Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 I have a guy (foreigner) threatening me and my family. He has a crush on my wife and says he will do anything to get her. He called me last night and told me that I am going to be wearing a halo by the weekend. I'm pretty sure he is here illegally or running away from something in his home country. Is there some way I could get the police involved anonymously? Just to maybe pay him a visit and chat to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 Because if they don't get him, I'm 100% sure he will follow through with his threat. I don't want the police to go up to him and just tell him to stop threatening me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sealbash Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Because if they don't get him, I'm 100% sure he will follow through with his threat. I don't want the police to go up to him and just tell him to stop threatening me. Why not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 You do not understand. This guy is 100% psycho. He applied for a job through my wife, that's how they met. He has been calling her every day since at all hours. I checked his resume and it is all fake. Every detail was carefully selected to match people with his name, but ages and even races do not match. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard_smith237 Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 In a previous thread you mentioned things had 'gone south with your wife'... Is this guy threatening you or both you and your Wife? Report the threats to the Police. If he applied for a Job through your Wife, do you have his Passport details? The Police can check his immigration records for overstay. Step up your home security Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzmurray Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 2016-06-16 05:55:46 "Things have gone south, relationship wise, with my wife and myself and it's coming up to get an extension on my Non-O (Single Entry). I used to get 60 Day extensions based on having a Thai wife, but I can't ask her to go with me this time :-(" You said the above, was it because of this other fellow? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mesquite Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 (edited) It would be interesting to hear the "psycho's" side of the story, particularly what Norrad's wife is telling him. Edited June 26, 2016 by mesquite Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shot Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 "He called me last night" How did he get your number? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveAustin Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 If it were me, I would get right in his face, but that's just me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 I bet the police will interview the wife without the husband present, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oxo1947 Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 If it were me, I would get right in his face, but that's just me. That would mean you would have leave your keyboard Dave.................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robblok Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 If it were me, I would get right in his face, but that's just me. That would mean you would have leave your keyboard Dave.................... Not to mention you have to be willing to really hurt this guy because if he is crazy he will have no qualms to hurt you. Seriously hurting someone means police. If your not willing to do real damage confronting someone who is crazy and willing to harm you is stupid. So I would have stayed behind my keyboard and tried it through the police first. At least then there is record of him trying to threaten / harm me and if later on it comes to a confrontation its easier to prove self defense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 This place has gone to the dogs. I have been a member here for 10 years and always got good advice. Yes, things are not smooth between my wife and I right now, but that is because of a bad business decision she made and I am angry about it. This guy is dangerous, everyone who met him thinks the same. He has threatened me and my family, kids too. I have his resume but not his passport. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 A message from someone who knows him. I asked if she thought he is dangerous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malt25 Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 This place has gone to the dogs. I have been a member here for 10 years and always got good advice. Yes, things are not smooth between my wife and I right now, but that is because of a bad business decision she made and I am angry about it. This guy is dangerous, everyone who met him thinks the same. He has threatened me and my family, kids too. I have his resume but not his passport. "This place has gone to the dogs. I have been a member here for 10 years and always got good advice." You're still getting good advice, you just don't want to hear it. If you are seriously concerned about your safety & that of your wife & family. Go to the POLICE. If you are not trolling, take your wife with you... if she'll go. If she won't go with you, you have more than one problem. If you BOTH report the situation to the police, they will take the appropriate action. Possibly a modest contribution to their "party fund" will produce quicker, more positive results. Cheers..... Mal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Tell your wife (presumably Thai) to go to the Police and file a report. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shot Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 If he is here illegally, I'm sure the police and or immigration would love to talk with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 He came up with loads of excuses not to give his passport at work. My wife and her brother are going to the police station now. She at first thought I was just being paranoid, but I recorded the latest threat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 That's not the threat. That was just me asking a colleague of his if I think he will follow through with his threats. The threat is recorded on my phone from a phone call this morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Norad, as you are learning, TVF is full of people who delight in other people's misery and if there is not enough misery for them in someone else's story they'll dream up some extra on their behalf. With this in mind I have sent you are PM with the advice I have. A post script to which is. Your post relates to a threat of violence which when received must always be treated as serious and is in any case criminal in nature. I therefore suggest it is not something that should be left to idle chat. Consider requesting advice by private message and asking the Mods to close this thread - You'll otherwise wind up being the victim of bored people who delight in the misery of others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Troll posts have been removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Because if they don't get him, I'm 100% sure he will follow through with his threat. I don't want the police to go up to him and just tell him to stop threatening me. Be a man stand up for yourself and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norrad Posted June 26, 2016 Author Share Posted June 26, 2016 Against a guy that has supposed military training, is apparently claiming to be in the witness protection program, has stolen the identity of a black dude... I'm not afraid, but I am also not stupid. Anyway, thanks for all the advice. Wife's brother and her are making a report, as his latest threats included her brothers. Mods, please close this thread. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 As per OP's request, this thread is now closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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