Lazy hooker

[Alfonz]

Just now, camble said:

You should have compensated her for her time, Is she a lazy hooker or are you a cheap charlie customer?

 Sorry 

Am I cheap charlie?  

After paid bar fine couple drinks dinner. And willing to pay XXX per night. Ok, next time I will call you and you can give her  2X XXXX bath this poor innocent girl. I am a bad man ???? 

 

[moe666]

1 hour ago, Alfonz said:

I don't get it Guys. You trying me push that I am wrong!!
I wanna see you will pay I paid lots of drinks to her.
You, guys, look like you agree with her.
 

That is their job to get you to buy drinks, you got her drunk and she didn't preform your fault for buying to many drinks. There is never a guranttee they are good in bed only good at getting your money.

[puukao]

1 hour ago, Alfonz said:

She started kicked me I grab her neck and took her away from my room. But this is not worsted the story continuing.

assault and battery, possibly.  jail time, possibly.  i know i can't talk about the other stuff.......you grabbed her neck????  and this is not the "worsted"......  maybe a troll post, odds are 85% made up.  I just don't want to believe i live in a country where the foreigners, who post on the same site i do, are grabbing ladies by their necks and that is not the "worsted".  

 

[moe666]

20 minutes ago, Alfonz said:

Do not judge me, please.

Ok we will not judge you keep trying go to another bar get another girl maybe you will get lucky

[Alfonz]

9 minutes ago, 55Jay said:

She's practicing for later life married to a farang. 

Pretend to laugh at his jokes, tell him he's witty and charming. 

Pretend to be asleep hoping like hell he leaves you alone, but still gives you money in the morning.  ????

I think soo.

[Alfonz]

6 minutes ago, puukao said:

assault and battery, possibly.  jail time, possibly.  i know i can't talk about the other stuff.......you grabbed her neck????  and this is not the "worsted"......  maybe a troll post, odds are 85% made up.  I just don't want to believe i live in a country where the foreigners, who post on the same site i do, are grabbing ladies by their necks and that is not the "worsted".  

 

she scammed me !! I did only defensive against her she was started to hurt myself first

[brokenbone]

20 minutes ago, camble said:

You should have compensated her for her time, Is she a lazy hooker or are you a cheap charlie customer?

he already wasted the barfine, and she knew that,

thats why she didnt perform

[White Christmas13]

19 minutes ago, Alfonz said:

 Sorry 

Am I cheap charlie?  

After paid bar fine couple drinks dinner. And willing to pay XXX per night. Ok, next time I will call you and you can give her  2X XXXX bath this poor innocent girl. I am a bad man ???? 

 

you shouldn't go with hookers in the first place

[Alfonz]

1 minute ago, White Christmas13 said:

you shouldn't go with hookers in the first place

She smiled to me she told me want marry with me.

[johnray]

You need a hooker visa.  Supply 5 years evidence to show you have only been in Thailand for 1 year, 6 photos, 1500 bhat and wait for 8 hours at immigration.

Edited February 25, 2019 by johnray

[White Christmas13]

[Psimbo]

1 hour ago, Alfonz said:

 Sorry 

Am I cheap charlie?  

After paid bar fine couple drinks dinner. And willing to pay XXX per night. Ok, next time I will call you and you can give her  2X XXXX bath this poor innocent girl. I am a bad man ???? 

 

I'm pretty sure you are not circumcised as you come across as a complete phallus.

[OneMoreFarang]

Just in case this is real and not a troll post.

Better pay her! And soon! And a lot!

Because if you don't do that there will be consequences. And those consequences will be so bad that you will beg that please, please, take my money, all of it.

If you don't believe me report back in a couple of days. We will see.

P.S.: Do you have a good health insurance?

[scorecard]

2 hours ago, Alfonz said:

I don't get it Guys. You trying me push that I am wrong!!
I wanna see you will pay I paid lots of drinks to her.
You, guys, look like you agree with her.
 

She's a hooker, a prostitute. Drinks, dinner, gifts etc., don't count, she's spending time with you for money money money, no other reason.

 

Does taking girls to your room come with a guarantee? No, nowhere in the world. Many guys will tell you the failures well outweigh the successes.

 

She expected money, you agreed to money, if you want a guarantee buy a watch or whatever. 

 

The industry she works in has no morals or ethics, upset someone and there's a fair chance they will upset you 10 times more bad. And the guys who come looking for you will have no hesitation to break your legs and probably get away with it.

 

Always pay up to avoid further problems, that's the way it works, nd it ain't going to change.

 

The hotel obviously have some awareness of what's happened, they now see you as a potential problem guest which could mean their staff have to spend more time to watch you, take care of problems etc.

 

Fair? No clear answer to that, the hotel are hoping they can avoid further troubles and nobody would blame them. You made your own problem, live with it.  

Edited February 25, 2019 by scorecard

[roo860]

She smiled to me she told me want marry with me.

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[RotBenz8888]

2 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Do you honestly think she was with you for your California surfer looks? Because you resemble Brad Pitt?

Is the 80s look back again?

[Alfonz]

14 minutes ago, scorecard said:

She's a hooker, a prostitute. Drinks, dinner, gifts etc., don't count, she's spending time with you for money money money, no other reason.

 

Does taking girls to your room come with a guarantee? No, nowhere in the world. Many guys will tell you the failures well outweigh the successes.

 

She expected money, you agreed to money, if you want a guarantee buy a watch or whatever. 

 

The industry she works in has no morals or ethics, upset someone and there's a fair chance they will upset you 10 times more bad. And the guys who come looking for you will have no hesitation to break your legs and probably get away with it.

 

Always pay up to avoid further problems, that's the way it works, nd it ain't going to change.

 

The hotel obviously have some awareness of what's happened, they now see you as a potential problem guest which could mean their staff have to spend more time to watch you, take care of problems etc.

 

Fair? No clear answer to that, the hotel are hoping they can avoid further troubles and nobody would blame them. You made your own problem, live with it.  

I paid for the whole night, not for short time is it clear this?

 

Anyway, sex here is not allowed for money what she can do it. This is against law.!!   

[Alfonz]

have someone here a wife stay with you because not of money? OR You guys donate your wife's with hundred and hundreds xx and golds and their family also in east part of country XY. (I cannot mentioned Thaxxx because I will be deleted)

 

 

Can someone find here real love or Is all about money??

[Alfonz]

21 minutes ago, scorecard said:

The industry she works in has no morals or ethics, upset someone and there's a fair chance they will upset you 10 times more bad. And the guys who come looking for you will have no hesitation to break your legs and probably get away with it.

Who ? 

[brokenbone]

1 minute ago, Alfonz said:

have someone here a wife stay with you because not of money? OR You guys donate your wife's with hundred and hundreds xx and golds and their family also in east part of country XY. (I cannot mentioned Thaxxx because I will be deleted)

 

 

Can someone find here real love or Is all about money??

i think the word you are looking for is lust.

and yes, plenty of woman lust for sex,

but not the hookers though

[Puchaiyank]

I'm going to make a wild guess...you have not spent a lot of time in Thailand.

 

If you do wrong to a Thai girl...

She can get a gang to beat the sxxt out of you...

 

If you are determined not to pay, I advise you try your luck in another city.

 

It may not be safe for you there.

Edited February 25, 2019 by Puchaiyank

[richard_smith237]

2 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

You paid her no money at all? That is totally, and completely unforgivable. There is never, ever a circumstance that warrants that. She is making a living. Do you honestly think she wanted to be with you? Give her something for her time. You were completely in the wrong here, and you committed a grievous sin. 

 

Do you honestly think she was with you for your California surfer looks? Because you resemble Brad Pitt? Get a life, please, and stop preying on the local women. 

 

I agreed to pay a guy to come to my place and pickup my bike (totally flat battery) and take it to the dealiership....

 

They didn’t arrive and then decide they wanted to hang around for a while and do nothing. And if they arrived and decided my motorcycle was too large for their flatbed (or any other excuse) they would not have been paid. I wasn’t paying for their time I was paying for a specific service. 

 

Yes, I know this is comparing Apples and Oranges somewhat and there are other sensitivities involved... However, the Op made an agreement with another party, that other party did not follow through on their part of the agreement. 

 

It would appear that this girl was attempting to string the Op along and the Op was having none of it. I don’t like the way he actied when he grabbed her, but she could have said no if she didn’t really want to go with him - her response forced him to become someone he didn’t want to me. 

 

I have done the same in the past (not with hookers) but with ‘people in general’... i.e. lazy or ineffective people I manage, maids, ex GF’s, taxi drivers or anyone else who makes an agreement then attempts to string-you-along or behaves so poorly you are forced to become someone you’d prefer not to be and act firmly because you are not a soft pushover.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[NanLaew]

1 hour ago, Alfonz said:

She smiled to me she told me want marry with me.

"Seconds away!... Round four!!!"

[richard_smith237]

2 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

 

You take a chance when you bar fine a woman. If she comes back to your room, and is boring or detached, or behaving in a way that you do not like, you kindly ask her to leave. But, you have to give her something for her time. It is just basic decency and respect. Not the full amount, that was agreed upon. Of course not. But something, especially if it has gotten past the shower part. We are talking about a rather paltry sum, to make her feel comfortable walking away, from a situation that did not work out. Come on now. Be a gentleman, and never, ever pay nothing, when you decide it is not working. It is a recipe for disaster, and you are fortunate it did not get worse for you. Do not show disrespect for such a simple thing. She was not into it. It is not an easy job. Perhaps you did not humor her enough, or make her feel comfortable, or crack enough jokes, or use your few Thai questions? Maybe she is new to the game, and was tense and nervous. It is on you to help her relax. It is about your creativity, and kindness, and you ability to soften her up. Most working girls here are really nice people. They are doing what they need to do, to survive and help their families, in most cases. Do not make their lives even harder than they already are. Regardless, do the right thing. Always behave with respect here, especially with Thai women in the business. They deserve that.

While I havent agreed with everything you have written on this thread so far, I do like it... especially the respect part...

 

But, I do get the impression from the original post that the the original poster was being taken for a ride....  If that is not the case, then yes, the Op behaved poorly... but, if the Op was being taken for a ride by someone who’d agreed a service then thought she could get paid for not doing anything I think the Op was within his rights. 

 

It’s impossible to tell if his ‘spidey sense’ was right or not.... 

 

 

 

[Pilotman]

3 hours ago, Alfonz said:

I don't get it Guys. You trying me push that I am wrong!!
I wanna see you will pay I paid lots of drinks to her.
You, guys, look like you agree with her.
 

you really are a piece of work. You commit fraud on the lady and expect sympathy. I think you may be on the wrong forum mate. 

[brokenbone]

3 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

you really are a piece of work. You commit fraud on the lady and expect sympathy. I think you may be on the wrong forum mate. 

she committed fraud and expected to get paid in full anyway

 

fixed it for you

[OneMoreFarang]

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

if the Op was being taken for a ride by someone who’d agreed a service then thought she could get paid for not doing anything I think the Op was within his rights

I guess it won't be published here, but what did they actually agree?

A) Was the agreement something like: We spend the whole night together?

B) Or was is like: We will do this and that and I will do it without pause for 5 hours and you have to be all the time active and smile like you enjoy it. And then you can leave at 9am.

I guess it's a lot more likely that what he agreed with her was A and what he had in mind was B. But that's not what he agreed - at least I guess not.

 

I remember long time ago I saw one hot girl a couple of time in her bar. And every time I saw her she was active with other guys. And she looked like a lot of fun. And she smiled at me like: Next time we do it. And in my imagination I was sure that would be the best time of my life. Next time I saw her without a customer I didn't even buy her a drink. I barfined her and was finished after 5 minutes. And then I though the party will continue. But she informed me that was not what she had in mind. And I was so stupid that I didn't check the details with her before. I paid, and I learned, and I won't do it again. Realistically I can't say she cheated me. She didn't do what was in my fantasy. And that's the point. It was just my fantasy...

[Pilotman]

6 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

While I havent agreed with everything you have written on this thread so far, I do like it... especially the respect part...

 

But, I do get the impression from the original post that the the original poster was being taken for a ride....  If that is not the case, then yes, the Op behaved poorly... but, if the Op was being taken for a ride by someone who’d agreed a service then thought she could get paid for not doing anything I think the Op was within his rights. 

 

It’s impossible to tell if his ‘spidey sense’ was right or not.... 

 

 

 

well several points here.  prostitution is illegal in Thailand, so it can hardly be compared to a normal commercial transaction.  He was taken for a ride? Hardly, as he seemed to get most of what he expected,  besides, being taken for a ride by a Thai hooker is hardly news and hardly unknown.  He is lucky she didn't take out a weapon and do him serious damage. The hotel refused him taking another girl to his room, hardly uncommon. Seems to me that this is either made up, or he is a naive ...............  

[richard_smith237]

10 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I guess it won't be published here, but what did they actually agree?

A) Was the agreement something like: We spend the whole night together?

B) Or was is like: We will do this and that and I will do it without pause for 5 hours and you have to be all the time active and smile like you enjoy it. And then you can leave at 9am.

I guess it's a lot more likely that what he agreed with her was A and what he had in mind was B. But that's not what he agreed - at least I guess not.

 

I remember long time ago I saw one hot girl a couple of time in her bar. And every time I saw her she was active with other guys. And she looked like a lot of fun. And she smiled at me like: Next time we do it. And in my imagination I was sure that would be the best time of my life. Next time I saw her without a customer I didn't even buy her a drink. I barfined her and was finished after 5 minutes. And then I though the party will continue. But she informed me that was not what she had in mind. And I was so stupid that I didn't check the details with her before. I paid, and I learned, and I won't do it again. Realistically I can't say she cheated me. She didn't do what was in my fantasy. And that's the point. It was just my fantasy...

Fair enough... but if a bit of ‘how’s your father’ has been negotiated and agreed upon... and she hasn’t carried through.... then she has reigned on the deal... 

 

In your case... the deal was met but not the fantasy.

 

 

[sunnyboy2018]

3 hours ago, Alfonz said:

I don't get it Guys. You trying me push that I am wrong!!
I wanna see you will pay I paid lots of drinks to her.
You, guys, look like you agree with her.
 

You were unlucky.  It happens sometimes. Better luck next time.  Go to a reputable GG bar like Electric Blue