What Westerners Thrive Best In Thailand

[Nyezhov]

3 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

The four factors for women are handsome, power, intelligence and money. Not necessarily in that order.

Damn. Im unattractive, unassertive, stupid and broke. No wonder I am vapid.

Edited March 24, 2019 by Nyezhov

[sanemax]

3 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

OK, you don't like old men talking about sex. Could you explain why?

I would prefer not to have to listen to anyone talking bout sex  , not that I find anything wrong with the actual act , but it should be a private matter to those involved .

  I do find it rather tedious when posters keep making references to sex , its like theyve just discovered females and need to tell everyone else about it ..

  Although they think that they are displaying their macho manliness by telling everyone else that they have sex , the reality is that they are paying third world prostitutes for the privilege and if they had a real life loving relationship , where sex was a normal regular part of that relationship , they wouldnt need to use prostitutes and then come and post on here about it .

  They dont seem to be happy & content guys , they just come across as sad  unloved lonely old men  who have to pay for copulation and then go and tell everyone about it and they seem to get an extra sexual pleasure talking about it and I really dont want to be part of their sexual pleasure

[Lacessit]

1 minute ago, sanemax said:

I would prefer not to have to listen to anyone talking bout sex  , not that I find anything wrong with the actual act , but it should be a private matter to those involved .

  I do find it rather tedious when posters keep making references to sex , its like theyve just discovered females and need to tell everyone else about it ..

  Although they think that they are displaying their macho manliness by telling everyone else that they have sex , the reality is that they are paying third world prostitutes for the privilege and if they had a real life loving relationship , where sex was a normal regular part of that relationship , they wouldnt need to use prostitutes and then come and post on here about it .

  They dont seem to be happy & content guys , they just come across as sad  unloved lonely old men  who have to pay for copulation and then go and tell everyone about it and they seem to get an extra sexual pleasure talking about it and I really dont want to be part of their sexual pleasure

Don't bruise yourself jumping to conclusions. My Thai GF and I have been together for 8 years now.

I guess some of us enjoy the conversation, and others still have the shackles of religion and social disapproval burdening their minds. Now that IS sad.

[SamuiGeezer]

Those that thrive either have load of money, have a good income, speak and write Thai or find a good ex-pat community (some of these fail due to lack of the appropriate skills). There are many people that reside here without 'thriving' and are still very happy.

[Farangwithaplan]

5 hours ago, nausea said:

What do you think are the qualities that make a Western guy (or gal) do better here than they would in their home country?

Kreng Jai. Leave the western alpha-ego at immigration.

[Lacessit]

22 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

It makes younger men realize that it's all about money and not how handsome or glib they are.  Warning for laddie - her heart belongs to daddy. 

 

 

 

She also did a song about an old-fashioned millionaire. Saw her In Darwin live.

[swissie]

We should be more honest.
- Come on guys. The only thing us Farangs really thrive on is reading interesting posts on TVF.????

[JaiLai]

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I rent mine by the month, she also works as a babysitter for my boy.

Is this the MIL you rant on about?

[sanemax]

10 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Don't bruise yourself jumping to conclusions. My Thai GF and I have been together for 8 years now.

I guess some of us enjoy the conversation, and others still have the shackles of religion and social disapproval burdening their minds. Now that IS sad.

You gonna have boom-boom later ???????? ha ha , how funny was that ?

 

[Lacessit]

5 minutes ago, sanemax said:

You gonna have boom-boom later ???????? ha ha , how funny was that ?

 

It's unfortunate the pharmacopeia of medications doesn't include one for intelligibility.

[Nyezhov]

9 minutes ago, sanemax said:

You gonna have boom-boom later ???????? ha ha , how funny was that ?

Well I hear she giggles a lot

[Farangwithaplan]

20 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

She also did a song about an old-fashioned millionaire. Saw her In Darwin live.

Was it Eartha Kitta who did a great rendition of "At Last" or was it Etta James, or both of them did?

[rumak]

10 hours ago, worgeordie said:

The ones that are not afraid of Gecko's,snakes,and other creepy crawlies,

and can put up with the sounds of the wildlife here,dogs barking,cocks crowing,

frogs calling in rainy season,and the latest one Cicadas.

The ones that can take the heat,without having A/c on 20 C all the time,who are

DIY ,as getting anyone to fix anything is so difficult,and the quality of work,you

might as well do it yourself,those that can accept they are not in LA,London,or Paris

any of those places where common sense is practiced,and can live with lower expectations.

 

regards worgeordie

lots of experience in that post.   sure i could think of some more to add, but that's a good start.

I do think speaking the language helps a lot.................

[ShortTimed]

9 minutes? I can make mine last for 90. I believe in getting value for money.

 

90 minutes with a Thai girl?

 

What do you possibly find to talk about for the remaining 87 minutes?

 

Do you watch Thai soaps?

[ShortTimed]

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[JAFO]

People that do well here are adaptable types and typically do not complain much,  They go about their lives like they would anywhere in the world.  They are likely not "trapped" with no means to move somewhere else should something change. Life here is what one makes it. You can be miserable or enjoy life, choice is yours.

[Lacessit]

20 minutes ago, ShortTimed said:

 

90 minutes with a Thai girl?

 

What do you possibly find to talk about for the remaining 87 minutes?

 

Do you watch Thai soaps?

Why would either of us talk?  Your nom de plume presumably describes your proclivities.

No, I don't watch Thai soaps. I watch stuff like Silks, Banshee, GOT and Justified.

 

[marcusarelus]

8 hours ago, sanemax said:

 

They dont seem to be happy & content guys , they just come across as sad  unloved lonely old men  who have to pay for copulation and then go and tell everyone about it and they seem to get an extra sexual pleasure talking about it and I really dont want to be part of their sexual pleasure

I paid for copulation in Thailand at 27 and at 72.  Being completely honest the only difference was the numbers were reversed. 

[ShortTimed]

Why would either of us talk?  Your nom de plume presumably describes your proclivities.
No, I don't watch Thai soaps. I watch stuff like Silks, Banshee, GOT and Justified.
 

My nom de plum is actually a reference to a relationship back in Canada that didn’t last as long as I had hoped and resulted inthe suggestion from my buddies that I take a holiday to BKK.

My opinion and that of the medical community is that STDs are a valid concern in these “rented” activities so longer amount of time spent in risky behavior increases the risk of exposure.

Anyone who brags they are 90-minute “men of steel” are not appreciating their audience on this forum. We all know the reality of the clock.

[Pravda]

10 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

Right. Right. I watched that and almost immolated myself in shame

 

Yeah it something folks do to pretend they care. I dont. Its all about me.

 

But hey, with my xgf I used to do foreplay: going to the 7-11 to buy batteries for the vibrator. Here ya go sugar, call me when your finished and you can give me mine. Im going to watch replays of the last Newscatle match in the interim. And keep the noise down, its hard enough  understanding those mumbling pundits.

 

What makes me thrive here is that my hiso Chinese wife pay for her own vibrator batteries. When she complains that I'm actually too cheap to buy a vibrator she just uses the batteries. She says don't worry honey, I'm used to the size.

 

I'm telling you, it's all about the partner you find in this God forsaken country. I'm so lucky!

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, ShortTimed said:

 

My nom de plum is actually a reference to a relationship back in Canada that didn’t last as long as I had hoped and resulted inthe suggestion from my buddies that I take a holiday to BKK.

My opinion and that of the medical community is that STDs are a valid concern in these “rented” activities so longer amount of time spent in risky behavior increases the risk of exposure.

Anyone who brags they are 90-minute “men of steel” are not appreciating their audience on this forum. We all know the reality of the clock.
 

 

AFAIK condoms are a pretty good defence.

I don't pretend to be a man of steel. I'm making the point the whole experience can be 90 minutes of pleasure if one is not focused on getting back to Netflix or pizza.

[ShortTimed]

AFAIK condoms are a pretty good defence.

I don't pretend to be a man of steel. I'm making the point the whole experience can be 90 minutes of pleasure if one is not focused on getting back to Netflix or pizza.

 

Yes, you are right that condoms are the single most important line of defense.

 

But its all that other GFE that may accompany the other 87 minutes where the risk increases.

 

I am not passing judgement on anyones private affairs. None of my business. No interest.

 

But a “friend of mine” had to make a visit to the Red Cross STD clinic and he says the place was packed! My friend said it left quite an impression on him and makes him wish he had quickly returned to his Netflix movie...Lol

[marcusarelus]

3 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Why would either of us talk?  Your nom de plume presumably describes your proclivities.

No, I don't watch Thai soaps. I watch stuff like Silks, Banshee, GOT and Justified.

 

You don't have porn going on a big screen TV in the bedroom? 

[Lacessit]

1 minute ago, marcusarelus said:

You don't have porn going on a big screen TV in the bedroom? 

No. I find it distracting. Never been much for spectator sports.

[sanemax]

13 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

AFAIK condoms are a pretty good defence.

I don't pretend to be a man of steel. I'm making the point the whole experience can be 90 minutes of pleasure if one is not focused on getting back to Netflix or pizza.

90 minutes ?

Do you change ends at half-time ?

[Lacessit]

3 minutes ago, sanemax said:

90 minutes ?

Do you change ends at half-time ?

I'm not a 69er, if that what you mean.

[marcusarelus]

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

No. I find it distracting. Never been much for spectator sports.

It's not for you.  It's for your partner.  I'm assuming you are not alone. 

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

It's not for you.  It's for your partner.  I'm assuming you are not alone. 

Correct assumption. IMHO women are not turned on by porn as much as men. I could be wrong on that, though. I suppose it depends on the woman.

[sanemax]

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

It's not for you.  It's for your partner.  I'm assuming you are not alone. 

Have you had sex yet today ?

[marcusarelus]

41 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Correct assumption. IMHO women are not turned on by porn as much as men. I could be wrong on that, though. I suppose it depends on the woman.

You are wrong.