4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

How do you know she is, even Im sure some is, who to judge? Not you, not me!

Read thaibeachlovers question, then you might understand my answer, although I doubt it.

3 minutes ago, delgarcon said:

Read thaibeachlovers question, then you might understand my answer, although I doubt it.

Fair enough, still, not up to us to know the real motivation even there is some rewards involved. 

 

Find it a bit annoying when people is quick to judge and also jump to conclusions. 

 

However we are free to believe, I find it harder to judge, because we all want the best out of a life, and do what it takes, even it is not norm. 

Hummin, I was just stating a fact. I have nothing against prostitutes or sex workers whatever you want to call them, especially in countries like Thailand where there is no welfare system, forcing many young women into prostitution to help their ageing families and children dumped on them by wayward fathers, who are not accountable for their actions. I count several among my friends.

1 hour ago, delgarcon said:

Hummin, I was just stating a fact. I have nothing against prostitutes or sex workers whatever you want to call them, especially in countries like Thailand where there is no welfare system, forcing many young women into prostitution to help their ageing families and children dumped on them by wayward fathers, who are not accountable for their actions. I count several among my friends.

Hummmmm, no, you were stating an opinion, as a fact. 

 

You could say one is prostituting themselves for a raise, but that would not make them a prostitute. 

 

 

 

 

 

2 hours ago, Neeranam said:

I wonder what your motive is. 

Often, these threads are due to the poster having low self-esteem. 

Just come out with it and tell us you are superior to these women, and everyone who knows/likes/respects/marries them. 

 

A farang who marries a bargirl is not like someone in Scotland marrying a prostitute, unless it is Buriram Noi from the Pink pussy bar. 

 

 

What a load of crap there's no motive just a simple question " Is a thai bar girl that is paid money to have sex with a customer of that bar a Prostitute " Its not rocket Science she either is or isn't,

5 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

What a load of crap there's no motive just a simple question " Is a thai bar girl that is paid money to have sex with a customer of that bar a Prostitute " Its not rocket Science she either is or isn't,

It's obvious she is, why on earth do you need to ask here?

4 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

It's obvious she is, why on earth do you need to ask here?

Its called a debate.

3 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

Its called a debate.

A bit of advice laddie if you plan to live in Thailand. Don't call Bar Girls prostitutes in bars or on forums such as this, you surely know why. 

I suspect that your motive is upset people here who like or even marry bar girls. 

6 minutes ago, BarraMarra said:

Its called a debate.

Healthy debate! Interesting debate? Important debate? Why?

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Healthy debate! Interesting debate? Important debate? Why?

It's called leading with the chin. 

oh well i thought it was a tongue in cheek thread never mind..Lets go back to the Election threads probably more interesting.

On 7/27/2023 at 4:12 PM, Celsius said:

In short, Farang mug in Thailand is marrying a sloppy thousands and is nothing like office affair.

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Anyone that thinks the average Thai bar girl working in the farang scene has sex with farangs thousands of times IMO has no clue about it whatsoever.

 

Far as I'm concerned, any person having sex for monetary or asset gain is a prostitute- that includes gold diggers.

40 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

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Anyone that thinks the average Thai bar girl working in the farang scene has sex with farangs thousands of times IMO has no clue about it whatsoever.

 

Far as I'm concerned, any person having sex for monetary or asset gain is a prostitute- that includes gold diggers.

What about foreigners who just want free sex, test, dump  and run?

Ive been in many bars where i have witnessed 1 girl going short time 4 times in the same day ust 1 of many ive come across in 15 yrs coming to Thailand. the head in the sanders though don't like hearing it.

On 7/28/2023 at 9:46 PM, BarraMarra said:

Ive been in many bars where i have witnessed 1 girl going short time 4 times in the same day ust 1 of many ive come across in 15 yrs coming to Thailand. the head in the sanders though don't like hearing it.

You seem to spend a lot of time sitting in bars. In all that time, have you not noticed how many of the girls never seem to go? And even at four times a day how long would it take to do thousands? 

 

 

 

 

On 7/29/2023 at 2:46 AM, BarraMarra said:

Ive been in many bars where i have witnessed 1 girl going short time 4 times in the same day ust 1 of many ive come across in 15 yrs coming to Thailand. the head in the sanders though don't like hearing it.

Which is why I specifically referenced the AVERAGE bar girl.

 

I have seen a gogo girl going out for more than one short time in a night, but they are a rarity, as anyone that has been around Thai bars/ gogos for more than a 1 week vacation knows.

They also don't stay in the biz for long- just enough to make a pile of cash and or find a rich farang to marry them. What some farangs choose to ignore is that for the average Thai girl working in the farang scene it's not a lifestyle choice, just a way to get financially ahead in a short time- sure beats working in a sweat shop for that.

 

 

 

14 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

You seem to spend a lot of time sitting in bars. In all that time, have you not noticed how many of the girls never seem to go? And even at four times a day how long would it take to do thousands? 

 

 

 

 

Well said, and you saved me having to write "And even at four times a day how long would it take to do thousands?"

I think some that don't like the scene choose to ignore reality.

 

I was around farang bars for a very long time, and there were a lot of them that had a customer short or long time only a few times a week if that.

To get some idea of how many don't get a bar fine, one only had to stand at the entrance to Nana at closing time to see how many went home alone- a LOT.