AnotherOneAmerican, on 02 Jan 2015 - 08:42, said:

Cypress Hill, on 01 Jan 2015 - 16:00, said:

I shouldn't imagine you give much of a toss about how your sexual partner feels.

When you get your car serviced ....... do you ask the mechanic if he enjoyed himself?

When you buy dinner in a restaurant ....... do you care if the waitress had a good time serving you?

Of course you don't, it's just something you are buying for yourself.

The employee gets enjoyment from their wage packet.

And if they don't enjoy the wage, they should be working somewhere else.

If the shop tells you your custom is no longer welcome, just buy elsewhere.

Who said anything about buying? I sure didn't.

But if we're on that track, I suppose that if you pay peanuts, you generally get monkeys.

Still, if the OP was employing his woman as a receptacle, he was an idiot to marry her.

Maybe he thought the deal included a shot at her kid too

So you're wife is comiing up for 40, but how old are you?

Times to two...

OP's wife now age 37.

OP should be around 74 years old.

?

Still going at 56

So you're wife is comiing up for 40, but how old are you?

Times to two...

OP's wife now age 37.

OP should be around 74 years old.

?

Case closed.

Maybe you think is sex is something you do TO a partner, not WITH.

That kind of depends on the partner. Many young women have not really learned to enjoy sex much, no matter who it is with. They put up with it, because they want something - a relationship, company, gifts, money - back.

Ulysses G., on 03 Jan 2015 - 19:00, said:

Cypress Hill, on 01 Jan 2015 - 16:00, said:

Maybe you think is sex is something you do TO a partner, not WITH.

That kind of depends on the partner. Many young women have not really learned to enjoy sex much, no matter who it is with. They put up with it, because they want something - a relationship, company, gifts, money - back.

The only reason a woman doesn't learn to enjoy sex much - bar medical issues - is because the partners she's been with have been more concerned with their own gratification than with hers.

AOA's attitude seems consistent with that type of guy but I'm reasonably certain that he's just playing devil's advocate.

Still, he HAS said that his ex-wife lost interest in recreational coitus soon after the wedding

If they do all that exercise and never arrive a the summit, I can understand why they don't want to hike any more. However If they have a partner skilled in navigation it is unlikely they would give up so early with all those mountains left to climb. Perhaps the purchase of some hiking aids would make the journey more successful.

Maybe some need to buy a Rabbit

So you're wife is comiing up for 40, but how old are you?

Times to two...

OP's wife now age 37.

OP should be around 74 years old.

?

Case closed.

105

inform her you will be required to acquire additional services from elsewhere

Bad idea. Don't tell her but just do it - she might change her mind.

I'd rather have sex with a young woman than a 40 year old one.

AOA's attitude seems consistent with that type of guy ............

Still, he HAS said that his ex-wife lost interest in recreational coitus soon after the wedding

Only with me!

I think you are all reading this incorrectly; sex with Thai women over 40 is unnecessary.

On ‎12‎/‎30‎/‎2014 at 11:07 PM, samsensam said:

she's giving you permission to get a mia noi

as you're living here and married to a thai why not enjoy one of the benefits of thai culture?!

My wife (46yo) told me years ago that if I wanted to go with other women I would still be expected to pay the household bills. I asked her if she was crazy, what the hell  would I want with more than one woman?

Brown ball corner pocket.

Sex after 40 is possible for Thai ladies if you are married to somebody who is 100 and unfortunate. 

You should get her drunk. Social conditioning doesn't work on drunk people, so you should have no trouble then. 

Shutting up shop after 40! Never heard of that before. Maybe lady not  handled right. My Missus well past 40 and always up for it. Secret; Pussy come first. Of course I'm the boss, even if she  glides  down the stairs in skintight cheongsam,black with red piping and strapp hi heels, if i'm watching Liverpool, i scoot her back up again.

 

On 4/27/2017 at 2:34 PM, ramrod711 said:

My wife (46yo) told me years ago that if I wanted to go with other women I would still be expected to pay the household bills. I asked her if she was crazy, what the hell  would I want with more than one woman?

some people have all the luck but pass it by

Why are you still with her? Do you have children together? That's about the only thing that would keep me with a woman who felt nothing for me.

 

This happens all over the world though, it ain't specific to Thai women.

 

Marriage ain't a vow of celibacy, it's a vow of monogomy. If she breaks monogomy, you have the right to take other women.

 

And that ain't misogynistic (to the user who said that) - it's just fair. We don't hate women. We are not prejudiced towards women. We just want to be more than housemates with our wives, but sometimes they can reel us into a difficult position (marriage, kids, house), then act like we are just housemates after that.

 

This is not an age issue. It's an attraction issue.

 

She chose a man who she wasn't really attracted to (because he was the only man who offered her anything), then she went cold on him after that.

 

I suggest you shake things up:

 

Hit the gym, bulk up a bit

Fix your diet

Dress better

New hairstyle/facial hair

Go out with the guys more

Initiate sex physically (not verbally)

If she refuses you sex, don't beg, act like it's nothing.

Lightly flirt with other women infront of her, a waitress, for example.

Be confident

Make decisions (women want a leader, not a follower)

When you do have sex with her, give her a good cavemanning, no fiddling around (women hate that)

 

Basically, she wants a new man, so you should give her one (you have clearly let yourself go).

 

It's either this, or be celibate, or use whores, or start again with another women (easiest option, but may get same results if you don't improve yourself)

 

 

 

 

17 hours ago, FruitPudding said:

Why are you still with her? Do you have children together? That's about the only thing that would keep me with a woman who felt nothing for me.

 

This happens all over the world though, it ain't specific to Thai women.

 

Marriage ain't a vow of celibacy, it's a vow of monogomy. If she breaks monogomy, you have the right to take other women.

 

And that ain't misogynistic (to the user who said that) - it's just fair. We don't hate women. We are not prejudiced towards women. We just want to be more than housemates with our wives, but sometimes they can reel us into a difficult position (marriage, kids, house), then act like we are just housemates after that.

 

This is not an age issue. It's an attraction issue.

 

She chose a man who she wasn't really attracted to (because he was the only man who offered her anything), then she went cold on him after that.

 

I suggest you shake things up:

 

Hit the gym, bulk up a bit

Fix your diet

Dress better

New hairstyle/facial hair

Go out with the guys more

Initiate sex physically (not verbally)

If she refuses you sex, don't beg, act like it's nothing.

Lightly flirt with other women infront of her, a waitress, for example.

Be confident

Make decisions (women want a leader, not a follower)

When you do have sex with her, give her a good cavemanning, no fiddling around (women hate that)

 

Basically, she wants a new man, so you should give her one (you have clearly let yourself go).

 

It's either this, or be celibate, or use whores, or start again with another women (easiest option, but may get same results if you don't improve yourself)

 

 

 

 

You went wrong in the third sentence when you spelled 'monotony' wrong.

On 2017-4-30 at 6:02 PM, FruitPudding said:

Why are you still with her? Do you have children together? That's about the only thing that would keep me with a woman who felt nothing for me.

 

This happens all over the world though, it ain't specific to Thai women.

 

Marriage ain't a vow of celibacy, it's a vow of monogomy. If she breaks monogomy, you have the right to take other women.

 

And that ain't misogynistic (to the user who said that) - it's just fair. We don't hate women. We are not prejudiced towards women. We just want to be more than housemates with our wives, but sometimes they can reel us into a difficult position (marriage, kids, house), then act like we are just housemates after that.

 

This is not an age issue. It's an attraction issue.

 

She chose a man who she wasn't really attracted to (because he was the only man who offered her anything), then she went cold on him after that.

 

I suggest you shake things up:

 

Hit the gym, bulk up a bit

Fix your diet

Dress better

New hairstyle/facial hair

Go out with the guys more

Initiate sex physically (not verbally)

If she refuses you sex, don't beg, act like it's nothing.

Lightly flirt with other women infront of her, a waitress, for example.

Be confident

Make decisions (women want a leader, not a follower)

When you do have sex with her, give her a good cavemanning, no fiddling around (women hate that)

 

Basically, she wants a new man, so you should give her one (you have clearly let yourself go).

 

It's either this, or be celibate, or use whores, or start again with another women (easiest option, but may get same results if you don't improve yourself)

 

 

 

 

You've done your homework F P.

 

Alas, your prescription will require too much effort for the OP.

Most live in a fixed habitual life.

 

The wife has probably got to the point where she dreads each encounter and can't see herself doing this for years to come.

Add to this diminishing Hormonal levels and the writing is on the wall.

 

Who was it that said Homo Sapiens aren't natural monogamists?

It flies against Darwins natural selection.

My girl friend is 47 and loves sex.

9 hours ago, overherebc said:

You went wrong in the third sentence when you spelled 'monotony' wrong.

Not bad after a few Leos.

 

(And it was the 3rd paragraph, numbnuts)

1 hour ago, FruitPudding said:

Not bad after a few Leos.

 

(And it was the 3rd paragraph, numbnuts)

Well I'll go to the foot of our stairs.

On 12/30/2014 at 2:01 PM, tom21 said:

you will find she has no objection to have sex with other women as long as it is casual

If this is the case then there is no problems.

I have researched this topic extensively at Bamboo Bar.

 

Short answer: YES

I have researched this topic extensively at Bamboo Bar.
 
Short answer: YES

........but they are mostly over 60


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10 hours ago, Kadilo said:

 

........but they are mostly over 60


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that is why you have to be alert and interview wisely

On ‎5‎/‎1‎/‎2017 at 3:28 AM, Godang said:

My girl friend is 47 and loves sex.

Key word "girl friend" report back after she is promoted to wife.

As I wrote in some thread before. I'm 28 and my soon to be wife is 42.

 

Sometimes I wish she would find some secret lover. 

 

So there would be at least two of us trying to keep with her stamina.  

Being Thailand, I think there is just one solution. It has worked well for me down the years.

 

First establish how many time you actually want sex during the month. This could be period to period or calendar month. Let say 25 times. Now look at the money that gets passed over each month. To make the maths simple lets agree on $50,000.

 

Have a heart to heart with the misses and tell her that from now on you will pay her $2,000 for each sex act explaining, of course, that this new deal replaces the old housekeeping.

 

The benefits of this are twofold. The first is that she could really get enthusiastic about your body (it might cost a bit more; but what the heck). Or she drops short of the target in which case you are dollars in.

 

You just have to go with the flow here.