Need advice from experienced farangs about Thai girls

[BestB]

3 minutes ago, White Christmas13 said:

Make sure you pay the bar fine or we will hear another sad story here

Why? Your good girl hair saloon owner has not been bar fined for weeks?????

 

must be saving herself just for you

Edited February 26, 2019 by BestB

[NCC1701A]

2 hours ago, TheFarangGuy said:

This is my first post on this forum,

are you being paid to write this?

 

are you part of a group of people or the same person who writes these stories? The structure is very similar.

 

maybe just to yank the Farang's chain?

 

[White Christmas13]

3 minutes ago, BestB said:

Why? Your good girl hair saloon owner has not been bar fined for weeks?????

 

must be saving herself just for you

My good girl is 48 and has a 28 year old daughter she does not need to work in a bar her husband left her plenty of money when he died

[Puchaiyank]

Thing about many Thai women...they are completely fine with making a few buck with a side job...like hustling farangs...

 

Just be aware...if she keeps pressuring you for money...she sees you as income...not bf... 

[Mavideol]

2 minutes ago, Puchaiyank said:

Thing about many Thai women...they are completely fine with making a few buck with a side job...like hustling farangs...

 

Just be aware...if she keeps pressuring you for money...she sees you as income...not bf... 

or maybe like another job, don't worry the money issue will be there shortly

[55Jay]

24 minutes ago, Benroon said:

Can't agree with the last comment - its like washing your feet with your boots on !!

Won't post the Youtube clip as a thumbnail here, link only, but this is what I was thinking about.

 

Eddie Murphy on STDs

[BestB]

14 minutes ago, White Christmas13 said:

My good girl is 48 and has a 28 year old daughter she does not need to work in a bar her husband left her plenty of money when he died

Oh I see, she has done the hard yards already , lucky has you now to support her????

[White Christmas13]

3 minutes ago, BestB said:

Oh I see, she has done the hard yards already , lucky has you now to support her????

wrong again she supports me

[Destiny1990]

Follow ur own instinct. Most of us here are drunks SINGLE and cranky guys what do we know??

Anyway I would Keep her for now but find one or two ladies more then  date them all kinda at the same period  and slowly find out who seems the most sincere with u.

Settle down with that one.

Edited February 26, 2019 by Destiny1990

[TheFarangGuy]

18 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

are you being paid to write this?

 

are you part of a group of people or the same person who writes these stories? The structure is very similar.

 

maybe just to yank the Farang's chain?

 

Yes, I get paid to make up these stories detective. Now watch out your tin foil hat doesn't fall off. 

[Pravda]

Thai girls who are serious don't use tinder, period.

 

Thai girls that have good jobs, don't use tinder, they would be embarassed period ????

 

Tinder is for low class Thai women and prostitutes. Thai friendly to a lesser extent.

 

Before someone comes in and try to prove me otherwise, just think about this for a moment,

 

Thai women are very social and have plenty of connections. If she was looking for a foreign husband she would have been introduced by her friends a long time ago or she would meet him outside a dating site.

 

Only low class/gold diggers are "desperate" enough to go on dating apps. Again, unlike us Westerners Thai women they are pretty well connected.

 

BTW, no it is not normal for a Thai woman to have a few guys lined up. A tell tale sign she's a player or worse. Most women would at least hide it.

 

What is exactly her job?

 

 

 

 

[bander]

2 hours ago, TheFarangGuy said:

Could be possible that she's having few farangs here and there. Her job certainly makes it even easier to achieve.

 

She has a real job, i'm 100% sure. Went to her house and saw bunch of products she's selling, and we took some to a client. No worries about that. 

 

 

You mean she work for AMWAY, HERBALIFE or other sales company? I wouldn't call that a real job, its just her side income. Hustling foreigners is her main business. Have fun with her as long as you can, don't walk into the trap and buy her a house, land, car, buffaloes, gold and whatever she ask for.

[TheFarangGuy]

1 minute ago, Pravda said:

What is exactly her job?

 

 

 

 

She's something like a traveling salesman for a pharmaceutical company, so she's on the road a lot, visiting clients. I know for sure it's her job, she gave me her business card and like I said I visited her home and saw bunch of products she's selling and actually took some samples with her to a client. 

[Pravda]

3 minutes ago, bander said:

You mean she work for AMWAY, HERBALIFE or other sales company? I wouldn't call that a real job, its just her side income. Hustling foreigners is her main business. Have fun with her as long as you can, don't walk into the trap and buy her a house, land, car, buffaloes, gold and whatever she ask for.

 

Listen to this man. Go join some Pattaya Facebook pages and you will see a lot of freelancers also selling beauty products. Some of them are even real estate agents. No joke.

[tlandtday]

3 hours ago, vinniekintana said:

She's probably mooching from a farang or two and she wants to add another in the team.

Potentially ex bar-girl

I would also make sure that she actually has a real job.

 

Remember...everybody lies in Thailand (most of the time)

yes that is why it is affectionately known as "lieland" to many

[tlandtday]

10 minutes ago, Pravda said:

Thai girls who are serious don't use tinder, period.

 

Thai girls that have good jobs, don't use tinder, they would be embarassed period ????

 

Tinder is for low class Thai women and prostitutes. Thai friendly to a lesser extent.

 

Before someone comes in and try to prove me otherwise, just think about this for a moment,

 

Thai women are very social and have plenty of connections. If she was looking for a foreign husband she would have been introduced by her friends a long time ago or she would meet him outside a dating site.

 

Only low class/gold diggers are "desperate" enough to go on dating apps. Again, unlike us Westerners Thai women they are pretty well connected.

 

BTW, no it is not normal for a Thai woman to have a few guys lined up. A tell tale sign she's a player or worse. Most women would at least hide it.

 

What is exactly her job?

 

 

 

 

so many guys in tland have been haning around hookers so long they have not idea what a real thai gal is like...

[mokwit]

3 hours ago, Denim said:

Oh no, not another one. And the other one is still running !

Get a real job for pity's sake.

Maybe we should all help out TV by starting threads - remember the aim is to get as many replies as possible. You can get an idea of what works by looking at old threads that generated a lot of replies and then doing a new version of that.

[JHolmesJr]

To The OP:

 

Thai gals are great

You have to bang as many as possible

Dont get embroiled in this nonsense.

[BestB]

23 minutes ago, White Christmas13 said:

wrong again she supports me

????????????

[Gecko123]

Freelancer.

 

If you get AIDS from having unprotected sex with her, you think she's going to give you a discount on antiretroviral drugs? Wake up, man!

 

[Pravda]

Honestly, some STD'

20 minutes ago, JHolmesJr said:

To The OP:

 

Thai gals are great

You have to bang as many as possible

Dont get embroiled in this nonsense.

 

I have no shame admitting I am weak and would probably fall for a hooker. That's why I avoid them (and the fact my wife would go Lorena Bobbitt). I am guessing many newbs in Thailand get seduced by players here. Just how many Westerners stay with them even after all the lies.

 

Wasn't here a guy saying he had a friend who got a heart attack and while he was recovering his wife was banging some Thai guy in the room next door. He went back to this country being a poor broken man.

 

Nope, I avoid hookers and players like a plague cuz I don't wanna be played.

[bwpage3]

You have already been played whether you accept it or not!

[bwpage3]

3 hours ago, TheFarangGuy said:

Funny thing is, she didn't ask for money except for plane ticket money to visit me in the future. She drive me a lot around the town and don't want gas money. We split every dinner/lunch bill. She doesn't ask for any gifts or anything. That's what leaves me confused. She's so inconsistent that it drives me crazy.

She is using some other farang's money to PROP you up mate.

 

All the red flags you mentioned are just that, red flags.

 

If a Thai girl really likes you, none of that occurs

 

How many legitimate office/business women have 3 tattoos?

 

Zero!

 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, bkk6060 said:

she is a freelancer sucking you in

That doesn't really sound bad. ???? 

Maybe he should publish her phone number and we can all report back what a wonderful girl she is.

Maybe she wants to marry us all.

[bwpage3]

3 hours ago, TheFarangGuy said:

Yeah, all of you could be right. Good thing I'm leaving Thailand and not coming back for at least 6 months. So let's see if she can prove she's for real or just looking for a sponsor. Six months is a good time frame to test her out.

 

I see few possible scenarios:

 

• she's just looking for a sponsor
• she's stepping into her early 30s and want to get married (she said that actually)
• she's just playing around with multiple guys at a time because she can

Don't want to jump into any conclusions too early. She's on a testing phase for sure. No money, no nothing. 

 

 

She is playing around because people like you come to Thailand and think after 3 weeks it is true love despite a boat load of red flags

 

You need to read a lot more on this forum as after you leave there will be more games and stories to make your head spin

 

You were an easy fish for her to catch

[Peterw42]

They are all hookers. gold-diggers and a bargirl stole my kidney.

 

A pathetic, cynical old sex-pat on Thaivisa told me, and his mate in a bar told him.

 

 

 

[bwpage3]

2 hours ago, TheFarangGuy said:

Ouch, that's terrible. Sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing this experience. I'm quite surprised to what extent Thai girls are ready to go, and how much they're able to lie just to accomplish their agenda. It's a mad house man..

We are all quite surprised how many newbies come to Thailand and get played by some slick Thai woman!

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, White Christmas13 said:

Whats wrong with Pattaya you trying to say every women from Pattaya is a hooker? Get you facts straight

I have a friend in Pattaya she has a hairdressing salon I see her on camera every day I been there and seen it with my own eyes and no she does not do massage it is only a salon for ladies

So you are trying to tell me her daughter is also a prostitute who owns a mobile phone shop wake up

That reminds me about this: "Just because most raindrops are wet doesn't mean they ALL are."
http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Thailand

[bwpage3]

2 hours ago, TheFarangGuy said:

Yeah, that's what bothers me the most. I'll ask her to delete her Tinder account today in front of me, just to see how she will react. 

If she is all that she should have NO problem finding a husband

 

Being on Tinder?

 

Dead giveaway

[bwpage3]

1 hour ago, TheFarangGuy said:

Yeah, you're right, you want to hear I'm just another loser who got attention from the first girl willing to give some and fell in love immediately. But sorry to disappoint you.

 

I'm certainly not attractive, that's for sure, but it's not like I'm desperate to marry the first one I see. I'm 30, same age as her. I own a small business in my country, and trying to do some business here in Thailand as well. But it's not like I'm rich or anything, just a regular guy with average income even for Thai standards. I already told her several times that I'm not rich or drive crazy cars. She actually has far better car than I do, and much nicer house. 

She probably has better tattoos too!