My first time allowing a Thai girl to spend 3 nights in a roll in my apartment and she already moved in a small bag into my room.  Anybody have some pointers to hint at her not being able to stay every night without coming off too harsh and getting stabbed ?

Ask to borrow money as you have none.

Tell her a close relative has a problem and needs to stay with you for a while...

What's the issue? in the West, you'd most likely be happy if a girl accepted you pay her dinner and here it's a problem if a girl stays over? Who do we treat Thai women like trash?

 

So, to answer your question, you can send her over to my place.

What's the issue? in the West, you'd most likely be happy if a girl accepted you pay her dinner and here it's a problem if a girl stays over? Who do we treat Thai women like trash?
 
So, to answer your question, you can send her over to my place.

Right on !
I'll second that but I've got 2 stayovers already !!!


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I do realise that this sounds drastic, but heres what you do .

You say to her that she cannot stay everynight 

She may ask "Why"

And you give your reasons .

She will then go  back to where she was staying four nights ago

I don't think the OP is treating the lady like trash by not allowing her to stay ie move in

Just you have friends from abroad staying

Ask her if she knows of any free AIDS clinics nearby

Just a bag?

 

Better check your cabinets...

I'd pay more attention to the nearest hospitals that specialize in penis reattachment surgery.  

 

You never know when it could come in handy.

What type of roll have you been keeping her in the past 3 days?  

Just now, HLover said:

What type of roll have you been keeping her in the past 3 days?  

 

Can we just stop the endless speculation and have the OP post a picture of the lass.

So, is she still staying at your place ? :)

Tell her you wife is flying in , and which side of the bed would she like to sleep on ?

 

Or you are getting deported.........

 

But really this is a problem worldwide , not just a Thai problem....

Ahhh it's not an issue, where you live and and where she works would often mean long commute times....if she doesn't have a job tell her to come back when she has one...


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lock the door and go away for a week,if she has a key?change the lock.

you shouldnt worry toooooooooooo much free legover when you want,but be aware if her brother wants to stay to.

You could always man up and tell her the truth. You are not ready for her to move in. If she doesn't accept that then tell her its over and move on.

1 hour ago, Laughing Gravy said:

You could always man up and tell her the truth. You are not ready for her to move in. If she doesn't accept that then tell her its over and move on.

 

Sounds good to someone who's been here a while, but turning away perfectly good sex just isn't natural for someone just moving in from the tight-ass west.  May as well burn $1000 bills, 'cause that's what it costs back home to get to a point where they'll stay over.  

 

I suspect he's still in the mode of wanting to get rid of her, but just most of the time.  Been there, done that.

 

And yes, I am that ugly...  But I've learned to love myself anyway.

jesus grow up and tell her to go home.

 

 
Can we just stop the endless speculation and have the OP post a picture of the lass.

This man demands evidence, do as he says. Otherwise it can't be true.

I know this is outlandish, but I want you to entertain the idea anyway. You say 'I'm not ready for you to move in yet, we barely know each other. Let's see how things go before we take such a big step.' You know, communicate, like an adult does, with words.

On 10/30/2016 at 6:00 PM, theguyfromanotherforum said:

What's the issue? in the West, you'd most likely be happy if a girl accepted you pay her dinner and here it's a problem if a girl stays over? Who do we treat Thai women like trash?

 

So, to answer your question, you can send her over to my place.

Get a picture first. She might not be up to your stringent standards. 

Seems like she slid into home plate and she's out sorry safe.

Grow a set of  's and tell her good bye

What's  the worst that can happen

1 )  She stabs you

2 ) Her husband stabs you

 

 

 

2 minutes ago, monkey4u said:

Grow a set of  's and tell her good bye

What's  the worst that can happen

1 )  She stabs you

2 ) Her husband stabs you

 

 

 

You accidentally get hit by a truck while walking with your new girlfriend. 

Tell her she has to fill out a few forms which will be reviewed by your embassy:

an application to stay in your apartment where she has to meet certain housekeeping criteria

a yearly extension of that stay

and a report due every 90 days

Be a (smart) man....Throw her out you idiot !

1 minute ago, bangkoken said:

Be a (smart) man....Throw her out you idiot !

Be somewhat gentile in your approach as I am sure she showed you a good time the first night she was there. Guess her physical resume did not pass your test. 

10 minutes ago, elgordo38 said:

You accidentally get hit by a truck while walking with your new girlfriend. 

I missed that one 

Ask her to contribute to your living costs.........