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Seonai - Update

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welcome back to the forum GunnyD, how're the babies doing?

The funeral for Seoani is happening today. It has also been one of the hottest weeks in UK so far too so she will get a send off in brilliant sunshine, which seems fitting somehow. Her request for no one to wear black will go very well with such a bright day too.

And I finally get to meet Moss, not in the best situation but it will be nice to put the face to the name none the less.

Yes, I wish I could be there. Bright colors, bright nail polish, and gold glitter is the order of the day. I will dress up tonight and raise a glass in her honor. I will also be thinking of her son, and that he be protected and bolstered as best he can.

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I like the idea of no dark colours. A funeral should be a celebration of the persons life. I'm sure this one will be. I will raise a glass in seonai's memory tonight.

Grace & Peace to all who knew her.

welcome back to the forum GunnyD, how're the babies doing?

The funeral for Seoani is happening today. It has also been one of the hottest weeks in UK so far too so she will get a send off in brilliant sunshine, which seems fitting somehow. Her request for no one to wear black will go very well with such a bright day too.

And I finally get to meet Moss, not in the best situation but it will be nice to put the face to the name none the less.

They are doing great.. As you may be able to tell taking care of the 2 is a full time x 100 job...

I just can't get Maria to cooperate for a good picture :)

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And Robert's getting to be such a big boy...

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It's a bright light in all of the darkness lately.

So many deaths too soon and too young...

I am glad to hear that she had such good friends around her..

welcome back to the forum GunnyD, how're the babies doing?

I left you a note on your 500th post Gunny, hoping you would find this space of ours, perhaps you missed it? But you are here now and I am sure Seonai will be pleased with your good wishes.

I am glad to see your twins doing well.

And I finally get to meet Moss, not in the best situation but it will be nice to put the face to the name none the less.

Myself and Boo saw Seonai off on her travels, along with a big crowd, a quite emotional service, a reading from Khall, not in person, but a personal note sent from Oz.

A chuckle went through the service as Seonai's boy went to lay the first rose on her coffin and his uncle's young twins went with him, but they couldn't reach, so he leant down and picked them up individually so that they could deliver the rose's personally.

A nice touch and a testament to Seonai's benevolence and kindness being passed on to her son.

Rest and Travel in Peace

Moss

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It was a lovely day, sunny but not too hot, lots of Seonai's friends & family present. 2 monks from the temple in Wimbledon were there, Seonai & her ex-husband have long standing ties (thais!) to the place, Seonai actually used to teach there & it was that connection that prompted her to visit Thailand in the first place. There was a non-religious speaker who gave a run down of Seonais life, achievements etc, then the monks chanted whilst we all laid white roses on her coffin. Everyone left before she was sent to be cremated.

To be a bit morbid but to give another insight into Seonai's personality, her coffin was made of wicker. I forgot she had mentioned wanting one that was "green". It seemed fitting for her & looked very beautiful, much nicer & softer than hard, dark wood. She had a display of Pink flowers atop & a lit, pink candle :) Tres girlie, as she would have said.

A couple of tears were shed but it was mostly a celebration.

The pub afterward was full of stories, laughter & good company. She really would have loved it.

Kerrie, your message was read out by the guy leading the service & it brought a few tears, Seonais mum turned to me straight after the reading & said it was perfect. You really do have a gift with words. Oh & I gave Zi a kiss on the cheek from you, I said you had a present for him & did he want it, when he said yes, I gave him a huge kiss, much to his disgust (his mates were there) :D

Thank you Boo.

Boo , Moss

I may not have been there to hear Kerrie's words,

but

hearing what the 2 of you have shared with us is enough to bring tears, but its not just tears of sadness, also of happiness. happiness to see that there are people like yourselves, that care so much for others.

my best wishes to each one of you, to all that know Seonai, to those that will be missing her.

regards.

Lovely, I'm glad she got sent off in style and surrounded by people's good thoughts near and far.

  • 10 months later...

I learned of this only today after having been on my travels for much of the period above. A sad day indeed. I wish you well on your journey Seonai. Take Care.

  • 1 month later...

Has been a year already since our dear friend Seonai passed on ... I took you with me around Australia, on my remote bush camp trip - an incredible journey.

You helped me heal and I will never forget you, ever!

Big loves and huge hugs - Kerrie xoxoxo -

ps. all the wishes on your shooting stars, I wished on to your son :)

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yes a full year already. I need to see Zi & see how he is, spoke to him on the phone a week or so ago & he tells me he is getting on ok. Is with a nice foster family with other foster kids, taken up kick boxing & fishing & his grades are improving. Once I get a place to stay in UK will have him come up for the odd weekend.

He is a great young man, who has coped enormously well with everything his young life has had to endure but he misses his mum, which is understandable. Seonai would have been proud of how well he has coped.

Pass on my good wishes please Boo to the young man.

Seonai has been in my thoughts over the past year, but never more than the past few days.

Good to hear, I know you were quite worried about his future, glad to hear he's found a nice family.

She touched me and i never had the good fortune to meet her. One powerful lady.

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2 years tomorrow, seems like yesterday yet also a long time ago. :(

2 years tomorrow, seems like yesterday yet also a long time ago. :(

Good friends tend to do that to you, Boo. You pass by some place where you used to have coffee or go for a walk and you get an instant twinge of sadness for what has past. I've lost too many friends in recent years and even though I don't dwell on it, I still get those feelings of a loss.

2 years tomorrow, seems like yesterday yet also a long time ago. :(

Good friends tend to do that to you, Boo. You pass by some place where you used to have coffee or go for a walk and you get an instant twinge of sadness for what has past. I've lost too many friends in recent years and even though I don't dwell on it, I still get those feelings of a loss.

I can still walk in to a room and expect my Mum to be sitting there, real life really hurts sometimes.

When I was in the US at my sisters I had a dream that my mother was back, either she hadn't died or she was a ghost and I could touch her (not sure which) I hugged her and hugged her and woke up crying. She's been gone nearly 4 years and I still miss her every day.

I don't think that ever goes away.

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2 years tomorrow, seems like yesterday yet also a long time ago. :(

It WAS just yesterday ... still need to remind myself that text messages and phone calls won't get through. I miss my soul sister so much, but we will reunite one day :)

Last week, in Oz, I attended a life ceremony of another mutual Phuket friend - who passed just a week and two years after Seonai - and by now is up to no good, but out saving the universe, high on spirit life with Seonai's impish soul zooming in on the highest possible plane somewhere out there in the far reaches of forever land ... best to think that way (for me) - we all have our own beliefs - and I know where Seonai and my other sister-mate would choose to spend their up-time :jap:

  • 11 months later...
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3 years already, fark!

Yes three years, where have they gone!! Seonai's passing was the day after my birthday, so the party I have is always tinged with sadness.

I have this vision of Seonai teaching St Peter Thai, whilst passing wine, morphine and valium amongst the Apostles as and when they need it!!

3 years already, fark!

....and we still miss her sad.png

  • 11 months later...
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4 years!!!!

If she could see the man her boy has turned into I think she would be very proud. He has been living with a foster family for the last few years who seem to really care about him, he turned 18 last month & he is still living there so they must really love him, he has younger & older foster brothers than he seems very close to as well. I haven't seen him in quite a while as like a typical teen he was busy with school, friends & living his life & I didn't want to upset his routine & new life too much.

We chat occasionally on the facebook & he knows (and has been reminded every now & again) that me & the Mr Boo are here for him if he ever wants a visit but he is doing exactly what he should be, living like a boy his age.

You did a good job Seonai, you gave him a decent start & he has kept his kindness & sense of fun.

Thank you boo for the update on the son, I often think how he is doing.

Because of the time of year it is a time of 'Sunshine and Shadow', for me to quote the ballad Danny Boy.

Let me know if you ever have contact with the son, I would like to know how he is doing.

It is strange to think it is four years, but I guess it must be.

Mo

  • 3 weeks later...

Some times life can really suck.

I lost a very close personal friend last year, you know that feeling you get in your stomach, the one that never goes away..... I don't want it to go away.

I didn't know Seonai anything approaching as much as some members here, but just as my lost friend will be forever in my heart, she will live on.

  • 11 months later...

Hey Seonai

Now it's 5.

As with all Celtic tragedies, I have a song in one ear and a lament in the other,

You'll be pleased to know there is a 'BenRiach single malt ', that I am partaking of

Take Care

Mo

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Been offline for most of the last 3 weeks so missed this, so glad moss remembered. Recread the whole thread with tears. Seems like yesterday. Am in Brighton next week and hoping to see Zi. He's a chef now, living, dreaming, doing all the things young men do, I might show him this thread, if hes ready.

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