Expats' relationships: 50% say it's true love but only one in 7 gets anywhere near to daily sex!

[MRToMRT]

I am reminded of the phrase "you know he must be good at it because he keeps telling you how good at it he is"

[miamiman123]

Quit reading after 15 seconds Ha! 

[The Deerhunter]

54 minutes ago, Emdog said:

Not much info on how survey was conducted: was it a true random survey or more along the lines of a Fox phone in survey? Without randomness, seems angry responses "not gittin any" and bragging responses "any time I want it" would skew and distort.

Are there expat women in survey? Yes, there are such folks.

Was it done over phone, in person? Geographical spread? Makes a difference. Dewey was picked to beat Truman due to error of using phones. Many Truman supporters didn't have phones (1948).

The sample size v population size is a tad low even if other factors were taken care of. Could be off 10-20% (guessing here, been decades since studied stats).

Fun topic to "discuss" but don't bet the farm on accuracy of results.

So, how does that compare with Masters/Johnson?  (Wow that ages me.......  "Who are they" ask almost all the under 50's?)

[howbri]

"Sex" 20 times/month...does that include happy endings at the massage parlor?

[AGLV0121]

17 hours ago, BritManToo said:

doing it alone doesn't count

 

Doing it alone doesn't count, it's not sex, but wrist-exercising. Just sementics (oops semantics)

[Thingamabob]

What has sex got to do with it ? Many couples, particularly as they reach old age, don't have sex but are very happy together. A rather immature question I have to say.

[Bundooman]

16 hours ago, PatOngo said:

I look forward to the next deep and meaningful expat survey "How many times do you change your underpants each month" ????

Or "How many times do you have sex wearing the same underpants each month?"

[phantomfiddler]

How come it,s a 98% failure rate ? In most cases just a con job to relieve the Farang of as much money as possible in the shortest time ????

[BimBoon]

Once a day? What are you dogs? In any long term relationship it becomes a distant memory and a certain age beyond fashion. 

[ICELANDMAN]

9 minutes ago, Thingamabob said:

What has sex got to do with it ? Many couples, particularly as they reach old age, don't have sex but are very happy together. A rather immature question I have to say.

That is why the survey was done with the max age of 50

[Charlie1]

What a <deleted>ty article!

[wombat]

17 hours ago, webfact said:

having a Mia Noi was a good thing

having a mistress was about companionship

you lost me....whats the difference between a mia noi and a mistress?

[Neeranam]

17 hours ago, BritManToo said:

In the UK I was getting sex once a monh (if I was lucky).

When I first arrived in Thailand I was having sex 3-4 times a day.

At 64 I've slowed down a bit to maybe 2-3 times a week.

 

I wonder how many 64 year old pensioners in the west have sex that often?

(I'm only counting the times I have sex with a woman, doing it alone doesn't count IMHO))

In Asia it traditional to renunciate at 60. I hope I don't have a sex addiction (sorry to be blunt) when I am an old man. Having sex 3 times a day is nothing to be proud of or boast on online forums. Is the woman younger and do you have to pay for it?

[Neeranam]

Just now, car720 said:

Please name just one husband/boyfriend that doesn't pay for it.

Me. I've been happily married for 18 years and of course don't pay for sex. Ate you thinking all married women are prostitutes? Really, that is sad.

[hotchilli]

18 hours ago, webfact said:

A quarter of people claimed that having a mistress was about companionship not sex.

While 75% think the same as me !

[kohmakmaxx]

17 hours ago, StayinThailand2much said:

but only one in 7 gets anywhere near to daily sex!

Guess I'm lucky, then...

Guess I'm too..... asking only 422 expats is just not enough to get a real result........ 

[soalbundy]

34 minutes ago, Skallywag said:

+1, but not all people surely?!

Homeless eunuchs would probably speak the truth, Nothing more pathetic than 65+ year olds boasting about having sex 5 times a week, apart from the lies it just exposes how superficial their lives are.

[Humpy]

I think sex is disgusting anyway ......... it is the way I do it !

[MadMuhammad]

16 hours ago, Bangkokazy said:

I got pussy all over my body the day I was born.

After that, it's not that often.

But did you have your tongue out on the way out? ????

[moe666]

They did not ask the important question, are you telling the truth about your sex life

[Pablosbmb]

Only way to start the day! Truly a ritual to celebrate our time together. Morning sex is more than just sex. 

[lapamita]

17 hours ago, DrTuner said:

Here's an eye opener for those that haven't spent enough time with females: sex and love are not the same thing.

youre wrong

 

sex without love is easy

 

but love without sex is not possible, in a real relationship and good working relation( min  when y in middle age/younger)

 

but what i am missing here, expats  tell this many time over years ,and some really think that ????

" bcs westeners have the bigger c...k ,and thats why thaigirls like us more...........????

[Lacessit]

14 hours ago, Artisi said:

Who wears underpants? 

I'm wondering when I will graduate to continence pads.

[Longcut]

17 hours ago, worgeordie said:

When I first arrived I was having sex 3-4 times a day   , that must have

eaten into your budget ,spending more on sex ,than food.

regards worgeordie

 

[Brickbat]

In most places, and especially in Thailand with expats and local women relations, it’s all trading. Might be the odd one and that too, has to be tested. Life is constantly changing and so, never be surprised. In today’s world of narcissism and lack of empathy, created by media, the arm of Big Business, it’s just me me me first .

Fall sick, run out of money , start a bad habit , etc and watch out for the changes.

True love is Self love. Life long romance. 

[billsmart]

Anyone who tightly couples having sex with "true love" is not anyone whose opinion I'd care to hear.

[Isaanbiker]

    50 % experience true love? Is paying all bills and supporting the extended family considered true love, or a "convenient relationship"?

 

Who in their right mind would sincerely talk about his, or her sex life?

 

   You can't generalize all foreigners from 20 to 80, of course does a 20 year old have more often sex than a 78 year old. 

 

   With other words, you can do a research and come up with any numbers you want. None of these numbers show the truth, or reality. 

 

   My wife told me that "she loves me " a little bit", but that for a long time." Is that considered "true love?" 

 

   Where are the 50 % of people who experience "true love"? I don't know relationships where love plays a huge role. And I'm being honest. 

 

   

Edited September 25, 2019 by Isaanbiker

[Caldera]

Easy, if you are a guy and want to have sex daily, then don't be in a relationship.

 

That's a universal truth, not at all limited to Thailand and Thai wives. ????

Edited September 25, 2019 by Caldera
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[0815]

How many of the 422 were younger than 70 ?

[elgenon]

Is this a survey of expats or people living in Thailand?

 

Wonder what % of men want daily sex with partners/ wives.

 

Is this a survey of men only?