What are the attractions of "Thai girls or Thai woman" to western men...

[vspin134]

Is it the beauty of the asian body...
Is it the easygoing "OK OK no problem ka" mentality...
Is it the cook clean and do everything in the house so we can watch TV and drink beer with buddies all day long (no more lawn work)
Is it that money can buy love in Asia...
Is it because we raise the bar in sexual standard...


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Edited August 25, 2013 by Rimmer
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[ava15]

Deary me

[ExpatOilWorker]

Read this book and u will find out. The book is written by a FEMALE anthropologist and it is well worth a read.

[timewilltell]

They look good, they feel good but by golly not all of them do you good!

[Spoonman]

I do not have a lawn.

[sbk]

Forum is FOR ladies, thanks

moving to pub where it belongs

[Songhua]

'Is it the cook clean and do everything in the house so we can watch TV and drink beer ...... '

Bwaahahaha, you obviously don't know my missus.

[Bosse137]

Quick answer;they are available.

[JDGRUEN]

For me: Thai women I know appreciate me and respect me ... this is not something I receive from American women - Not from ANY of them. The American woman mantra ... me, me, me, me ... men are stupid, men must be managed...

So - while not all Thai women will treat me with appreciation and respect ... many will ...

So I am not going to continuing doing the same thing - the same way all the while expecting different results...

[transam]

Is it......You need a cold shower...................

[JDGRUEN]

Sorry Duplicate Post

Edited August 25, 2013 by JDGRUEN

[LaraC]

Gosh what a fascinating topic, never had any discussion on this one. No, not ever.

Will be truly an insight when reading the replies.
Personally im sure that of course it must be something to do with raising the bar sexually

[vegasphl]

And all the time I thought it was because I was soooo handsome man and not my MONEY. Darn it.

[Bpuumike]

Apart from the many other considerations, Thailand being in the tropics people shower at least twice a day.

My UK ex-wife tended to shower once every other day, even less often in the Winter

And yes, the OK no problem, relax, is a major change of pace for the better.

[BillyBobThai]

[wellred]

For me: Thai women I know appreciate me and respect me ... this is not something I receive from American women - Not from ANY of them. The American woman mantra ... me, me, me, me ... men are stupid, men must be managed...

So - while not all Thai women will treat me with appreciation and respect ... many will ...

So I am not going to continuing doing the same thing - the same way all the while expecting different results...

You cannot generalise all American women based on your personal experience. I think the problem is in a place like America the relationship dynamics are on par and men and women are equal. Hence women are maybe not as easy to pick up or please.... Like anything in life you need to work at it!

If you have reached the point where by you are not desirable to an American women then I think that says more about you as an individual than American women.

Thailand on the other hand is like walking into macdonalds when your used to eating at benny hannas. There is more poverty and women are easier to pick up due the often vast gap begween them and western males.

All women are the same, their origin makes no differences. All relationships take work and effort.

[wellred]

Let's see a picture of you.

[HardenedSoul]

The perceived attraction is that a man doesn't need a personality to get and keep an aesthetically-pleasing woman in Thailand.

All he thinks he needs is the ability to fund a stipend in a less valuable currency.

[Ulysses G.]

I can spend "quality time" with a woman young enough to be my daughter that is as attractive as a movie star. That ain't going to happen back home.

[AlexRRR]

I like this one, there is the point of view from sex pats, then the aged gent to the desperados, from my own personal perspective once i got to a certian age back in oz the pickings dried up, even before that the "ladies" were holding back...i just wanna be friends...

Without going into details the roles bettween men and women over 50 in countries like Australia have changed. I eventualy got tired of getting rooted around ( and i had been an active single for 12 ys at that stage) so i decided i would only date asian women in AU, later i extended that to Thailand and ive been better off for it, for me it was a no brainer anyway, the very first girl i ever had a crush on was asian but in those days it was taboo to get involved.

If you like asian women and want to settle down then a country like Thailand is good for you, its good for me, and i like my options.

Now if you made bad choices with your western gfs/wife possible you can make a poor choice in asia as well and this forum is full of them.

There is no concrete fireproof battle plan will get you over the line as far as a thai girl goes, i personaly dont like submissive women and i dont like quite women, the first 2 TGF's were like that but the 3rd is a fire cracker she keeps me on my toes and she shoots from the hip, shes also the youngest, they all come from good middle class familys and all have degrees in real professions ( they go to uni to be a chef there), i set myself a criteria of what i wanted and ive never steered away from it, again not going to go into details but at least these girls earned a good living and wouldnt need to rely on me.

The answer is yes and no and more to everything in orig post, were all differant but were all the same to, were hard wired to be in a couple so the demand is from the girls as well....

[SecretAgentMan]

Not fair. But funny as hell.

[HeavyDrinker]

Aye but you could pop the fatty one for nowt if you were so inclined.

I'd wager that barring the 95% of the membership here who have the pick of the Thai/Chinese PhD daddy owns half of Bangkok chicks here, the rest of us wouldn't have a chance of the one beneath.....

[LaraC]

Let's see a picture of you.

This says more about a man than he may realise.

Its reflects what is obtainable to him based on his own worth (character, personality, looks, status, etc)

Of course its understandable why these kind of men would be happier with the options available to them here (and of course there are geniunely well matched thai/farang couples. Just giving the general perspective).

[poanoi]

First and foremost the exotic black long hair and black eyes, the novelty wore off after a few months tho.

Still like the slender petite shape, and their weight is suitable to walk my ribs back in location.

Edited September 2, 2013 by poanoi

[LaraC]

[poanoi]

I can spot the pic that doesnt belong:

the 2nd pic isnt a couple, its a triple

[Darren McKenzie]

Funny. And true.

[RaysFan]

I dont think its specifically Thai women.... its any woman. Obviously its easier to get bangin chicks in poor countries than it is in rich ones.

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[HardenedSoul]

Aye but you could pop the fatty one for nowt if you were so inclined.

I'd wager that barring the 95% of the membership here who have the pick of the Thai/Chinese PhD daddy owns half of Bangkok chicks here, the rest of us wouldn't have a chance of the one beneath.....

Yeah and you'd lose that bet, son

[Darren McKenzie]

Aye but you could pop the fatty one for nowt if you were so inclined.

I'd wager that barring the 95% of the membership here who have the pick of the Thai/Chinese PhD daddy owns half of Bangkok chicks here, the rest of us wouldn't have a chance of the one beneath.....

Yeah and you'd lose that bet, son

Sweet. I've had better than the one beneath. I guess you have, too.