tangox Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 I have a girlfriend who lives in Chiang Mai whom I have loved and provided for the past 1-2 years, suddenly she went radio silence and I have discovered she is suddenly seeing some guy who seems to be a boss type from Pai. I really love her and have done nothing but good for her. Please my brothers suggest what I should do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak2002003 Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 Get a new one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chicog Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 (edited) Do you mean you funnel money to some bint overseas and you've just found out she's taken you for a mug? Agree with previous poster, buy/rent a new one. Edited December 22, 2016 by Chicog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted December 22, 2016 Share Posted December 22, 2016 My girlfriend also ran off and is seeing some guy who seems to be a boss type from Pai. Wait a minute, OMG, is she the sam* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotEinstein Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 To understand your current inner turmoil, you should recount how and where you met this 'love of your life'. Maybe you will discover that it was all a little too easy. It sounds as though she has offered you a lesson to learn - best you learn it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 Choices: - - In regards to this GF - it does not seem you have any choices. She has made a choice to be with someone else. That's it. Stop payments and go on to the next one... Choices: Fortunately, you probably have many choices, especially if the job comes with a monthly salary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roo860 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 Happens all over the world mate, move on.Don't go crawling to her!!Sent from my SM-G920F using Thaivisa Connect mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roo860 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 move on.Don't go crawling to her!!Sent from my SM-G920F using Thaivisa Connect mobile appSent from my SM-G920F using Thaivisa Connect mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterw42 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 i Know how you feel, I was renting a honda zoomer for a long time, and now someone else is renting it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loaded Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 Give me what's left of your money, because I won't hate you the way she will hate you if you try to interfere with her relationship with her new sponsor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 Why come on TV asking a question when you already know the answer????? Forget about her, move on with your life. Get your ar.e up to Pai and party Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamborobert Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 TIT......Remember the old adage "you don't lose your place, you just lose your turn". take a few hours out of your day and find a replacement before she changes her mind and subs you back in from the bench......otherwise it's lather rinse repeat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante99 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 troll or fool to be asking such a question here the only answer is to get on your horse, ride to Pai and off the guy then forget about the unfaithful wench Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sphere Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 8 hours ago, tangox said: Please my brothers suggest what I should do? Take a number...get back in the queue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trujillo Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 Quote I have a girlfriend who lives in Chiang Mai .... Assuming this is not a fake post, you are saying you don't live in Thailand, I think. I have a girlfriend who lives in another country? Quote ...I have discovered she is suddenly seeing some guy who seems to be a boss type from Pai. How did you discover this? Just curious, you know. Anyway, so here's what you do: Buy a ticket and fly out there right away. Find out where this Casanova is and confront him and kick his butt, big time. The girl will see who the real HE-MAN is around here, yes sir. Then tell her you will give her 50,000 baht a month to be good, and then all IS good, again. See how simple this can be? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rijb Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 There was no 'girlfriend'. You had a short-term lease, with no contract. You can either renegotiate or find a new contractor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivinLOS Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 Thais link material support with love much more than hallmark card western mentality... Clearly you havent provided her enough material 'love'.. Try buying her that car she wanted.. Perhaps a nice plot of land.. Build her a house on it.. That should sort it out in no time.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
watgate Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 You have to approach this like a high stakes poker game. You must find out what her current lothario from Pai is giving her and then you must up the ante. You have to show her you really mean it so by surpassing her current bf's largesse you will show her that you love her. Don't be a cheap charlie and fork over the hard cash to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smiles Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 One of the reasons we change job could be the salary and prospects in the new company is better. You are the hierer. Interview your next candidate that is satisfied with what you offer. Those lovely words are part of the girl's working vocabulary. If you still believe in true love with her , think again dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyL Posted December 25, 2016 Share Posted December 25, 2016 Seriously, have you ever had a relationship with a woman in your home country where you provided a monthly "retainer"? The proper term to use is either employee or mistress, but not "girlfriend". You should have sorted the terms of the deal before you started to send cash.Sent from my SM-G930F using Thaivisa Connect mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandy Freckle Posted December 25, 2016 Share Posted December 25, 2016 (edited) Hush up my cynical typing fingers but the OP's post has a strong wiff of troll post about it. ......, or..., I'm sorry mate but money can't buy you love..., or common sense..., however..., maybe, just maybe, money can rent you a(twisted) version of commitment..., until you're either broke, or come to your senses..., or both. Edited December 25, 2016 by Sandy Freckle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amexpat Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 Take up a hobby, such as internet trolling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaseTheBass Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 Maybe she needs cock as well as cash? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricardo Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 What should the OP do ? ... stop sending her money, and save it towards his next trip, instead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 Nothing like a little year-end trolling. Ho ho ho! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 damn .... this is what she doe's after all you've done !! leave the banger and get another, it's a buyers market at the moment ... just get down Nana way and find yourself an honest one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottiejohn Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 2 hours ago, steven100 said: leave the banger and get another, it's a buyers market at the moment ... just get down Nana way and find yourself an honest one Better still, stay in your own home town/city/country environment and find your 'true love' without the strings! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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