Incels paradise.

[thaibeachlovers]

22 hours ago, sidjameson said:

So why are 90% of Thai pop songs about love without any mention of money? Boy bands are very popular.

Pop songs are not about real life.

[LaosLover]

57 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

A hollow imitation of Trink... who also eventually became a hollow imitation of himself

All I have to say about your opinion is:

 

I don't give a hoot.

 

I bought Trink's bio on Khao San Road. How that book ended up in hippie-ville will remain a mystery like the pyramids.

[LaosLover]

57 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

 

The only non SEAsian long time that I know of for westerners was in Venezuela, when one could book a holiday at a sex hotel. 

São Paulo is the new Mecca. It def helps if you like 'em big in the can.

[Dogsredrocket]

On 3/29/2023 at 10:47 AM, Goat said:

Women are turned off by desperation.

They are probably turned off by self aware incels too.

[NextG]

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I've heard of Thai girls who are prepared to go with farangs for free, but I suspect only with young handsome guys, not us old overweight bald guys.

It begins by your attaching a low value to yourself. 

[CG1 Blue]

9 hours ago, Goat said:

Thats why it is best to move them along after a short while and get new ones. It is not only more fun but you dont get the financial burden either.

So as others have mentioned, your method is trickery and deceit,  or finding drunk / drugged women so you don't have 'financial burdens'. Basically you've worked out how to get it for free. 

You seem to be implying that makes you morally superior to guys who agree an honest financial transaction with a girl, with both parties making an informed decision. 

It doesn't IMO. 

 

[GinBoy2]

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I have a slightly different take on your comments,

Many women (worldwide) see men as a commodity to be used, asset stripped and discarded.

Now thats a man who clearly got burned!

[thaibeachlovers]

7 hours ago, NextG said:

It begins by your attaching a low value to yourself. 

Which seems to be a common attribute of humans.

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

17 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Now thats a man who clearly got burned!

As have many, many men. Not being content with being burned once, I went and did it again, but I thought she was different being Thai. Was I stupid then, or what!

 

Britman has got it right IMO.

 

 

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

As have many, many men. Not being content with being burned once, I went and did it again, but I thought she was different being Thai. Was I stupid then, or what!

 

Britman has got it right IMO.

 

 

Not stupid, merely letting hope rule experience as many of us have done.

 

[Goat]

14 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

So as others have mentioned, your method is trickery and deceit, 

No. My method is chatting up girls. You do know that they enjoy sex right? it isnt a chore.

 

14 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

 

or finding drunk / drugged women

Nightclubs, pubs and clubs it is common to find alcohol and party drug use, and yes they have been fertile hunting grounds. 

Maybe the mongers and incels should try it. 

 

 

14 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

 

so you don't have 'financial burdens'. Basically you've worked out how to get it for free. 

It isnt rocket surgery. And you might be surprised that most people get it for free. Most women who marry have previous sexual partners, only the one that wants to "keep" her ends up forking out. 

 

 

14 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

You seem to be implying that makes you morally superior to guys who agree an honest financial transaction with a girl, with both parties making an informed decision. 

I am not implying that. I am saying that.

If you want to expolit a low education South East Asian female who most likely has been forced into prostitution because of poverty becuase of kids, gambling, debts or drug addiction, servicing thousands of foreign perverts three times her age and weight using your higher income/ stronger dollar, well I and most people find that abhorrent.

 

14 hours ago, CG1 Blue said:

It doesn't IMO. 

 

It sounds like most of the Thai women you know are prostitutes? I avoid them and socialise with normal women with jobs and Thai males who dont have hooker girlfriends. Having a hooker for a girlfriend makes you a laughing stock socially.

We lead different lives.

And I have conversations, sometimes know them for quite some time before I score them. Unlike the mongers who "What is your name? How much for short time?"

So I get to know them and they know me. So most of them ask why i am not married etc. And I tell them that I dont think it is a good idea. Very honest about it.

 

This thread is about the similarities of mongers and incels. Being they both can not find normal free woman to make sweet tender love with. So I am letting you know that they actually love it.

I am trying to help you.

Good luck.

[thaibeachlovers]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

This thread is about the similarities of mongers and incels. Being they both can not find normal free woman to make sweet tender love with. So I am letting you know that they actually love it.

I am trying to help you.

How about those of us that have no interest in playing the dating game of "will she or will she not" and just want a guaranteed happy ending and don't want to be in any sort of relationship with them?

 

I knew a female that boasted how she could get free drinks all night at a bar from all the guys trying to get into her knickers, only to go home alone and laughing about the sad mutts she strung along.

I certainly have no wish to get into that game.

[Goat]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

How about those of us that have no interest in playing the dating game of "will she or will she not"

Well you can either be an incel or a monger.

 

Hookers are bottom of the barrell. I actually enjoy the social aspect of it all. Meeting people and hearing their perspectives on life is interesting. Hookers generally have low intelligence and are not interesting people.

 

This "dating game" you imagine is taking one girl out wining and dining. I prefer nightclubs, bars, parties and other social settings where there are lots of opportunities. 

 

I think mongers and incels havent got the patience and get anxious if they dont get what they want quickly. and end up with nothing or something sub standard.

 

Good luck.

[sidjameson]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Well you can either be an incel or a monger.

 

Hookers are bottom of the barrell. I actually enjoy the social aspect of it all. Meeting people and hearing their perspectives on life is interesting. Hookers generally have low intelligence and are not interesting people.

 

This "dating game" you imagine is taking one girl out wining and dining. I prefer nightclubs, bars, parties and other social settings where there are lots of opportunities. 

 

I think mongers and incels havent got the patience and get anxious if they dont get what they want quickly. and end up with nothing or something sub standard.

 

Good luck.

If people uploaded videos speaking their comments on this site instead of typing I suspect it would be instantly obvious why they held the ideas they do.

Men use their looks, game or status to bed women. Men who have none of these pay by the hour. 

 

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

If people uploaded videos speaking their comments on this site instead of typing I suspect it would be instantly obvious why they held the ideas they do.

Men use their looks, game or status to bed women. Men who have none of these pay by the hour. 

 

Yeah, it makes you wonder.

 

I rate game as most important. One of my best looking mates was utterly useless, one of my less fortunate in the looks department mates always out did him. 

 

 

[transam]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Well you can either be an incel or a monger.

 

Hookers are bottom of the barrell. I actually enjoy the social aspect of it all. Meeting people and hearing their perspectives on life is interesting. Hookers generally have low intelligence and are not interesting people.

 

This "dating game" you imagine is taking one girl out wining and dining. I prefer nightclubs, bars, parties and other social settings where there are lots of opportunities. 

 

I think mongers and incels havent got the patience and get anxious if they dont get what they want quickly. and end up with nothing or something sub standard.

 

Good luck.

"Hookers generally have low intelligence and are not interesting people".

Can you tell us how many you paid to come to that conclusion...? 

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, transam said:

"Hookers generally have low intelligence and are not interesting people".

Can you tell us how many you paid to come to that conclusion...? 

Unlike yourself who quickly entered a marriage situation when arriving in thailand after your UK divorce and moving to a small village in the sticks i have had a much broader experience and came here much younger.

 

As such i often see farangs here either having an hooker for a girlfriend or even wife mostly from Issan. Maybe you have never come across this. But i have hundreds of times.

 

And because I can speak Thai I can tell by the way that they talk. They are pretty rough and are good at 'bar english' and not much else.

 

Do you find them intelligent and interesting?

 

 

 

 

[transam]

2 minutes ago, Goat said:

Unlike yourself who quickly entered a marriage situation when arriving in thailand after your UK divorce and moving to a small village in the sticks i have had a much broader experience and came here much younger.

 

As such i often see farangs here either having an hooker for a girlfriend or even wife mostly from Issan. Maybe you have never come across this. But i have hundreds of times.

 

And because I can speak Thai I can tell by the way that they talk. They are pretty rough and are good at 'bar english' and not much else.

 

Do you find them intelligent and interesting?

 

 

 

 

Very funny...............And of course you have seen it hundreds of times, but I have a sneaky feeling you are just waffling with stuff from your bar stool herd........????

 

So you speak Thai and can understand Isaan Laos too, wow, but I reckon you have been around the paid girlies to come up with your paperback writings..................................

[Goat]

37 minutes ago, transam said:

Very funny...............And of course you have seen it hundreds of times, but I have a sneaky feeling you are just waffling with stuff from your bar stool herd........????

 

So you speak Thai and can understand Isaan Laos too, wow, but I reckon you have been around the paid girlies to come up with your paperback writings..................................

Of course i have seen it. Been coming to thailand since the 80's as a teenager, it is in all the tourist areas. i have been to every tourist area in thailand and spent time in more than 50 provinces. But the hookers i have spoken to the most have been the wives and girlfriends of farangs.

 

76,000 posts? you do realise if you wrote out 76,000 Thai paragraphs you would also be able to speak and write Thai also? It might be a better way to spend your time. You might even be able to speak with the locals in your Issan village.

 

And you wouldnt come up with naive postings such as " all gambling apart from lottery is illegal in Thailand' and other nonsense.

 

Anyway, good luck mate, it sounds like you need it.

 

Back on topic, did you go through a period of being an incel before you made the journey to ubon?

[transam]

4 minutes ago, Goat said:

Of course i have seen it. Been coming to thailand since the 80's as a teenager, it is in all the tourist areas. i have been to every tourist area in thailand and spent time in more than 50 provinces. But the hookers i have spoken to the most have been the wives and girlfriends of farangs.

 

76,000 posts? you do realise if you wrote out 76,000 Thai paragraphs you would also be able to speak and write Thai also? It might be a better way to spend your time. You might even be able to speak with the locals in your Issan village.

 

And you wouldnt come up with naive postings such as " all gambling apart from lottery is illegal in Thailand' and other nonsense.

 

Anyway, good luck mate, it sounds like you need it.

 

Back on topic, did you go through a period of being an incel before you made the journey to ubon?

A loser always seems to mention a member's post numbers, or purported knowledge of a member, very disappointing, but to be expected from an old but new member. Give me a clue who...?

 

Yes, back on topic, you've been coming here for 40 years sampling the paid ladies all over LOS to form your vast knowledge on them. 

 

But that's OK, I can see that paperback now....

[spidermike007]

If a decent man cannot find a good woman here, he just may be past the point of no return. Or someone who was broken in the West. Happens to many good men. Emotionally wrecked by a cascade of difficult women, who don't have a feminine gene left in their bodies. They are simply beyond being hopeful. What is left once you lose hope? 

 

Or an eternal pessimist.

Or someone who simply does not adore women anymore.

Or broke. 

 

I went through a few years back in the US, where I decided not to date anymore. It was just too difficult, and the women I was meeting were not worth it. When I got here, things changed. Alot. The women here are infinitely more fascinating, alluring and feminine. And open to meeting a good man.

 

My heart goes out to the men who have been pushed to the edge of hopelessness. Though I did not realize how much I missed it, once I got with a very good woman here, it sure felt alot better to have that love and emotional support. Now, I can't imagine being without that good fortune in life. 

Edited March 31, 2023 by spidermike007

[Adumbration]

On 3/27/2023 at 3:58 PM, Goat said:

The point of similarity is incels have given up hope of getting a girl.

A monger who only uses prostitutes also has given up hope of getting a free girl.

Same same but different.

The older I get the more I look at life as a simple energy in or energy out equation.

 

I actively seek things that bring me joy.  Surfing, diving, fishing, playing with my dogs, all of these things give me a postive energy flow.  There is energy out also....feeding and caring for the dogs, mainting my boat, dive gear, surfboards etc.

 

Many years back I just started assessing all of my relationships and recreational pursuits using the engery in- energy out equation.  Anything that resulted in a net energy out situation I cut immediately from my life.

 

Having a good sexual relationship with a woman is great, and no doubt healthy for your body and thus mind as well.  But if the energy outflow before and after sex is greater than the energy inflow then what is the point of the relationship?

 

That is why prostitutes are so popular in Thailand.  A guy knows exactly how much energy he has to expend to earn 2500 baht.  If he thinks sex with a Thai hooker will give him a net positive inflow of energy then off he will trot with his girl for the night.

 

I had a mate that was married to a hard 10 back in the West.  He divorced her.  Not because she cheated but because, in his words: "I was just so tired of putting up with her sh*t".  A working example of net energy outflow.

Edited March 31, 2023 by Adumbration

[Walker88]

The Incel problem is becoming huge, and frankly, the men have no one to blame but themselves.

 

In 2008, approximately 8% of US males reached age 30 as virgins. In 2023, it is over 30%.

 

By 2025, 70% of the people graduating from university will be women, and a similar % of females are their high school Valedictorian.

 

Males are becoming less well educated, not developing social skills, and not taking care of themselves. Far too many spend their days playing computer games and doing nothing to make themselves appealing to the opposite sex. To put it another way, they have no game.

 

Women have no interest in a guy whose line is "Whazzup.....wanna see my Minecraft score?"

 

Many western men claim western women are all out to rob them of their savings in a divorce, when the fact is many women are solid earners on their own. As more women have entered the workforce and received university degrees, they look for a partner who is equally successful. Sadly, the pool of high-earning, university-educated males---the type of man a successful woman would be attracted to---is shrinking.

 

The reason this is an issue is because an unsuccessful young male can be dangerous. Few are willing to accept personal responsibility for their failures, and are then prone to the siren song of those who give them an excuse and someone to blame. It is not the least bit surprising that a guy like trump captures the vast majority of the Incel vote. His base---the type who stormed the Capitol in Jan 2021---are largely unsuccessful, fat, poorly educated losers.

 

Study hard, work hard, keep oneself fit, and develop social skills, and a male can be successful with females in the West or in Thailand or anywhere in the world. Be lazy, flabby, unkempt, unsuccessful and misogynistic, and that guy will fail everywhere. Even Thai women, as the country has prospered, now want a guy who's a "catch", not a loser. Incels will fail in Thailand just as they fail at home.

 

 

[BritManToo]

53 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

Males are becoming less well educated, not developing social skills, and not taking care of themselves. Far too many spend their days playing computer games and doing nothing to make themselves appealing to the opposite sex. To put it another way, they have no game.

Never understood why I needed 'game', apart from the Battlefield and HALO skills.

The Vikings an the Mongol hordes knew how to treat women.

Sadly it's only the Taliban who knows the 'game' these days.

Edited March 31, 2023 by BritManToo

[BritManToo]

54 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

Be lazy, flabby, unkempt, unsuccessful and misogynistic, and that guy will fail everywhere. Even Thai women, as the country has prospered, now want a guy who's a "catch", not a loser. Incels will fail in Thailand just as they fail at home.

Not as long as I have pension money to spend.

[BritManToo]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

Back on topic, did you go through a period of being an incel before you made the journey to ubon?

I certainly did, 30 years of 'once a month' when I was married back in the UK.

Same as every other guy I knew.

 

Then I discovered Thailand in 2009, and for 500bht I could take an attractive woman home with me every night (and sometimes afternoon) that I wanted.

[markclover]

I always thought girls were like pornstars.  I was genuinely disappointed when I first started dating.  I wanted to know how to fight, so started doing weights, stretching and punching a bag.  I wanted to get better at English and maths so I studied it everyday for a year.  Why don't women study porn?

[NextG]

7 minutes ago, markclover said:

I always thought girls were like pornstars.  I was genuinely disappointed when I first started dating.  I wanted to know how to fight, so started doing weights, stretching and punching a bag.  I wanted to get better at English and maths so I studied it everyday for a year.  Why don't women study porn?

What makes you think that they don’t?

[GinBoy2]

36 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I certainly did, 30 years of 'once a month' when I was married back in the UK.

Same as every other guy I knew.

 

Then I discovered Thailand in 2009, and for 500bht I could take an attractive woman home with me every night (and sometimes afternoon) that I wanted.

Well thats the whole incel problem.

 

If you just want sex, any man in any country can pay for sex, been that way forever.

 

What the incel 'thinks' is why don't women fling themselves at me?

 

As I said before if 'sex' was the only thing these guys wanted wanted, Thailand would be a paradise for them, but sex alone really isn't it for them

[Isaan sailor]

Jordan Peterson, renowned psychologist, claims studies show women much pickier when choosing a man—only 20% make the grade.  Men, on the other hand, see 50% of eligible women as attractive.  Here in Thailand, that percentage could actually go higher for us guys, methinks.