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15 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

arresting 24 Thai women suspected of working as hostesses.

 

i hope the ladies had work permits. 

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Posted
14 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Next article: Human trafficking.

The Thai women were all innocent, they thought they would make big money for washing dishes. 

Maybe the Thai women said they were scrubbers? 

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Posted
1 hour ago, stoner said:

 

i hope the ladies had work permits. 

 

17 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

specialised task force was formed to gather evidence, which revealed that Chiang had recruited Thai women on short-term visitor visas

 

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3 minutes ago, brianthainess said:
1 hour ago, stoner said:

i hope the ladies had work permits. 

 

17 hours ago, snoop1130 said:

specialised task force was formed to gather evidence, which revealed that Chiang had recruited Thai women on short-term visitor visas

 

thank you for totally missing the point. 

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Posted

I saw a thread yesterday - How to deal with my friends who think Thailand is just a country of hookers with the usual age old debate below.

It's exactly this kind of thing that perpetuates the stereotype. Not doing themselves any favours are they.

Posted (edited)
4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Next article: Human trafficking.

The Thai women were all innocent, they thought they would make big money for washing dishes. 

 

Yes, and they would never work as prostitutes. After all, there is "no prostitution" in their home country either...

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Posted
1 hour ago, sikishrory said:

I saw a thread yesterday - How to deal with my friends who think Thailand is just a country of hookers with the usual age old debate below.

It's exactly this kind of thing that perpetuates the stereotype. Not doing themselves any favours are they.

 

It is what it is. 

Posted
4 hours ago, Chris Daley said:

Why are the CCP in Thailand?...

 

Are they? Your post is the first mention of CCP in this topic.

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Posted
5 hours ago, sikishrory said:

I saw a thread yesterday - How to deal with my friends who think Thailand is just a country of hookers with the usual age old debate below.

It's exactly this kind of thing that perpetuates the stereotype. Not doing themselves any favours are they.

Any relatively wealthy country (e.g. Taiwan) will have women from the nearest poorest countries working in these bars. The big hubs in Asia have Thai and PI ladies. 

In Europe the working girls are mostly from Eastern Europe, e.g. Bulgaria, Latvia. 

 

It's just the way it is. The girls need the money, the men want s3x.

 

I don't think the girls are concerned about how it embarrasses Dave from Dartford. 

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Posted
12 hours ago, GrungthepGringo said:

Exposing underground sex bars over in Taiwan doesn't do me much good. Where can I find some in the land of hubs?

Haven't you listened to the powers that be.  There are none in the land of hubs.  Or else don't look underground, just go to Pattaya.

Posted (edited)
16 hours ago, sikishrory said:

I saw a thread yesterday - How to deal with my friends who think Thailand is just a country of hookers with the usual age old debate below.

It's exactly this kind of thing that perpetuates the stereotype. Not doing themselves any favours are they.

I think many would be surprised at just how many Thai women are involved in 'the trade' in one way or another.  Of course the great majority of Thai women will not be involved at all but there are far more that are than many think.

 

The parts of 'the trade' that are aimed at Thai men are many and varied - some is out in the open just as the market for foreigners is but there is also a 'hidden market'. From private 'Gentlemen's Clubs' to Golf Clubs that literally have a '19th Hole' - students that have 'Sponsors' to 'Massages' that operate in a building signed as being concerned with a totally different business.

 

Many years ago a Thai mate discovered, quite by accident, that his girlfriend had a regular 'lunchtime arrangment' with a local businessman. She had a fairly basic job and I always wondered how she could afford a new car that I was told, wasn't on finance. Her clothes didn't come from Chatuchak either.

 

I've been approached by students looking for a 'sponsor' - I didn't go for it (honestly).

 

On a recent holiday on Koh Kood, I was in a coffee shop at a very expensive hotel (I wasn't staying there 😀) where 4 of the other customers were 2 overweight Thai men in their 50's with 2 absolutely stunning 'model' types, draped in gold and carrying Gucci handbags. The men sat at the bar whilst the girls sat at the table next to ours. My girfriend told me that she could tell from their conversation that they were neither wives, girlfriends, or mia noi's of the Thai guys. When I asked what they were then, she just said "you know". I know better than to ask more.

 

There's a lot that goes on 'behind the scenes' but I wouldn't say its necessarily a Thai thing - attitudes are different across Asia. It even goes on in Muslim countries but its buried deeper there.

 

So yes, there's a 'stereotype' - is it justified? I think it is but it depends on your point of view as to whether its wrong or not.

 

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Posted
8 hours ago, MangoKorat said:

I think many would be surprised at just how many Thai women are involved in 'the trade' in one way or another.  Of course the great majority of Thai women will not be involved at all but there are far more that are than many think.

 

The parts of 'the trade' that are aimed at Thai men are many and varied - some is out in the open just as the market for foreigners is but there is also a 'hidden market'. From private 'Gentlemen's Clubs' to Golf Clubs that literally have a '19th Hole' - students that have 'Sponsors' to 'Massages' that operate in a building signed as being concerned with a totally different business.

 

Many years ago a Thai mate discovered, quite by accident, that his girlfriend had a regular 'lunchtime arrangment' with a local businessman. She had a fairly basic job and I always wondered how she could afford a new car that I was told, wasn't on finance. Her clothes didn't come from Chatuchak either.

 

I've been approached by students looking for a 'sponsor' - I didn't go for it (honestly).

 

On a recent holiday on Koh Kood, I was in a coffee shop at a very expensive hotel (I wasn't staying there 😀) where 4 of the other customers were 2 overweight Thai men in their 50's with 2 absolutely stunning 'model' types, draped in gold and carrying Gucci handbags. The men sat at the bar whilst the girls sat at the table next to ours. My girfriend told me that she could tell from their conversation that they were neither wives, girlfriends, or mia noi's of the Thai guys. When I asked what they were then, she just said "you know". I know better than to ask more.

 

There's a lot that goes on 'behind the scenes' but I wouldn't say its necessarily a Thai thing - attitudes are different across Asia. It even goes on in Muslim countries but its buried deeper there.

 

So yes, there's a 'stereotype' - is it justified? I think it is but it depends on your point of view as to whether its wrong or not.

 

19th hole! That's a new one. Sounds like quite the golf course

Posted (edited)

Must admit to some sympathy that girls need to do this work due to low education and no social safety net. I realize the temptation of earning more than a receptionist or secretary is an incentive, but I put it down to the need to survive.

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Posted
2 hours ago, Purdey said:

Must admit to some sympathy that girls need to do this work due to low education and no social safety net. I realize the temptation of earning more than a receptionist or secretary is an incentive, but I put it down to the need to survive.

I think you might be surprised that one of the biggest lures is when and already working girl arrives back in the village to visit her family - complete with new iphone, Gucci bag etc.

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