Popular Post Just1Voice Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 I've been coming to Thailand off and on for over 40 years, but it had always been places such as BKK, Pattaya, Phuket, and some of the islands. Over time I watched all of these places deteriorate at dramatic rates, until they lost all appeal for me. It wasn't until 7 years ago that I happened to venture north and "discovered" Chiang Mai. My wife of 28 years had died in 1999, and I had pretty much gone downhill since them. Spent 4 years on a 650 Ninja just traveling around the US, finally settling in Phoenix. But I wasn't happy. I was merely existing. Finally a good friend, suggested I take a vacation and go back to Thailand, but this time so some place new that I hadn't been before. I picked Chiang Mai. I really can't explain it, but from the moment I walked outside the CNX airport, I felt like I had come home. During this visit I met a woman 10 years younger who later became my wife, and we are still together. Every day I read in the various news sources about the things happening in BKK, Pattaya, Phuket, and other places, and can merely shake my head. Is CM crime free, corruption free? Not by a long shot, but it's also not "in your face" blatant as it appears to be in other places. And the people here in the north definitely seem to have a different "mind set" to life than those down south. Prior to my stroke, and having to sell my CBR 250, I took "road trips" once, and sometimes twice a month, to different places in the north and north east. On each and every trip I met people who were friendly, eager to talk, and extremely helpful in just about every way. In 7 years I've only had one "incident", which I've previously documented and written about, so no need to rehash it again here. And I've watched this city grow by leaps and bounds. Where we live was mostly rice fields and a couple of other moo bans when we first moved her. Now there's a dozen moo bans, 7/11's and other types of new stores popping up like mushrooms in the jungle after a Spring rain. In most of the shops and big market not far from here, the people know me, always say hello to me, and don't give me the "farang price", but the normal Thai price for items. When my neighbors found out I had suffered a stroke, it was an almost daily parade of Thai neighbors coming by to see how I was doing, and bringing me food. My wife finally had to politely ask them to stop, and assured them that I was fine, and recovering slowly. You can easily get the "big city" feeling here now, but a 15-20 minute drive will put you back in the "country" aspects if that's what you want. There's no shortage of things to see and do, without the maddening crows. Well, Immigration might be the exception to that, but that's mostly due to the influx of new people coming here, and not the fault of Immigration itself. All in all, despite all the political "turmoil" going on, CM hasn't really changed, and I can't think of a better place that I would want to spend my remaining years in. 48 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DLock Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Great post J1V. I understand exactly what you mean. Pity you had to sell your bikes. Mine give me so much pleasure. Keep enjoying CM and everything it offers. Oorah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DiamondKing Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 I had the EXACT same feeling when I first came to Chiang Mai and within 1 hour of being here I said to the girl I was with (thai) I like this place I am going to live here, she said I was crazy and how can I know that after just 1 hour I left and was back 3 weeks later and here we are 8 years later Love CM 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Just1Voice Posted December 14, 2014 Author Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 Great post J1V. I understand exactly what you mean. Pity you had to sell your bikes. Mine give me so much pleasure. Keep enjoying CM and everything it offers. Oorah. Thanks. As for the bike, I'm riding a Forza now, but hopefully, if things go right, I'll be able to buy a new 300 CBR, or perhaps the 500cc CBf, in about 6 months, then I'll be off doing what I love best - Road Trips!. lol. My wife asked me when I'll stop doing road trips. I told her I'll stop when I can no longer lift my leg over the seat to get on the bike. She just shook her head and walked away, muttering something about "stubborn farang Marines". lol 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DLock Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Great post J1V. I understand exactly what you mean. Pity you had to sell your bikes. Mine give me so much pleasure. Keep enjoying CM and everything it offers. Oorah. Thanks. As for the bike, I'm riding a Forza now, but hopefully, if things go right, I'll be able to buy a new 300 CBR, or perhaps the 500cc CBf, in about 6 months, then I'll be off doing what I love best - Road Trips!. lol. My wife asked me when I'll stop doing road trips. I told her I'll stop when I can no longer lift my leg over the seat to get on the bike. She just shook her head and walked away, muttering something about "stubborn farang Marines". lol Good to hear you still ride and I hope you get that bigger bike down the line. My wife's given up on me. She asks why I need so many bikes...and I ran out of "one for every day of the week" a few bikes ago. You should have gone to the Chiang Mia custom bike show last night...some really nice bikes. Here's a few to make you drool... Enjoy. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post daveAustin Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 I used to love CM and it is indeed great biking country around and about. People are also generally nice, there's excellent eating and good shopping, and things are generally cheaper than elsewhere in Thailand for such a substantial centre. The thing that spoilt it for me was the sudden increase in choking traffic, lots more arrivals (clogging immigration) and of course you get that couple months of searing heat / smoke. But this time of the year (to Feb), it is the best place to be in Thailand. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank James Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 OP, thanks for your glowing appreciation of this, our adopted new "home town." Even though it's in a never-ending boom town cycle, you don't get the feeling of being hustled. This morning I saw a guy riding a classic black BMW R69 from the late 60's, which to me is the ultimate all time lovely bike. Haven't seen a Vincent Black Shadow here yet, or an Ariel Square Four. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post trainman34014 Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 Took to it as soon as i got here and now wouldn't live anywhere else in the World. It's got it's wrinkles but tell me a place that doesn't have any; and anyway, it matches my wrinkles ! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheFishman1 Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 I love CM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CMHomeboy78 Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 The instinctive courtesy of so many of its people make Chiang Mai what it is. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wisemonkey Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 I arrived for the first time last Sunday, I feel a very similar feeling, its such a different energy to anywhere else in thailand.. laid back, people are friendly (both farangs and thais), 10 minute ride from the centre of the city and you are amongst rice paddies and cows with rolling mountains as a back drop, and it caters for all tastes in terms of quality of life, you can go from ultra luxurious to basic, its great, I like the art around the city too.. just so different to anywhere else Ive been. I hope to set Chiang Mai as my base in life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaalle Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 (edited) Yeah I agree kind of. First time I came the tuk tuk driver asked me for less money than what I was offering for the ride. This was shock coming from Phuket. Edited December 14, 2014 by Kaalle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saan Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 I got off the train and there, in the train station, realized I had arrived at my new home. I had only come by chance on a visit. I've never regretted a day since I moved to CM six years ago. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gonsalviz Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 (edited) A bit too <deleted> for me but that is not the only place. The delete is because I think I am not supposed to specify races but they mostly run the government. It is in a very nice area though. Edited December 14, 2014 by Gonsalviz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alfalfa19 Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Thanks for your post. In my 13 trips, I have never been to the north of Thailand, just to the eastern parts and the south. I may have to visit CM on my next trip, as I have seen my familiar spots really becoming unpleasant in many ways. In fact, after recent events on KT and other places, I was thinking of not coming again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khunlungphudhu Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 First time in Chiang Mai was 1965 for me. Sadly not able to stay through ill health, but I have seen my Thai family grow through the generations, and so welcomed on every anual visit I call Chiang Mai home! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puukao Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 CM is a must visit during this time of year. It does get relatively quiet at night, but I like that. I've lived in massive cities for years and had zero incidents. This was outside of Thailand, and I've had many friends growing up that helped me a lot. In fact, in my home country, the only jerks are the ones driving their cars. Everyone else is relatively nice, no problems. I honestly think most cities are very, very similar. It's what you DO in those cities that change you. CM allows me to get away without the feel of BKK. good for me, maybe bad for 19 year old kid. I also met one couple that loved, absolutely loved CM.....but there were there only 1 day and went on overnight camping with foreigners. So, trust me, it's not 100% the city....it's YOU. So good for the OP to be happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torrens54 Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Isn't it great to see something POSITIVE about our beautiful city? Continue to enjoy it as I have over the years with my wife and our daughter. We spent some time overseas but decided CNX is a wonderful place to retire and for our daughter to attend my wife's Old School and later, the same University. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Microwave Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Welcome home. I've lived in CM for close to 30 years and have no desire to live anywhere else. Thailand is still very much the Land of Smiles. Learn Thai, adapt to the culture, accept Thailand (and Chiang Mai) and the Lanna culture for what it is, and enjoy life here. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 But there's no beach there.No islands nearby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamemjay Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 It took me a bit longer. It took 3 whole days before I found myself saying "I could live in this place." I then had to ask "Why?". I loved the history. I loved the Asian chaos. But upon reflection, it was mostly the people. That was 12 years ago. For the past 8 years I have lived up-country in CM province, but have never lost my deep affection for CM city, despite all the changes and incredible growth in traffic etc in that time. Thanks to the OP for putting a lot of my feelings into words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivinLOS Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 After 9 years on Phuket and experienced extended sojourns in the usual hua hin, bkk, samui, etc places.. Was suffering bad tourist thailand burnout.. Really thinking about packing it in and heading back to the west.. Random trip up here was such a relief.. Went back to Phuket lasted about a fortnight before coming back for another month.. Made the choice and moved.. Best decision I made in my Thailand time. Yes the traffic can be mad downtown (but I ride a bike so less effect) yes theres a smog season.. But the people are so easy going, not one bit of conflict in the last 4 years, when on Phuket it felt like once a week.. Amazing eateries and foodstuffs.. Superb markets from thai style wet markets to imported luxuries... world class riding.. Right now its got the lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alant Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Great post J1V. I understand exactly what you mean. Pity you had to sell your bikes. Mine give me so much pleasure. Keep enjoying CM and everything it offers. Oorah. Thanks. As for the bike, I'm riding a Forza now, but hopefully, if things go right, I'll be able to buy a new 300 CBR, or perhaps the 500cc CBf, in about 6 months, then I'll be off doing what I love best - Road Trips!. lol. My wife asked me when I'll stop doing road trips. I told her I'll stop when I can no longer lift my leg over the seat to get on the bike. She just shook her head and walked away, muttering something about "stubborn farang Marines". lol Just done a 2700 + km trip on my Forza, they potter along nicely Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stoli Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Thanks for the post. After 2.5 years of living in Pattaya, it is now time to explore other areas. I am going to check out Chiang Rai and Chiang Mai soon to see how I like the areas, and to determine if I want to move there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejcb Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 The reason I like Chiang Mai is because in the city its nothing like Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ianf Posted December 15, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 15, 2014 I love CM Yes, I like Chiang Mai but I hate the motorbikes. Specially hate the farangs who come here using big motorbikes, don't wear helmets and scare the living daylights out of me as they roar past on their machines. I think they should show some respect for us quiet people on bicycles. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tonto21 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Nice post ‘Just1Voice’………… A big YES to all you said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just1Voice Posted December 15, 2014 Author Share Posted December 15, 2014 Great post J1V. I understand exactly what you mean. Pity you had to sell your bikes. Mine give me so much pleasure. Keep enjoying CM and everything it offers. Oorah. Thanks. As for the bike, I'm riding a Forza now, but hopefully, if things go right, I'll be able to buy a new 300 CBR, or perhaps the 500cc CBf, in about 6 months, then I'll be off doing what I love best - Road Trips!. lol. My wife asked me when I'll stop doing road trips. I told her I'll stop when I can no longer lift my leg over the seat to get on the bike. She just shook her head and walked away, muttering something about "stubborn farang Marines". lol Just done a 2700 + km trip on my Forza, they potter along nicely I did a trip to Lampang and back with a friend riding his bike along with me. Forza is very good on highways, but hard for me in city traffic because of the size and weight, and the fact that the stroke took my leg strength from me. Getting better, but still a ways to go yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tassie Norm Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 I've yet to visit the CM region yet and will, in time. However I was speaking with a Brit mate just a day ago who has spent decades in and out of Thailand. He'd decided to relocate from Nong Khai to CM earlier this year but was put off by the huge influx of Chinese tourists and the resultant difficulty of obtaining long term accommodation, eg on a monthly basis. Other than that problem, he enjoyed his time but missed the quieter atmosphere of our north-eastern Nong Khai province. Well worth a visit for those disenchanted with the likes of Pattaya and Phuket. Enjoy the festive season all........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulhen Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Thanks for the post. After 2.5 years of living in Pattaya, it is now time to explore other areas. I am going to check out Chiang Rai and Chiang Mai soon to see how I like the areas, and to determine if I want to move there. When I was researching the differences between Chiang Rai and Chiang Mai to choose which to live in, one startling difference was when I overlaid the rainfall charts of the two. Chiang Rai gets about twice the rainfall that Chiang Mai. But Chiang Mai can be deceiving in that different parts of the city experience different amounts of rainfall, due to the influence of the mountains and prevailing winds I expect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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