I have known my girlfriend for about 2 years

We have lived and been together for sometime

 

i have been sending her money like around 10k a month but she spends it quickly before the 1 month period being over, for some reason she is allways in debt even after me paying it off completely and telling her that it would be her last debt so I usually end up giving her like 20k peso or a lot more a lot of the time

 

there has also been times where she has been making it very obvious that she is wanting to get a green card to come over my country by doing all sorts of stuff like Asking for marriage, or putting her passport on top of my passport and strange stuff like that

 

i have told my Philippino friend about her and he said she is not any good and that I’m being milked

 

I don’t want to give any money and going to refuse after this, I also don’t feel like meeting her back on my next visit within a month 

 

have I been milked was he correct??? I

 

I really don’t feel like talking to her anymore cause of this
 

 

Let's face it 99% of the ladies from SE Asia with a foreigners boyfriends are in for the money and a residency chances abroad thus bringing the rest of the family with them, and if it wasn't clear to you already, well, know you know.

"We have lived and been together for sometime"

How much time?

She knows you will pay her debts, so she doesn't care about making new ones.

How many foreigners does she know on Facebook?

Edited June 8, 20233 yr by FritsSikkink

12 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

"We have lived and been together for sometime"

How much time?

She knows you will pay her debts, so she doesn't care about making new ones.

How many foreigners does she know on Facebook?

5 months in the Philippines(2 trips) and around 2 years online

 

 

i don’t know how many foreigner friends she has on Facebook as I can’t view it due to her profile settings being private 

3 minutes ago, Jaycomet said:

5 months in the Philippines(2 trips) and around 2 years online

 

 

i don’t know how many foreigner friends she has on Facebook as I can’t view it due to her profile settings being private 

You are her boyfriend but can't see her other friends on Facebook. That should be a big warning sign, she is taking the pss and probably has quite a few other sponsors..

58 minutes ago, Jaycomet said:

have I been milked was he correct??? I

We're all milked by our women, if you like her and want her and you can, you'll pay.

Up to you!

Why not ditch her and find somebody else, she will only get worse by the sound of it, does she have any redeeming features apart from looking nice? which wont last

She is toxic and using you , dont be naive ,, finish her  or she will ruin you

First ask her how many dating apps she uses and which of her other foreign boyfriends can send her money & how much.

2 hours ago, Jaycomet said:

have I been milked was he correct??? I

yes

1 hour ago, Jaycomet said:

it very obvious that she is wanting to get a green card to come over my country by doing all sorts of stuff like Asking for marriage, or putting her passport on top of my passport and strange stuff like that

Marry her and you will live happily ever after. Isn't that obvious? 

51 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

We're all milked by our women, if you like her and want her and you can, you'll pay.

Up to you!

Speak for yourself.

Mine has a masters and supports herself.

Ask yourself...how did you attract this girl? If you used money at the start that's what she'll constantly want thru out your relationship.

 

Filipinas are all about coming to the US. I'd bet every lady in PI has a friend or relative in Calif. One nice thing about Thailand is the ladies are content at home.

1 hour ago, Jaycomet said:

5 months in the Philippines(2 trips) and around 2 years online

 

 

i don’t know how many foreigner friends she has on Facebook as I can’t view it due to her profile settings being private 

Either this is a bs posting to stir up the comments or if your serious your being used and she's milking you and probably others since she's blocked FB from you.

 

Read your own words and imagine if a friend wrote that scenerio to you. 

you already said you don't want to see her anymore. 

so who cares.. (answer is probably yes, but you won't find out for sure) 

just move on and quit sending money. 

5 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

Ask yourself...how did you attract this girl? If you used money at the start that's what she'll constantly want thru out your relationship.

 

AMEN, bro.

Different for significantly older guys and especially large age gap older guys though.

 

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

We're all milked by our women

Nope, my wife makes a lot of money and can pay for herself.

36 minutes ago, freedomnow said:

Speak for yourself.

Mine has a masters and supports herself.

Who paid for the house/car/motorcycle? 

36 minutes ago, Dan O said:

this is a bs posting to stir up the comments

It cannot get more cliche-filled and obvious with the trolling. But from time to time, it still can be fun to feed them.

Is this another one of those "girlfriends" that is 13,000 kilometers away?

46 minutes ago, freedomnow said:

Speak for yourself.

Mine has a masters and supports herself.

Another cliche on the heap: "but mine is different"!

 

Good luck to you sir, to manage to find the sole unicorn in the magic forest.

3 minutes ago, jts-khorat said:

Another cliche on the heap: "but mine is different"!

 

Good luck to you sir, to manage to find the sole unicorn in the magic forest.

EVen western wives will hose you in a divorce but supporting her ass monthly..nope ! Not for me...

13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Who paid for the house/car/motorcycle? 

Her...she pays all her stuff.

I only pay 50% of house mortgage which is same as a studio rental.

 

We are looking to sell house and cash out or halves maybe soon.

 

So

there

you go.

 

 

4 hours ago, Jaycomet said:

Asking for marriage, or putting her passport on top of my passport and strange stuff like that

 

Don't marry her.  Her debt will become your debt.  She's using you partner.  Run!

She sounds like a keeper...marry her as soon as possible ????

10k pesos? 

 

Where you meet, what is her work, or did you take her out of work, and what did you promise her? Kids? 

 

Nobody can live on 10k, or nobody should end up in a long distance relationship where where support is necessary. 

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Who paid for the house/car/motorcycle? 

As every decent man should do ????

 

If you have any pride left 

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

As every decent man should do ????

 

If you have any pride left 

Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall ...........

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have I been milked was he correct???

No! Never! Absolutely impossible!