Confused over Thai girlfriend

[animalmagic]

18 hours ago, Kinnock said:

If anyone ever feels they need to post a Thai Girlfriend query on a public forum, then they are with the wrong girl. 

They are probably on the wrong forum as well.

[Ahab]

Pay attention to what she does and not what she says. Do this and you already know the answer.

[catman20]

21 hours ago, Kadilo said:

No, and if I did I would be on my bike. Life's too short for all that crap. Not for anyone to tell you what to do but do you seriously want to be with someone who behaves like that?


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great advice you beat me to it.

 

OP take on board what Kadilo said and move on and try not to be so wet and understanding ull become a door mat.

[catman20]

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

How's your Thai language classes coming along?

good post im still laughing

[mogandave]

She doesn't take any money, she cooks for him and he get's to bang her once in a while, what's the problem? I like to have four or five just like her!

[catman20]

19 hours ago, simon43 said:

Now I know why I enjoy solitary masturbation.....

a lot less drama 

[hobobo]

"has anyone experienced this??"

 

No, Livinglife1, I am sure no one has ever experienced this before. Keep us all updated, and think about a book, or maybe even a movie? Good luck mate

 

[hobobo]

9 hours ago, swissie said:

This "love thing" is highly overrated. All it is are some chemical reactions taking place in the brain, that in turn will produce certain hormones, that can reduce a perfectly normal person to an infantile semi-moron.

 

Here it is:

J. Geils Band-"Love stinks"

 

Text

You love her
But she loves him
And he loves somebody else
You just can't win
And so it goes
Till the day you die
This thing they call love
It's gonna make you cry
I've had the blues
The reds and the pinks
One thing for sure
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
Two by two and side by side
Love's gonna find you yes it is
You just can't hide
You'll hear it call
Your heart will fall
Then love will fly
It's gonna soar
I don't care for any Casanova thing
All I can say is
Love stinks
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
I've been through diamonds
I've been through minks
I've been through it all
Love stinks
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks yeah yeah
Love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks, love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks, love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks, I mean it stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks, love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks, love stinks yeah yeah
(Love stinks)
Love stinks, love stinks
Songwriter: Peter Wolf / Seth Justman
Songtext von Love Stinks © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., BMG Rights Management US, LLC

 

Cheers.  

Good job this wasn't a 20-minute song, lol

[StevieDee]

Simple, just ask to see the messages sent and received between her and her ex.

After all it's not that uncommon for some ex partners to swap the occasional message once or twice a year, HBD etc & there is no real harm in them being sent or received.

If she refuses move on, and quick !

If she has nothing to hide about her current relationship status with him what harm is there?

However, my hunch is she will never be prepared to do it so from that you can already see she's not being honest with you.

As the saying goes, "Oh well, never mind, who's next"

[hobobo]

21 hours ago, Kinnock said:

This is Thailand, not Europe or US, aim for perfection in a partner and you'll find it.  Mood swings, uncertainty, keeping you hanging on - these are all the games girls play when there's short supply of good girlfriend material and the guy is desperately trying to hang on to her.

 

Thailand is like a huge car showroom filled with exotic machinery for you to try, and only when you find that one special vehicle, with the looks, ride, color extras and even your favorite music pre-installed and the Bluetooth set up to your phone do you take one home for keeps.

 

If anyone ever feels they need to post a Thai Girlfriend query on a public forum, then they are with the wrong girl.  Take a few more test drives, find one with a smoother ride and a lower mileage.

But remember, Thai girls see farangs as a huge car showroom filled with exotic machinery as well! I've known some who'd take a different model for a test ride several times a day!

[BigC]

I would get out of the relationship. Tell

her if she wants to be with you then she must cut all links with him but she obviously has no intention of doing that.

 

or as a last resort why do you front her ex face to face and tell him to do1

[phetpeter]

Its a Thai auction! She is bidding herself to one who offers a better future with love...marriage . from what you are offering is words, you are in her home, her life, she is refusing you to buy anything, reason you are only offering, the new fridge should have been there without offer! You sound  weak! she has told you that you are kind and sweet, but not wanting a full commitment, being strong (sweeping her off her feet!) You will have to up your biddin in this Thai auction. It not money she wants but, long term relationship...Are you ready to commit to that? If not, then drop out.

[leither69]

I fell asleep halfway through this!! If there are any exciting bits, can someone summarise them for me?

[Lamkyong]

3 hours ago, Peterw42 said:

its legal grounds for divorce in some countries.

yeah tesco land

[punchjudy]

climb on top of another one

[KC 71]

Our tune


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[csabo]

She's a freelancer running the "I have a job, I'm not a freelancer" game on you. The little fights over nothing are her overwhelming distain for you bubbling to the surface. She calms down when she weighs out the long term gain.  The four days you didn't talk to her she was sucking cash out of somebody else money tube. You were with a bar whore before so you have already proved you are incapable of making smart decisions in this arena on your own so take my advice. Delete her phone number, block her line and ignore her completely. . Next case. 

[PerkinsCuthbert]

Oh to be adolescent again!

[atyclb]

23 hours ago, Livinglife1 said:

im shocked 

she tells me she loves me and cares for me but they have a lot of history she doesn't know what to do

 

 

you may want to advance beyond high school

Edited February 17, 2018 by atyclb

[murraynz]

she sounds like basicly-a good lady, trying to be honest about her feelings.

most thai women wont do that, but if you dont want a life of ongoing trauma, its best to move on..

'there are plenty of other fish in the sea".   good luck

a life as a single man is very appealing, after resding this sort of drama and the regular rip offs by thai women..

its always best to RENT not buy, especially with females--

[falangjim]

Somehow I got to the end of that post, but my intestines are now in a pressured, explosive knot. Oh! There goes a small fart. It squeaked out, unexpected like. Now where was I? Ahhh...you're having troubles with your Thai girlfriend, whose friends 'really like you, and that's important...Oh my God, another rush of air just flew out my rearend, and that one had a bit of heat to it. Ok. Sorry. Yeah, so your holiday dream girl turns out to have an exboyfriend, and his mum has been in contact with her trying to patch it all up. But you still get the occasional booty call...*whoosh!*OMG, that one came with a turtlehead. Touching cloth as the Brits say. Ok. Where was I? Ah. She has to make a decision, and so do you by the looks of it, since you dragged your dirty laundry out onto a public forum hoping for an answer you already know in your heart (or gut) to be true. I think I'll go back and re-read the feature story about the slob in Buriram, and how his one-eyed wife has to wipe his butt. At least that couple are commited.

[transam]

3 minutes ago, falangjim said:

Somehow I got to the end of that post, but my intestines are now in a pressured, explosive knot. Oh! There goes a small fart. It squeaked out, unexpected like. Now where was I? Ahhh...you're having troubles with your Thai girlfriend, whose friends 'really like you, and that's important...Oh my God, another rush of air just flew out my rearend, and that one had a bit of heat to it. Ok. Sorry. Yeah, so your holiday dream girl turns out to have an exboyfriend, and his mum has been in contact with her trying to patch it all up. But you still get the occasional booty call...*whoosh!*OMG, that one came with a turtlehead. Touching cloth as the Brits say. Ok. Where was I? Ah. She has to make a decision, and so do you by the looks of it, since you dragged your dirty laundry out onto a public forum hoping for an answer you already know in your heart (or gut) to be true. I think I'll go back and re-read the feature story about the slob in Buriram, and how his one-eyed wife has to wipe his butt. At least that couple are commited.

Try ........

 

https://www.positivehealthwellness.com/pain-relief/the-complete-guide-to-stop-farting-fast-using-natural-remedies/

[realenglish1]

It's really simple to Tell her it's you or the ex-boyfriend Period If she picks you then you must finish totally with your ex

 

If you choose your ex-BF then  tell her you are not going to be her GIG  (means hidden lover)

 

Very simple

[billybog]

Look, I am not one to tell anyone what to do. A person has to man up and do whats in his best interest. I will say one thing....if you are not 100% happy with a Thai girl....leave asap because it wont get better over time. remember one thing....the day before you met her...you were doing fine...you will do fine after leaving her. Ohhh...and just for the people who think I am bitter towards Thia women, I love Thai women, I treat them with respect and get the same in return. I just dont let myself "fall in love".  

[billybog]

Transam,

 

 THAT was priceless!!!

[likeke]

Too long of a post. Got bored and did not finish. When will some guys learn the art of choosing words carefully to insure that "War and Peace" books are not created.

[The Theory]

Beautiful girls on demand, they can not forget their past. Once in a while want to visit old gardens of past. 

Not really unusual story. I've seen it before. I just went through her garden in short time and everything was forgotten a month after. 

It is all about mind games. 

Good luck.

[smotherb]

On 2/16/2018 at 12:59 PM, Kinnock said:

This is Thailand, not Europe or US, aim for perfection in a partner and you'll find it.  Mood swings, uncertainty, keeping you hanging on - these are all the games girls play when there's short supply of good girlfriend material and the guy is desperately trying to hang on to her.

 

Thailand is like a huge car showroom filled with exotic machinery for you to try, and only when you find that one special vehicle, with the looks, ride, color extras and even your favorite music pre-installed and the Bluetooth set up to your phone do you take one home for keeps.

 

If anyone ever feels they need to post a Thai Girlfriend query on a public forum, then they are with the wrong girl.  Take a few more test drives, find one with a smoother ride and a lower mileage.

Sounds to be good advice. And, I have always preferred one with that new car smell--the less baggage, the better

[smotherb]

23 hours ago, simon43 said:

Now I know why I enjoy solitary masturbation.....

Saves a lot of rejections, does it?

[smotherb]

3 hours ago, hobobo said:

But remember, Thai girls see farangs as a huge car showroom filled with exotic machinery as well! I've known some who'd take a different model for a test ride several times a day!

I think you may need to rephrase your analogy. Something like, Thai girls see farangs as a huge selection of banks with tellers so dumb, they give you anything for some leg.