Getting married to Thai wife in a month: Need help to know if she is cheating. :(

[rumak]

1 hour ago, NCC1701A said:

I asked Tuktik to come live with me in Hua Hin, but she makes a minimum of $60,000 USD a year so no way I could match that.

not even figuring in the discount for you being such a "hansum man ?"

[mikehongpark]

8 hours ago, BritManToo said:

TL; DR

Well, not all of it, but the 'Do you love me?', 'Yes, I love you' lines.

'Shall we eat together', 'No, got to go to work' .............

......... or he could be her brother (as they talk about mom a lot).

 

IMHO definitely banging each other.

Just confirmed by girlfriend, this is a conversation between two lovers having a bit of a tiff.

Thank you for your response, as it clarifies the level of their friendship.

[rumak]

57 minutes ago, scorecard said:

"just don't throw your money at them"

 

If the companion is not happy with the money / benefits, bad luck. 

Oh, SC ...........  Do you know how many ruined relationships we could save if  JUST EVERYONE TOOK THAT ADVICE ?     

 

 

[mikehongpark]

4 hours ago, losworld said:

these gals are great actors i wouldn't bet that the reactions could be the opposite... proof is in the email and as elvis sings "suspicious love".  get out of this as quickly as possible

I was planning to go get my 20 bottles of Johnnie Walker Gold label that I had her purchase duty-free during her travels last year. Thanks for the advise. Maybe I'll send someone else.

[cyberfarang]

3 hours ago, cyril sneer said:

this is handy if you want some revenge op

 

post screenshots of the conversation on her timeline

change her marital status to single

change her profile photo to a buffalo

The worst advice anyone can give.

 

Thailand has strict defamation laws, and publicly shaming someone that can cause damage to reputations, whether true or not can lead to long prison time, also taking into consideration the GF has not broken any laws. 

 

Every which way the OP is backing a loser and if the crap hits the fan all he can do is write off his losses and put it down to experience.  

[ifmu]

learn the language so you can communicate with someone you will spend your life with .. ... 

[mikehongpark]

6 minutes ago, sgoodes said:

I know absolutely no Thai at all but I'll have a stab in the dark.

I want you but just wait until I've married this dumb rich farang and we'll clean him out after the house is finished and the bank account is in joint names. 

He is dumb as a box of hammers so it will be easy peasy. I love you my teerak so please be patient. Bwahahaha.

 

I have a mate that's also being taken for a ride and I've tried to warn him a few times. He doesn't want to listen so as far as I'm concerned if he's that stupid then he deserves it. He has practically cut me off as his girl knows what I know so she has forbidden him from catching up for a beer. He keeps using that very famous line that " she's not like the rest of them. She's different. What an idiot. His house in Sisaket is almost finished so it will only be a matter of time before he joins the Pattaya Flyers Club.

Sad but true what can happen.

Yeah, some of my American Thai friends warned me about Thai girls and I know one acquaintance who got his bank account cleared out by a Thai wife of 7 years, and she disappeared and moved to Thailand with $250k cash. 

[mcambl61]

ejaculate and evacuate.......repeat.

 

this is the key to suck sess

[mikehongpark]

7 minutes ago, ifmu said:

learn the language so you can communicate with someone you will spend your life with .. ... 

She has engineering degree and speaks very fluent English. I met her in the USA while she was traveling. Although, I did plan to learn the language to be better able to communicate with her parents.

[BritManToo]

Just now, mikehongpark said:

She has engineering degree and speaks very fluent English.

Surprising as the text indicated a real 'potty mouth'.

[mikehongpark]

3 hours ago, Spidey said:

Which female working in parlours (?) HAS the name Zen. I've never met one.

Zen is the guy.

[Ebumbu]

Your fiancé is not cheating on you. She was simply consulting with her Zen teacher. 

[lemonjelly]

They do refer to each other as “tee rak” ..... that’s a bit of a giveaway 

[Tchooptip]

• • Zen
• ทำไมต้องอาทิตหน้า
   tam-mai dtông aa-tí ต nâa 
  WORD BREAKDOWN

  • ทำไมtam-maiwhy
  • ต้องdtônghave to ; must
  • อาทิaa-tísuch as ; for example
  • ตหน้าต nâa next tor tao (ต - the twenty-first letter in the Thai alphabet)
•  
• A bit complicated your translations when in this example: I separated the words ทำไม ต้อง อาทิต หน้า simply means Why (must) next week? because in the wordอาทิต week the letter ย์ is simply forgotten/missing for the correct spelling  อาทิตย์ 

Edited January 4, 2019 by Tchooptip

[natway09]

Talking about being faithful, where where you last night ?

[Ebumbu]

To summarize previous long post with translation: 

 

"Zen lie down, smash, press, take shower." 

 

[BobBKK]

If he marries a Thai 'som nam na'  it's genetic

[Billy Bloggs]

I only lasted about half way I guess, and not being a thai speaker I thought some of it looked like an online game of some sort.

[totally thaied up]

14 minutes ago, mikehongpark said:

She has engineering degree and speaks very fluent English

 

13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Surprising as the text indicated a real 'potty mouth'.

I know several engineering girls that all are working in Korea doing happy ending massages. A degree means very little here. I know two lawyers that sell at the local markets that earn only a couple of hundred a day. Another friend that works in BKK tells me most his call-girls are educated but I will admit, he picks some stunners.

 

Education means little. It is who you know that makes it big.

[wolf81]

You can use translate.google.com but realise some stuff can get lost in translation. Here's a Google translation:

 

11/8/18, 9:36 AM
Spp
Yes
the Road
 
Zen
Why does the page itself have a letter?
  
Spp
love
very much
Eat too
 
Zen
No
 
Spp
Thin and thin
Can eat, eat and sleep
Do not be too aggressive
Darling
 
November 9, 2018 at 8:29 AM
Spp
Much
Lot
Where to pull
Where is mother go
Why not have rice
 
Zen
Home
 
Spp
And why not have rice
Go out
Go home
What to eat
Why not invite
 
Zen
Go out to work
 
Spp
What are you doing
Don't mess up
Which summary
 
November 9, 2018 at 8:58 AM
Zen
Cut the wire
 
Spp
To tell
Not selected
 
Zen
Not finished
 
November 9, 2018 at 8:58 AM
Spp
Just say this
did not hear
 
November 9, 2018 at 8:59 AM
Spp
No longer accepting
 
November 9, 2018 at 9:01 AM
Zen
Much
 
Spp
Maia
at all
the Road
 
Zen
Until
Fast
 
Spp
K
wait a sec
 
Zen
soon
 
11/12/18, 9:03 AM
Spp
crumbling
Don't love u
Left the game
Cut
 
Zen
Flattened
Bad
 
Spp
Flattened
 
Zen
Don't care anymore
 
Spp
Crush
Callig
Don't care anymore
In light
 
Zen
Who doesn't care
 
Spp
Baby A
He calls to set up a call.
Sard
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
Nongby
Are you?
 
11/12/18, 3:18 PM
Zen
?
Sleep
Stay up late
 
11/14/18, 2:06 AM
Spp
Ang Ngok Nee
 
Zen
Now
 
11/14/18, 3:45 AM
Zen
Not bad
Spp
Angry
 
Zen
?
The order for
 
Spp
Flattened
Get stuck
Come to say that another aviary is
 
Zen
wait
 
11/14/18, 10:35 AM
Zen
Love
 
11/15/18, 7:05 AM
Spp
Don't read
Come on phase
 
11/16/18, 5:42 AM
Spp
Going down
 
Zen
Yes
Shit
 
11/17/18, 10:05 PM
Spp
Read and don't answer
 
Zen
No answer
 
Spp
What is Pim?
have
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
Not using
Why is Mung in the morning?
not understand
?
 
Zen
According to that
 
Spp
What is that
 
11/18/18, 4:07 AM
Spp
When will u come
 
Zen
Soon
 
Zen
Don't have a lot
 
Spp
Who many
 
Zen
You
 
11/18/18, 11:50 PM
Zen
Lots of crumbling
Yet another
 
Spp
keep working
Drew him
The face looks like a crush.
 
Zen
Flattened
 
11/19/18, 2:01 AM
Zen
Love
 
11/19/18, 3:34 AM
Spp
Angry is so flattering
Wait
 
Zen
Any other
 
11/19/18, 8:06 AM
Spp
Love you
 
Zen
Love
?
Quiet
 
Spp
Love the value
See also
 
Zen
Oh ok
 
Spp
What
Want to bite
 
Zen
How to bite?
 
Spp
Biting
Sterile fangs
 
Zen
Bite
Come
 
Spp
Kantha Chanchan
This is not a fight.
Don't want to quarrel
 
Zen
the Road
 
Spp
Quarrel
 
Zen
Will not fight
 
Spp
Khabbaby
So much love
 
Zen
Why must such a face
 
Spp
Play
Want to love each other for a long time
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
Dine
Slim
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
okay
He looks like the first
 
Zen
Will not love
?
 
Spp
Yes sir
Not thin
do not like
Like a flattened
I don't want him to be skinny.
Or really want?
 
Zen
So
 
Spp
But afraid of him, sorry?
 
Zen
No
 
Spp
Yes
Go to eat
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
Eat a lot
Eat a lot
 
Zen
Yes
 
11/22/18, 9:18 AM
Spp
love
 
Zen
receive
g
What are you doing
 
Spp
Um well
No longer accepting
Another argument
 
Zen
Completely erased
 
Spp
What the Hell
Do not come a lot. What is that day?
Told me to take her to Mae Hong
 
Zen
Delete it anyway
 
Spp
Let the car go by itself
 
Zen
Do not have a problem
 
Spp
What song is it? Say what?
The edge of the person who is well cared for
 
Zen
Anything is negative
 
Spp
But then
Want to delete
Not what
Mae Kong Mee Pan See When erased
Who many
Mee went to buy and finished at that time.
Mae will fight every day.
What is crazy
My own mother was never wrong.
Never thought that Perhaps the more stirring the heel, the more the mother escalates.
Never thought
Always
I don't agree. This is a habit.
Seng Maeng
What are you looking for?
 
Zen
Well
 
Spp
When the call is not received
So many emotions
Sorry then butt
Love zen
 
Zen
Well
 
Spp
Do not hmm
Tell love first
 
Zen
tell yourself
 
Spp
?
Already told
Love you
 
Zen
Yes
Love?
Old habits
Delete it all
next time
And don't have to go down
end
 
Spp
Going down
sleep
Lazy, quarreling
Good night
Good mood
If you want to delete it now
 
Zen
Not delete
Didn't want to delete
Just say
Next time if you delete it again
All erased
 
Spp
Sorry
 
Zen
Lots of aroma
 
Spp
Love Zen
Yes
Not a lot
Not to face
Again
Sorry
Angry
 
November 22, 2018 at 10:16 AM
Zen
not accept
Voice call
In the latter, the post was hidden.
Saw 2 people enough
 
Spp
?
What is the matter?
A lot
 
11/22/18, 11:47 PM
Spp
Don't accept it
 
11/23/18, 1:18 AM
Zen
?
 
Spp
Call for a long time
Not receiving each
In the afternoon
Alright
Sticker
 
Zen
Be a person
55
 
Spp
really
Thought that was crazy
 
Zen
So crazy
bye
 
Spp
Continue without video
Plain call
 
Zen
Ahh
 
Spp
annoy
Start a lot
 
Zen
Yes
Do you dance very much?
 
Spp
Not much
So so
It's not as much as Zen Bran Khan.
 
Zen
Yes
Never said that the dance beam
 
Spp
But this action is hopelessly bran.
Call to not accept
Heavier than talking again
Speaking better
Said never to dance But the hard action
Is
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
Love Nopp.
 
Zen
true love?
 
Spp
love
Why ask like this?
 
Zen
Don't know
 
Spp
Think that I don't really love Di
 
Zen
Don't know
There are stories
 
Spp
That's it
 
Zen
Yes
 
Spp
What
Like finding a boat
 
Zen
Yes
 
11/23/18, 4:56 AM
Spp
Wru
?
??
Where are you?
Or back
What are you damn Zen?
You will return.
You tell me
Black
Proportion
When I asked, I made a stop at the buffalo.
If you pick up, tell me how good you are.
 
Zen
What
Just came down
 
Spp
Where are you
Then why not count
What is it
 
Zen
How many
 
Spp
How many calls to call
Look Mang Pa
 
Zen
Depend on
 
Spp
Then why not accept
 
Zen
Walking to the station
Wait
 
Spp
Will you wait to ask?
Don't want to wait?
Or what
Just came up
Hurry, don't talk a lot.
Up again

Edited January 4, 2019 by wolf81

[digger70]

<deleted>. if one has doubts Run.

[AGareth2]

what is the age difference?

[rutteketuut]

Two biggest mistakes I made in my life: marry Thai lady, buy a house in Thailand.

[Mavideol]

1 minute ago, rutteketuut said:

Two biggest mistakes I made in my life: marry Thai lady, buy a house in Thailand.

that's it??? and you still here!!!!

Edited January 4, 2019 by Mavideol

[theguyfromanotherforum]

1 hour ago, mikehongpark said:

She has engineering degree and speaks very fluent English. I met her in the USA while she was traveling. Although, I did plan to learn the language to be better able to communicate with her parents.

 

Does she have a job?

[theguyfromanotherforum]

55 minutes ago, lemonjelly said:

They do refer to each other as “tee rak” ..... that’s a bit of a giveaway 

 

Zen - Teerak

 

Mike - Teelak

[sabyedee]

My wife says that this sounds like two lovers talking to each other. Don’t know how old she is but my wife seems to think that they are younger people not middle aged or older. If you are in doubt then leave her. Thai women cheat more than the men do. To find a good one it is best to look for a well educated woman from a good family. Most Thais are very opportunistic and if they see a chance to scam someone they will. Even scam family members. Good luck mate. Welcome to Thainess. 

[Mavideol]

1 minute ago, sabyedee said:

Most Thais are very opportunistic and if they see a chance to scam someone they will. Even scam family members.

sorry mate but not long ago the general said the contrary.... all scams involved falangs, he said Thais don't scam Thais

[cyberfarang]

Girl:

รักนะ OK Love?

 

Guy:

Love you, yes.

รักครับ

 

Girl:

กัดบี้ไง I want to bite you

หมันเขี้ยว

 

Guy:

กัดๆ Bite, bite bite.

มาๆ Come, come, come.

 

A part of the chat: Translated by my wife. Lots of sex talk but my wife and I don`t have time to sit here all day translating this.

 

To the OP, your girl is screwing you over.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Suradit69]

10 hours ago, NCC1701A said:

Eject! Eject! Eject! Thousands of beautiful women in Thailand.

As the song would have it (particularly if you're a farang zero and you're looking to find a Thai wife who's anything above a 5).

 

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life ...