It's like being buried alive...

[Kwasaki]

31 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

Don't worry too much your grow up one day. ????

Your confused for sure sonny Jim. 

[WineOh]

4 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

Your confused for sure sonny Jim. 

I think you are the one that's confushed mate.

You are now replying to your own replies ???? 

[sungod]

2 hours ago, WineOh said:

Right now I want a 20 year old thai student majoring in the English

You may want to start by not sitting on here all day and starting topics just for someone to talk to.

 

I think you need to get out more.......

[bkk6060]

Financial reasons are big as to why many stay married.  Divorce can wipe them out.

I divorced mine a sexless purgatory of monotonous existence.  But, luckily we had similar incomes so ended up paying nothing.  Kids were older.

I traveled everywhere and settled here.

Best thing I ever did in my life by far.  The freedom of being single and yes, hanging out with a 20 year old if I want.  

What a country I love it here fits my single lifestyle perfectly.

 

Edited February 24, 2021 by bkk6060

[sherwood]

1 hour ago, WineOh said:

I'm looking for a real student mate.

Like one that actually goes to uni and can speak good english.

 

Not one from Korat who dresses like a student.

I saw a little stunner at Korat immigration just last week, volunteer I would think, she had the shortest skirt I have seen on a uni girl for ages. Outside 90 day report room. 

The wife elbowed me in the ribs, I think I may have been staring.

[ivor bigun]

1 hour ago, madmen said:

Farang are soft because they have convinced themselves after reading countless other posts of men who have convinced themselves all Thai woman are amazing partners.

Aparantly communicating in part sign language part pidgeon English is the key to happiness. 

there is an answer to that ,and its marry a well educated woman ,who works in a decent business ,live with her in the UK for many years ,and you will find that she is pretty much like any decent Girl from your country ,i have never spoken pidgin English or been spoken to in Pidgin English by my wife and as our son spent his early years in a Local English school in England he actually speaks with a local accent when he speaks English ,and while i have no problem at all with bar girls ,many are lovely and i am sure make decent wives ,for the most part they come from lower class uneducated family's ,so are perhaps not the girl you should marry.

ps when you say to pidgin English thats how you spell it????

pps bit of a smartass arnt i?

Edited February 24, 2021 by ivor bigun

[orchis]

WhineOn ????

[jvs]

3 hours ago, WineOh said:

Right now I want a 20 year old thai student majoring in the English language that is both fun, playful and looking for a farang boyfriend.

I also want her to wear her uniform when she is with me at all times.

(white shirt and short black skirt)

Go see Britmantoo?He has some one at home who sounds perfect for you!

[Kwasaki]

1 hour ago, WineOh said:

I think you are the one that's confushed mate.

You are now replying to your own replies ???? 

You would be no mate of mine, carrying on laughing.

[polpott]

3 hours ago, Berkshire said:

Well this thread certainly explains your "man in Hanoi" thread and the REAL reason you're miserable.  It's not Thailand that's making you unhappy.  It's being married with kids and not having access to the young hotties.  I get you.  Many men are in your predicament.  They run around chasing tail for years and it was all good.  But after awhile, they get bored with that.  They figure that settling down and having just one will solve the problem...until it doesn't.  The thing is, if you divorce your wife and go back to that life, you may just get bored with it again.  No easy answers. 

My solution is to do both at the same time. Works for me.

[thaibeachlovers]

Any man that would abandon kids HE created just because he wants a more playful partner is despicable IMO.

 

I understand that sometimes it's the only thing to do given a bad wife, as long as the kids are looked after, but the OP isn't in that situation.

The time to leave is BEFORE producing children.

Time to man up and fly right.

[BritManToo]

49 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Any man that would abandon kids HE created just because he wants a more playful partner is despicable IMO.

 

I understand that sometimes it's the only thing to do given a bad wife, as long as the kids are looked after, but the OP isn't in that situation.

The time to leave is BEFORE producing children.

Time to man up and fly right.

That's a bit old fashioned TBL.

Most western countries appear to view dad as a potential abuser of his children, as far as I can see.

[BritManToo]

13 hours ago, jvs said:

Go see Britmantoo?He has some one at home who sounds perfect for you!

Nah, she finishes university next month, and it's 5Mbht in advance before you even get to see her without me in the room. I suspect there won't be much fun to be had either, as she's shown ZERO interest in men by age 22.

 

Edited February 25, 2021 by BritManToo

[thaibeachlovers]

36 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

That's a bit old fashioned TBL.

Most western countries appear to view dad as a potential abuser of his children, as far as I can see.

I have no regrets I fathered no children, but if I had I'd have been there for them.

I understand what you are saying, but the answer is not to have children at all.

IMO these days in western countries the only children born should be wanted, have a male and female parent living together, and be affordable. Sadly, that is not the case.

Also, other people shouldn't be paying for them through tax. Can't afford to bring them up on what one makes- don't have them.

 

It's not like the planet doesn't have enough humans on it already.

[thaibeachlovers]

40 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Nah, she finishes university next month, and it's 5Mbht in advance before you even get to see her without me in the room. I suspect there won't be much fun to be had either, as she's shown ZERO interest in men by age 22.

 

A wise girl then. Marriage is at best a 50 50 proposition and most people I know are divorced.

I hope she's not going to let some <deleted> inseminate her and run though. Even sensible females can be fooled by a scoundrel.

[WineOh]

3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I have no regrets I fathered no children, but if I had I'd have been there for them.

You have no experience at all of being a father.

 

Why should anyone listen to you?

[thequietman]

16 hours ago, WineOh said:

Like one that actually goes to uni and can speak good english.

You'll be waitin a while!  ????

[thaibeachlovers]

15 hours ago, ivor bigun said:

there is an answer to that ,and its marry a well educated woman ,who works in a decent business ,live with her in the UK for many years ,and you will find that she is pretty much like any decent Girl from your country

While I had entertained the idea of marrying a western women in my own country when young, my live in partner soon wised me up to the reality, and I never even contemplated the idea of marrying one thereafter.

 

Also, if I found a nice Thai girl to marry, I'd never take her back to home country where she would become just like the women I didn't want to marry.

After all, if she would be "pretty much like any decent Girl from your country" why go all the way to Thailand to find her- just marry a "decent Girl from your country" if one can be found.

 

PS. A a well educated woman ,who works in a decent business in LOS is probably going to come with a hefty sin sod attached, and I never was amenable to buying a wife.

Edited February 25, 2021 by thaibeachlovers

[Pravda]

Where do you live op? 

 

In 2019 during pre Corona days I got divorced and joined tinder. I must admit I went into this very naive thinking it will be either pfp hoz or gold diggers. It was just unbelievable how much I got laid with women from 23-43 (I was 45 at the time) . I still keep my Line chats with nude pictures and memories. In the end a Chinese girl stole my heart, hired an agent and dragged me to amphur for marriage. Done in a day, no silly sinsod. 

[thaibeachlovers]

13 minutes ago, WineOh said:

You have no experience at all of being a father.

 

Why should anyone listen to you?

Don't have to father children to be a step dad of two. I know as much about being a father as I want or need to.

 

Nice try but no cigar.

[WineOh]

8 minutes ago, Pravda said:

Where do you live op? 

 

In 2019 during pre Corona days I got divorced and joined tinder. I must admit I went into this very naive thinking it will be either pfp hoz or gold diggers. It was just unbelievable how much I got laid with women from 23-43 (I was 45 at the time) . I still keep my Line chats with nude pictures and memories. In the end a Chinese girl stole my heart, hired an agent and dragged me to amphur for marriage. Done in a day, no silly sinsod. 

Chinese, eh?

 

Jammy beggar! 

 

I love the white skinned girls ???? 

[polpott]

31 minutes ago, WineOh said:

You have no experience at all of being a father.

 

Why should anyone listen to you?

I have a friend in the UK who took the decision quite early in life that he wouldn't be able or willing to handle the responsibility of having children. Despite being in a stable relationship for 30 years he stuck to his decision. Now that's what I call a responsible person, he got nothing but respect from me and others that knew him.

[kensawadee]

17 hours ago, WineOh said:

being in a Marriage with kids I mean.

I'm seriously thinking about leaving my wife at some point.

 

she hasn't done anything wrong but I feel as though my life here with her is wasting away.

I want my freedom back.

 

it's true what they say isn't it.

You always want what you aint got..

Thai blokes run out on their girlfriends all the time, dont they?

especially after he's knocked her up the spout.

Why is it us soft farangs who always stay put?

 

Right now I want a 20 year old thai student majoring in the English language that is both fun, playful and looking for a farang boyfriend.

I also want her to wear her uniform when she is with me at all times.

(white shirt and short black skirt)

*************************************************************************************************************

 

 

Another Thai lady and kids left 'HURTING'.... By a farang, this time....

Don't Forget.    "What goes around, comes around'....... How would like the same 'DONE TO YOU'???

If you continued to support her and YOUR KIDS.... It wouldn't be quite as bad.....

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited February 25, 2021 by kensawadee
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[tonray]

17 hours ago, Berkshire said:

Well this thread certainly explains your "man in Hanoi" thread and the REAL reason you're miserable.  It's not Thailand that's making you unhappy.  It's being married with kids and not having access to the young hotties.  I get you.  Many men are in your predicament.  They run around chasing tail for years and it was all good.  But after awhile, they get bored with that.  They figure that settling down and having just one will solve the problem...until it doesn't.  The thing is, if you divorce your wife and go back to that life, you may just get bored with it again.  No easy answers. 

Don't confuse boys trying to consider themselves men with real men

[thaibeachlovers]

9 minutes ago, polpott said:

I have a friend in the UK who took the decision quite early in life that he wouldn't be able or willing to handle the responsibility of having children. Despite being in a stable relationship for 30 years he stuck to his decision. Now that's what I call a responsible person, he got nothing but respect from me and others that knew him.

Had I done the normal thing ( back then ) I'd have married the first girl that had sex with me ( because she'd have got pregnant- no oral contraceptives then ), had another or two, and been divorced and paying maintenance by age forty.

I wuz lucky that I joined the forces and travelled the world instead- a much better deal.

 

I'd have been a terrible father when I was young- I'd probably have been like my father when it came to children, but after a lifetime of experience I thought I'd be quite good at it, but never met a woman I wanted to have children with. Since then, I came to realise that there were quite enough people in the world already, and didn't need me adding to it.

[MadMuhammad]

16 hours ago, kekalot said:

depending on your age and how you look, this should be easy enough to achieve.

I'm 38, tall and slim dude maybe a little better than average looking and I could get 20 years old girls l

 

 

I’m 43, overweight and not particularly good looking and snagged my gorgeous wife who is 48kg/167cm, (just out of university) educated, English speaking, intelligent and with a great job through nothing more than being a nice guy and not coming across as a creep, which seems to be difficult for many.  
I find the beauty of living here looks tend to be a secondary factor to having a ‘good heart’ and having providing stability in the long term otherwise, as stated by another commenter, money fixes all short it long term. 
 

btw the only money that ever changed hands with us was 5000 per month my way for utilities/outgoings in the first year she lived with me. How could I not put a ring on it 

[NCC1701A]

amateurs. 

[NorthernRyland]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Also, if I found a nice Thai girl to marry, I'd never take her back to home country where she would become just like the women I didn't want to marry.

 

You're not  joking. I saw a Thai girl once in my Colorado college town that had a "I am a Feminist" shirt on (or something to that effect). I Wonder where she learned that from?  It still gives me shivers to think about to this day.

[CharlieH]

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[CH1961]

18 hours ago, WineOh said:

.

I also want her to wear her uniform when she is with me at all times.

Please post a picture of her ????