child support problems he may have if he does not agree, or offer option 1.

or

3) find the real father, fix the birth certificate, and get him to agree to adoption with the offer of avoiding child support.

or

4) Send a number of registered letters (certified delivery) to the person on the birth certificate at their last know address. When they are returned "not known" use this as proof of trying to locate the father and proceed with advice from the courts/government agency. I am sure there is a women's help agency near your town in UK to guide you through this, they will have access to the correct information to get a result.

[Mossfinn]

acacia, have a look through this Thread it will give you some insight into Sole Responsibility and sole Custody and it gives certain direction in the route you might care to take.

The other situations you have are not insurmountable, but I need a bit of time.

Good luck in the mean time

Moss

[7by7]

your current husband should officially adopt your daughter - I assume she is not too old.

There is absolutley no need for him to adopt her. He may wish to do so anyway, but adoption is a lengthy process and it would be better to get her to the UK first.

If you can persuade the friend who is named on the birth certificate to come with you to the Ampur and sign a couple of papers then the Ampur will issue you with a sole custody document. If he wont/cant come, or you do not know where he is, then the Ampur would probably grant you sole custody anyway. Can't hurt to ask.

Once you have sole custody then the girl's father is no longer an issue as far as a UK visa for her is concerned.

Remember that sole custody and sole responsibility are not the same thing; you need to show that you have both. See the thread linked to by Mossfinn above.

[acacia]

Hi thank you all for helping me out.i think i might have to go back to thailand and do all this thing and i absolutely no idea where is my friends right now may be somewhere in the uk.i only know the town where he's from but not know exactly the detail.and i dont think i can bring him to Ampur with me cuz i assum he is now in the Uk.anyway will looking for more information...thank you all of u for helping me out...looking forward to hear more information if u dont mind to help..lots of thx...xx