I know its quite common for members, even some longer term ones, to come onto the forum and post to all and sundry about the latest disaster that is their personal lives. I know that as my time on TV has grown and my profile risen, the corresponding decrease in revelations about my personal life has occurred.

At least for me, when I see these posts it always feels like watching a train wreck, and usually not in slow motion either. It has never occurred to me to come onto this forum to tell people what is really going on with my life, so I can't really understand why others do so.

Naivete? The need for 15 minutes of fame? A genuine hope that someone can offer some sensible advice? Trolls one and all?

And then there are those who insist on giving us play by play breakdowns of all the events in their lives. It always reminds me of this old high school friend I friended on Facebook, who posted the most inane comments about what her daughter had done, over and over. I finally hid her as I was so not interested in hearing about what a cute shirt she wore that day.

Whats that all about? Do they honestly think people are interested?

Sometimes it helps to rant in a place where you can tell faceless friends your problems. Getting stuff of the chest with people who will not necessarily judge you, helps some folk get out stuff they would keep bottled up in the real world.

I have a rash.......

I understand what you mean. And I must admit, I enjoy reading the "real life" stories. Some of them are amusing, but some of them are really touching.

I think that for some people it may be easier to ask personal questions or tell their personal stories to strangers and ask advice than to their immediate entourage.

I know I have mentioned things here about my personal life, as have others. But what I have said is known to my family and friends anyway so is not really a big deal. It is part of my life and what makes me me.

But some may just want to get a bit of knowledge and other peoples opinions before, perhaps, reaching out to those closest to them.

It keeps the forum more "family like" if people can be more open with each other. We have the choice to read what we want and what we are interested in. I am sure there are loads of nice people out there, and unfortunately there are some really horrible ones too - whom are very readily shot down!!

Each to his/her own, surely.

I agree with Patsy and Suiging that the forum is a place where people can seek advice or sympathy from faceless friends....usually intelligent friends.

I don't think any of it is trolling, naivete, or seeking 15 minutes of fame.

I think it is all about looking for helpful feedback, in one way or another.

I have made some friends on this forum that have boosted me when I've been down after having posted something here....and I'm gratefull for that.

It's the internet!

I don't have a rash....but I don't have a GF or job either.

Perhaps its because I have to read so much of it its made me a tad jaded.

Perhaps its because I have to read so much of it its made me a tad jaded.

Come on SBK, although I am sure the powers that be would prefer one line posts and as many as possible , this is not gonna happen.

Happy Easter, folks...I ain't a believer but recognition should be made to this significant western holiday...

cheers...

I wanna be crucified...because I'm not worthy of my good fortune...

Interesting topic. Yes, I would never reveal some of the personal information that people reveal when pouring their hearts out onto a public forum. I've often felt, 'Why is this person telling us all about such personal information?' The thing is, when one reads this type of stuff, it tends to stick in the mind and more or less permanently colour one's views of the BM involved (rightly or wrongly). But then, I suppose that we are all different and some people seem to need to seek an outlet for their emotions/vehicle for support in any place that will provide the opportunity. No-one on this forum - even those who've met me - knows anything significant about my personal background and life. That's not going to change. The best they'll get from me is whinges about trifling problems, such as my notebook woes, and that sort of thing.

Each to their own...

I guess I am guilty of divulging too much.

Nuffin of any consequence as no family or real life friends come here.

Ahhhhh..... that is except my betrothed, whom I met in TV.

Ahhhhh..... that is except my betrothed, whom I met in TV.

that's not fair...we gotta have sum details...

Ahhhhh..... that is except my betrothed, whom I met in TV.

that's not fair...we gotta have sum details...

Sorry mate, she wishes anonymity.

Ping has met her, as has another member who will drive the bridal car.

Ahhhhh..... that is except my betrothed, whom I met in TV.

that's not fair...we gotta have sum details...

Sorry mate, she wishes anonymity.

Ping has met her, as has another member who will drive the bridal car.

sheesh...as the cross is raised tutsi with his crown of thorns bemoans 'forgive them, Father for they no not what they do...'

Interesting topic. Yes, I would never reveal some of the personal information that people reveal when pouring their hearts out onto a public forum. I've often felt, 'Why is this person telling us all about such personal information?' The thing is, when one reads this type of stuff, it tends to stick in the mind and more or less permanently colour one's views of the BM involved (rightly or wrongly). But then, I suppose that we are all different and some people seem to need to seek an outlet for their emotions/vehicle for support in any place that will provide the opportunity. No-one on this forum - even those who've met me - knows anything significant about my personal background and life. That's not going to change. The best they'll get from me is whinges about trifling problems, such as my notebook woes, and that sort of thing.

Each to their own...

BM Ping? Not sure what you mean there......

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Perhaps its because I have to read so much of it its made me a tad jaded.

Appears to be a self inflicted situation. If you want an example of real personal problems, watch 'embarrassing medical problem' on true tv.

I don't mean to be blasphemous...the passion of Jesus, Mohammad in the desert and Goutama seeking enlightenment is supposed to be about all of us...

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I wanna be crucified...because I'm not worthy of my good fortune...

"Self crucifixion is a real bad buzz man.....you can never get the last nail in."

Neil, The Young Ones.

self crucifixion? why do we have brutal roman centurians around for their assistance in this regard?

aw, hel_l...

Crucifixions, or crucifictions

Guess the regulars in the Philippines will be doing their thing.

I read one guy does it every year.

Believe it or not.

Has toots dragged his cross up the hill yet?

No comment, either against or for religion or nuffing. But these scenes happened yesterday.

The only time i would reveal any of my inner most secrets on here would be ...........................nah, I wouldn't even reveal them then

With today's rapidly advancing communications technology and the likes of Youtube, blogging and Twitter etc, it will soon come to pass that everybody will be anonymous for just 15 minutes.

I think some people put too much personal info on here, but it is their choice.

Some people put too much info regarding third parties, that has to be questionable.

However, once you get here I don't think it is a Troll Alert, neither do I think it is a quest for fame, I genuinely believe it is a cry for help, somewhere to turn to, when at that particular moment, everywhere you turn is a dead end and despair can take a hand.

I also think it is easier to lean on an anonymous shoulder, when you perceive them to be a friend, albeit a cyber companion, than putting any trouble on a mate in close proximity.

There is also some merit in doing so, I think there are people on here that take it seriously if a member is going through a tough time and advice is genuine.

Outside of here though, I reserve all judgement

I know its quite common for members, even some longer term ones, to come onto the forum and post to all and sundry about the latest disaster that is their personal lives. I know that as my time on TV has grown and my profile risen, the corresponding decrease in revelations about my personal life has occurred.

At least for me, when I see these posts it always feels like watching a train wreck, and usually not in slow motion either. It has never occurred to me to come onto this forum to tell people what is really going on with my life, so I can't really understand why others do so.

Naivete? The need for 15 minutes of fame? A genuine hope that someone can offer some sensible advice? Trolls one and all?

And then there are those who insist on giving us play by play breakdowns of all the events in their lives. It always reminds me of this old high school friend I friended on Facebook, who posted the most inane comments about what her daughter had done, over and over. I finally hid her as I was so not interested in hearing about what a cute shirt she wore that day.

Whats that all about? Do they honestly think people are interested?

Good post, sbk.

I don't think it's any different than sitting around a cafe talking to your friends. The internet has made the world a much smaller place where people all across the globe can make friends and stay in touch. I have to say that all but a few local friends, most of my friends were met through the various forums on the internet. And, many are even in my own small town on Vancouver Island. Those are people I would not otherwise have met. My life has been much richer because of it. You can make connection with people of similar interests and later meet them in real life if they at all interest you. It certainly has been the case for me on my travels around the world. I have friends everywhere that I could visit and stay with.

Because I'm honest and quite open about my life, and will post photos of mysef, I have met hundreds of people who are now friends. I've been around too many years to worry about the naysayers. They are everywhere. I have nothing to hide, so why would I worry about people who hide behind anonymity?

I think some people honesty WANT help if something is going wrong in their life. But, unless they are willing to listen to advice and make changes, then they are just spinning their wheels. You don't have to be brilliant to separate the good advice from the bad. And, in any case, you get to learn more about people in general.

Do they honestly think people are interested?

Is it a case that most people talk to their friends, those that post online those personal details either have no friends that they feel close enough to talk to openly. Or are keeping up a respectable front to those close by them but venting their feelings/thoughts to a audience that will listen to their side without knowing the full story?

With the internet: "....everyone is famous for 15 people."

No comment, either against or for religion or nuffing. But these scenes happened yesterday.

I'm Brian and so is my wife !!!!

Incontinentia Buttocks.