talahtnut Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 18 hours ago, Kadilo said: Don't know where you go with your lady but places I go don't have this problem. Sounds more like a zoo. And once again......it's not about guys showing off their lady, it's about letting her dress herself. If she wants to wear a short skirt/ dress, as many ladies do, that's her choice. You can't legislate for animals. There is no gain in telling a woman how to dress, one choses the right woman that suits oneself. When we choose to dress in a provocative way, we send a message that we believe our value comes from our looks rather than from our heart. Skimpy clothing says that our worth is in our sex appeal. This is a weak foundation to build self-esteem or self-worth. What happens when we age and the wrinkles start showing? Where will the sense of value and worth come from then? For various reasons (e.g. past sexual abuse, low self-esteem) some believe that their worth comes from how good they look and how many heads they can turn. But that can leave a person feeling empty and alone. All of us, ultimately, want to be pursued and loved deeply because of our hearts and minds, not for our bodies. Dressing in a showy fashion puts the focus on our outward appearance, not on our heart. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarryP Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 13 minutes ago, talahtnut said: There is no gain in telling a woman how to dress, one choses the right woman that suits oneself. When we choose to dress in a provocative way, we send a message that we believe our value comes from our looks rather than from our heart. Skimpy clothing says that our worth is in our sex appeal. This is a weak foundation to build self-esteem or self-worth. What happens when we age and the wrinkles start showing? Where will the sense of value and worth come from then? For various reasons (e.g. past sexual abuse, low self-esteem) some believe that their worth comes from how good they look and how many heads they can turn. But that can leave a person feeling empty and alone. All of us, ultimately, want to be pursued and loved deeply because of our hearts and minds, not for our bodies. Dressing in a showy fashion puts the focus on our outward appearance, not on our heart. So a man can "dress up" but a woman can't. A man "dressing up" would not be seen as provocative, but a woman "dressing up" would. Perhaps chador is the way to go then!!!!! One can be both intelligent/kind and attractive. Everybody should be confident in the way they look and if you happen to be attractive/handsome, it should not detract from the fact that you are also intelligent/altruistic or whatever. If I am handsome or beautiful why should I not dress to show it if it makes me happy. When I see a beautiful "provocatively" dressed woman, I do not instantly go, "Oh she must be evil and thick". I do not make assumptions about people based on the way they dress. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kadilo Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 10 minutes ago, GarryP said: So a man can "dress up" but a woman can't. A man "dressing up" would not be seen as provocative, but a woman "dressing up" would. Perhaps chador is the way to go then!!!!! One can be both intelligent/kind and attractive. Everybody should be confident in the way they look and if you happen to be attractive/handsome, it should not detract from the fact that you are also intelligent/altruistic or whatever. If I am handsome or beautiful why should I not dress to show it if it makes me happy. When I see a beautiful "provocatively" dressed woman, I do not instantly go, "Oh she must be evil and thick". I do not make assumptions about people based on the way they dress. They need to crawl back into the cave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 It actually is sharp, confident, cute, and sexy. I love it and encourage it makes my juices flow and want to continuously go back to my room for fun:) I am not here to get married or hang with 50 year olds wearing Muumuu's. Left that crap back in my home country. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 15 hours ago, GarryP said: So a man can "dress up" but a woman can't. A man "dressing up" would not be seen as provocative, but a woman "dressing up" would. Perhaps chador is the way to go then!!!!! One can be both intelligent/kind and attractive. Everybody should be confident in the way they look and if you happen to be attractive/handsome, it should not detract from the fact that you are also intelligent/altruistic or whatever. If I am handsome or beautiful why should I not dress to show it if it makes me happy. When I see a beautiful "provocatively" dressed woman, I do not instantly go, "Oh she must be evil and thick". I do not make assumptions about people based on the way they dress. The same applies too men.. try walking down beach road in a mankini. I have noticed that some farang boast of their wealth to attract the ladies..Handsome is as handsome does. Where did I mention evil and thick? Read again word for word, you have misunderstood at first glance. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NonthaburiBear Posted December 22, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted December 22, 2017 (edited) I actually date woman who dress accordingly... theres huge different between sexy and bitchy. However for me if you tend to tell woman what dress she supposed to wear, then its makes you look stingy,needy and feel insecured . If you choose the girl to be your gal, why the hell you want to tell what dress she supposed to wear...take it or leave it/ bite the bullet , or the girl will leave you soon or later , for another guy who take her for who she is....you can't change people but people change . Just my 2 cents..no offense Edited December 22, 2017 by NonthaburiBear 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 21 minutes ago, NonthaburiBear said: I actually date woman who dress accordingly... theres huge different between sexy and bitchy. However for me if you tend to tell woman what dress she supposed to wear, then its makes you look stingy,needy and feel insecured . If you choose the girl to be your gal, why the hell you want to tell what dress she supposed to wear...take it or leave it/ bite the bullet , or the girl will leave you soon or later , for another guy who take her for who she is....you can't change people but people change . Just my 2 cents..no offense If one has western male thinking and is controlled by females it seems to suit your comments. If I am going out with some friends to dinner and some music and dancing, I tell her to wear her sexy dress. She says: Ok sure, want to wear for you. Not some backlash. Being a doormat has/is making life hell for men. But, do whatever you want.. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarryP Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 1 hour ago, talahtnut said: The same applies too men.. try walking down beach road in a mankini. I have noticed that some farang boast of their wealth to attract the ladies..Handsome is as handsome does. Where did I mention evil and thick? Read again word for word, you have misunderstood at first glance. You are comparing swimming costumes, not something I would dress up in to go out on the town, nor any woman for that matter. To quote you, "value comes from the heart". How are you able to make a determination on whether a person has a good heart/is a good person without talking to them? And yet you do that very thing, judging them on the way they are dressed. When a man dresses up to go out at night or to a party he puts on his best shoes, slacks, shirt or even a suit, etc. When women do this many often put on high heels, somewhat revealing or body hugging dresses, or other such clothing. Note the difference. Why is it not wrong for a man but wrong for a woman? Both dress to attract, but it is wrong for a woman to do so in your book because it makes her shallow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 15 hours ago, GarryP said: You are comparing swimming costumes, not something I would dress up in to go out on the town, nor any woman for that matter. To quote you, "value comes from the heart". How are you able to make a determination on whether a person has a good heart/is a good person without talking to them? And yet you do that very thing, judging them on the way they are dressed. When a man dresses up to go out at night or to a party he puts on his best shoes, slacks, shirt or even a suit, etc. When women do this many often put on high heels, somewhat revealing or body hugging dresses, or other such clothing. Note the difference. Why is it not wrong for a man but wrong for a woman? Both dress to attract, but it is wrong for a woman to do so in your book because it makes her shallow. The mankini was a metaphor. Theres nothing wrong with your best bib and tucker,.. its 'style' that's important. How you dress, and your choice of woman is up to you. Bear in mind, the divorce rate is quite high, even in the street where I am, its not unusual to hear a rumpus going on in the early hours... to everyone's amusement. We're all different, have fun. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ulysses G. Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 17 hours ago, GarryP said: When I see a beautiful "provocatively" dressed woman, I do not instantly go, "Oh she must be evil and thick". Neither do I. I just hope she is.. and easy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted December 23, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted December 23, 2017 On 12/22/2017 at 11:01 AM, GarryP said: So a man can "dress up" but a woman can't. A man "dressing up" would not be seen as provocative, but a woman "dressing up" would. Perhaps chador is the way to go then!!!!! One can be both intelligent/kind and attractive. Everybody should be confident in the way they look and if you happen to be attractive/handsome, it should not detract from the fact that you are also intelligent/altruistic or whatever. If I am handsome or beautiful why should I not dress to show it if it makes me happy. When I see a beautiful "provocatively" dressed woman, I do not instantly go, "Oh she must be evil and thick". I do not make assumptions about people based on the way they dress. You seem to have missed the point of his post. I doubt if any man in history has been viewed as sexually attractive based only his form of dress, unless, perhaps, wearing a huge cod piece. Conversely, a woman can be sexually attractive merely by presenting an ankle in a certain way, even if the rest of her is completely covered. What I find puzzling about the female psych is that after they go to great lengths to look attractive, they take offence if men actually look. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mauGR1 Posted December 23, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted December 23, 2017 2 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: You seem to have missed the point of his post. I doubt if any man in history has been viewed as sexually attractive based only his form of dress, unless, perhaps, wearing a huge cod piece. Conversely, a woman can be sexually attractive merely by presenting an ankle in a certain way, even if the rest of her is completely covered. What I find puzzling about the female psych is that after they go to great lengths to look attractive, they take offence if men actually look. If it is a rich and attractive man who's looking, they take no offense at all 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted December 23, 2017 Share Posted December 23, 2017 On 12/22/2017 at 1:09 PM, GarryP said: You are comparing swimming costumes, not something I would dress up in to go out on the town, nor any woman for that matter. To quote you, "value comes from the heart". How are you able to make a determination on whether a person has a good heart/is a good person without talking to them? And yet you do that very thing, judging them on the way they are dressed. When a man dresses up to go out at night or to a party he puts on his best shoes, slacks, shirt or even a suit, etc. When women do this many often put on high heels, somewhat revealing or body hugging dresses, or other such clothing. Note the difference. Why is it not wrong for a man but wrong for a woman? Both dress to attract, but it is wrong for a woman to do so in your book because it makes her shallow. Hmmmm. I've never, ever looked at a man and said that he looked sexy in that. Haven't women been telling us for ever that they want us to want them for their mind and not their body, then dress up with their boobs falling out and heels so high they can barely walk. Go figure 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gunderhill Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 On 3/26/2017 at 12:31 PM, elgordo38 said: Tats turn me off. And stretch marks me, how shallow am I. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happyman58 Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 On 12/23/2017 at 2:31 PM, thaibeachlovers said: Hmmmm. I've never, ever looked at a man and said that he looked sexy in that. Haven't women been telling us for ever that they want us to want them for their mind and not their body, then dress up with their boobs falling out and heels so high they can barely walk. Go figure well my thai wife dresses nice and she looks good which makes me happy I dont mind if other men look at her Its a free world lol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MaeJoMTB Posted January 17, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted January 17, 2018 (edited) On 12/22/2017 at 11:28 AM, NonthaburiBear said: I actually date woman who dress accordingly... #MeToo ........ only it isn't actually 'dating' and what I like most about Thai girls is the price. Edited January 17, 2018 by MaeJoMTB 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happyman58 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 36 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said: #MeToo ........ only it isn't actually 'dating' and what I like most about Thai girls is the price. 36 minutes ago, MaeJoMTB said: #MeToo ........ only it isn't actually 'dating' and what I like most about Thai girls is the price. So i take it you pay for sex 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post catman20 Posted January 17, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted January 17, 2018 8 minutes ago, Happyman58 said: So i take it you pay for sex docent everyone in the long run. i dont pay for sex but all my girlfriends here have cost me a few bob one way or another. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 17 hours ago, Happyman58 said: So i take it you pay for sex Be sensible... Pay and go. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 On 12/21/2017 at 8:01 PM, GarryP said: So a man can "dress up" but a woman can't. A man "dressing up" would not be seen as provocative, but a woman "dressing up" would. Perhaps chador is the way to go then!!!!! One can be both intelligent/kind and attractive. Everybody should be confident in the way they look and if you happen to be attractive/handsome, it should not detract from the fact that you are also intelligent/altruistic or whatever. If I am handsome or beautiful why should I not dress to show it if it makes me happy. When I see a beautiful "provocatively" dressed woman, I do not instantly go, "Oh she must be evil and thick". I do not make assumptions about people based on the way they dress. When you see a beautiful 'provocatively' dressed women...I bet you WILL make assumptions PDQ.. I would also bet a Leo, you would need a blast proof wallet to keep her interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sharktooth Posted January 17, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted January 17, 2018 5 hours ago, Happyman58 said: So i take it you pay for sex If you think you are not paying for it, you are very much mistaken my misguided friend. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 9 hours ago, Happyman58 said: So i take it you pay for sex So you judge others? You brought it up so we can discuss this fact that you have a 53 year old wife and due to your physical problems, admittedly, cannot have sex. Yes, many of us enjoy our lives/sex tremendously. 2 or 3 times a day sometimes in my 60's. Some of us like paying and moving on do not need to be a human door mat attached to some old lady....... 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amvet Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 On 12/23/2017 at 2:25 PM, thaibeachlovers said: You seem to have missed the point of his post. I doubt if any man in history has been viewed as sexually attractive based only his form of dress, unless, perhaps, wearing a huge cod piece. Conversely, a woman can be sexually attractive merely by presenting an ankle in a certain way, even if the rest of her is completely covered. What I find puzzling about the female psych is that after they go to great lengths to look attractive, they take offence if men actually look. https://www.yahoo.com/news/pretty-dresses-no-longer-just-women-194645610.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 15 hours ago, amvet said: https://www.yahoo.com/news/pretty-dresses-no-longer-just-women-194645610.html Wow, Do they make 'em in XXXL ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 14 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said: #MeToo ........ only it isn't actually 'dating' and what I like most about Thai girls is the price. I dont have any idea why you have to pay..when you can get it for free and much more cleaner..long hours too..55555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 16 hours ago, NonthaburiBear said: I dont have any idea why you have to pay..when you can get it for free and much more cleaner..long hours too..55555 I reckon you've been in the nunnery. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happyman58 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 6 hours ago, NonthaburiBear said: I dont have any idea why you have to pay..when you can get it for free and much more cleaner..long hours too..55555 I guess he pays because he has to much money 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ulysses G. Posted January 17, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted January 17, 2018 8 hours ago, NonthaburiBear said: I dont have any idea why you have to pay..when you can get it for free and much more cleaner..long hours too..55555 Not for anything that I would want. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happyman58 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 1 hour ago, Ulysses G. said: Not for anything that I would want. General Grant she would kill you in the bedroom But nice to dream 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 On 1/17/2018 at 11:57 PM, talahtnut said: I reckon you've been in the nunnery. nah... each of their own i think, i been there done that when i was young.. but now i can get laid without paying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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