Popular Post Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 Interesting insight from famous Thai blogger Dan. https://fb.watch/nRDrGQXsjL/?mibextid=2Rb1fB 1 5 5 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post petermik Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 Marrying a bargirl has been done to death....give it a rest 7 3 16 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post connda Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 35 minutes ago, petermik said: Marrying a bargirl has been done to death....give it a rest Ditto! 2 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bkk Brian Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 48 minutes ago, Goat said: famous Thai blogger Dan. 5 1 3 26 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 25 minutes ago, petermik said: Marrying a bargirl has been done to death....give it a rest Thats right Peter. It just keeps happening. What I found interesting about Dan Cheeseman's relationship with his Pattaya bargirl was that he was living here and in his early 30s. I can understand an elderly expat or a younger two week millionaire, but a young fella in his prime. Living in Thailand? Dan dicusses older fellas falling for them when advising against it, and quite strongly. But i think the vast majority of farangs who move here in their 30s avoid bar prostitutes like the plague. Firstly because especially at that age you shouldnt be paying for sex, that is just pitiful. And he says that the reason that he thinks fellas do end up in love with prostitutes is because of pity which I thought was a bit ironic. Secondly because there are literally tens of thousands of hot single available friendly girls in Thailand. Why would you even waste time with a hooker? Why did Dan choose Pattaya of all places? Not a place where the younger crowd gravitate to. Back twenty years ago Koh Samui, Tao, Phangnan were the places to be for the younger crowd. Was Dan sponsoring his Pattaya hooker full time? Or did he let her work and he just shared. He said it was a longer term relationship and he mentions "taking care" of extended family so I assume he was paying her not to work. So Dan's 'fell in love with a Pattaya prostitute" story isnt the usual "middle aged and got divorced in UK and found love in a Pattaya Bar" 4 7 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post QuantumQuandry Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 9 minutes ago, Goat said: Firstly because especially at that age you shouldnt be paying for sex, that is just pitiful. There's an age when you should pay for sex and an age when you shouldn't? Who determined the correct age and the appropriate level of shaming? Is there a chart? 8 1 1 1 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post freeworld Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 Finally a topic on which AN members with extensive knowledge can comment on. 4 1 1 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PJ71 Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 Who cares, the guys a tool. 9 2 1 4 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lacessit Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 IMO the key to having a good relationship in Thailand is to never let anyone know how much you have, and leave at least 70% of your assets in your home country. My GF and I have been together for about ten years, there are success stories as well as the disasters. 8 1 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Danderman123 Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 9 minutes ago, PJ71 said: Who cares, the guys a tool. But, is he wrong? 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post charleskerins Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 21 minutes ago, QuantumQuandry said: There's an age when you should pay for sex and an age when you shouldn't? Who determined the correct age and the appropriate level of shaming? Is there a chart? The chart shows an inverse relationship between how well you have aged and what age you should be paying. 1 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PJ71 Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 9 minutes ago, Danderman123 said: But, is he wrong? You actually watched that? That's funny. 1 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Denim Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 1 hour ago, petermik said: Marrying a bargirl has been done to death....give it a rest It seems to be very seasonal. Before the christmas rush this topic comes around about the same time as the first chorus of jingle bells in Big C.. Basically, you get a stick and poke it around in the embers of last years fire, find a warm ember and try to kindle it back into life. 1 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sqoop Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 It's not just bar girls, watch out for the freelancers as well. So many of these women have family based money problems and so are money mad. 4 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fondue zoo Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 38 minutes ago, QuantumQuandry said: There's an age when you should pay for sex and an age when you shouldn't? Who determined the correct age and the appropriate level of shaming? Is there a chart? yes, it's called a Blue Vein Venn diagram. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post theshu25 Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 Listemned to 1 minute ,that was plenty enough of this tosser. 3 2 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 31 minutes ago, Lacessit said: IMO the key to having a good relationship in Thailand is to never let anyone know how much you have, and leave at least 70% of your assets in your home country. My GF and I have been together for about ten years, there are success stories as well as the disasters. Good advice. I think you previously said you also met your gf in the adult entertainment industry? What did you think about Dan's advice. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 19 minutes ago, theshu25 said: Listemned to 1 minute ,that was plenty enough of this tosser. The first minute he was discussing business success, not the prostitutes. To be hoest with you i dont listen to him in that regard, doesnt seem to be very well off at all, more a battler who still needs to work. I retired years ago. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 25 minutes ago, Sqoop said: It's not just bar girls, watch out for the freelancers as well. So many of these women have family based money problems and so are money mad. Indeed. A lot of gambling related debt and taking out loans with massively high interest rates. But the Pattaya prostitutes would have to be right up near the top of financial disasters as I think Dan alluded to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post StayinThailand2much Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, freeworld said: Finally a topic on which AN members with extensive knowledge can comment on. Yes, and my personal experience is not that Thai bar girls are worse than other Thai girls... Other Thai women also often seem to have money problems (even if they have well-paid jobs), or (look for) other guys on the side. - My (non-bar) ex-girlfriend only once (in eight years) remembered my birthday... Edited October 23, 2023 by StayinThailand2much 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Celsius Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 Is he really that much better marrying a Russian? 2 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 44 minutes ago, Danderman123 said: But, is he wrong? I watch his videos and he is very often wrong. It is good for a laugh. Surprised that despite coming here at an young age he not only can speak next to no Thai, but even the place names he pronounces completly wrong. He has a blog about Thailand which is mostly handing out his advice, but he can not even converse with 95% of the locals which means he spends no time with the locals. Or read a simple sign. Which results on him not really knowing much about Thailand at all, just what bargirls and expats tell him, niether of which are good sources of information. 2 1 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Fat is a type of crazy Posted October 23, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 It's almost like you don't like this Dan guy 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 6 minutes ago, StayinThailand2much said: My (non-bar) ex-girlfriend only once (in eight years) remembered my birthday... Was she from Issan? Half the older generation are not even sure of what day they were born on. Birthdays were never a big thing up there and hardly celebrated at all until recently. They think it is a bit silly to carry on about a birthday. Who cares really? 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 6 minutes ago, Celsius said: Is he really that much better marrying a Russian? Probaly better off marrying a Thai if living in Thailand IMO. Especially with his lack of Thai language skills. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2023 6 minutes ago, bob smith said: tattooed whores love it up the rear. that's been my experience anyway. They do love it especially with the smaller guys. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 1 hour ago, QuantumQuandry said: There's an age when you should pay for sex and an age when you shouldn't? Who determined the correct age and the appropriate level of shaming? Is there a chart? Good question. I would say if you want someone under 30 which seems to be the preference i would expect 60+ year olds to mostly be paying, but not all. But to see a 30 year old expat walking around Pattaya with a prostitute, I think that looks pitiful IMHO. You would have to have very low self esteem to not find a real girl. Maybe just a short time at that age. But not a full time sponsor girlfriend experience relationship which I think there is a big difference. Dan also addresses this point. 1 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimTripper Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 1 hour ago, Goat said: Thats right Peter. It just keeps happening. What I found interesting about Dan Cheeseman's relationship with his Pattaya bargirl was that he was living here and in his early 30s. I can understand an elderly expat or a younger two week millionaire, but a young fella in his prime. Living in Thailand? Dan dicusses older fellas falling for them when advising against it, and quite strongly. But i think the vast majority of farangs who move here in their 30s avoid bar prostitutes like the plague. Firstly because especially at that age you shouldnt be paying for sex, that is just pitiful. And he says that the reason that he thinks fellas do end up in love with prostitutes is because of pity which I thought was a bit ironic. Secondly because there are literally tens of thousands of hot single available friendly girls in Thailand. Why would you even waste time with a hooker? Why did Dan choose Pattaya of all places? Not a place where the younger crowd gravitate to. Back twenty years ago Koh Samui, Tao, Phangnan were the places to be for the younger crowd. Was Dan sponsoring his Pattaya hooker full time? Or did he let her work and he just shared. He said it was a longer term relationship and he mentions "taking care" of extended family so I assume he was paying her not to work. So Dan's 'fell in love with a Pattaya prostitute" story isnt the usual "middle aged and got divorced in UK and found love in a Pattaya Bar" vloggers choose pattaya because other locations don't get views on a monetized channel 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goat Posted October 23, 2023 Author Share Posted October 23, 2023 5 minutes ago, transam said: This reads like Goaty's gay bar exploits, eh Goaty, tell all.................😘 I have been in quite a few gay bars in Thailand over the years. Both the male ones and the Tomboy ones. All good fun. I never made love with any though. I think it was you who said that it hurts like buggery? 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted October 23, 2023 Share Posted October 23, 2023 Some posts with sexually explicit content contravening our Community Standards have been removed as this is not a porn forum. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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