I love these reminders why it's so nice not living in a honeycomb. We acquired some LPN condo units earlier this year, and upon inspection.... it really felt like folks were living in a giant beehive (complete with a supermarket, pool, fitness center, etc. so you conceivably wouldn't have to leave the premises) or a precursor to the 'stacks' described in David Wingrove's Chung Kuo series. And like the OP, you could definitely hear the neighbors ...they rarely 'show' these condos when everyone is getting home or waking up to go to work.

GUNS N ROSES.

This might interest you if you are still having problems.

http://lifehacker.com/5852903/silence-noisy-neighbors-by-transmitting-signals-through-their-own-speakers

GUNS N ROSES.

Extreme Noise Terror

So, you are admitting that you are a bloody nuisance as a neighbour and, you are saying your neighbour is a pain for playing music loud enough to drown out yours rather than knock on your door and tell you how much of a peanut you really are.

Think I'd rather live next door to her than you.

There's always one.